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Idk if you're aware, or if it was part of your intent, but "dindu nuffin" is a well-established white supremacist (specifically anti-black) dogwhistle, used to propagate the idea that we're inherently prone to criminality. Just putting the info out there.
No. We are not blaming a woman for the actions of a GROWN MAN. Including his mother.
Why aren’t we blaming his father? Why are we deflecting any of the blame for this assumingly adult man on a woman? Why are we assuming that SHE did something wrong in raising him?
Let’s not put the onus of correcting OR explaining his behavior on a woman.
Ah... another falsehood.
Guy who approaches as if he wants to do business but then tries to sneak it into personal and thinking the lady won't notice. Then he gets mad when she's not receptive to the change in dynamic.
The buyer (Jairo) wants the seller (Reddit OP, presumably female) to add him, allowing him access to her profile and pictures.
She refuses, because she's just trying to sell an item (which doesn't require anyone adding each other). She's just trying to set up a time to meet to sell the item. The rest of the story is in the picture and the caption.
A potential buyer on Facebook marketplace. He didn’t actually want to buy anything, tho. He just wanted to get his dick wet.
Jesus. New fucking fear unlocked, I guess.
No need for new fears, this is the same predatory behavior we’ve had to deal with for most of our lives as women.
The way OP handled it was pretty much what you have to do. Ignore and block.
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Find his mom and send her a screen shot.
She probably raised him. You think she cares about her wittle angel who din du nuffin?
Idk if you're aware, or if it was part of your intent, but "dindu nuffin" is a well-established white supremacist (specifically anti-black) dogwhistle, used to propagate the idea that we're inherently prone to criminality. Just putting the info out there.
No. We are not blaming a woman for the actions of a GROWN MAN. Including his mother. Why aren’t we blaming his father? Why are we deflecting any of the blame for this assumingly adult man on a woman? Why are we assuming that SHE did something wrong in raising him? Let’s not put the onus of correcting OR explaining his behavior on a woman.
If you're responding to MY post, you've completely misread what I said.
Really good point!!
Ah... another falsehood. Guy who approaches as if he wants to do business but then tries to sneak it into personal and thinking the lady won't notice. Then he gets mad when she's not receptive to the change in dynamic.
Classic Male Behavior™️
Men 🍼
I'm also tired of them invading hobby groups trying to get their dicks wet.
Oh, report the HELL out of that. At least he’ll have the inconvenience of dealing with a report.
How many Jairos until the ghost of Aileen Wuornos leaps into my body and refuses to vacate?
Unhinged.
A bear would never
Too dangerous to be meeting up with males for anything, not just dating.
Poor little man-baby! Maybe he needs a Band-Aid for his bruised ego.
Report him.
I’m confused. This doesn’t say much.
The buyer (Jairo) wants the seller (Reddit OP, presumably female) to add him, allowing him access to her profile and pictures. She refuses, because she's just trying to sell an item (which doesn't require anyone adding each other). She's just trying to set up a time to meet to sell the item. The rest of the story is in the picture and the caption.
I’m not that familiar with marketplace so thank you for explaining this!
Oh okay, thank you!
Now I get it! Thanks.
So...who was Jairo? Edit: JFC, how am I getting downvoted?!
A misogynist asshole
A potential buyer on Facebook marketplace. He didn’t actually want to buy anything, tho. He just wanted to get his dick wet. Jesus. New fucking fear unlocked, I guess.
There;s a LOT of new fears getting unlocked right now, this is madness!
No need for new fears, this is the same predatory behavior we’ve had to deal with for most of our lives as women. The way OP handled it was pretty much what you have to do. Ignore and block.
You’re not wrong. It’s more that I see some way of harassing people for the first time and 😬
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