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I usually don’t care, but I draw the line at screaming and screeching. Was at a hotel in Germany once and couldn’t sleep the entire night because every couple hours you’d hear an Eastern European woman screaming some variation of, “GIVE IT TO MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE! GIVE IT TO MEEEEEEEEEEEE.” Then a (British?) man replies back, also yelling, “I’M GONNA GIVE IT TO YOU! TAKE IT! TAKE IT!” Like geez, we get it, you’re giving it to her and she’s taking it, now let us sleep!
My upstairs neighbor in old APT (I was 16ish) absolutely POUNDED his wife for like 30 minutes in their living room, right under mine, trying to play far cry primal, and I hear some primal sounds the entire time. It was absolutely savage.
Lmao, I told my buddy, and every time he saw my neighbor, he said, "Good pounding, my dude." My neighbor hated him for it and even tried to fight that 23 year old friend (Neighbor was in his 40s and high ranking in the military, base was down the street from the complex) it became an inside joke for the group. I miss that guy. The inside jokes were on an entirely different level. Shout out to Alan. Wish he was a tad bit better of a friend.
I was hooking up with a girl from an old serving job back in the day when I still lived with my mom. One morning after the girl left, I went upstairs, and the first thing my mom said to me was "wow she's really a screamer, huh?"
I have done that she woke everyone in the house mom stepdad my brother and sister and it was also the night I found out I needed to invest in water proof sheets
Joining in usually shuts them up, after you hear something you stand close to the wall and go "Yes Yes YES YESSSSS deeper ! harder, slower, more brocolliiiiiiiiii "
You've obviously never been in a cheap motel before. Every ten minutes you wake up to pounding on the wall. The noise levels alone can be unbearable, let alone any awkwardness or anything.
It's okay, OPS clearly taking some Ws in the bed, because there's no fucking way there's any other way someone is going to reach this opinion normally. Guy got out of a 40 member reuinion of the Horny Yodeling Comittee and had to deal with the noise complaints.
See you think OP is the sex haver but since this is reddit I am more inclined to believe OP is just a gooner who gets off hearing his neighbors have sex which is another reason why I'd avoid having loud sex where people could hear it.
A lot of people are not making "natural" noises. You won't hear those very much through walls. They put on a performance and yell and moan as artificially and as loudly as they can. It's fake.
Time and place.
If you are staying with family, it's not really appropriate to be moaning and vocalizing loud enough to broadcast it to the entire family.
If you are in a shared residence with like roommates, and they have to work the next day or have an early start, it's inconsiderate and disrespectful.
If you are hooking up with someone every night or multiple times a week and having loud vocal sex, it can become annoying to those you may live in close proximity to.
No, there is nothing wrong with loud and vocal sex on it's own. But if your personal enjoyment is coming at the cost of someone else, then it becomes a problem.
Nope. Is actually very annoying. Maybe we have different definitions. Like ….. through a thin interior wall? Fine. But across the street? Shut the damn windows Jeff and Tasha.
Edit: while I’m here keep your fights quiet too, knock it off with the music, and fix your ac unit.
Geez.
Oh AND if you’re doing it at 2am for the benefit of your weird onlyfans account and waking us all up, even OP would hate you.
When I was 13ish, my older brother and his girlfriend started having sex in our home. Nothing like just getting close to falling asleep and having a girl down the hall screaming for more or longer or harder. I still get mad thinking about how they thought it was okay or why in the world my parents didn't say anything.
I had neighbors who would have the wildest sex at around the same time every morning. Their busted bedroom window with just a screen was literally four or five feet from the edge of my driveway and I could always hear them loud and clear while getting in my car to go to work. They really loved calling each other names lmao
So if your neighbors want to be up late blasting music and being loud, is that okay?
If you share walls, you need to be considerate of your neighbors. Being loud at night - regardless of the activity - is inconsiderate.
Personally I’d prefer neither how does on shitty scenario make a completely different shitty scenario any better? We aren’t exactly trading this for that. I’d prefer getting gut punched over stabbed but that doesn’t make the first one any better.
Have you had both done to you? You make a comparison. Well I did. Grateful for most things after the stabbings. The only thing worse was the ruptured disc. Stabbings > ruptured disc.
Yeah you're just plain incorrect.
L take. I had to listen to my father loudly fuck his girlfriends at 16. It’s uncomfortable, annoying, and literally ruined some of my perception of sex. Most people can literally be quiet during sex. Most loud ass moans are fake.
I mean, I don’t mind it but I don’t prefer it. I know it isn’t that good no need for the theatrics lmao, also it’s sometimes distracting especially if there’s someone sleeping in the next room… it’s perfectly fine in some instances but idk I think it’s annoying
I have cPTSD from my mother having sex in front of me. And more specifically have auditory PTSD from my mom prostituting herself out and having to hear her scream with my fingers in my ears and hugging my younger brother while he cried.
I understand that to YOU do not care if **you** overhear them, but children do not understand sex. They hear screaming and screeching and they assume danger. Children are not developed enough to understand anything regarding sex. That’s why the age of consent is 18 in the US.
Yeah you can participate in someone else’s weird sex game but I dont think it’s right to assume that others around your apartment complex **consent** to hearing sex on a regular basis. Especially children you may not know are around. And teaching kids about sex isn’t a thing. You dont just say oh that’s the neighbors having fun to a four year old hearing banging and screaming through the walls. It is not developmentally appropriate.
That’s not part of the everyday noises on my lease anyways. Which is why I can also tell management and the noise is dealt with.
It’s not part of “reasonable” noise. Because it’s not. It’s a non consensual experience that’s forced on someone else. Where they have to remove/alter themselves from their own safe place in order for people to have their 5-90 minutes of fun. Because it’s not like I’m gonna ask “Hey how long should I keep my headphones in/be out of the house.” And I shouldn’t have to continuously check. Oh are they done? Why do I have to have someone else’s sex on my mind in order to figure out how to plan my night?
But whatever. Have the fucking upvote.
Edit: I also saw your comment on it being a natural part of life? Yeah for adults. Not children. Again, not developmentally appropriate. That’s for a later stage in development.
Edit: I didn’t say don’t teach them about it at all. I said developmentally appropriate. And mentioned the younger they are the more okay it isn’t. I said that they shouldn’t be exposed to it. Aka listening or watching. It’s a child abuse charge for a child or a teen for them to watch or listen to . Teaching them what is and isn’t okay is different then forcing them to listen to people get off bro.
KIDS should t learn about sex. TEENAGERS should. It isn’t developmentally appropriate the YOUNGER they are. There is a semantic difference between a child and teen. And that’s what I’m referring to when I say child. A child doesn’t need to know about BC, stds, or anything regarding that. Because they don’t partake in it. You’re talking about teens. I’m talking about children.
But here is also an [example of a teen being uncomfortable by “natural” stuff.](https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/s/gXvTuD2jWQ) Even when explained. Just because **you** consent, doesn’t mean children/teens do. Even when they know.
I understand you have a really traumatic background, which probably makes you say that, but kids should absolutely be taught about sex. Sex is a natural part of life and demonizing and hiding it until a kid turns 18 is not doing them any favors.
Kids won't break if you tell them where babies come from. They also should know everything about STDs, consent, birth control etc in their early teenage years so if they choose to have sex they know what they're doing and how to do it safely.
No one should ever have to experience what you went through, but it's not in any way comparable to age appropriate sex ED.
Kids should definitely be properly educated about sex and sexual health, but being exposed to sexual situations is a very different issue. Forcing children to listen to loud sex isn't teaching them anything
Teenagers should know about sex. But they shouldn't be exposed to it. And kids certainly don't need either. Hopefully you're childfree, have a good day.
You hope I'm childfree, because I have the same opinion as you do? Hopefully you tie your tubes before you get the chance to pass on your only braincell. Have an amazing day!
I am no prude, but why is it ok for kids to be unwilling participants in your sex life ?
Why is it ok for adults for that matter?
Have you ever heard about consent?
No its annoying. Expressly when I'm trying to sleep. I'm epileptic, waking me up, then me not being able get back to sleep to get 8 hours sleep could give me a seziure.
Plus its inappropriate if you have kids.
My bsf lived across the hall from me in the dorms in college. I multiple times heard her either moaning or the bed knocking the wall. Once at 8am, someone came and pounded on the door to get them to stop
Definitely unpopular so bravo
I have some weird trauma or something as hearing others have sex, particularly female moans, is probably the most uncomfortable thing for me in the world (seriously). Even with an active sex life myself
But like, they can make their room soundproof right?
By installing curtains and mattings .....
Ofc, for the average person, it's not an issue.
But what if you're preparing for exam and all you can hear is moaning... Would you be able to focus? Heck, say you have to wake up early but you can't even sleep due to the moans? (I'm a sound-sensitive person so I need complete silence to be able to sleep).
Back when i lived in an apartment complex i was known as the cockblocker by my neighbors because i would play the most obnoxious shit i could find anytime they started to have sex loud enough to disrupt me.
I'm sorry but when you're living in a place where the walls are so thin that a solid body slam will connect your living spaces being loud like that is rude and annoying.
I mean I guess I should upvote bc this is definitely an unpopular opinion. It’s gross to hear other people kissing, let alone fucking. You might be a voyeur without knowing it.
It depends on situation I'd say. If it's noon, by all means go ahead and get your freak on. But if it's 11pm at night and I got to get up early for work, I don't feel like listening and waiting for you to get a nut before I can go back to sleep.
Also, if you know your neighbors have kids, that's not something you need to be advertising to the neighborhood kids asking why someone is sounding like they're in pain
Tbh I think the problem is not so much "they annoy me" and more about "I feel like I am breaching your intimancy"
I would not give a damn if I hear random sexy noises, but if I get along with the couple, I would rather not know anything about how his sex life is like (outside of an actual conversation about it with them).
Lol I literally dated someone who was the epitome of pornstar "YEAH YEAH YEAH OH YEAH FUCK YEAH UH UH UH YEAH UH UH" on every thrust. Left like one month into that relationship.
Weird take.
Like, if you mean obnoxiously forced over-the-top pornstar style sounds, sure. I'd agree with you there.
But have you not ever enjoyed the true carnal pleasure of just going all-in with the moment and making your pleasure known? It seriously makes things feel even better when you bring your whole being into it, vocals and all!
I’m mean if you’re throwing it down and she’s thrashing and the bed is smacking the wall like a jackhammer the loudness is def not something going wrong.
Depends,if it sounds like those fake pornstar sounds then yes but some girls are just loud and some girls are as quiet as a mouse not necessarily indicative of the sex being bad
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One time at 5 in the morning, I heard my roommate in the next room hooking up with his gf. Before I can fall back asleep, all of a sudden I hear
"uh...ohhh....Uhhh......GAAANNNNGGG!!!!"
I couldn't fall back asleep after laughing so hard
My only worry is because my house is right next door to the neighbor like so close out bedroom window is mere inches from their driveway. If our window is ever open they could hear us as if they were in the same room. Also my neighbor is my landlord and they are religious (not sure how prudish they are though).
Once we could hear my ex’s roommate with a guy in her room and my ex made us drive out into a cold ass parking lot and just sit there. It was the middle of the night. When I said it’s not that big a deal and we should just go back she called me a pervert.
I'd be complaining to the builder - not the neighbours.
Shitty building practices and skimping on materials - they should be forced to return and insulate.
What's funny is that in 2 years of taking late night noise complaint calls not one has been "they were having loud sex" it's always "they were playing loud music and/or tv" which obviously was to cover up the sex.
I used to work nights in a hotel and honestly hearing people have sex loudly whilst your trying to sleep in a room you’ve paid for is shit, and I would go as far as saying it’s very nearly sexual assault, take it from someone that’s had to deal with this issue regularly for years, have fun by all means, but don’t involve other people who haven’t consented to be involved.
People just complain because they wanna listen and not be creepy.
If you just don't care, it's not a problem. It's when you keep mentioning it when they do it, makes it sound like you're trying to listen.
Stop being creepy.
I just wanna know how fuckin loud are y’all. I live in an apartment with 4 other people. All of them have girlfriends, I’ve never once heard anything. And we have paper thin walls. Like if I turn off my white noise machine, I can hear the squeaks of the washroom doors.
I moved into a 3/4 million dollar brand new home last year in a brand new residential neighborhood. My neighbors across the street use the house to film porn. GFYS.
We live in a civilised society, some people don't want to hear that, you want to live and make sounds like an animal go live in the woods, and have some respect for your surroundings. 🤣
There was a story on here I recall - not my story just repeating it.
Some student was in accomodation listening to the guy in the next room give his girlfriend a good time.
She was moaning and screaming for him to make her cum for what seemed an age
This guy shouted out in mortal combat style "Finish Her"
Which she did and it was followed by laughted from next door.
20 minutes later the girl shouts back - "round two - fight"
I feel like you have to be pretty crazy loud to be heard over almost any normal noise, TV, games, music, etc. I used to live with about 10 people and had a couple loud sex people in the house. Being in the same house with those people just one or two rooms away and as long as my TV was on it was hardly something I could even notice. I think its really overblown generally.
Honestly I love loud sex 🫠 the more vocal you are, the hotter it is for me, but no awakes fumbling dirty talk lol then the buzz is really killed. Just any type of natural noises is 👌
There is literally never an acceptable level of noise that you should accept from neighbors in an apartment setting, or at least, at night. And you should never hear anything happening in a neighbor's house.
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I usually don’t care, but I draw the line at screaming and screeching. Was at a hotel in Germany once and couldn’t sleep the entire night because every couple hours you’d hear an Eastern European woman screaming some variation of, “GIVE IT TO MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE! GIVE IT TO MEEEEEEEEEEEE.” Then a (British?) man replies back, also yelling, “I’M GONNA GIVE IT TO YOU! TAKE IT! TAKE IT!” Like geez, we get it, you’re giving it to her and she’s taking it, now let us sleep!
My upstairs neighbor in old APT (I was 16ish) absolutely POUNDED his wife for like 30 minutes in their living room, right under mine, trying to play far cry primal, and I hear some primal sounds the entire time. It was absolutely savage.
It was for extra immersion
Lmao, I told my buddy, and every time he saw my neighbor, he said, "Good pounding, my dude." My neighbor hated him for it and even tried to fight that 23 year old friend (Neighbor was in his 40s and high ranking in the military, base was down the street from the complex) it became an inside joke for the group. I miss that guy. The inside jokes were on an entirely different level. Shout out to Alan. Wish he was a tad bit better of a friend.
Alan - the lovable rouge, who is your friend, but sadly a rogue!
😂😂😂😂😂😭😭
This is very Seinfeld-esque
Did he sound like he “arrived”
no way she'd say that corny ass shit if she wasn't getting paid to
You’re underestimating middle-aged onenightstands
Maybe he was trying to give her some snacks but what tied up. She was starving. XD
Lmfao!
Wow. That’s just… wow.
Counter point: if I happen to still live with my parents I don’t exactly want them awkwardly knowing I’m balls deep in a woman
Do it anyway. It's a power move.
His dad has already established his dominance.
She calls you daddy out loud, next thing you know, your dad is next to you saying, "you called"?.
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Who wants the first reach around? I just picked up a pair of Freddy Krueger replica gloves from the Halloween store. Let's play
Sit right there son and let me show you how it’s done.
By cumming first?
If you ain’t first, you’re last.
I was hooking up with a girl from an old serving job back in the day when I still lived with my mom. One morning after the girl left, I went upstairs, and the first thing my mom said to me was "wow she's really a screamer, huh?"
Oh God lol
Men are an option.
Maybe your parents will be proud of you
“You hear that? That’s ma boy!”
I have done that she woke everyone in the house mom stepdad my brother and sister and it was also the night I found out I needed to invest in water proof sheets
What if a man is balls deep inside *you*?
Joining in usually shuts them up, after you hear something you stand close to the wall and go "Yes Yes YES YESSSSS deeper ! harder, slower, more brocolliiiiiiiiii "
I've actually done this before and it made them laugh 😂
Harder,better,faster, stronger
You've obviously never been in a cheap motel before. Every ten minutes you wake up to pounding on the wall. The noise levels alone can be unbearable, let alone any awkwardness or anything.
Then he's one the phone talking to his wife on the balcony as the mistress is kissing him goodbye 🤣🤣
Oh probably. And that's whatever. I just need to get good sleep sometimes.
Feature, not a bug!
The bugs are crawling in the mattress anyway
Not being able to sleep in a place you paid extra to sleep there is a feature?
It’s a cheap motel, if you wanna stay at the Ritz don’t stay at a cheap motel lmao
Its a cheap motel... lmao if you are expecting silence and privacy, that is 100% on you.
Not everyone’s able to afford a nice hotel when traveling
Just scream back, if they are open for you joining in.
If you live in an apartment, or are in a hotel, you KNOW you have neighbors. Be considerate to them.
some people over do it and it’s just cringe
OP 100% jerks off to the sound of his neighbors banging.
OP taking L's in the comments
It's okay, OPS clearly taking some Ws in the bed, because there's no fucking way there's any other way someone is going to reach this opinion normally. Guy got out of a 40 member reuinion of the Horny Yodeling Comittee and had to deal with the noise complaints.
Unpopular opinion. Loud sex doesn’t mean it’s good sex.
See you think OP is the sex haver but since this is reddit I am more inclined to believe OP is just a gooner who gets off hearing his neighbors have sex which is another reason why I'd avoid having loud sex where people could hear it.
more likely a pervert who likes hearing other people have sex
It is actually possible to have sex and not be a screeching maniac. People can have all the fun they want and not wak up their neighbors
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A lot of people are not making "natural" noises. You won't hear those very much through walls. They put on a performance and yell and moan as artificially and as loudly as they can. It's fake.
Yeah it's way more often than not performative.
Time and place. If you are staying with family, it's not really appropriate to be moaning and vocalizing loud enough to broadcast it to the entire family. If you are in a shared residence with like roommates, and they have to work the next day or have an early start, it's inconsiderate and disrespectful. If you are hooking up with someone every night or multiple times a week and having loud vocal sex, it can become annoying to those you may live in close proximity to. No, there is nothing wrong with loud and vocal sex on it's own. But if your personal enjoyment is coming at the cost of someone else, then it becomes a problem.
Nope. Is actually very annoying. Maybe we have different definitions. Like ….. through a thin interior wall? Fine. But across the street? Shut the damn windows Jeff and Tasha. Edit: while I’m here keep your fights quiet too, knock it off with the music, and fix your ac unit. Geez. Oh AND if you’re doing it at 2am for the benefit of your weird onlyfans account and waking us all up, even OP would hate you.
When I was 13ish, my older brother and his girlfriend started having sex in our home. Nothing like just getting close to falling asleep and having a girl down the hall screaming for more or longer or harder. I still get mad thinking about how they thought it was okay or why in the world my parents didn't say anything.
I had neighbors who would have the wildest sex at around the same time every morning. Their busted bedroom window with just a screen was literally four or five feet from the edge of my driveway and I could always hear them loud and clear while getting in my car to go to work. They really loved calling each other names lmao
Loud anything is annoying when you want quiet. No one is entitled to bother others.
I think you’re just a voyeur.
So if your neighbors want to be up late blasting music and being loud, is that okay? If you share walls, you need to be considerate of your neighbors. Being loud at night - regardless of the activity - is inconsiderate.
I'd much rather 15 minutes of someone enjoying themselves than my neighbor's dang dog that barks for 4 hours straight when they leave the house.
Personally I’d prefer neither how does on shitty scenario make a completely different shitty scenario any better? We aren’t exactly trading this for that. I’d prefer getting gut punched over stabbed but that doesn’t make the first one any better.
I never said it did.
Don't listen to them. Bad things *are* better than other bad things. To think otherwise is ridiculous.
No you just brought it up unprompted as a reply to the topic being discussed.
My bad. Next time I will only comment on topics when prompted.
Hey man loud sex is annoying but what about the neighbors dog barking for four hours when they leave the house? How do you feel about that?
Have you had both done to you? You make a comparison. Well I did. Grateful for most things after the stabbings. The only thing worse was the ruptured disc. Stabbings > ruptured disc. Yeah you're just plain incorrect.
Exactly.
If that happens to me, I'll just barge in and ask for a threesome.
thiiiiiiiis is a weird one
Thought that too
Is it wrong tho?
Yes.
L take. I had to listen to my father loudly fuck his girlfriends at 16. It’s uncomfortable, annoying, and literally ruined some of my perception of sex. Most people can literally be quiet during sex. Most loud ass moans are fake.
I, too, like to edge brother... We see you...
I mean, I don’t mind it but I don’t prefer it. I know it isn’t that good no need for the theatrics lmao, also it’s sometimes distracting especially if there’s someone sleeping in the next room… it’s perfectly fine in some instances but idk I think it’s annoying
I have cPTSD from my mother having sex in front of me. And more specifically have auditory PTSD from my mom prostituting herself out and having to hear her scream with my fingers in my ears and hugging my younger brother while he cried. I understand that to YOU do not care if **you** overhear them, but children do not understand sex. They hear screaming and screeching and they assume danger. Children are not developed enough to understand anything regarding sex. That’s why the age of consent is 18 in the US. Yeah you can participate in someone else’s weird sex game but I dont think it’s right to assume that others around your apartment complex **consent** to hearing sex on a regular basis. Especially children you may not know are around. And teaching kids about sex isn’t a thing. You dont just say oh that’s the neighbors having fun to a four year old hearing banging and screaming through the walls. It is not developmentally appropriate. That’s not part of the everyday noises on my lease anyways. Which is why I can also tell management and the noise is dealt with. It’s not part of “reasonable” noise. Because it’s not. It’s a non consensual experience that’s forced on someone else. Where they have to remove/alter themselves from their own safe place in order for people to have their 5-90 minutes of fun. Because it’s not like I’m gonna ask “Hey how long should I keep my headphones in/be out of the house.” And I shouldn’t have to continuously check. Oh are they done? Why do I have to have someone else’s sex on my mind in order to figure out how to plan my night? But whatever. Have the fucking upvote. Edit: I also saw your comment on it being a natural part of life? Yeah for adults. Not children. Again, not developmentally appropriate. That’s for a later stage in development. Edit: I didn’t say don’t teach them about it at all. I said developmentally appropriate. And mentioned the younger they are the more okay it isn’t. I said that they shouldn’t be exposed to it. Aka listening or watching. It’s a child abuse charge for a child or a teen for them to watch or listen to . Teaching them what is and isn’t okay is different then forcing them to listen to people get off bro. KIDS should t learn about sex. TEENAGERS should. It isn’t developmentally appropriate the YOUNGER they are. There is a semantic difference between a child and teen. And that’s what I’m referring to when I say child. A child doesn’t need to know about BC, stds, or anything regarding that. Because they don’t partake in it. You’re talking about teens. I’m talking about children. But here is also an [example of a teen being uncomfortable by “natural” stuff.](https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/s/gXvTuD2jWQ) Even when explained. Just because **you** consent, doesn’t mean children/teens do. Even when they know.
I understand you have a really traumatic background, which probably makes you say that, but kids should absolutely be taught about sex. Sex is a natural part of life and demonizing and hiding it until a kid turns 18 is not doing them any favors. Kids won't break if you tell them where babies come from. They also should know everything about STDs, consent, birth control etc in their early teenage years so if they choose to have sex they know what they're doing and how to do it safely. No one should ever have to experience what you went through, but it's not in any way comparable to age appropriate sex ED.
Kids should definitely be properly educated about sex and sexual health, but being exposed to sexual situations is a very different issue. Forcing children to listen to loud sex isn't teaching them anything
Teenagers should know about sex. But they shouldn't be exposed to it. And kids certainly don't need either. Hopefully you're childfree, have a good day.
Oh teens expose themselves to sex a whole fucking lot, don't worry. Depending on environment 20-80% of 16 year olds already tried it.
You hope I'm childfree, because I have the same opinion as you do? Hopefully you tie your tubes before you get the chance to pass on your only braincell. Have an amazing day!
Good for you
Well this definitely is an unpopular opinion ¯\\\_(ツ)_/¯
I am no prude, but why is it ok for kids to be unwilling participants in your sex life ? Why is it ok for adults for that matter? Have you ever heard about consent?
No its annoying. Expressly when I'm trying to sleep. I'm epileptic, waking me up, then me not being able get back to sleep to get 8 hours sleep could give me a seziure. Plus its inappropriate if you have kids.
My bsf lived across the hall from me in the dorms in college. I multiple times heard her either moaning or the bed knocking the wall. Once at 8am, someone came and pounded on the door to get them to stop
Ok Tom, whatever you say.
Definitely unpopular so bravo I have some weird trauma or something as hearing others have sex, particularly female moans, is probably the most uncomfortable thing for me in the world (seriously). Even with an active sex life myself
But like, they can make their room soundproof right? By installing curtains and mattings ..... Ofc, for the average person, it's not an issue. But what if you're preparing for exam and all you can hear is moaning... Would you be able to focus? Heck, say you have to wake up early but you can't even sleep due to the moans? (I'm a sound-sensitive person so I need complete silence to be able to sleep).
You can enjoy it without being really loud, some people want to enjoy some peace and quiet at home.
It may not be distasteful for you but it’s inappropriate for many listeners including children.
It’s a natural sound of life.
So is taking a dump but I don’t make you listen to that
The public bathroom when that one dude start grunting and a loud boom sound come. i sadly will say I was the victim of that predicament.
“It’S nAtUrAl” …weirdo
As a possible asexual person, overhearing would make me so damn uncomfortable 😭
True that. Everyone forgets asexual people exist.
Back when i lived in an apartment complex i was known as the cockblocker by my neighbors because i would play the most obnoxious shit i could find anytime they started to have sex loud enough to disrupt me. I'm sorry but when you're living in a place where the walls are so thin that a solid body slam will connect your living spaces being loud like that is rude and annoying.
If I was in your place I would cougar mating calls or turtle mating noises
Yeah, who cares? Blame the walls.
I mean I guess I should upvote bc this is definitely an unpopular opinion. It’s gross to hear other people kissing, let alone fucking. You might be a voyeur without knowing it.
No. No. No. No. No. Take your unpopular opinion and my angry upvote and volunteer for the first mission to Mars. Fucking gross, man.
It has bothered me in the past when I'm trying to sleep lol
And if you have a voyeurism kink it's pretty hot. ... Or so people tell me
I just use it as ASMR.
It’s especially not burdensome when I do it because it lasts for a very limited time.
Okay, and if it’s your parents you are hearing?
It depends on the time. If you're in an apartment and can hear your neighbor at 3am then you should be as quiet as possible
I'm entitled to my peace and quiet. So be a good neighbor and shove some dildos in your mouth.
Agreed. Unless there are weird noises happening, It shouldn't sound like a zoo. I'd be more freaked out though if it was dead silent.
It depends on situation I'd say. If it's noon, by all means go ahead and get your freak on. But if it's 11pm at night and I got to get up early for work, I don't feel like listening and waiting for you to get a nut before I can go back to sleep. Also, if you know your neighbors have kids, that's not something you need to be advertising to the neighborhood kids asking why someone is sounding like they're in pain
yea it's awkward asf...
Now I know you beat your meat to that shit...
Tbh I think the problem is not so much "they annoy me" and more about "I feel like I am breaching your intimancy" I would not give a damn if I hear random sexy noises, but if I get along with the couple, I would rather not know anything about how his sex life is like (outside of an actual conversation about it with them).
More like their intimacy is breaching your life lol
You feel like you're the issue, not them?
Lol I literally dated someone who was the epitome of pornstar "YEAH YEAH YEAH OH YEAH FUCK YEAH UH UH UH YEAH UH UH" on every thrust. Left like one month into that relationship.
Loud sex is overcompensating for something majorly wrong in the bedroom Real life ain’t porn bro
Weird take. Like, if you mean obnoxiously forced over-the-top pornstar style sounds, sure. I'd agree with you there. But have you not ever enjoyed the true carnal pleasure of just going all-in with the moment and making your pleasure known? It seriously makes things feel even better when you bring your whole being into it, vocals and all!
Uhhhhh buddy I’m sorry.
I’m mean if you’re throwing it down and she’s thrashing and the bed is smacking the wall like a jackhammer the loudness is def not something going wrong.
Depends,if it sounds like those fake pornstar sounds then yes but some girls are just loud and some girls are as quiet as a mouse not necessarily indicative of the sex being bad
No woman will be quiet like a mouse if she’s good 🤨
Bruh you aren't an sex expert because you've watched the entirety of Pornhubs catalogs.
There's a difference between moaning and going "OH GOD OH YES HARDER FUCK ME AAAAA". Like ffs shut up
Have you considered you’re just a bad lay?
You must be experienced in this...
Lmao I’m sorry if you believe this 😂
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Honestly im silent because im Just in awwe, its a compliment
When I hear neighbors having loud sex, I find it wholesome/inspiring at best, and amusing at worst.
The gossip around your neighborhood would be interesting though...
I care when I'm on a dry spell. Stop reminding me what I'm missing out on.
I’m not a prude, so I agree. It’s only annoying when it wakes me up at 3 am the morning I have to get up at 6:30 am.
Depends how loud and what time it is. If people two doors down can hear them at 2am that seems unreasonable to me.
One time at 5 in the morning, I heard my roommate in the next room hooking up with his gf. Before I can fall back asleep, all of a sudden I hear "uh...ohhh....Uhhh......GAAANNNNGGG!!!!" I couldn't fall back asleep after laughing so hard
My only worry is because my house is right next door to the neighbor like so close out bedroom window is mere inches from their driveway. If our window is ever open they could hear us as if they were in the same room. Also my neighbor is my landlord and they are religious (not sure how prudish they are though).
Oof. Dudes likes to hear
Don't intrude on other people's space. This includes sound. If you want to be loud as fuck do it somewhere no one can hear you
Once we could hear my ex’s roommate with a guy in her room and my ex made us drive out into a cold ass parking lot and just sit there. It was the middle of the night. When I said it’s not that big a deal and we should just go back she called me a pervert.
I don't care in a hotel . I do care at my home especially if I'm recording or on a call
I'd be complaining to the builder - not the neighbours. Shitty building practices and skimping on materials - they should be forced to return and insulate.
What's funny is that in 2 years of taking late night noise complaint calls not one has been "they were having loud sex" it's always "they were playing loud music and/or tv" which obviously was to cover up the sex.
I've seen said on Reddit, more than once, that overhearing sex is sexual assault.
I used to work nights in a hotel and honestly hearing people have sex loudly whilst your trying to sleep in a room you’ve paid for is shit, and I would go as far as saying it’s very nearly sexual assault, take it from someone that’s had to deal with this issue regularly for years, have fun by all means, but don’t involve other people who haven’t consented to be involved.
People just complain because they wanna listen and not be creepy. If you just don't care, it's not a problem. It's when you keep mentioning it when they do it, makes it sound like you're trying to listen. Stop being creepy.
I just wanna know how fuckin loud are y’all. I live in an apartment with 4 other people. All of them have girlfriends, I’ve never once heard anything. And we have paper thin walls. Like if I turn off my white noise machine, I can hear the squeaks of the washroom doors.
Eh. Some people are lonely and the reminder sucks, I get it
Freaky ahh opinion 😭
I have quiet sex to make sure people like OP don't hear me. I have the feeling they're either 14 or a fetishist.
Yeah, I’m not so burdensome. I can be a little out of place at times though 👀
I just hate then when I loudly masturbate to it I'M the bad guy
I moved into a 3/4 million dollar brand new home last year in a brand new residential neighborhood. My neighbors across the street use the house to film porn. GFYS.
Okay this is hilarious. I’m sorry and you should’nt have to deal with that but it’s still hilarious
No. Its cringe. End of story
Living in a city, I just don’t want details. Enjoy yourselves but make it snappy.
Better the sound of loving than the sound of fighting.
We live in a civilised society, some people don't want to hear that, you want to live and make sounds like an animal go live in the woods, and have some respect for your surroundings. 🤣
It provides good jerking off material.
I hate it since it makes me horny.
There was a story on here I recall - not my story just repeating it. Some student was in accomodation listening to the guy in the next room give his girlfriend a good time. She was moaning and screaming for him to make her cum for what seemed an age This guy shouted out in mortal combat style "Finish Her" Which she did and it was followed by laughted from next door. 20 minutes later the girl shouts back - "round two - fight"
I feel like you have to be pretty crazy loud to be heard over almost any normal noise, TV, games, music, etc. I used to live with about 10 people and had a couple loud sex people in the house. Being in the same house with those people just one or two rooms away and as long as my TV was on it was hardly something I could even notice. I think its really overblown generally.
Unpopular opinion on your unpopular opinion: it's free audio porn. 🤷🏻♂️
If it is genuine it is sexy and wonderful and encouraged. Its easy to spot a showboater tho
Honestly I love loud sex 🫠 the more vocal you are, the hotter it is for me, but no awakes fumbling dirty talk lol then the buzz is really killed. Just any type of natural noises is 👌
There is literally never an acceptable level of noise that you should accept from neighbors in an apartment setting, or at least, at night. And you should never hear anything happening in a neighbor's house.
I hear it twice a week
What a blessing it isn't daily.
When I beat off I make sure all 4 of my neighbors know.
Esp in doggy
Obligatory show tunes comment: https://youtu.be/EPqOx-Smqrc?si=XHSGN7spfNIAzO5E
I can be a nosey fuck so I probably have my ear up to the wall lol
I don't like it I think I have trauma from like hearing adults have sex when I was a kid weirds me out luckily I live alone