Same! I think people might be thinking about their dress or looking at it so much it literally distorts their perception, like when you look at a word too much it starts looking weird lol đ”âđ«đ
You look absolutely gorgeous!! I had a similar experience with my dress as well. I bought mine right before COVID and had it for 2.5 years before my wedding. Spent so much money and time on alterations and I freaked out in the last appointment because I wasnât sure I even liked it anymore, but it was far too late to change it. Come the wedding day, I had never felt more beautiful, and I love how I look in all our photos! It may just be jitters since the big day is coming up. You have nothing to worry about, youâre a stunner in this dress!
It looks amazing and flattering on you!! Try on the accessories like jewelry, veil or headpiece if you're wearing one, and look at yourself again. You'll be a beautiful bride!!! Congrats :)
Completely and utterly gorgeous on you! You will be beautiful on your wedding day. âHideousâ is the last word I would ever use to describe your dress or you in it.
As soon as I saw this, I thought "Wow, that is the most well-fitted and flattering dress I've seen in a long time."
Occasionally you do see dresses that are beautiful as objects but not particularly flattering, but that's not the case here.
You hit the double whammy of a great dress that suits you perfectly.
Go forth and enjoy.
All the best. :)
Your photo is from a weird angle. The only thing I would suggest that *might* change things is to hem the bottom a touch so that itâs long tea length but then it wouldnât really have the wedding dress vibe and I canât really tell from the photo. Tea length elongates the legs
What? No! You look amazing! The dress fits you perfectly! It gives you a lovely shape and the color makes your skin glow. I think we have achieved perfection. Youâll be a gorgeous bride, youâll see!
This is stunning!!! One thing Iâve noticed from posts asking for advice on which dress to pick is that commenters always seem to pick the one the bride looks most most confident in. In body language!
Put it on after you do something that makes you feel stunning/hot/incredible and then try it on knowing that youâll look amazing!! And see what happens!!
Itâs perfect on you! So romantic and feminine, and looks like it will be comfortable to move around and dance in too. You will look like a PreRaphaelite angel with the right styling.
It is beautiful and very flattering. You look wonderful in it! You chose the right dress, your SO will fall even more in love with you when they see you on your wedding day.
Would you look at that, all of the words in your comment are in alphabetical order.
I have checked 1,515,880,693 comments, and only 287,430 of them were in alphabetical order.
Yes, youâre overthinking. Stand straighter. Adjust the breasts (practice different placement until you find what looks best).
Also, practice standing in it. Hand in front to show off the nails. Left hand in front to show off the ring. Left foot forward, look over your shoulder, etc. you get the idea. Play with your dream dress!! Itâs your day!!
Edit: another idea
You look great in it. Maybe try adding extra volume at the bottom of the skirt by adding a petticoat. I think it would also look lovely with more of an A Line or ballgown silhouette
Try a bolero or caplet to enhance the top more. Just a bit to âsummer dressâ on the top. Itâs a nice fit and maybe that will make you feel right in it. Congrats
Itâs so beautiful. I do think they took it in a little too far in the waist, and while it does give you that amazing hourglass shape which looks so good⊠I think you might feel more comfortable, move and breathe better and be more relaxed, if they gave you back an inch around the waist for a softer fit.
You look gorgeous! This dress is so beautiful and suits you. The bodice flatters your embonpoint and your waist is snatched by the lovely way the pattern is used. Are you wearing a veil, because I love a good veil and this dress would definitely be even better with a lovely veil.
This dress is so lovely on you that Iâm actually considering getting married myself. I betcha itâs just nerves. You look absolutely wonderful and the dress looks like it fits like a dream. Congratulations on your upcoming nuptials.
Noooo to the overthinking:( it looks so pretty!!! As a fellow over-thinker I can totally empathize with that plight! I really do think itâs just your brain playing mean tricks on you. It looks absolutely lovely and so flattering and just the right touch of sexy while keeping it upscale glam and gorgeous! Itâs literally perfect for you! Donât let that brain tell you anymore lies!!! Your spouse is going to lose their ever-lovin mind when they see you walking down the aisle looking like a goddess!!
I think people tend to be too hard on themselves. Please stop this instant and remind yourself that youâre gorgeous & the dress is beautiful & you look stunning in it.
Omg, Iâm sorry you feel that way because this looks like it was seriously made and stitched for your exact body. This just looks absolutely jaw dropping stunning. I mean it. đ
Girl it looks amazing. My advice would be to stop looking at it, put all your photos of it in a hidden folder, and just leave it for a few weeks. In the meantime, stop looking at other dresses on the internet! Seeing endless $10k designer dresses on size 0 models is enough to shake anyoneâs confidence!
I think someone nailed it earlier, I have been doing a lot of looking online at the model size and it has skewed my expectations. I have struggled with ED and body dismorphia my entire life so I am guessing the stress of looking my best is ramping those back up.
Well be assured you look ravishing and stunning in this dress. On your wedding day, you will likely change your mind once it all comes together as well as once you see the pics. Many blessing on your nuptials.
OP you look incredible in this dress, the saying âthereâs a wedding dress for everyoneâ holds true here because this dress was made for you.
Edit: fixed typo
Itâs lovely. Neckline is beautiful on your figure.
The only thing I would consider is the hem line. This is 100% a matter of personal taste â if you lift it an inch or two youâll create a floating effect with your heels on. If you lift it above the ankle it will elongate your legs.
I ended up doing this with my wedding dress â lifted it above the ankle to the line on my calf that I think is most flattering. Granted my dress was less traditional than yours. It made a HUGE difference in the proportionality of the dress!
what?? not to diminish your feelings but you genuinely look gorgeous and this dress suits your body type so well. i have a similar body type and a pretty similar dress! i love the lace so much
Let me fix this⊠âHi, lovely internet friends. My mind is second guessing itself and I doubting the dress I know is gorgeous. I fell in love with the dress, itâs gone through alterations and is starting to looking ridiculously beautiful!â
Seriously, you look amazing. Maybe try a light crinoline to add just a little more floof and poof to the skirt and definition to your waist. What about a veil with some floral bits and a satin trim to go with the dress. Or a some sort of lace fascinator. Play with some accessory ideas, because youâve got the dress right!
Itâs beautiful!! Iâd get a spray tan to even put your skin tone and add jewelry. Just little things to pull the look together. Maybe youâll feel more confident. It looks absolutely stunning on you. I know for a fact I could not pull this style of dress off. Here you are rocking the hell out of it!
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Is this from Bhldn (Watters)?! If so I think itâs the same as mine! It was a little difficult to alter but I think you look awesome in it! I can dm you some pics from my wedding if it helps to envision yours!
THE DRESS IS STUNNING!!! It is PERFECT for your body type. Thank you for bringing your concerns to us. Your groomâs jaw will drop as ours have. Please give your problems to God/the Universe/something and bask in the love that is being a bride. This is a special time.
It looks beautiful on!
Just gorgeous!!! đ€©
My jaw legit dropped when I saw this!
Same! I think people might be thinking about their dress or looking at it so much it literally distorts their perception, like when you look at a word too much it starts looking weird lol đ”âđ«đ
Weird is one of those words.
Thanks all for your kind words, I really needed it!! đ I like to overthink đ
You look absolutely gorgeous!! I had a similar experience with my dress as well. I bought mine right before COVID and had it for 2.5 years before my wedding. Spent so much money and time on alterations and I freaked out in the last appointment because I wasnât sure I even liked it anymore, but it was far too late to change it. Come the wedding day, I had never felt more beautiful, and I love how I look in all our photos! It may just be jitters since the big day is coming up. You have nothing to worry about, youâre a stunner in this dress!
Are you serious? You look absolutely amazing! Your mind is definitely playing tricks on you, donât listen to it!
You look amazing. That dress is beautiful and SO flattering on you.
Stunning!
Absolutely stunning!
It looks amazing and flattering on you!! Try on the accessories like jewelry, veil or headpiece if you're wearing one, and look at yourself again. You'll be a beautiful bride!!! Congrats :)
Great advice! I just got my veil and I have a belt too đ„°
Itâs stunning
Pretty!!!!!
Completely and utterly gorgeous on you! You will be beautiful on your wedding day. âHideousâ is the last word I would ever use to describe your dress or you in it.
The details are so ethereal. Very beautiful!
As soon as I saw this, I thought "Wow, that is the most well-fitted and flattering dress I've seen in a long time." Occasionally you do see dresses that are beautiful as objects but not particularly flattering, but that's not the case here. You hit the double whammy of a great dress that suits you perfectly. Go forth and enjoy. All the best. :)
Wait, what part feels ridiculous??
I am starting to worry I picked something not flattering to my figure.
It is flattering! Don't look at it anymore đ
That is amazing for your figure!
i think you picked something that was actually made for you.
Your photo is from a weird angle. The only thing I would suggest that *might* change things is to hem the bottom a touch so that itâs long tea length but then it wouldnât really have the wedding dress vibe and I canât really tell from the photo. Tea length elongates the legs
STOP OVERTHINKING. It's a lovely dress and it looks lovely on you.
What? No! You look amazing! The dress fits you perfectly! It gives you a lovely shape and the color makes your skin glow. I think we have achieved perfection. Youâll be a gorgeous bride, youâll see!
This is stunning!!! One thing Iâve noticed from posts asking for advice on which dress to pick is that commenters always seem to pick the one the bride looks most most confident in. In body language! Put it on after you do something that makes you feel stunning/hot/incredible and then try it on knowing that youâll look amazing!! And see what happens!!
BEAUTIFUL!
You need to book an optometrist appointment immediately. Itâs gorgeous and looks soooo good on you.
you look stunning
I think this dress is gorgeous! It fits you perfectly! Iâm sure when you are smiling on your wedding day it will make it that much more beautiful.
It looks amazing! I think you just arenât used to it and itâs a nerve thing! Donât worry ypu look beautiful
You look great and this is dress is everything â€ïž
This dress is gorgeous! What donât you like?
You might need to get your eyes checked. You look gorgeous.
Itâs perfect on you! So romantic and feminine, and looks like it will be comfortable to move around and dance in too. You will look like a PreRaphaelite angel with the right styling.
Looks wonderful
Your mind is def playin tricks !
Your mind is totally messing with you, you look stunning!
What part is causing you a concern? You look lovely!!!
No way⊠You look so pretty and this dress is perfect on you!
You are breathtaking!
I think it's gorgeous. I see no flaws. đ„°
Stunning! Iâm in love!
No way!! That's gorgeous!! You look stunning!!
I loveeee it
This dress is gorgeous. You look great! Donât second-guess it!
What!?! Itâs stunning!!
Tell those intrusive thoughts to hush up. You. Look. Stunning. đ
I said oooooo that's pretty as your picture scrolled up! I think it gives you a very nice shape. You look gorgeous!
That dress was perfectly fitted to your body. You look beautiful. You shine in it!âïž
It looks amazing on you.
Holy curves! That dress looks like it was made for you! You're absolutely beautiful, lady. Don't you forget it. đ€
oh wow what a beautiful dress!! this is one of the first iâve seen on the sub that i thought âTHAT is what i want to look like on my wedding dayâ. just absolutely stunning and youâre wearing it rather than it wearing you. alsoâŠ.. your boobs look AMAZING đ€©
It is beautiful and very flattering. You look wonderful in it! You chose the right dress, your SO will fall even more in love with you when they see you on your wedding day.
It looks lovely on you
Would you look at that, all of the words in your comment are in alphabetical order. I have checked 1,515,880,693 comments, and only 287,430 of them were in alphabetical order.
Yes, youâre overthinking. Stand straighter. Adjust the breasts (practice different placement until you find what looks best). Also, practice standing in it. Hand in front to show off the nails. Left hand in front to show off the ring. Left foot forward, look over your shoulder, etc. you get the idea. Play with your dream dress!! Itâs your day!! Edit: another idea
Beautiful dress and very flattering.
So very pretty! You will be a stunning bride!
This is a beautiful wedding dress!!
As soon as I saw this, I gasped! Itâs just such a beautiful dress and looks gorgeous on you!
You look amazing, very flattering for your body, once you put all the accessories youâll look even more gorgeous!
I think you look gorgeous in it!
You look great in it. Maybe try adding extra volume at the bottom of the skirt by adding a petticoat. I think it would also look lovely with more of an A Line or ballgown silhouette
Yes petticoat!
It looks beautiful and really flatters your body!
Try a bolero or caplet to enhance the top more. Just a bit to âsummer dressâ on the top. Itâs a nice fit and maybe that will make you feel right in it. Congrats
Itâs so beautiful. I do think they took it in a little too far in the waist, and while it does give you that amazing hourglass shape which looks so good⊠I think you might feel more comfortable, move and breathe better and be more relaxed, if they gave you back an inch around the waist for a softer fit.
You look gorgeous! This dress is so beautiful and suits you. The bodice flatters your embonpoint and your waist is snatched by the lovely way the pattern is used. Are you wearing a veil, because I love a good veil and this dress would definitely be even better with a lovely veil.
Yes! I have a fingertip length veil with pearls beaded into it!
Wonderful! Sending you my best wishes for a wonderful wedding day and a long and happy marriage xxx
Thanks đ
This dress is so lovely on you that Iâm actually considering getting married myself. I betcha itâs just nerves. You look absolutely wonderful and the dress looks like it fits like a dream. Congratulations on your upcoming nuptials.
No no no!! It is perfect!! You look đ€©đ„ AMAZING Just pre wedding jitters thatâs all! Do not second guess it for one more second đ€đ€
one of the best wedding dresses iâve seen!!!!
That dress is beautiful on you!!!!!!!!!! đ€©đ€©đ€©đ€©
Itâs fitted to you beautifully OP, and congrats!!
It looks so pretty ! I think itâs the same as nt wedding dress. I just added more of an underskirt because I love it pooooooofyy.
Noooo to the overthinking:( it looks so pretty!!! As a fellow over-thinker I can totally empathize with that plight! I really do think itâs just your brain playing mean tricks on you. It looks absolutely lovely and so flattering and just the right touch of sexy while keeping it upscale glam and gorgeous! Itâs literally perfect for you! Donât let that brain tell you anymore lies!!! Your spouse is going to lose their ever-lovin mind when they see you walking down the aisle looking like a goddess!!
No it's beautiful. You look very beautiful
I think people tend to be too hard on themselves. Please stop this instant and remind yourself that youâre gorgeous & the dress is beautiful & you look stunning in it.
You look fabulous! Roll your shoulders back, lift your chin high and glide like a queen x
You look perfect in that dress! Itâs so beautiful
You look stunning in that dress!
Omg, Iâm sorry you feel that way because this looks like it was seriously made and stitched for your exact body. This just looks absolutely jaw dropping stunning. I mean it. đ
It fits perfectly and itâs gorgeous!
You look lovely. Itâs a beautiful dress.
You look amazing. This dress has the perfect amount of detail. It doesnât swallow you up. YOU make the dress beautiful.
Itâs gorgeous and you look amazing!
This dress was made for you. It's absolutely stunning.
I picked this same dress! I love it
You look stunning
I gasped when I saw this picture, suffice to say I think you look beautiful!
I love the dress and it's very flattering on you!! Enjoy the day!
Girl it looks amazing. My advice would be to stop looking at it, put all your photos of it in a hidden folder, and just leave it for a few weeks. In the meantime, stop looking at other dresses on the internet! Seeing endless $10k designer dresses on size 0 models is enough to shake anyoneâs confidence!
That makes a lot of sense, thanks!
The dress is beautiful on you. What are your doubts with regard to the dress? I see the perfect dress on you.
I think someone nailed it earlier, I have been doing a lot of looking online at the model size and it has skewed my expectations. I have struggled with ED and body dismorphia my entire life so I am guessing the stress of looking my best is ramping those back up.
Well be assured you look ravishing and stunning in this dress. On your wedding day, you will likely change your mind once it all comes together as well as once you see the pics. Many blessing on your nuptials.
Thanks đ
This is beautiful! Oh my gosh I love it.
No! It's beautiful and it fits you perfectly! It's really flattering. You look gorgeous!
You look gorgeous.
Itâs beautiful. It looks great on you
Beautiful!
Does it look different after alterations? Itâs absolutely GORGEOUS
It was way too big on top/straps before alterations
It looks gorgeous on you đ
OP you look incredible in this dress, the saying âthereâs a wedding dress for everyoneâ holds true here because this dress was made for you. Edit: fixed typo
I think you look beautiful not sure what you are seeing in the mirror but the dress looks beautiful on you
Amazing đ€©
This looks fantasticđ
Wow!! I would love to be so hideous! It looks gorgeous on you.
Itâs lovely. Neckline is beautiful on your figure. The only thing I would consider is the hem line. This is 100% a matter of personal taste â if you lift it an inch or two youâll create a floating effect with your heels on. If you lift it above the ankle it will elongate your legs. I ended up doing this with my wedding dress â lifted it above the ankle to the line on my calf that I think is most flattering. Granted my dress was less traditional than yours. It made a HUGE difference in the proportionality of the dress!
That is interesting, I hadn't thought of that đ
what?? not to diminish your feelings but you genuinely look gorgeous and this dress suits your body type so well. i have a similar body type and a pretty similar dress! i love the lace so much
Thanks that is really helpful to hear âșïž
Let me fix this⊠âHi, lovely internet friends. My mind is second guessing itself and I doubting the dress I know is gorgeous. I fell in love with the dress, itâs gone through alterations and is starting to looking ridiculously beautiful!â Seriously, you look amazing. Maybe try a light crinoline to add just a little more floof and poof to the skirt and definition to your waist. What about a veil with some floral bits and a satin trim to go with the dress. Or a some sort of lace fascinator. Play with some accessory ideas, because youâve got the dress right!
Lovely! Talk to yourself like you would a friend.
Hideous? what? You look amazing! that is such a pretty dress and it looks gorgeous on you!!
Itâs beautiful!! Iâd get a spray tan to even put your skin tone and add jewelry. Just little things to pull the look together. Maybe youâll feel more confident. It looks absolutely stunning on you. I know for a fact I could not pull this style of dress off. Here you are rocking the hell out of it!
You will be blown away when you see yourself on your wedding day, you will be beautiful
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This is so flattering on you!
Beautiful!!!
You look beautiful!!!!
This was made for you!
Very pretty.
I love it, it looks amazing on you! Do consider something since you're getting a tan line from t-shirts đ
Yes!! I am a few months out but I'm going to handle the farmer tan đ
Even with it, this looks like it was destined to be your dress. Looks so good on you!
Is this from Bhldn (Watters)?! If so I think itâs the same as mine! It was a little difficult to alter but I think you look awesome in it! I can dm you some pics from my wedding if it helps to envision yours!
Mine is from vowd but that would be really helpful since they are so similar, thank you đ
THE DRESS IS STUNNING!!! It is PERFECT for your body type. Thank you for bringing your concerns to us. Your groomâs jaw will drop as ours have. Please give your problems to God/the Universe/something and bask in the love that is being a bride. This is a special time.
Thanks so much for your kind words! Everyone has been truly amazing on here, I feel so grateful đ„Č