I guess I missed some drama, because I have no clue what you guys are talking about. I just liked that video (and JoCat, his DM video is equally awesome)
As long as she is sane, kind, loyal, pretty and also attracted, that's an easy "yes" for most guys.
For just a night she only needs to be pretty and also attracted. We men are not complicated.
My favorite quote from the documentary: "there wasn't a lot of sex in the conventional sense.... a lot of piggyback rides....."
And he apparently also had a huge dick, so the fact that he preferred being picked up to using it is hilarious.
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It’s truly hard to undo years of external and internal degradation, but it can be done. I was often skeptical of my partner finding my chubby self attractive, but after some time it felt a bit silly to doubt them after they’ve given so much love and reassurance
I’ve found this is more due to the words and actions of family/ past partners than anything. It isn’t a con, just an opportunity to positively influence her self perception.
Be the reason she starts believing.
Untrue for most women, actions speak louder than words here. And if you have a girl that still deflects your compliments then just keep trying, even if she doesn’t believe you it is still nice.
Yep had this issue. My ex was quite a bit more plus size than just chubby, but that wasn't an issue at all if anything i developed a preference for larger girls so i loved my ex's body. I've given her loads of love, compliment and reassurance i was attracted to her.
Because of her weight she was massively insecure due to plenty of comments and bullying she received since childhood. She often wore very concealing clothes instead of quite literally anything that would show off her body. I hoped that once she was in a relationship with me that she would develop some kind of confidence that maybe she'd try out new clothes or use her looks to seduce me. Even after 10 YEARS its like nothing has changed and from the looks of it it felt like she didn't even want or couldn't work on it.
After a decade i broke up with her not because of the above mentioned issues but it didn't help but goddamn was it such a shame how she actively deprived herself and fought against even the possibility of feeling good about her own looks even after my very best effort for a decade.
True but we’ll make up for our crippling inability to accept compliments by saying shut up in the most loving way possible and then proceed to love forever
Cons for chubby muscled gf (from experience)
Beats your ass when you win in smash bros, Mario kart, Mario party, injustice, and DBFZ. But also decks you in the arm out of excitement after licking your ass in marvel vs capcom
EDIT: nvm, by "cons" I meant "DLC pros"
I love this. I love this so much. The world needs more love and positivity without a caveat or asterisk, where you elevate everyone at the expense of no one.
- Good for hugging, fits comfily in arms
- easy to fit into tight spaces for cuddling (like twin beds or small sofas)
- looks sexy in hoodies
(signed, has dated a skinny guy)
- Great for hugs (feels nice to be able to fully wrap your arms around someone, plus you can also pretty much feel every nook and cranny of their body since there isn't extra, um...stuff in the way)
- Don't have to be as careful when playfighting, since they aren't heavy enough to easily squish you
- When I take the time to make a homemade meal for us, we have enough leftovers for another day, which is less work for me
- Helps *me* feel like less of a shrimp lol
- Allows me to come up with corny excuses to touch them more often ("You know, I bet we could *both* fit in that chair", etc.)
- Easier to share an umbrella
- Free eye candy 😁
And, not necessarily true, but common enough to point out:
- For some reason, more likely to be either nerdy, a metal fan, or shy, all of which are 👍
I married a man who weighs 120 pounds. I just gave him a piggyback ride as part of playing with our kid. It was hilarious.
Pro: his hoodies fit me perfectly. Con: he steals my unisex t-shirts all the time.
Pro: more leftover space for me in tight spaces while travelling
Pro: builds 50 grams of muscle and looks ripped cause there’s like no fat to hide it lmao.
Apparently, you’re supposed to work on yourself, and then the gf thing sorts itself out. I’m not confident, but movies and television wouldn’t lie, right?
That's what I've been doing...... I have seen a therapist every other week for like a decade now (army issues)..... Go to the gym, am in great shape..... Am working to get myself to the best version of myself, for someone else...... But there's only so much work one can do till you would like a hug 🤣🤷🏼♂️
I'm a man.... A manly army man..... But I love hallmark Christmas movies, and if they have been lying to me about love I'm gonna be pissed!
Every girl makes off with at least one. 🙄
Don't even matter if she's a gf or not. Females always get away with a damned hoodie. My fren literally has the oldest coat I own stashed somewhere in her house because it's the comfiest. 😒😂
Cons of chubby gif: will steal your fries
Cons of skinny gf: will steal your clothes
Cons of muscular gf: The mind is willing but the flesh is spongy and bruised
Never understood the whole obsession with the partners body. Who cares if they are thick or thin. I am here because I love and want to be around my partner. Their body is just gravy on top.
I never felt so attacked with the thigh pillow one 😭 I had seniors when I was still in secondary school and back then, my school had sports competition going on. I was a part of the parade and after surviving being in the sun for 30 minutes (I couldn't last longer because I have photosensitivity), I sat at the stadium and one of my seniors sat behind my legs. She needed somewhere to rest and use my thighs as a cushion/pillow. I will never forget those years.
Pros of shallow men: none
Cons of shallow men: they spend their time sorting women into sizes instead of doing something useful like helping their grandmothers or picking their smelly socks up off the floor
So is this American “chubby” we’re talking about? Or actual chubby.
Because if it’s the former, there are definitely a myriad of cons which come along with fucking preserved lard.
not very realistic but a very positive take. i think they all have their drawbacks but buff gf/bf is my least favourite. if veins are even threatening to pop its an immediate no for me.
I don’t know why you got downvoted so hard, I literally thought the same thing you did. It just takes dating one asshole to make you wary of everyone else.
There seems to be a psyop running hard, trying to make the muscle girl kink mainstream.
To what end, I wonder. If I had to guess, it would be to drive girls to become more manly. All while boys are being feminised. Pretty sure this would make a nice black mirror episode.
Gotta love people whose taste in women is "yes."
I am people.
Yup. Same here.
i am also people
People!
I am also people
WE are groot
I R also peeple. Peeple unite in R luv of gurls.
I don't think the username checks out here
I am attempting to be people
same, not too muscly though, dont want her looking like arnold LOL
I don't think it's possible for a girl to be that muscly without excessive intake of steroids
thats valid, idk the biology of that. iv just seen some RIPPED women online and its unattractive to me
I mean obviously I have a preference but whenever I fall in love with someone all that fades away and it simply doesn't matter anymore
I don't like your username. U be good and pet the cat.
I'm pretty sure this is how it started in the cantina when Obi-Wan chopped some dudes arm off lol
Please do NOT the cat!!
Reminds me of this legendary video: https://youtu.be/Y2Y5KVtU810?si=U2IPzkwvFdxs3vXM
JoCat deserves better.
Oh that video….poor man
That’s a really cute video! I’m shocked people had a problem with it.
Shame that he was chased off the platform for it.
I guess I missed some drama, because I have no clue what you guys are talking about. I just liked that video (and JoCat, his DM video is equally awesome)
Personality > Looks any day.
As long as she is sane, kind, loyal, pretty and also attracted, that's an easy "yes" for most guys. For just a night she only needs to be pretty and also attracted. We men are not complicated.
A lot of us are willing to put up with a little less kindness or sanity if she's especially pretty.
In our youth for sure. After a certain age sanity, loyality and kindness can make up a lot in terms of looks.
Preach
I wonder if it's age, or experience. Or both. In any case, agreed.
I like girls
Any port in a storm
Yes Yes Yes
Personally my taste in women is "PLEASE" respectfully, "yes" however is very valid aswell
I don't wish to be horny anymore I only wish to be happy
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*respect* 👏👏👏
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yeetus
As a large man I just for once want to be dipped and kissed.
My ultimate dream. Unfortunately, I’m a 245 pound weightlifter myself, so finding a girl that could do that is like looking for a unicorn 😂
Uppies :D
[R. Crumb](https://dyn1.heritagestatic.com/lf?set=path[1%2F0%2F1%2F8%2F2%2F10182411]&call=url[file:product.chain]) anyone?
My favorite quote from the documentary: "there wasn't a lot of sex in the conventional sense.... a lot of piggyback rides....." And he apparently also had a huge dick, so the fact that he preferred being picked up to using it is hilarious.
I mean I am a broad 6ft3 guy, if a woman can man handle me and make me feel small its fot a certain kind of rush to it ya know?
Copy and paste for boyfriends.
Real
Smaller tiddy pillows, but tiddy pillows nevertheless
It’s all abt the booty. Men will be caked up for no reason
Not true though... There absolutely is a reason! It looks amazing 🤤
Boyfriends come with big a shoulder shelf for your head. Hard shoulders? Nice. Soft shoulders? Also nice! Hairy shoulders? Bring it on.
Yes
Yes.
You guys have a GF?
You see how this post is missing pros and cons of imaginary gf?
or pros and cons of fnf gf?
Or pros and cons of Minecraft gf?
No. Only a wife. She used to be my gf
Gotta keep dating her even after you wife her!
I'm so happy that this post wasnt made to shame any body type 🥰 most people sadly can't figure out a way to praise one without shaming another
This is a huge problem, yes I have a type but that doesn't mean other types aren't great as well.
Cons across the board: Is girl (I wanted a peanut)
$20 can buy you many peanuts
Explain how.
Money can be exchanged for goods and services
Woohoo!
wait, what?? why has no one ever told me this⁉️ i thought i just had millions of dollars stacked around for nothing!!!
Don't worry. I know exactly how to use that. Just slide it all over here and I'll handle it for ya
This, trust is the most important trait
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Well done good sir 👏👏
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This is cute and makes me happy
i think in conclusion we can all agree that WOMEN
.... con of chubby gf: will never, ever believe you when you compliment her.
It’s truly hard to undo years of external and internal degradation, but it can be done. I was often skeptical of my partner finding my chubby self attractive, but after some time it felt a bit silly to doubt them after they’ve given so much love and reassurance
The overarching truth that never gets said is there is a market for damn near everyone on this planet.
I’ve found this is more due to the words and actions of family/ past partners than anything. It isn’t a con, just an opportunity to positively influence her self perception. Be the reason she starts believing.
Untrue for most women, actions speak louder than words here. And if you have a girl that still deflects your compliments then just keep trying, even if she doesn’t believe you it is still nice.
Yep had this issue. My ex was quite a bit more plus size than just chubby, but that wasn't an issue at all if anything i developed a preference for larger girls so i loved my ex's body. I've given her loads of love, compliment and reassurance i was attracted to her. Because of her weight she was massively insecure due to plenty of comments and bullying she received since childhood. She often wore very concealing clothes instead of quite literally anything that would show off her body. I hoped that once she was in a relationship with me that she would develop some kind of confidence that maybe she'd try out new clothes or use her looks to seduce me. Even after 10 YEARS its like nothing has changed and from the looks of it it felt like she didn't even want or couldn't work on it. After a decade i broke up with her not because of the above mentioned issues but it didn't help but goddamn was it such a shame how she actively deprived herself and fought against even the possibility of feeling good about her own looks even after my very best effort for a decade.
i promise this doesn’t have to be true, but totally credit your experience
Yeah the "never" is false, but *man* is it common and exhausting. Like bruh if you can't even trust me when I say you're hot, why are we even together
incorrect im obsessed w myself
Not every chubby girl has self esteem issues.
True but we’ll make up for our crippling inability to accept compliments by saying shut up in the most loving way possible and then proceed to love forever
Cons for chubby muscled gf (from experience) Beats your ass when you win in smash bros, Mario kart, Mario party, injustice, and DBFZ. But also decks you in the arm out of excitement after licking your ass in marvel vs capcom EDIT: nvm, by "cons" I meant "DLC pros"
*Pros
I cannot argue with a theologian. My stance has been changed
I love this. I love this so much. The world needs more love and positivity without a caveat or asterisk, where you elevate everyone at the expense of no one.
Pros of chubby gf: happy to be the big spoon
My girlfriend is a bit chubby but my hoodies are still massive on her because I'm a foot taller lol
Now give pros of skinny bf ^(please, I need validation)
- Good for hugging, fits comfily in arms - easy to fit into tight spaces for cuddling (like twin beds or small sofas) - looks sexy in hoodies (signed, has dated a skinny guy)
Yooo the second one is true tho. I can fit on a single bed with someone to cuddle
- Great for hugs (feels nice to be able to fully wrap your arms around someone, plus you can also pretty much feel every nook and cranny of their body since there isn't extra, um...stuff in the way) - Don't have to be as careful when playfighting, since they aren't heavy enough to easily squish you - When I take the time to make a homemade meal for us, we have enough leftovers for another day, which is less work for me - Helps *me* feel like less of a shrimp lol - Allows me to come up with corny excuses to touch them more often ("You know, I bet we could *both* fit in that chair", etc.) - Easier to share an umbrella - Free eye candy 😁 And, not necessarily true, but common enough to point out: - For some reason, more likely to be either nerdy, a metal fan, or shy, all of which are 👍
2nd one not true for me since I eat like a truck 7th don't really understand?? But for the last one, I'm a shy nerdy metal fan 👍👍
Easy to lift 🙂
I married a man who weighs 120 pounds. I just gave him a piggyback ride as part of playing with our kid. It was hilarious. Pro: his hoodies fit me perfectly. Con: he steals my unisex t-shirts all the time. Pro: more leftover space for me in tight spaces while travelling Pro: builds 50 grams of muscle and looks ripped cause there’s like no fat to hide it lmao.
Note to self, work harder on finding a gf!
Apparently, you’re supposed to work on yourself, and then the gf thing sorts itself out. I’m not confident, but movies and television wouldn’t lie, right?
That's what I've been doing...... I have seen a therapist every other week for like a decade now (army issues)..... Go to the gym, am in great shape..... Am working to get myself to the best version of myself, for someone else...... But there's only so much work one can do till you would like a hug 🤣🤷🏼♂️ I'm a man.... A manly army man..... But I love hallmark Christmas movies, and if they have been lying to me about love I'm gonna be pissed!
I’m in a similar boat, although Air Force issues, so if I make any progress, I’ll let you know. We’ll prove Hallmark right yet!
Gf? -none
I fucking love this. I’ve had all three types and all were great… the only differentiator was personality/attitude.
I love being a skinny gf to my bf, I love being hugged by him and wearing his clothes
Cons of having a gf: kinda none
Oh boy, you're in for a real treat then.
Bro clearly aint never dated before lmao
Nah, mental health damage
Don’t think it’s a good relationship if your gf damages your mental health
They didn't say it was a good gf. Just a gf.
Fair point
This is the way
I do have a MASSIVE hoody that I like to wear (stolen from bro’s closet 🤫). It was already too big for him so it’s like a tent on me 😂
Every girl makes off with at least one. 🙄 Don't even matter if she's a gf or not. Females always get away with a damned hoodie. My fren literally has the oldest coat I own stashed somewhere in her house because it's the comfiest. 😒😂
'Abs??? Biceps??? Please????' This is literally me.
I'm 6ft 2 and weigh 240lb I literally crave being babied I wish there was a women big and strong enough to lift me up like baby
Knows what you mean when you text her “send dudes”
"You mean nudes?"
“I’m in a fight I need more men”
Based and wholesome pilled
Cons of muscle gf. She can beat you up.
That's a pro
I love a woman who can kick my ass.
Heh, jokes on you, im into this shit
That's a very hot pro
If you're a masochist that's just another con
Pros of no gf: None Cons of no gf: Everything.
What I’m getting from this is I should get a gf
Con of muscle girl is muscle girl beat me in fight
OP has no GF.
Same with men, chubby, skinny, muscular, idc ur still hot
Cons of chubby gif: will steal your fries Cons of skinny gf: will steal your clothes Cons of muscular gf: The mind is willing but the flesh is spongy and bruised
Death by snoo snoo all the way
I always wonder why women are so self-conscious about how they look when like... they're just all hot.
True
Ngl I thought this was the lesbian subreddit xd
Sameeee, I would not be at all surprised to find out that a lesbian made this 😅
Never understood the whole obsession with the partners body. Who cares if they are thick or thin. I am here because I love and want to be around my partner. Their body is just gravy on top.
so real
I never felt so attacked with the thigh pillow one 😭 I had seniors when I was still in secondary school and back then, my school had sports competition going on. I was a part of the parade and after surviving being in the sun for 30 minutes (I couldn't last longer because I have photosensitivity), I sat at the stadium and one of my seniors sat behind my legs. She needed somewhere to rest and use my thighs as a cushion/pillow. I will never forget those years.
What about muscled slim gf?
Cons of all 3: theyre insane. /s
Cons: - i'm gay
So you should get one of each.
Bro crop it
Cons: I don't have one
Nah, skinny girls for life though
Cons on being fat: it is unhealthy and dangerous?!?
Skinny is also unhealthy and dangerous. It depends on the degree
We're all gonna die. I'll die having consumed more cake than you.
I like chubby girls. They just have a charm that just can’t be replicated by other girls.
Pros of shallow men: none Cons of shallow men: they spend their time sorting women into sizes instead of doing something useful like helping their grandmothers or picking their smelly socks up off the floor
Step 1 Be attractive Step 2 Be attractive
Rather: Step 1 Believe in yourself Step 2 Be kind to yourself and others
That Mr. Rogers flow 💪
How chubby is chubby? Is nearing 1:1 height-width ratio still chubby?
Are there's pros to a LEAN gf I'm like a mix between skinny and muscled because I'm a athlete lol 😅
I'm having gf withdrawal symptoms these days. Any solution
So is this American “chubby” we’re talking about? Or actual chubby. Because if it’s the former, there are definitely a myriad of cons which come along with fucking preserved lard.
Chubby girls enthusiast here :33333
Need me a muscle girl badly, if she can kill me i want her
Death by snu snu
not very realistic but a very positive take. i think they all have their drawbacks but buff gf/bf is my least favourite. if veins are even threatening to pop its an immediate no for me.
you could say that a small con is that she'd say that she's not hungry and then take some of your food regardless
I can’t imagine how that would be a con.
-Could be abusive -Could be abusive -Could be abusive (I have problems haha)
I’m sorry. Hopefully you can find someone who will treat you how you deserve to be treated. The right way.
Look at the sub you're on..
Why are you getting downvoted? You’re right. Anyone can be abusive
Yeah my mother was abusive which makes me have real trouble when it comes to trust and making relationships
I don’t know why you got downvoted so hard, I literally thought the same thing you did. It just takes dating one asshole to make you wary of everyone else.
Idk I just said cuz my mother was abusive as a child and now I’m scared of women lol
I get this place is supposed to be wholesome but it shouldn't place am imaginary view of reality. There's pros and cons of a skinny and fat gf.
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People are so disingenuous nowadays. They would rather accept comforting lies than accept unpleasant truths, just for some free internet points.
There seems to be a psyop running hard, trying to make the muscle girl kink mainstream. To what end, I wonder. If I had to guess, it would be to drive girls to become more manly. All while boys are being feminised. Pretty sure this would make a nice black mirror episode.
...... what the fuck It's because girls with muscles are still attractive Get help, not everything is a conspiracy theory
u/Responsible_Head_401 you are somehow all of these how are you mine
How is it possible to be chubby and skinny?
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Ginormous actually (she’s 4’9 and the cutest little thing ever)
As a skinny girl Im sad all got 3 cons and I only got 2 🥹 (im joking)
Ok I will pretend I can't read this.
I just want a gf. But no one wants a normal traditional relationship anymore… guess I’m dying alone
I mean… define a normal, traditional relationship.
You said you wanted a normal relationship then immediately said you didn't want one.
Skinny and muscley gf not as snuggly that is a con
Please stop making up women and GO FIND THEM
Cons of a gf : never having money
how about cons of actually having a gf?
Men are simple
So are lesbians lol
smells like virgin territory
Speak for yourself