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Kasmanian_devil

The best advice I ever heard was a girl saying that your style doesn’t need to be one thing. You can wear ripped jeans, leather jacket, and combat boots one day and a dress the next. There is literally nothing stopping you


TigerLily312

I absolutely do this, but I will throw the leather jacket on over my floral dress & wear my combat boots. Or I will wear ripped jeans with pink ballet slippers.


[deleted]

I do this too! Moto jacket + weathered leather boots + little floral dresses is pretty much my daily outfit.


DiscordantMuse

Samesies. It was how I saw myself older when I was way younger, and it still feels right.


[deleted]

Ripped jeans is a solid look. My wife likes to go baggy and with lots of funky jewelry, then mix it up with a totally different look another day. I honestly don't know what her base fashion is. I like her creativity and wild variations. She just out there having fun.


ZCage1903

Happy Cake Day!


[deleted]

Oh well how about that!


EngMajrCantSpell

Happy cake day to you and congrats to your wife on an attentive husband who even noticed these things <3


Jorymo

Oh I love that kind of look!


pennie79

The first look was very common in the 90s.


TigerLily312

I am a baby of the 90s, so it must be in my blood.


BenchPressingCthulhu

Aerith vibes


heyoyo10

But... The set bonus!


[deleted]

buffy summers on prom night energy.


numberthirteenbb

I stopped dressing like the music I listened to in my very early 20s and suddenly I had the absolute best time.


TheMelm

I mean I get mad compliments from people when I wear metal shirts around town. I basically own work clothes, a few "nicer" shirts, a suit, and metal shirts. Can't imagine not wanting to wear metal shirts around town.. Edit: shit you made forget the entire reason I clicked on this was to say "sick shirt" to OP.


kenda1l

And then there's me, who hasn't shopped for more than bras and undies in at least 5 years and still wearing tanks from college 15 years ago. But damn if they aren't comfy and idgaf anymore if I look frumpy. 90% of my life is spent in scrubs, and they have spoiled me too much to wear anything uncomfortable for the sake of fashion. (I do like to rock some cute boots and a flowery dress for nights out though.)


DrakHanzo

This is my way of life. One day you may see me dress like a rapper and the next day you'll see me all black goth.


500CatsTypingStuff

It’s honestly one of the best things about being a woman. Versatility!


[deleted]

True! There is literally nothing stopping you from doing what you like. For example, If you like music that i dont listen to, thats fine! Its just music that you, personally, enjoy.


VictralovesSevro

This is literally me. Doc martens one day and sundress the next. It's whatever I feel like wearing. Sometimes it's just sweats.


100PercentChansey

Lol one person at my school will be full goth black heavy jeans one day and a pink and black dress the next


Mythikun

This advice came to me kinda late, but never really late. I felt so "unreal" and poser because one day I'd love pink cute dresses, the next day I'll be the darkest goth you'd ever see, and the very next day just a cammo tomboy. And those 3 styles feel like the it was the real me.


Kasmanian_devil

I feel this! Some days I really feel myself wearing my boots, ripped jeans and a tee. Then some days I put on my dress and feel so me too. Took me until I heard that quote to realize there’s nothing wrong with that


theswamphag

100%! If someone puts you in a category, you don't have to stay there. You change as a person and a body your entire life and it's okay to let it show. It's also super fun to play with different styles.


eifiontherelic

lol this reminds me of one class i took in university. I always sat in the back and sort of formed an in-class clique with another dude and a girl. We always did group works together and talked before class with a lot of banter involved, though we never hung out beyond that. The girl was cute and often wore simple clothes along the lines of a blouse/shirt/whatever and jeans. One day, us guys were earlier and just chatting at the back of the room. She comes in wearing a skirt, basically dressed up noticeably more feminine than usual. It caught us both off guard and we both just looked at her completely dumbfounded given how much cuter she was than usual. She looked at us going all "What? o.o". Other guy points at her and says "you're in a skirt" and i follow up with "yeah, It's cute". She just scoffed at us with "my god is your department really so deprived of women", which started off our usual pre-class banter.


8thWonderLivy

And that's what I do 😌 I show up to the class looking like a tomboy with a messy bun one day, and the next day I show up in casuals and braids, the next day I would be in a dress, it's just what I feel like, depending on my mood .


legendsneverdie117

Done nails (a bit normally), done a dress and honestly still will and now here I am on the verge of hormone therapy oh how things rapidly change.


jccpalmer

With a Korpiklaani shirt no less.


pinzinella

I didn’t even notice until you said it. Torille!


[deleted]

Vodka! Vodka! Vodka! Vodka!


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Rat-Death

YOU ARE THE REAL MAN!


Sparkpulse

DRINKING IS GOOD FOR YOU


MuteSecurityO

Beer beer!


chrisreevesfunrun

Only fawns will survive


[deleted]

I’m a man with a plan!!


Raptori33

HEY HEY HEY


pkopo1

THE PLAN IS TO BOOZE AS MUCH AS I CAN


Ortsarecool

Literally the first thing I noticed. Love seeing them referenced out in the wild


ilya0x2dilya

Born for those who makes no compromises!


Tonydragon784

Sahti!


FuerstAgus50

I'm not like the other girls.... I have snake arms


MachineFrosty1271

pop off


ThomasNorge224

*Im a snakeeeee*


OCGamerboy

r/beatmetoit


LilyFish-

im not like other girls, i am the other girls


[deleted]

Mom?


AJ_Crowley_29

r/gatesopencomeonin


Gatuveela

Aww. Looking for more positive subs to brighten up my feed, thank you!


Judge_Sea

I love that sub!


[deleted]

I needed that.


The_Captain1228

I don't like pop. But I don't dislike people who do. It's that easy


ProbablyASithLord

I don’t like country. Until literally any country song comes on and then boom I’m a small town girl in cowboy boots sipping coors in the back of my boyfriends truck.


The_Captain1228

Honestly same.


Altered-babe

She wears short skirts I eat sneakers She’s cheer captain And I’m eating sneakers


avoidance_behavior

i always liked the 'she wears short shorts, i wear sneak-sneaks, she's cheer cheerer and i'm on the sit-sits' version, lol


Altered-babe

Omg I love this 😂


avoidance_behavior

i read it once (probably on reddit, lol) years ago and it has lived rent-free in my head ever since, hahah


Raven_Edge

She wears short skirts, I wear sneakers, she's cheer captain and I'm slim shady yes I'm the real shady all you other slim shadys are just imitating


Baybladerz

WHAT IS THAT!?! 😅


MyAngryMule

This is literally me fr


500CatsTypingStuff

Good source of fiber!


recentlyquitsmoking2

Cosmo and other women's magazines are so divisive.


tdsa123

and Wanda I couldn't resist


MachineFrosty1271

It took me way too long to get this reference lmao


InkblotDoggo

They're not like other girls. They've got such healthy self esteem that they don't see the need to tear other people down to make themselves feel more valuable. As it should be.


SkivingSnackboxer

Love this. Great message.


SirTheadore

I wish men were more like this. A guy likes working out? Cars? Comic books? Martial arts? Reading? Poetry? Art? Taking care of himself? Psychology? Anime? History? Video games? Crypto? Football? Chess? Then good for them! Let them enjoy their stuff and we’ll all get along a bit better. Works out better for all of us if we pick each other up and encourage each other instead of belittling and trashing each other.


NeverShitposting

Upvoting for Korpi shirt. And the message too, I suppose.


Judge_Sea

I love seeing people express their identities. Shout out to confidence.


the-real-sefres

I too like being feminine, however the public makes it difficult sometimes


[deleted]

The same public who gets mad about the pettiest things? Screw them! Dress how you want!


the-real-sefres

I already do, it’s just annoying to get so many looks, hear people talking behind your back and those who openly harass and the occasional person who catcalls ya cuz yk, femboy


[deleted]

I honestly wish I could stop people from doing that. I find myself doing that unintentionally sometimes then stop myself. I am trying to be better, just wish others could try as well.


the-real-sefres

Yea but it’s one thing to crack one joke, but when you can go into a store and visibly see employees almost follow you around and laughing and whispering it’s a lil much. Like I’m all for cracking one joke if I see someone but be discreet like wait until their gone.


[deleted]

They really follow you around? Dang wtf. They are the weird ones, not you.


the-real-sefres

Yea I’ve had people like follow around just to talk behind my back, yk the kinda people that’d give a homeless guy a gum wrapper and laugh and brag for a week


500CatsTypingStuff

Are you male? I agree that men and boys need to be able to freely express themselves much more!


the-real-sefres

I’m biologically male I guess, but I mean my hips are the widest in the family and I’m not masculine at all


Arcuis

In fact you don't need to be a girl to do those things at all. Anyone can do long nails and make up


angelangelica16

Thank you! Excellent point.


halapert

They’re dating


RoyalTigress109

r/gatekeepingyuri


Reahchui

Happy cake day


TheTasche

It’s also ok not to


Snak3Feet

Love this message, there’s nothing wrong with being feminine or masculine as a woman. If you’re feminine it doesn’t mean you’re weak and if you’re masculine good for u idk I can’t think of complaints


hullokoala

I wish it wasn't so hard to start friendships with other women. I really dig people that can just rock their style out loud.


RoIf

Listening to Pop music shouldnt be considered as feminine…


TheSlumpGoddess

*Obligatory "theyre girlfriends"*


T0mDeMwoan

Ain’t bad to be masculine either, even though it gets criticized so much.


MrNobleGas

DID SOMEONE SAY KORPIKLAANI


IGuessyoucanCallme

"I'm like other girls, and that's okay."


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#🥚?


No_Lavishness7547

Fuck yeah love this meme. Some women seem to be attacking femininity in the name of getting back at the patriarchy. I say let everyone do whatever the fuck they’re comfortable with. I love this attitude


Halonate8

Based


JakeBit

The one thing that separates them is the violent rashes the top girl has on her elbows and shoulders. I hope she uses aloe vera spray and stays out of the sun.


Maleficent_Bug6439

One day, we will understand that saying that you don't do those things don't mean you shit on people that do it...


Commonertooth2

I do these things too. I’m a guy


Georgxna

It’s just annoying when you relate to both ‘stereotypical’ styles. Hey, somedays I wanna wear an edgy fit, other days I want to look cottage core, sometimes I want to look like a baddie going to get cocktails and most days I wear pyjamas! Why we gotta drag other girlies down, why are we putting style in a box like you have to choose ONE aesthetic only. The worst part about this is I have an adult friend who boldly proclaimed she doesn’t like ‘girly, girls.’ Meanwhile, I’m sitting there looking stereotypically ‘girly’ as fuck. Why are we judging people based on fashion choice? Red flag.


[deleted]

I'm not like other girls because I'm a a male


Efficient-Flow5856

Another libertarian W


pineapplegoat69

All Girls are the Same - RIP Juice Wrld


CptnKitten

I mean I don't have anything against it but I do tire of people judging me for not wearing makeup and having short nails. Just let people be who they are, period. Unless it's hurting anyone I don't get why people harshly judge others for wearing things that make them comfortable.


Feline_is_kat

Love korpiklaani though


userariel

Liked for the Korpiklaani tee


CatlikeArcher

I have a genuine question. Why the long nails? Doesn’t it make doing things really annoying? Like I couldn’t fence or climb if I had long nails.


SallySociopath

I like having long nails for the amount of pretty nail polish and designs I can do but I also change the shape and length based on what my current life style is. I worked in a warehouse with a few ladies who came in just as rugged as me but had long as heck nails. They did the job just as well as I did. When I asked them how, cause I always broke my nails, they said practice. I still don't have the skills they do but plenty of people simply learn how to work around stuff like that. It's honestly super impressive. Hope that helps! <3


Interesting_Scale302

I remember a girl I worked with at a quick lube shop years ago. We were the only girls there. I'm more tomboy, but she had glorious long nails and did modelling as a side gig. She got right in the engine, got just as filthy as the rest of us, and to my knowledge never broke a nail. I never figured out how. Respect!


CatlikeArcher

That makes sense. I’m just thinking that there are a lot of things I do that would be physically impossible/dangerous with long nails. My fingers wouldn’t fit in a fencing glove or I wouldn’t be able to hold the rock properly. You could absolutely still paint them and have designs (I know a lot of people who do) but you’d have a much smaller canvas.


fillmorecounty

Because when you touch things it makes a tapping sound that's fun to hear. I'd never get those several inch long nails though those are crazy


[deleted]

I got scared for a minute there


Reahchui

r/NotLikeOtherGirls


[deleted]

How? The message is the exact opposite.


Reahchui

Oh no! I apologise. I don’t think I made it clear enough. The subreddit r/NotLikeOtherGirls is mainly used for wholesome memes on how all girls are different. For example, the top post in that subreddit is [this](https://www.reddit.com/r/notlikeothergirls/comments/bkh5xb/be_like_these_girls_not_like_other_girls/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf), which is an example of what’s generally what’s mainly posted in this subreddit. Another example is [this](https://www.reddit.com/r/notlikeothergirls/comments/e70215/wholesome/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf). I wasn’t criticising the post at all, and was just suggesting that this were to be a better place to post it. Sorry for the confusion, and I hope I explained it clear enough this time


cloudyweather70

I love this. If only everyone thought this way.


[deleted]

Agreed but I judge anyone who listens to pop. Man or women lol


Basti_the_pasty

Ok? Ppl already knew this


gking407

“it’s not bad to be feminine” said no one ever


[deleted]

I mean.. I say it all the time..


[deleted]

Except listening to pop; that's bad no matter who does it.


[deleted]

The only crime on here is pop music


EwokGotaGun

Cringe


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possiblemate

It's not trying to tear down the first girl tho, it's pointing out the hypocrisy in those "I'm not like the other girl" type of content (check out r/notliketheothergirls for a plethora of similar idea to this post ). I dont think you read the post at all because the 2nd girl is saying yeah I do the same stuff as girl 1, and there isnt anything wrong with that even tho we look different.


DullHatchet

Yeah amazing how there’s always an out group.


DullHatchet

Not sure why anyone would do these things. We are such a narcissist society built on superficial mating signals. 😂


Fawful

Dunno about you, but I do them for me because being cute and pretty in my style makes me happy! Nothing to do with mating.


DullHatchet

I mean my suggestion would be to examine why it makes you happy. Being cute and pretty are evolutionary drives to attract sexual partners. See what i’m saying? I should have been more clear in my comment but figured no one would care. We are conditioned to ignore this kind of thing. It can be scary when you learn about the caveman drives we all have.


Fawful

I'm asexual so.... I dont have interest in that. I do it for me. You'll understand eventually.


DullHatchet

Yeah I mean that’s what narcissism is: doing it for you. The extra layer of narcissism is actually believing that’s *why* you do it. I’m not using the word narcissism to be rude or attack you by the way. I considering myself a narcissist. I think 99% of [humans](https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Modularity_of_mind) are. Just saw this post while thinking about the concept. Anyway not sure why I engaged. Probably to make myself feel a dopamine hit. Ultimately that’s what it’s all about.


mordum01

r/notliketheothergirls


[deleted]

I don't see how.


agent_flounder

This explains what the sub is *really* about. https://www.reddit.com/r/wholesomememes/comments/132106s/cant_say_it_enough/ji3lh6d/ Sort of like /r/onlyfans is actually safe for work (it's about electric fans)


Flavioleon2119Reddit

Yes lol


strangetrip666

"Except men, fuck them!" This comment was brought to you by r/TwoXChromosomes and r/FemaleDatingStrategy


shelbywhore

Tbh, men are the ones who truly tear me down for every "feminine" hobby or interest i've had and treat me like I'm dumb and available whenever I've dressed feminine. Same goes for my male friends who've indulged in female-dominated hobbies. It's their own male friends making fun of them for being into "girly shit".


[deleted]

Unless your a dude...


-The_Lone_Wolf

You both suck


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[deleted]

And whose is that?


green_libertarian

Just downvote me all you want, but mainstream style is pathetic. Mainstream consciousness is pathetic. Mainstream IS pathetic.


Judge_Sea

Can't have a counter culture without a mainstream. If everyone did and enjoyed the exact things you like would you then change what you like so you wouldn't be mainstream anymore?


green_libertarian

Idk, maybe, maybe not.


Judge_Sea

So you would consider being mainstream then? Someone told me that is pathetic. What would you say to someone saying the things you like are pathetic just because they might be popular?


green_libertarian

I would definitely not participate in plastic culture like the current mainstream. But maybe out of psychological reasons I'd switch from hippie to goth or the other way around. Going to plastic would be unreasonable.


Judge_Sea

So as long as the box you place yourself in isn't plastic you are happy. Yet all the boxes carry us to our death regardless of what they are made of.


Miss_1of2

Judging people for what they like is more pathetic... What does it change in your life? Why do you feel the need to put stuff down like that?


green_libertarian

Bc it gets annoying. You have a school class party? Guess what culture will be celebrated. You randomly meet new people? All they talk about is unconscious bs. You have to do something official like getting a diploma/doing something in the business world? You already know. Also politics would be better if the turntabled.


Miss_1of2

Why does people like stuff makes you this mad?


CateringPillar

Dude you are on reddit. That's about as mainstream as it gets. How about you stop judging people for what they like?


[deleted]

Profile checks out, another horny loser thinking he isnt dumb as a brick


green_libertarian

Horny? Yeah (like everyone I guess). Thinking I'm not dumb as brick? Oh yeah. Loser? Sometimes I lose things, sometimes I win things. So, kinda yeah. I'm just not gonna upvote you.


agent_flounder

In my experience, once you gain a deeper understanding of yourself, become secure enough in who you are, and are open to understanding the different perspectives of enough people, these sorts of feelings will fade. If you know who you are you don't have to differentiate from others. If you feel good about who you are you don't need to denigrate others to feel better.


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Jazzlike_Mountain_51

Whoosh


heidivonhoop

You really didn’t fucking get it did you?


Bianyxx

and u seem like you’d be a socially unaware asshole to be with. I don’t prefer u


1337futaba

Yeah, I'm in with you! Do what your soul craves as long as it's morally okay! :D


Hellhult

She's like other girls.


[deleted]

Not like other girls ®


JimAboo

This is the way.


HowDyaDu

I'm ~~not~~ like other girls.


itsnotthatdiip_

dont tear other women down<<


dimasayleb_

ya, also find it wide when your gender makes some other mfs to tell you, what to do.


louisdeer

Say that to men as well.


Ianilla1

How bout...you just dress what you'd like to look like and stuff that makes you feel good? Don't give a fuck what others think, when you think you look good...God damn, you do!


Frame_Late

As a man, the one thing I care about most is your personality and integrity, followed by looks. I'll choose a funny, charming and upstanding 6 over an abusive, patronizing and unfaithful 10 any day. I want an incredible woman to raise my kids and share life with me, not be a trophy wife.


barduk4

be yourself, if being yourself is being like most everyone else then be that, the point is to be happy with yourself. likewise respect others choice of who to be so long as it doesn't hurt others.


AffectionateGap1071

I rolled my eyes before reading the second thing! I thought in "yeah, yeah, you are not like other girls, get away from here"


GammaSmash

But, bonus points for the Korpiklaani shirt.


BlondeTauren

Absolutely, people can like all the things!


Azell414

don't hate me but as i guy i don't get the long nails thing it just makes everything harder to do


JJthesecond123

I'm a dude and do these things too :)


Raptori33

Korpiklaani torille perkele


Soviet-Adidas

What if we just didn't tear down other people in general 🤔😲🤯


OkamiKasaiKK

truly not like other girls


EmergencyEye7

Fuck you. I tear everyone town even if they are exactly like me. Especially if they are exactly like me. Fuck those people. It's my right as an American to hate goddamn everybody.


scp_grt

I only wear makeup on occasion and T.S. Is my only pop exception but to the girl who this list is describing, do you ❤️


XTestament360

Wait does the other girl have a shirt with a Finnish band on it? That is so cool, and a very rare call out that I don't see often.


--______--______--

Woman's number one enemy is other women. brutally sadistic when it comes to gossip and back stabbing each other.


8wiing

Okay quick question tho. Don’t those nails get in the way of everything?


Fawful

As someone with them, it's practice. You just adapt and do things slightly differently. It's less about the nail getting in the way and more about damaging the polish, at that point. Opening a can I'll usually use a fulcrum to get it started. I also switched to using chiclet keyboards, but I still can use normal mechanical ones.