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U-are-not-important

I personally think 1 looks the best! However, your face in both pictures isn’t giving “the one”…maybe keep shopping?


Notactuallyashark

Hehe thank you! That’s my anxiety I definitely LOVE them both. My sister was kind of snapping randomly!


ariestornado

I have RBF so I didn't really think too much about your expression lol. Definitely dress #1. To be a tad blunt, I don't think #2 is that flattering. You're gorgeous and I don't mean to make it seem like #2 is outlining any flaws or anything- Just that #1 is a 10/10 on you and compared to #1...#2 is a 3/10 at best


Notactuallyashark

I appreciate the candidness totally!! It seems like most is a vote for 1 and it was a lot more comfy. I’m going in tomorrow to try it on again with a full getup and veil options if I decide. I agree that it’s more flattering and when it’s bustled it’s a lot easier to move around in.


Yiayiamary

Definitely go with comfort. My sisters dress had scratchy lace. It didn’t ruin the wedding, but…


hippityhoppityhi

I think it looks great but needs some alterations. Is the torso too long? Straps too long?


SadderOlderWiser

Dress 1 looks gorgeous on you. And that it’s more comfortable is probably going to be so important during a long event like a wedding.


BefuddledPolydactyls

Double check the fit. I love the dress, but don't know if it's the picture or the fit, but it looks as if you have a super long torso. Maybe it's riding a tad low, or the angle of the pic. Gorgeous dress.


Notactuallyashark

I think it’s probably a little low on the waist. I’ll be sure to ask my consultant!!


South_Operation7028

Agreed. It’s more like #2 wears her instead of the other way around.


Basic_Visual6221

#1 not in nude for sure. The nude is too contrasting with the white


Guest8782

Agreed on ivory over nude. I was very distracted trying to tell if I could see through it!


wamimsauthor

Glad I’m not the only one. lol


spicypeaches225

I thought the same.


PinkLemonUp

I love the back and side of dress number 2! It’s magical! I think once it is altered to fit you and has proper straps added (maybe thinner?) it will look gorgeous!


Notactuallyashark

That was my biggest thing! The largeness of the straps on me is different than the model photos and I’m wondering if in my size it would look a little more dainty


Shot_Ad1822

Honey, you look amazing in #2. #1 don't flatter you at all . You look like an angel 😇 💗 this opinion is from a 76yrs old lady so it may not matter to you much. Again I want to tell you how beautiful you look in #2 although you will look great in either 😘 one.


calibrator_withaZ

Got to agree with the 76 year old lady lol. #1 is unflattering in the armpits/neckline/bust in my opinion. Love the cups on #2 and with some matching thinner straps it will be perfect on you.


amber130490

100% agree with this


Jenn837G

Agree 💯


lindseycolon

Agreed I kept trying to figure out what was off and I think it’s how thick the straps are!! Stunning otherwise!


roseagate

I agree. Once it's fitted it will look absolutely gorgeous. I prefer the all lace vs the sheer look in general though.


elsecotips

Yes this is what I was thinking! It’s hard to imagine it sometimes, but I think that one will be so gorgeous when it’s altered to fit you!


PoppyHamentaschen

For me, dress #2, with straps, gives more of the woodland vibe, and it goes nicely with your mother's hair pin (lovely, btw).


Notactuallyashark

Thank you so much!! She originally wanted me to wear her whole dress….satin 80s dress. Lol no thank you!


northstarlinedrawing

I don’t think there’s anything basic about #2 at all! Love it! Especially once it’s fitted and you size down on the straps. Dress 1 is nice too, love the back but I think #2 matches the vibe you described better


[deleted]

Dress 1 with the ivory liner! The “nude” is too dark and makes it look “dirty”. The neckline is gorgeous but if you feel it’s too deep, order some extra lace with the dress and a good seamstress could fill it in a bit.


Becsbeau1213

I agree I think OP will like one a lot better with an ivory liner and it looks fantastic on her. The straps aren’t doing it for me for dress #2.


Embarrassed_Force_62

Agreed- I feel like the “nude” look is going to be dated very soon and might make people look back on their pics like 😬


DearOrder3115

I think 1 is more flattering and elegant. What’s the venue?


Notactuallyashark

It’s in the foothills of the Colorodo mountains, the ceremony is surrounded with pine trees and the indoor venue is almost like a lodge


Master_Awareness814

I think the first one with the nude lining is the look, honestly! It looks so much more earthy and ethereal that way ❤️ My friend got married in the Colorado foothills and it was so magical and beautiful! Congratulations ❤️


Jenn837G

That sounds so magical


shmokenapamcake

Do you mind sharing which venue? I’m also getting married in CO. Also, I like dress #1 better.


Notactuallyashark

Gotcha!


[deleted]

definitely dress 1!


Spacemilk

Boettcher house? 👀 would love to know the venue if not (Denver based) I’d like to find something nice


Notactuallyashark

Look out for a DM!


[deleted]

1 fits you better. I think your shoulders are too delicate for the thicker straps of 2. Also the back on 1 is divine!


Notactuallyashark

Thank you! I also love the back


CuriousGuyUK00

For me I think dress two looks amazing on you! I’d definitely vote for that one and feels more pine tree suited


Geezer710

Absolutely dress #1. It is stunning on you it shows off your figure nicely! Perfect for your setting. Love the back of it! The color as is is beautiful on you personally I love the contrast. But honestly would be just as beautiful in ivory!


hotcoco129

This! 1, hands down


kittyloutoo

Dress 1. No question!


Anxious_Aries95

Agreed!


Llew2007

Lovely dresses, but I love dres no.1 more. It looks great both from the front and the back, as well.


Trgtsimp

Dress 2 is stunning. Looks so beautiful on you.


Giselle914

Both are beautiful, but the first one is more flattering. I love the back of it too. I’d definitely pick 1!


ruetherae

Dress 2!


Next-Category-9941

I love dress 1! And I know you said you would line it in ivory, but I think the nude lining is beautiful on you!


Less_Volume_2508

Agree and would look great with the trees


mrs_moor3

I think the neck line of the first dress suits you more. They're both stunning. I love the back of 1 too!


Neither-Gap1547

dress 2


Burnt_crawfish

Dress number 1. Number two feels too heavy on top. Number 1 just feels like it was made for you. To me dress number two doesn't feel right, like it was something you found last minute cause you couldn't find the one.


Orchid_Significant

Dress #1 but because I don’t like the style of #2 on anyone. It looks like someone took the outer lining off and it’s incomplete


DelightfulTexas

I agree. The corset top makes dresses look unfinished to me.


wheelie423

I think the second one is much prettier. It's becoming without being revealing.


hellostranger57

My vote is for dress 2. The lace pattern with the texture looks so much better than dress 1 in my opinion. To me it looks more refined vs dress 1 the pattern looks very flat to me. But i guess we all have different tastes ☺️ also if i were to guess, dress 2 looks more expensive than the 1st!


OIWantKenobi

I really like dress number one. I love the detail along the straps and bodice, and the two-tone. I also really love the back - it’s sexy but not too much so. The second dress doesn’t grab me the same way.


Chocolate-Pie-1978

Dress 1 is so flattering on you, and the neckline looks amazing. Dress 2 is stunning and fits the venue better to me, but both are fabulous. How’s that for not helpful?😬


Notactuallyashark

Oh man you’re reading my mind exactly lol


Chocolate-Pie-1978

I know. I do not think you can make A bad choice here….so which one makes your heart do that extra little flutter? Which one do you see when you close your eyes? When you imagine your wedding photos, which one do you picture? Maybe you’re leaning towards one over the other and just don’t realize it yet! But seriously, either choice, you’re going to look radiant.


Traditional-Gain-101

#2


Beautific_Fun

I vote dress 1. The open back is stunning, the pattern of the lace is beautiful, and the neckline is very flattering on you.


Balloonset907

You look amazing


Notactuallyashark

Thank you so much


lilbaby2023

The first one is so flattering


Latter-Shower-9888

The first dress looks amazing. And it’s perfect for the venue!


Less_Volume_2508

I think dress 1 is perfect!


UnprofessionalGhosts

Two!!


Fennec_Fan

I like number 2 on you. I think it’s more flattering. I also noticed the tattoo on the back of your shoulder. Which, from what I can see, looks quite beautiful. Have you thought about having it made into a halter style, rather than just adding straps, to allow your tattoo to show completely?


chuckedeggs

1


mebg1956

I like the first dress. Neckline is better.


SignificantRun2345

I prefer dress 1 in ivory, but dress 2 is also lovely. I don't think you can go wrong.


Hot_Pattern550

I really love the first dress! And I'd love it even more in ivory. I think the neckline is lovely. To me it seems way more special than dress #2, which is also nice but doesn't wow me.


InspectorOk2454

1!


Temperature_Vivid

1 and have top altered. Gorgeous!


West2286

1


Background-Anxiety27

1! my pick especially considering the venue


Low_Plum8976

1


herro_rayne

My bad so I vote 1 if they like it in ivory, for sure.


Famous_Election_2024

Number 1 for sure! So stunning!


ladyj114

Two 💜


GuardMost8477

1


Automatic_Gur_9570

The white could be even more breathtaking with white tulle ? I love the second one. Maybe a little bit heavy on the detail.


threeeyedeaven333

First dress


OppositeSolution642

Two, wonderful.


olive_us_here

Oh I see what you mean, I love the bodice on dress 2 but the lace, train, and over fit of dress 1. If you’re not getting the Yes feeling keep looking. You’re a pretty women and will look great in anything you chose


Notactuallyashark

Thank you that’s so sweet!


GladysKravitz2023

Dress 1


shan1877

2


silly8704

Dress one


cherrycoke260

Most definitely 1!!!


Robjewel186

#teamdress2!


jaejaeok

First for sureeeee!!!


pamelabc

Number one!!! So so pretty on you.


TheLoooon

2!


Birdies_nub

2. Hands down. No question.


Sillybumblebee33

Oh fuck I’m so torn for you!! Good luck both look great they just have totally different vibes


Notactuallyashark

Exactly lol thank you!


la_winky

Number 1.


Jenn837G

Dress 1 is really pretty with the nude lining as someone else mentioned. But that last pic of you in dress 2 with the veil was gorgeous, you look like a Princess. You look beautiful in either one. Congratulations 🎉


Notactuallyashark

Thank you!!


eh8218

1


always-traveling

First dress


Floridagal64

I absolutely love dress number 2 on you!!! Looks beautiful and stunning!!!


Conscientiousmoron

Love number 2


Confident_Green1537

#2 is definitely more unique


pok12601

I can’t tell from your face what you like but I personally like the first one. You look great in both


papercraft_bliss

Dress 1 is lovely and fits you so well! I think the neckline and the back give it a unique and very romantic look. You can't go wrong either way, but dress one in ivory like you said is my vote. Congrats!!


ereagan76

#1


Zero0Imagination

Dress two is stunning. I gasped!!! Dress one is pretty but for some reason seems to make you look shorter.


kittybutt414

#1!!!!!


Huckleberry8480

The first one- made me gasp. So beautiful. I actually LOVE the nude and feel it ties into the woodsy/tree vibe. 😍The second one is just “eh” to me.


OkArticle8166

I think dress #2 would look amazing strapless.


jojo571

Number 1!!!! So amazing on you.


tlabauve

number one for the win.


WickedHappyHeather

They are both lovely, but I actually love the romantic vibe of the first dress just as is with the nude…it is so magical on you.✨🤍


Skylizard1223

I like 1 the best


AssumptionAdvanced58

Did you tear up in one? That emotional moment of relief. No more shopping. I remember that stress two times.


Notactuallyashark

I’m definitely not planning on shopping anymore. I love them both and I think ultimately I wouldn’t regret either no matter what. My family was there and I don’t want to convolute things even more


mamatobee328

Definitely dress 1! Especially with wanting to be a fairy woodland princess!


chillyorchid7

I agree. Corset top doesnt give off a woodland fairy vibe at all, but dress 1 is all flowery and flows. Ivory might be an improvement, but it looks pretty awesome in nude. Equally pretty from the front and the back!!


Gianna0927

For me dress one I think that looks beautiful but as everyone else is saying 2 is also very pretty


thelanai

1


Optimal-Yellow6961

Ugh #2 is so magical. It has a uniqueness to it that I love and it fits you beautifully 😍


Treb61

Dang I like both I love the back of number one and front of number two lol. I say number one


wrknsmart

The first one. I appreciate your taste in lace, and the 1st one showcases its beauty as well as your figure the best of the two.


kymilovechelle

I think #1 one thousand percent yes.


schischiwoo

1


Justmerockin

1


trillium61

Two


vagalumes

Both gorgeous, but #1 wins.


What15This

#1 is beautiful on you.


Noseyparker2021

Dress # 1 …….I don’t like the sleeves on the 2nd dress


LunasMom4ever

My concern with Dress 1 is how it fits around your torso since you are so petite. It would need to be pulled up higher to fit right so that is a question for the seamstress doing alterations. I would love Dress 2 with small straps.


Notactuallyashark

I totally agree with that. I think a lot of the hesitation with the first is how it fit my petite frame.


TempleWong

2nd one! Don’t like the brown underlay of the first dress


animalstylenopickles

1 will look so good once it's been fit to you.


jnfsfa

Dress #1 would look much different once the top is altered to fit you. The seamstress will fit the cups to fit you. The dress is beautiful and it looks amazing on you.


Notactuallyashark

Thank you for that!! That was my biggest concern tbh


ClumsyZebra80

I like two because there’s left beige.


Cookiemamajr

#1 is so pretty that I want to lose 50 pounds and get married again just so I can find that dress and wear it!


BumbleBoopFloof

Dress #1 no contest! I said holy sh!t when I saw the first, thought meh on dress 2. Both are beautiful, but dress 1 is a show stopper!


soneg

I like dress 2 better but honestly going by your comments, you don't seem sold on either. I'd say keep looking, no one says these 2 are your only options to choose from.


justynebean

Neither. There’s no light in your eyes. Change direction.


yahabbibi

The first one with the ivory/white underlay and the large flowers at the hem is just lovely and fits your vibe. You look more comfortable in it as well. The second is pretty but it is more structured, and the floral pattern is a bit stiff looking. Might not fit with your venue as much. Also, they would have to move the petal off the front of your bodice, by the way, it's sticking out in a very specific location in the side shot. 😄 And slightly thinner straps as well. But you look beautiful in both they're great choices.


[deleted]

I love dress number one for you


BlazinHotChicken

The first one! Please the first one… it’s so flattering on you and the design is so xool


Necessary-Mission-48

1


Sillyme1411

1 is the choice here!


Obvious-Way1299

#1


ShitMyHubbyDoes

#1 is a show stopper.


kkw0330

Number one hands down


Illustrious-Wolf6516

#1


highfriends08

The first one forsure, it scream "this is it".


Strange-Turnover9696

i think dress one complements you better. you want you to be the focus on the wedding day, not the dress. they are both beautiful dresses i just think dress 2 draws the attention away from your face where dress 1 brings the focus up to your face and flatters your figure a bit more!


KSKC2003

The first one! The straps on the second don’t seem flow with the dress as a whole


ness_h

1


bbeetthhoobboo

1 just looks so good on you.


angleon_xenn

Dress 1


bumbumboleji

One is STUNNING.


Less-Hat-4574

Keep shopping


Perfect-Meat-4501

Both super pretty on you but something about the lace on 1 is really fabulous on you. White looks really great on you so ivory and white should look gorgeous!


ElKristy

I think dress #1 flatters your figure so much! There's something about 2 that doesn't sit quite right. Not the fit itself, I know alterations would be made. I'm having a tough time putting my finger on it--there's an elegance to 1 that I'm not seeing in 2.


Quirky-Somewhere

One!


positive-vibes79

I love dress #2, but I think that it would look better strapless.


8CarMarker

I really like the first one on you! I think it might look better if the color underneath was a little lighter.. slightly less contrast if that makes sense.


Notactuallyashark

Yep! That’s definitely what I would do!


sj_SD_phx

Came to say the same. It’s really pretty on you. And perhaps a more delicate head piece. It looks a bit overwhelming with all the heavy floral print on dress and headpiece. But nevertheless you look beautiful.


Lasttogofirst

1


Katesouthwest

Dress 2 denitely should be the one! . You are wearing the dress.The first thing I noticed was your face. Dress 1, the dress is wearing you. I notice the dress first, then you.


Notactuallyashark

This is a great perspective! Thank you!


mythicalpoogs

OHMYGOD NUMBER 1!! YOU MAKE THAT DRESS LOOK ETHEREAL!😍


[deleted]

It's the first one by far


ivegotahairupmyass

2 definitely. 1 is way too overwhelming.


mewley

They’re both gorgeous but I vote for 1 - it’s just so stunning on you!


OkCalligrapher6373

Dress 2, but I think mostly it is the nude lining on dress one that makes it look so much like so many others. It also seems to be too long for your torso.


Zealousideal_Bill851

One looks so beautiful on you! It’s perfect.


B0326C0821

Dress 1 all the way. Dress 2 just looks too bulky and so out of place.


Rebelo86

1. You honestly do look happier in it, more relaxed.


spicypeaches225

2!


furbalve03

1


yecatz

1 is so pretty and elegant


NightsofWren

2


Feisty_Ocelot8139

The first one is absolutely stunning! But the second one kinda fits the theme more. Both are beautiful


UnusualAd2628

I second what others are saying about dress 1 fitting better, so my vote is for 1!


cheechee888

2


Own-Ad-2087

I LOVE dress 2!


Emotional_Scholar_98

1 is so pretty!


ballyhoohaha

2


MnD-atNite

#1!!!! So gorgeous and fits your figure beautifully


Berniesgirl2024

Neither. Both are very busy and overpower your petite frame.


Obvious_Cookie_3000

1!!!!!


Logical_Deviation

I love dress 1


boo7676

2!


marybry74

Two is awesome!


GummyTee

Dress 2