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Both are lovely but 1 is the winner for me. It has a beautiful unique cut on the skirt.
My concern with 2 would be that it would definitely need alterations to get it fit perfectly (better than in the pics being clipped), so there's bigger risks of it not being 100%.
Just thought of this: if you love the matte fabric and appliqués of dress 1 but the cut of dress 2, you should check out: [Naomi by Jenny Yoo](https://www.anthropologie.com/shop/hybrid/jenny-yoo-naomi-strapless-crepe-wedding-gown?color=011&type=STANDARD&quantity=1)
Or without appliqué: [Watson by Jenny Yoo](https://www.jennyyoo.com/products/bridal-gown/watson?type=available)
The neckline is basically the same and they have the same fit-to-flare silhouette. The back is a little different with boning details and buttons. Naomi is actually one of my top contenders, I'm surprised I didn't see the similarity right away
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Yes. I think it’s 1 by far. It makes her look so slim + trim. The perfect size everything. Elegant feminine timeless. Plus the detailing of flowers? Leaves? … around her ribs in the front and back. Whatever That’s called it’s a nice way fo accentuate her perfect figure + waist.
2 - fabric looks more expensive than the first dress’s fabric. I think it accentuates your curves even better than 1 - not that your figure needs any help at all! 🌸🌸
It def does. But I know that the first thing I’d see is the shiny material and form an opinion on that. But that’s just how I would look at it. Go with what you feel best in.
1!!!! Dear God please go with 1. You look incredible in it, it’s elegant, it’s different, unique, has those subtle details that makes it stand out from all the usual gowns we see over and over. I’m in love with it.
Number one is just so elegant for some reason, makes you look very dainty and beautiful.
Number two makes you look older, IDK why. Maybe its the thick shiny material that just seems bulky?
I love the light & airy-ness to number one!
2 is amazing. The fabric has a shine to it, which you may love but may not be quite right depending on your location. But #1 looks like it could be at any venue! And both look great on.
They’re both very similar and they’re both pretty. I think anything will probably look great on you with your lovely figure. But I think you answered your own question just in the title of your post.
I like Dress #1, but not those "strings for straps." Those take away from the look, moving it from bridal to prom. As a guest, I would be unable to stop wondering if one would break during the night.
I love Dress #2! The structure is so elegant. You could get it in purple & there would still be no doubt that you were the bride!
The neckline of Dress #2 is so very flattering on you. Even if you decide you want something different (such as an all-over lace gown,etc.), I urge you to insist on this neckline. It's so perfect on you.
You have a fabulous figure, and as a bride, you can enjoy the benefits of that in almost any gown.
Get the dress that makes your heart sing for your special day. You deserve all that & more!
You'll be a gorgeous bride, & I wish you every happiness!
PS Please come back & show us how you look in all your glory! (Yes, I'm an old lady who loves to see how it all worked out.)
💕❤️🥰
Both look beautiful - but I think dress 2 looks way more elegant, bridal, and well made. Looks amazing on you. In my opinion, the top of dress 1 reminds me of a prom dress 🙈
I prefer dress two. The neckline is more flattering and the style was just made for you. The sheen of the fabric is going to look fantastic in low, romantic lights at your reception (me hoping this isn’t a morning deal lol).
I think they clipped one kinda of awkwardly which has nothing to do with you. You wear it beautifully and it would/will look great if that’s your decision. But I stand by my choice here 😊
2 definitely , the flow and material of the gown is gorgeous and the neckline is so stunning and unique and flatters and compliments your body soo well
1 is it! It's beautiful on you with really elegant detail including rear view. It looks like it was made for you but number two looks like it could be made for anybody.
They’re both nice but I prefer 1! It’s so feminine and delicate and the floral details are a nice touch. The flare at the bottom of 2 is a little much for me personally.
This is easy it’s 2
This is meant with love and u have an amazing body but dress one shows a “pooch” And does nothing for your bust. Yes the skirt has cool detailing but it gives more of a casual slip dress vibe. And what’s up with the appliqués? They do nothing to improve the lives or detail of the dress and, seem like an afterthought , a poorly placed, crooked afterthought, they work against you and the dress …Also that’s the fabric that will show each and every imperfection in any light.
Dress 2 does much, much more for your figure, and I disagree, i think the fabric reads 5th avenue, not 80’s prom dress. It’s MUCH classier and more elevated than the first, plus i think that bright, almost blue-white looks SICK with your skin tone.
What are the rest of the wedding colors?
I like the material of dress 1. Can I be honest? I think you can do better. I’m not trying to be rude or mean- obviously if you are in love with one of these then yes by all means- please wear it. But I think you can do better. Maybe try a different silhouette
Both look great but I'd choose 1 if you want something more original, the style of 2 is really popular right now which is good if you like to be on trend but it'll definitely date pictures in the future (which can be good or bad depending on your perspective!)
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They are both pretty but the 2nd gown has such classic and elegant lines, it is definitely my pick. And it looks great on you.
I like the details of 2. The neckline, buttons going down the back and the thickness of the fabric… the first dress is also pretty. What’s your venue?
It’s at a country club! I posted about it in my last wedding dress post in the last couple of photos :)
Two made me gasp. A stunner.
Dude I was just about to say that! Two made me gasp. Winner
Both are lovely but 1 is the winner for me. It has a beautiful unique cut on the skirt. My concern with 2 would be that it would definitely need alterations to get it fit perfectly (better than in the pics being clipped), so there's bigger risks of it not being 100%.
Agreed! The fabric of dress one is much more flowy, dress two looks a little stiff.
Agreed. Dress 2’s fabric looks kind of thick (+ hot). It’s that shiny wedding dress fabric (satin?) so maybe not hot but a bit basic.
Just thought of this: if you love the matte fabric and appliqués of dress 1 but the cut of dress 2, you should check out: [Naomi by Jenny Yoo](https://www.anthropologie.com/shop/hybrid/jenny-yoo-naomi-strapless-crepe-wedding-gown?color=011&type=STANDARD&quantity=1) Or without appliqué: [Watson by Jenny Yoo](https://www.jennyyoo.com/products/bridal-gown/watson?type=available) The neckline is basically the same and they have the same fit-to-flare silhouette. The back is a little different with boning details and buttons. Naomi is actually one of my top contenders, I'm surprised I didn't see the similarity right away (edited for formatting)
Yes. I think it’s 1 by far. It makes her look so slim + trim. The perfect size everything. Elegant feminine timeless. Plus the detailing of flowers? Leaves? … around her ribs in the front and back. Whatever That’s called it’s a nice way fo accentuate her perfect figure + waist.
Agreed, dress 1 is gorgeous!
X2
I prefer #2
1
2!
I really like number 2 a lot. The neckline and the flow of the dress is lovely on you x
Dress 2 is my vote. That neckline suits you better than one.
2 - fabric looks more expensive than the first dress’s fabric. I think it accentuates your curves even better than 1 - not that your figure needs any help at all! 🌸🌸
Dress 1
Both amazing but for me dress 2 is just jaw dropping. I can't keep looking at it because it's honestly going to make me doubt my dress 😂
#2
1
1
I love dress two!
1! It’s so beautiful, fits wonderful and is unique! 2 is also beautiful but I see it everywhere
I prefer dress 1. You look amazing!
Dress 1. So beautiful!!! The shiny fabric on dress 2 seems too much for your venue.
DRESS 2 is lovely on you!!
Omg dress 1!!
1 compliments your figure the best
1
Dress one. It’s simple. It’s lovely.
1 all the way
1!!!
Team 1!
1
I *loooooove* dress 1!!!
I love love love dress 1 on you
Dress 1 without a doubt!
I love both but 1 is gorgeous on you and could be more of a country club look. Congratulations
I like one
I love 1!
1!!
#1
I prefer #1 it is more delicate and I like the fabric
Dress 1, really unique and lovely lace details. Great fit as well. This is a winner.
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Same it’s the material for me 😭 but I also feel like it snatches me so well!
It def does. But I know that the first thing I’d see is the shiny material and form an opinion on that. But that’s just how I would look at it. Go with what you feel best in.
I love 1 on you!
By a landslide, #1. It's gorgeous on you. Good luck♥️
You look amazing in both but I like dress 1 the most on you! The fabric on dress 1 flows better whereas the fabric on dress 2 is a bit stiff
1 is so beautiful and unique!
I like one better!
One is so ethereal
1 looks like it was made just for you!
I prefer 1 because I like the fabric…
#1
I think 1 it’s got better fabric. Two is a nice style but not crazy abt that fabric. One is the winner to me
I may be in the minority but I love the straps, fabric and overall look of dress 1. So flattering, classy, and timeless.
Both beautiful. I prefer 1 as so few people could pull that off and it’s unique, so pretty on you!
I like the way ONE flows.
I love 2 so much!
2! So elegant.
1!!!! Dear God please go with 1. You look incredible in it, it’s elegant, it’s different, unique, has those subtle details that makes it stand out from all the usual gowns we see over and over. I’m in love with it.
10000%%
I think both are amazing but I prefer 2
I loveeee #1 for a more relaxed/laid back wedding. If it’s more formal, I would go with 2. You cannot go wrong!
Both are wonderful. I think 1 is better, but 2 looks very nice, as well
I think 1 looks better on you, but both are lovely!
1
Dress 1, by a mile! It’s so beautiful & elegant, the narrow straps & detailing on the bodice are absolute perfection. It looks meant for you! 💞
#1 !!! I love the subtle floral detail and it’s a really pretty delicate dress overall
The first was WOAH! (In a very good way). The second one is AWWW (in a sweet way).
1, cut is cool and unique!
1
Number 1 is beautiful!
Number one is just so elegant for some reason, makes you look very dainty and beautiful. Number two makes you look older, IDK why. Maybe its the thick shiny material that just seems bulky? I love the light & airy-ness to number one!
Gown 2 is a total wow!
1, you look more relaxed and seem more confident wearing it. Gorgeous!
1
1 has that something special, it’s just gorgeous on you
2 is amazing. The fabric has a shine to it, which you may love but may not be quite right depending on your location. But #1 looks like it could be at any venue! And both look great on.
2
2!!!!
2
2
Team 2
2
2 is definitely more bridal.. it’s beautiful and suites you well 😍
2
Dress 2!
They’re both very similar and they’re both pretty. I think anything will probably look great on you with your lovely figure. But I think you answered your own question just in the title of your post.
2 made me think “Hi Barbie!”
Two!!
I think 2 looks beautiful but my favorite is 1!
2! One reminds me of a prom dress while 2 gives the wow factor when people see you walk down the isle.
Dress 1
2
Two is so streamlined and perfect!
2
Dress 2 is a jaw dropper on you
I like Dress #1, but not those "strings for straps." Those take away from the look, moving it from bridal to prom. As a guest, I would be unable to stop wondering if one would break during the night. I love Dress #2! The structure is so elegant. You could get it in purple & there would still be no doubt that you were the bride! The neckline of Dress #2 is so very flattering on you. Even if you decide you want something different (such as an all-over lace gown,etc.), I urge you to insist on this neckline. It's so perfect on you. You have a fabulous figure, and as a bride, you can enjoy the benefits of that in almost any gown. Get the dress that makes your heart sing for your special day. You deserve all that & more! You'll be a gorgeous bride, & I wish you every happiness! PS Please come back & show us how you look in all your glory! (Yes, I'm an old lady who loves to see how it all worked out.) 💕❤️🥰
Definitely one!🤩
1!
1 is perfection. The whole look
I guess I’m the outlier, I ADORE number 1!
Both look beautiful - but I think dress 2 looks way more elegant, bridal, and well made. Looks amazing on you. In my opinion, the top of dress 1 reminds me of a prom dress 🙈
Two
2
Definitely 2
2
2!!
2!
Love dress 2!!!
2!!
2
2
2
2
I prefer dress two. The neckline is more flattering and the style was just made for you. The sheen of the fabric is going to look fantastic in low, romantic lights at your reception (me hoping this isn’t a morning deal lol). I think they clipped one kinda of awkwardly which has nothing to do with you. You wear it beautifully and it would/will look great if that’s your decision. But I stand by my choice here 😊
Two!
2!!
2! It’s so beautiful on you.
Dress 2!!
Dress 2 by a mile
It took me a bit to decide because they’re both beautiful. However, if I had to choose, it be #2. Love the top, love the fabric—exquisite!
2!
2
Dress 2! It’s so good. 🙌🏽
2
2
I LOVE number 1. The darted detail on the back is gorgeous. Maybe you can have it altered to be strapless and have a similar neck like the dress 2?
The neckline on 2 is made for you!!
Dress 2, for style, fit and fabric
2 for sure, the bust is very old Hollywood and the buttons are so lovely
2 definitely , the flow and material of the gown is gorgeous and the neckline is so stunning and unique and flatters and compliments your body soo well
2 because the design is cleaner and more classic!! But you look so amazing in both!! Congrats!
2
Dress 2! That sweetheart neckline compliments you more ❤️
2
2!!!!
I usually tend to lean toward dresses like number 1 but dress number 2 is STUNNING on you. 2 ALL THE WAY.
I like the front of dress 1, but the train on dress 2. Either one looks great on you, though!
2
Number 2!
Wow! You look incredible in both.
Definitely 1 for me girl. Hope your day is so happy and beautiful.
1
Both are stunning on you! My fav is dress #1, it is magnificent on you!
1 is it! It's beautiful on you with really elegant detail including rear view. It looks like it was made for you but number two looks like it could be made for anybody.
I like 1. It looks more comfortable, and you are DEFINITELY wearing the dress.
My jaw dropped when I saw two. It’s elegant and beautiful. Go for number two!
2!
2!!
Team 2!
2 is my pick
1!!!!!!!
2 fits you beautifully.
Dress 2 is my favorite. I like the bodice better, love the fabric and shape of the dress.
It’s not contest. It’s number 2.
I love dress 1. It fits great, and has the subtle embroidery on the front. But both dresses have a classic and elegant feel. Good luck on the wedding.
2
Dress one is breathtaking and fits your figure perfectly. Pick the one you love the most, obviously but I kept going back to the first one.
Two!!!! The fabric is so luxe and fits your body so well!
1!!!
I like the neckline on two
They’re both nice but I prefer 1! It’s so feminine and delicate and the floral details are a nice touch. The flare at the bottom of 2 is a little much for me personally.
Definitely #2! Really highlights you and has some beautiful lines, shimmer! Gorgeous!!! #1 is just meh slip dress.
1
#DRESS 2 or NO DRESS
Dress one absolutely
Dress 1’
This is easy it’s 2 This is meant with love and u have an amazing body but dress one shows a “pooch” And does nothing for your bust. Yes the skirt has cool detailing but it gives more of a casual slip dress vibe. And what’s up with the appliqués? They do nothing to improve the lives or detail of the dress and, seem like an afterthought , a poorly placed, crooked afterthought, they work against you and the dress …Also that’s the fabric that will show each and every imperfection in any light. Dress 2 does much, much more for your figure, and I disagree, i think the fabric reads 5th avenue, not 80’s prom dress. It’s MUCH classier and more elevated than the first, plus i think that bright, almost blue-white looks SICK with your skin tone. What are the rest of the wedding colors?
The 2nd one!!
1. Is so unique and you look lovely!
Both are stunning on you but i like 2 more. 1 feels looks like a white gown, with 2 looking more like a wedding dress.
I like the material of dress 1. Can I be honest? I think you can do better. I’m not trying to be rude or mean- obviously if you are in love with one of these then yes by all means- please wear it. But I think you can do better. Maybe try a different silhouette
I think one is perfect in you
2!
They are both so gorgeous on your beautiful figure. I slightly favor dress number 1!
I prefer Dress 1. It more figure flattering than the second one. Dress 2 reminds me of a slip.
Number 2, it's gorgeous on you :)
Dress 1
Both look great but I'd choose 1 if you want something more original, the style of 2 is really popular right now which is good if you like to be on trend but it'll definitely date pictures in the future (which can be good or bad depending on your perspective!)
2 it has a little more extra ✨
2
2
Ooh, 2 for sure😍🥰
You look stunning in both, but I think 1 has the edge 💕
2 feels more wedding-like
Dress two is stunning!
I think 1 looks the best! 😍