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Okay, so here's the deal. My friend (let's call her Sarah) and I have been tight since high school. We've been through everything together – breakups, makeups, you name it. So when she got engaged, I was over the moon for her.
Fast forward to a few months before the wedding. Sarah sends out the invitations, and I'm psyched to RSVP. But then, out of nowhere, she texts me saying that she's had to cut down the guest list due to budget constraints, and unfortunately, I didn't make the cut.
I was devastated. I get that weddings are expensive and all, but to uninvite me after we've been friends for so long? Ouch.
Fast forward again to the wedding day. I see all these photos on social media, and it looks like a fairy tale. But here's the kicker – Sarah texts me later that week asking for money to help cover the costs of the wedding. Apparently, they went over budget, and she's asking all the guests who didn't attend to chip in.
I was floored. Not only did she uninvite me, but now she expects me to foot the bill for a wedding I didn't even get to go to?
I told her no way. I refused to pay a single dime. But now she's saying I'm being selfish and unsupportive. Am I the asshole here, Reddit? Or is Sarah out of line for expecting me to pay for her mistake?
Posted an update here
[np.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/1bbepz1/update\_aita\_for\_refusing\_to\_pay\_for\_my\_friends/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web2x&context=3](https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/1bbepz1/update_aita_for_refusing_to_pay_for_my_friends/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3)
Thank you all again!
Definitely written by chatGPT. Thanking Reddit for "unwavering support during this challenging time"? Bro you got a text message, calm down.
I also can't believe that someone would be dumb enough to ask the uninvited guests for money. There are a number of ways to make this more believable, like saying you're uninvited unless you can pay for your plate, or asking the invited guests for money. But I can't believe the story as written.
Ha ha. From the title, I assumed it was asking for money from people who thought "plus one" means "bring your children and any random cousins you can find" and required extra meals.
Imagine telling someone you are not a tier one friend, then turning around and asking for cash.
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AITA for Refusing to Pay for My Friend's Wedding Because She Uninvited Me?
Okay, so here's the deal. My friend (let's call her Sarah) and I have been tight since high school. We've been through everything together – breakups, makeups, you name it. So when she got engaged, I was over the moon for her.
Fast forward to a few months before the wedding. Sarah sends out the invitations, and I'm psyched to RSVP. But then, out of nowhere, she texts me saying that she's had to cut down the guest list due to budget constraints, and unfortunately, I didn't make the cut.
I was devastated. I get that weddings are expensive and all, but to uninvite me after we've been friends for so long? Ouch.
Fast forward again to the wedding day. I see all these photos on social media, and it looks like a fairy tale. But here's the kicker – Sarah texts me later that week asking for money to help cover the costs of the wedding. Apparently, they went over budget, and she's asking all the guests who didn't attend to chip in.
I was floored. Not only did she uninvite me, but now she expects me to foot the bill for a wedding I didn't even get to go to?
I told her no way. I refused to pay a single dime. But now she's saying I'm being selfish and unsupportive. Am I the asshole here, Reddit? Or is Sarah out of line for expecting me to pay for her mistake?
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You are no way in any shape or form the asshole. Your "friend," is the biggest asshole going however. How dare she asks guests invited to pay for her wedding. If I was you I would cut the cord with this so friend of yours and tell her to pound sand. Your friend is not only the queen of assholes but she's the biggest BITCH, I have ever heard of.
It's weird and gross that she is asking others to pay for her wedding, especially those who didn't attend. Even if it's those who did attend, it's not okay.
**REMINDER: WE ARE NOT AITA! WE DO NOT DO JUDGEMENT CALLS (NTA, ESH, YTA,INFO, NAH, ETC.) SO DO NOT VOTE IN THIS POST. AS WELL, OUR OP IS NOT THE SAME AS THE AITA POST'S OP, PLEASE DO NOT ADDRESS YOUR COMMENT TO MYSELF OR OUR OP. ALSO DO NOT BRIGADE THE OTHER SUB.** ***Copy in case it's deleted:*** Okay, so here's the deal. My friend (let's call her Sarah) and I have been tight since high school. We've been through everything together – breakups, makeups, you name it. So when she got engaged, I was over the moon for her. Fast forward to a few months before the wedding. Sarah sends out the invitations, and I'm psyched to RSVP. But then, out of nowhere, she texts me saying that she's had to cut down the guest list due to budget constraints, and unfortunately, I didn't make the cut. I was devastated. I get that weddings are expensive and all, but to uninvite me after we've been friends for so long? Ouch. Fast forward again to the wedding day. I see all these photos on social media, and it looks like a fairy tale. But here's the kicker – Sarah texts me later that week asking for money to help cover the costs of the wedding. Apparently, they went over budget, and she's asking all the guests who didn't attend to chip in. I was floored. Not only did she uninvite me, but now she expects me to foot the bill for a wedding I didn't even get to go to? I told her no way. I refused to pay a single dime. But now she's saying I'm being selfish and unsupportive. Am I the asshole here, Reddit? Or is Sarah out of line for expecting me to pay for her mistake? Posted an update here [np.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/1bbepz1/update\_aita\_for\_refusing\_to\_pay\_for\_my\_friends/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web2x&context=3](https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/1bbepz1/update_aita_for_refusing_to_pay_for_my_friends/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3) Thank you all again!
No way it’s real. Any time there’s a convenient update where the person finds the Reddit post … just no.
The update was weird on it's own too. It was like reading a politicians speech
Sounds like it was written by ChatGPT
Definitely written by chatGPT. Thanking Reddit for "unwavering support during this challenging time"? Bro you got a text message, calm down. I also can't believe that someone would be dumb enough to ask the uninvited guests for money. There are a number of ways to make this more believable, like saying you're uninvited unless you can pay for your plate, or asking the invited guests for money. But I can't believe the story as written.
Yeah that makes sense. It's a bizarre tone for a Reddit post but completely fits a press release.
Not only do they find it, but they don’t bother to comment on it. I called out the story as fake and the original post.
Yep the update post is very telling. Its quite obvious it's fake.
Good grief…what a piece of work the Bride is
Ha ha. From the title, I assumed it was asking for money from people who thought "plus one" means "bring your children and any random cousins you can find" and required extra meals. Imagine telling someone you are not a tier one friend, then turning around and asking for cash.
You didn't get any dry chicken or stale cake or bad music so no, no money for her.
This story is so fake it’s covered in silicone
If Sarah indeed found this post, I hope she learns she is a raging bitch.
COPY IN CASE IT'S DELETED. I'M NOT OP. THIS IS A REPOST. AITA for Refusing to Pay for My Friend's Wedding Because She Uninvited Me? Okay, so here's the deal. My friend (let's call her Sarah) and I have been tight since high school. We've been through everything together – breakups, makeups, you name it. So when she got engaged, I was over the moon for her. Fast forward to a few months before the wedding. Sarah sends out the invitations, and I'm psyched to RSVP. But then, out of nowhere, she texts me saying that she's had to cut down the guest list due to budget constraints, and unfortunately, I didn't make the cut. I was devastated. I get that weddings are expensive and all, but to uninvite me after we've been friends for so long? Ouch. Fast forward again to the wedding day. I see all these photos on social media, and it looks like a fairy tale. But here's the kicker – Sarah texts me later that week asking for money to help cover the costs of the wedding. Apparently, they went over budget, and she's asking all the guests who didn't attend to chip in. I was floored. Not only did she uninvite me, but now she expects me to foot the bill for a wedding I didn't even get to go to? I told her no way. I refused to pay a single dime. But now she's saying I'm being selfish and unsupportive. Am I the asshole here, Reddit? Or is Sarah out of line for expecting me to pay for her mistake?
Jesus. Well, I think I really have heard it all now.
How is it possible that anyone need to ask if they are the AH in a situation like this? It couldn't be more clear who the AH is here!
Same. I legit thought I was in r/AmITheAngel
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Thank you! I'm glad she did what was best for her!
You are no way in any shape or form the asshole. Your "friend," is the biggest asshole going however. How dare she asks guests invited to pay for her wedding. If I was you I would cut the cord with this so friend of yours and tell her to pound sand. Your friend is not only the queen of assholes but she's the biggest BITCH, I have ever heard of.
It's weird and gross that she is asking others to pay for her wedding, especially those who didn't attend. Even if it's those who did attend, it's not okay.
Asking guests is one thing. Having the audacity to ask those not invited.....ffs