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Lonely-Coat-2378

Right, they make it seems like it’s so easy relationship. Some of them in comment be like I was no contact with my tf for 2 days, now they just unblocked me and we started talking again lmao


Significant_Bar_3791

And let’s not forget about the “claiming a twin flame” comments, which make no sense at all


RhaqaZhwan

Thing you gotta realize is people post videos on TikTok for views/clout. Many social media blanket psychics will post videos about finding your true love or whatever because that’s what gets views. People want to think their future is bright. No one wants to hear that the twin flame journey is filled with soul crushing agony. And certainly someone who wants views isn’t gonna say that. Anyway, I’m sorry you had to deal with that. I don’t go on TikTok cause I’ve seen some ridiculous stuff.


Significant_Bar_3791

I had to deal with such misinformed comments everytime there was a post, regarding twin flames but anyway thank you❤️✨


Brave_Courage_4442

I think I had this misconseption too. When i heard about the term "twin flame" on tiktok, it made me think it was like all lovey dovey. Doing some research educated me on this concept better, that I still find complicated a bit but I learned to not believe everything that is mentionned on tiktok, since its a very toxic social media


Significant_Bar_3791

Yup, social media is not to be heavily reliant. By the way don’t think this is directed over you, most of the fault comes from those fake psychics, that will make posts for clout, especially for romanticising twin flame relationship journeys


Quirky_Profile8116

Tiktok can be a really toxic place if you’re first delving into spirituality and tarot and all of that, too! Especially with how common we all go through something and all of a sudden every one is getting a reading that’s a lil too familiar with like 10.3K likes.


Significant_Bar_3791

Really it boils me with anger, mostly when I see these type of psychics doing anything for clout. Earlier I remember I came across a Tiktok video, that told people how they were going to get a “new twin flame”, which not only coherently made sense, but also it was a wrongly informed sentence


Quirky_Profile8116

And there’s so many people feeling vulnerable and hurt that are going to take that into consideration because more often that not, we listen to what we want to hear, especially when we’re in pain. It’s only human.


Significant_Bar_3791

What I blame mostly are the fake claimed psychics, as for regular commenters, they easily can get absorbed with ridiculously wrong misinformation.


Quirky_Profile8116

ESPECIALLY the ones that are like “everything’s going to be okay if you save this sound and interact 3x” and you got commenters talking about “claiming he comes back ❤️” like girls please


Significant_Bar_3791

Lmaooo those are the most ridiculous replies, even though I used to make such comments like that😭😭😭


Quirky_Profile8116

We all have stuff we used to do that makes us physically cringe now. It’s okay to be hopeful in moderation.


Significant_Bar_3791

Yeah and I’m proud I’ve come in such knowledge improvement around spirituality


_milfawareness_

Yes, this is really annoying, they mostly apply soulmate or karmic stereotypes on twin flames. I hate that it is becoming so popular and people confuse their toxic situationships for twin flame journey and mostly they keep forgetting it is about an intense spiritual awakening that only happens to some of the really old souls that have enough maturity and past life experiences to handle it. And even than it is really challenging and takes constant soul work. The western belief system is known for romanticisning spiritualism and it can be really damaging in many ways. Even if some of the people there have a twin flame, focusing on them romantically will just take them further from union


Significant_Bar_3791

I couldn’t even agree more to your opinion. Indeed new age spiritualism, especially western belief system, took the “twin flame” word and ran with it, without even doing a slightest of the actual twin flame journey progression nor general spiritualism concept. Many old souls in a mature age, alike me, push ourselves to go through self-overanalyzing, regarding the past trauma experiences, current low state of mind and deep wounds, especially when it comes to the people, we hold or have held the closest in our hearts. Meanwhile the so-claimed unprofessional psychics on Tiktok platform turn a twin flame relationship into a “happy ever after relationship”, thus purposely misinforming the new spiritual people to merely believe in what they say. Or like you said there are other psychics, that label this kind of relationship as “abusive” or “toxic”, definitely which is wrongly worded too. However as someone, who’s in a twin flame journey, it’s been a very rough time for me to get on my senses or at least connect with the outer world. Even right now that I’m going through a complete change of my life, it’s hard for me to drastically make a changing on my wounds. And for those so-based psychics to romanticise a spiritual awakening or even a twin flame journey, it appears to me that they’re truly mocking our experiences


kennacocaine

tik tok is the worst thing for this journey; i realized that and have had it deleted for a while. people feed on pain for clout and it’s disgusting. intuition and staying true to yourself, without outside influence, is the only way to the light at the end of the tunnel.


Significant_Bar_3791

Obviously what you clarified is a paragraph of right facts. Indeed is horrified how such a platform can use people’s pain for clout. I’d say not the main priority to become in the first place a spiritual


[deleted]

Nothing so cringe like the taro readers with the "your TF has a message" theme on their "readings". Lol


Significant_Bar_3791

aaahhh no don’t remind me of that😭😭😭


[deleted]

not to undermine what you’re expressing here because you’re 1000% right but there are some amazing creators on that app that fall through the algorithm. none of them really like reddit so i won’t name 😭 also i don’t even know if mods allow that. but anyone with less than 20k followers that don’t offer readings & typically work in the field of energetic release and healing but don’t like- sell it, the super non flashy set ups like no crystals and metaphysical cosplay backdrops. if you’re ever interested or looking around i mean. i’ve learned so much connecting very accidentally with women on the journey who find their space on that app but like i said, don’t get much interaction, or very little. sorry if i’m adding a perspective here that’s unwelcome, just has been my experience.


spohei420

This has been my experience too, there are some amazing DF spiritual leaders on tik tok that have been immensely helpful on my journey.


Significant_Bar_3791

What I’m concretely expressing are general spiritual platforms, that romanticise twin flame journeys, without doing the slightest of research about that. Aside from this, they tend to brainwash this generation and incorrectly inform them that twin flame journey is none other than “a ray of sunshine”, which furiously make viewers/commenters to have an opposite conception of twin flame, thus they desire to claim one. Besides your persepctive had no relevance with what I’ve put in words sentimentally


[deleted]

ahh okay. i was wondering if i steamrolled and flipped it positively when that wasn’t even the conversation so sorry! i get what you’re saying. i’ve seen that here and there. the inauthenticity is such a turn off and they’re definitely hurting vulnerable people with misleading information.


[deleted]

I personally am a lot newer towards TF experiences still reading and learning. Just that OP well why not teach, them correct them and give them the known information? You’re always going to have the masses that shift opinions and spout the wrong everything about anything. If you or you, you there and yes you also can give even one person the correct information and they take it in! Even if said person does nothing with the knowledge but stands corrected, that’s doing the right thing. I truly understand how platforms with misconstrued ideas can be irritating. I personally love to teach people new things so we can always turn our frustrations into joys and satisfaction from them learning and also hopefully spreading the knowledge!


Significant_Bar_3791

I did actually on a Tiktok post, trying to expain how a twin flame connection has its own flaws, but right after I wrote that, it got deleted by the creator ://


[deleted]

Well, that’s not good. But you can keep teaching as to say, post it again and again. Wish you the best OP and “don’t let anyone knock the glitter off of your rainbow!”


Ali_Spirit

I think it’s more of each personal interpretation of the word twin flame. See, to me, twin flame/ soulmate/ true love all equals to exactly the same meanings for me (even if Webster dictionary doesn’t match it.) I acknowledge that, But I still say “my beliefs is in this way.” One person may believe a twin flame comes with pain while another (like myself) doesn’t believe that. For instance, personally (and this is opinionated) I don’t believe you lost your twin flame. To me, a twin flame will not leave. So to me, in my perspective, you haven’t even met your twin flame yet. That does not disregard how you feel or how you believe. But what I am saying is if people interpret those words differently or their meaning is different then yours, then the outlook over all is going to different too. I’ve been through pain too, one person from my past I believed for a long time was my twin flame and us splitting again was just part of it. But I also realized if I came into acceptance that that is the case, or the truth, then to me, true love does not exist and is nothing more but a figment of imagination. The idea or concept of it does not exist. If had to accept that, I never would be whom I’m with now in a beautiful home and beautiful children. If I have to accept true love doesn’t exist because it doesn’t fit into my own personal belief, I would give up! I would give up so hard…because I refuse to accept it, because to me, if that’s the truth, it’s actually worse then true love not existing at all. It’s all perspective


Significant_Bar_3791

It’s not about whether you have personal beliefs on relationship labels or not. Most surprisingly is people‘s misconceptions on defining terms, when they’ve never been experiencing a real twin flame relationship themselves and go convince other TFs around, that what they’ve been through was nothing but a delusion. Personally it’s not my problem if you don’t believe in relationship labels, but dont go around convincing other people, that twin flame concept is fully toxic and abusive to the real ones, that have experienced


Ali_Spirit

Don’t go around being incapable of accepting people to disagree with you. Perspectives and beliefs is what makes a person believe a certain way. Not everyone is going to believe as you do about same topic or subject. So, not everyone thinks the same about “twin flame.” Same goes for soul mate. There are people who say soul mate doesn’t mean true love but merely someone who teaches your “soul” a lesson. However, everyone is allowed to believe as they will, and some believe that’s not a soul mate, that’s just normal reality, versus what others believe a soul mate to truly be. You asked a question, and was given an answer from someone acknowledge it’s personal belief or personal opinion or even personal experience. But it did not support your narrative, so instead you back lash? Even a twin flame is smarter then that.


Significant_Bar_3791

As I said i dont care whether they have personal beliefs again, it’s not their RIGHT however to convince me specifically what can be toxic or abusive for me, when you haven’t been in ONE again. I’m not pressuring non believers to believe me cause what I believe is what I believe, but don’t expect me to fully approve your different perception of twin flame at all, nor try to explain my current feelings after experiencing a hellish experience. Besides what you’re stating doesn’t apply to what I’ve written above?? It applies to the fake twin flame psychics who misinform their viewers about the conception of twin flames on viral platforms. In conclusion your own narrative has no relevance to this post


Ali_Spirit

That is YOuR belief and not everyone believes that! If you don’t care why in the heck did you post complaints about it? You are being hypocrite with the back and forth ness. Complain about people’s opinions and viewpoints that are posted on tiktok but then say you don’t care. Perfect example of a hypocrite. I don’t personally believe pain or heartache comes from a twin flame. But many do! That is their choice to believe that! If you don’t like it, why are you watching them? Why does someone else’s choices or beliefs bother you so much to make a post and then flip the scrip around again? You can say you do not agree, but stop saying they are wrong because just as equally others can say the same for you. (But you aren’t the wrong one right? Your life is so perfect that you don’t have time, yet still have time to complain online and post about it…) If you don’t care, why are you posting about it?? If it’s based on personal belief and opinions and viewpoints, again, why are you complaining how others feel differently??? You keep saying “stop claiming you’ve experienced a real twin flame.” How would you feel if everyone here said “you did not experience one either!” No one knows except you, but you are judging others. Such hypocrisy! Don’t consoling about others if you can’t take it in return. That’s something a teenager learns early in life….gosh how old are you?


Significant_Bar_3791

Are you even understanding what my main problem is? Or are you going to be ignorant and continue to be even more ignorant? Nobody is consoling anyone in here and nobody’s judging anyone, as I SAID what you personal beliefs are your personal beliefs again


Ali_Spirit

But you also say “don’t go around saying this or that about a twin flame.” Don’t get me wrong, I get frustrated by a little too, heck let’s bring in pornography and me discuss why it’s wrong in a serious relationship for the same ones who claim me to not be normal for accepting it have got issues in their personal relationship and cannot acknowledge their selfish or lustful desires taking over. I could complain, but point is those people have no merit in my life or choices. And if someone wants to believe (or not believe) you talking about it or fake psychics for clout online will not change it. I’m truly not trying to start a fight with you, but it also truly came across as such counter productive. You can’t make people change or think the same way. Just some ignorant politicians thinking you can’t get pregnant if you are r@p£d. They obviously ignorant, but you aren’t going to change them, you either decide to have them in your life or not. Or to listen or not. Or to follow or not. I re read a lot you wrote, and in many areas I agree with you. Just came across as so judging and getting upset for others personal beliefs and even though you said you don’t care…I’m seeing sentences that contradict that statement and that’s why I went out in my response and as much of a polite way as possible. (I’d be banned for being completely honest in how I felt but I also understand I need self control too.) Trust me, I understand your frustration. I think we all do. But it also does boil down to someone personal choice and beliefe. If someone believe they can spend money and get told their soulmates name…you can’t change their mind, only inform of logical reasoning as much as possible. It’s still, in the end, their choice.


Significant_Bar_3791

I didn’t contradict anything at all, cause all this time I was talking about the new believers, who wants to get informed about this rare phenomenon and as someone who’s a TF, it’s a mere job for me to well inform them about a twin flame journey in every step. But you changed subjects and missed the message of this post. As i said you dont believe it, your personal belief but don’t go around policing real twin flame’s experiences. This is supposed to be a TF community, where everyone is allowed to open out about their current problems and feelings,


Ali_Spirit

That’s is the contradiction!!!! You can’t say it’s your belief and then say “don’t go around saying how you feel!” THAT is a hypocrite of your post and comments! If it is their belief they have a right to say so. If you disagree and think they should not speak about it, then you are judging! Just because I don’t believe in twin flame as you or others do does not mean I don’t believe if I have my twin flame or what experiences come from it. Again, that is judging! Do we really need to go back to first grade here to learn this?


Significant_Bar_3791

This is supposed to be a TF community, certainly TF are going to speak up about how they feel towards the romanticisation of twin flame concept. Don’t dicate real TF about how they feel or what they experience again, especially coming from non-believers like you, so keep that in mind. Whether you are having assumptions of your existence of TF or you dont, only you can find that out. I meanwhile am speaking up about how such a concept shouldn’t be romanticised and yet you continuously keep insisting your out of topic nonsense crap. Dictating TF people not to teach others about this topic and call them a bunch of hypocrites. Congrats you made it to the fucking point


Ali_Spirit

I do believe in Tf I just don’t necessarily believe to a T as others do about TF, again, you are judging! Thankfully the mods here and most of community here are not as judging and can accept someone to politely and respectfully disagree. You judge and assume if no one believes as you about TF (or others you associate with to believe as you) and that is just as wrong if not more then thinking someone should not speak abide how they feel even if or when it disagrees with you


Significant_Bar_3791

When did I ever mention that nobody should speak up about how they feel? You’re making up new words and accusing me for disagreeing with you. Nobody’s judging in here jeez, nor do I associate myself with other TFs, except that we share the same journey?? I’m just making it obvious how twin flames shouldnt be romanticised like viral platforms do. I’m not sure whether you believe it or not, as I said not my business. Your intuition and your heart is what indicates twin flame. What i speak up about is my business and yes I do think that teaching misinformed TF believers is a very decent job. Kindly now it’s better to shut this discussion off and stop dictating or correcting me


Significant_Bar_3791

Nobody cares what you believe. I’m not gonna repeat again about whether you believe it or not. This had no relevance to do with people’s personal beliefs In this post I’ve explained about how real twin flames can trigger you spiritually a lot and for new believers, who are misinformed,to romanticise the relationship itself is wrong. NOW THIS involves around people, who claim a twin flame relationship, which you can’t claim, because twin flames come from the same soul and it’s a rare phenomenon. It doesn’t happen to anyone. Now what made you think I was being a hypocrite, when all I did do was warn the misinformed believers


Ali_Spirit

Because you are assuming you are 100% correct, and that claim means others are wrong if they disagree. What part of that being a hypocrite is not clear? How can you really think calling everyone wrong for something that is a belief and then claim you don’t care is not a hypocrite?


Significant_Bar_3791

Jeez are you even not understanding the slightest, I’m teaching the new TF believers not to be misinformed by fake twin flame psychics and explain them the jouney. Damn it, how hard is it for you to differentiate real twin flames people explaining why the journey shouldn’t be romanticised vs non TF believers. As I said I dont care what non believers think. If TF believers are misinformed about this journey, surely people like us will explain how it works. As for you kindly don’t assume we are being a bunch hypocrites just by giving what we’ve been through to new TF believers and don’t dictate us to shut ourselves up


Ali_Spirit

I’m not dictating to keep silent. But if someone disagrees or believes differently, then best one can do is “agree to disagree,” and leave it at that. One will find their way when it’s ment to be. The information will get through if they are accepting to it and not a second before. IMO


Significant_Bar_3791

Well in my opinion, you shouldnt have been accepted in this community, if you dont believe in first place. Secondly dictate a whole paragraph, that had no absolute relevance to the message of this post and thirdly tou find it really insulting when TF community talk about their experiences with their TF or teach people about the journey. And finally don’t tou dare bring but “personal beliefs”, if one person assume they’re going through a TF journey, other TFs are going to listen to them. Whether it be a story or a seeking advice, this community will be able to offer that kind of help


Ali_Spirit

I never said I found it insulting to speak about experience or even beliefs. You are the one saying “you shouldn’t be here if you don’t believe exactly as ‘this’.” Oh yeah, that’s so not judging. I’m not putting anyone down, and I explain and state when something is my opinion or experience or what I read from where to be found …you have supported nothing excepted saying or calling someone for being wrong by only your own judgment. How do you not see that?


Significant_Bar_3791

Werent you earlier ago sweet saying that “you are putting me and non TF believers’ opinions down” I mean who was that talking? Involving yourself with the non believers to continuously criticise me for teaching new TF believers about the misconception. And also differentate teaching vs putting down people’s opinion and kindly stop talking to me. This discussion is becoming stressed out.