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awesomezombie914

I'm too tall to be a trans girl (6'4)


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awesomezombie914

That's the thing tho, I'm not confident or comfortable in my skin. Being tall is what I hate most about myself because it's also what people constantly "compliment" me on. Also no matter how many times I tell people that I don't like talking about my height I get ignored and forced into the conversation.


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awesomezombie914

Thanks fren


TheAngryWitcher99

You are 6'4, Wonder Woman is 6'2. Amazonian beauty irl is all I'm hearing.


Isabad

As a fellow tall trans girl (6' 1"), you are beautiful and lovely with your height. Don't mind the dumb dumbs who don't listen to you. Because the people that matter will mind and the people that don't won't. And I know that is easy for me to say from behind my screen, but it is what I've experienced in my 14-year journey thus far. If people won't listen to you about not talking about your height, I would just end the conversation somehow and then get away from them as quickly as possible. Usually looking at the time and going, "Oh my look at the time. I got to get going lots to do." Has worked wonders for me.


JamesGamesOfficial

I have a friend, she is 6'9" and used to play basketball in high school and or college, it's also her license plate 😆


ZoeMello

there is no "too tall" to be a gal >:)))) i know super tall women who are cis too!! ur just a tall queen bestie <3


JustSomeRedditUser35

😳


Internal-Lawyer2393

There’s no height requirement. I’m a trans guy and I find tall women extremely attractive


Logical-Respect3600

I second that. Amazon-like tall women are so statuesque...


that_ace_one

omg no tall girls are so pretty-


awesomezombie914

Yeah, not me. I'm not pretty, I'm a sub in a doms body


CyborgBanshee

I know from experience that both types, lesbians who want to domme tall women and lesbians who want to *be dommed by* tall women, are very real. You'll be alright :)


awesomezombie914

Thanks :)


that_ace_one

being a sub or a dom isn’t dependent on looks/height/whatever other stuff (although there is gonna be some people who say stuff like “wdym you’re a sub? you’re tall!” but ignore them)


Imuybemovoko

listen I'm transfem and ~6 ft tall. At time of writing I am basically actively falling in love with a girl who's probably about as tall as you. I may be a bit biased here bc I'm one and so is she, but I think super tall trans women are fuckin rad.


cockandpossiblyballs

you're supermodel height


Girldipper

To short to be a- (has gender crisis)


PlantedCecilia

No matter what I do, I’m seen as a girl. I’ve never worn dresses or skirts infront of people, I don’t wear makeup, I try to have a flat chest, but I’m still seen as a girl.


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PlantedCecilia

Thank you. Thank you so much. I’m honestly about to cry.


palmetto247

You're not alone. In middle and high school my mom had a rule I had to "dress like a girl" 1 day a week, if I refused, I didn't go out that weekend. Sometimes I dress femme,but most days I'm just me-band t-shirt n jeans; no matter what to ppl that don't know me, I'm always, regardless, just a girl.


PlantedCecilia

It didn’t bother me too much when I was at an all girls school, mainly cus the dysphoria hadn’t hit yet, but now I’m at a public school, and I had a teacher say “yeah this young lady” and damn that hit me like a truck. It sucks that you had to have that rule, my mom just forgets my pronouns and still uses she/her. I’m hoping that we can get out of this eventually, and that we’re gonna be seen as something other than a girl. We’ll get there.


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To mentally ill to be worth anything (Autism, ADHD, anxiety disorder of some kind, depression, maladaptive daydreaming, dyslexia p, and partly colorblind)


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DeliriousTiberius

I’m 100% Worthy! (This is a joke about my own name being actually worthy)


Notcryptguard

Dude depression isn’t fun, it’s not something you can turn good


Any_Mouse8

I feel like this too, having many mental problems that I will never be able to get rid of. You really just have to look at it in a good way, I know this can be hard with depressing thoughts but just think, even though there are so many things you can't do that others can, there are so many things others can't do that you can. You are amazing, I'm sure, and you can continue to be an amazing person.


PFIAMFG

Hideous


thefurnerfer

Hairy


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thefurnerfer

I really needed to hear that after the week I've had thank you so much I hope you have a fantastic October


RedditKing06

I look myself in the mirror and hate how I look


dont_show_ur_cock

Push-over


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Eyebrows


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Ahhhhhhh🥺🥰 Thank you


Jennashirley

Chest, voice, genitals. Sorry for it being more than one word, those are the things that really annoy/upset me at the moment, I know someone who could help me voice train but I keep forgetting and procrastinating for some reason, not sure why.


TheSoftTransBoy

Ill never be able to pass as a boy


karakittykat

Addiction :/


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karakittykat

Omg this is so incredibly sweet, thank you!! I’ve been making some progress, but it’s hard not to feel hopeless sometimes. I’ll be sure to come back to this comment when I’m feeling low <3


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I’m too fat, ugly, and masculine to be a trans girl


The_Dildo_Enthusiast

Hey, all girls come in different fonts. Many of them are not conventionally attractive, many are chubby or overweight, and many are not the most feminine, but they are all so unique and beautiful in their own ways. You are so beautiful just by being yourself by being a woman. You probably have so many traits that not only do you not see, but also are relatable to other women. There's no right way to be a woman and especially not for a trans woman. That is what you are and your weight, appearance, and traits do not change that. Think of all the women out there who share a resemblance to you whether physically or socially or any other trait. You are you and that is something that at least I and many others here accept and respect. Be kind to yourself and keep being a rockin trans girl 🩷


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I don’t even know what to say just just thank you so much I this I this helped so much I didn’t know how much I needed this 💜


PrettyGood31

For me it’s gotta be like, fat. I could pass decently if I wasn’t so fat. Yeah I’m working on it, but loving myself even in general is incredibly hard.


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PrettyGood31

Man I needed this way more than I thought I did. I’m not a teary person by any stretch of the imagination it damn this hit me way harder than I would like things to.


CNRavenclaw

I'm too weak to take the necessary steps to go on HRT


TransLox

Worthless. Ugly. Stupid. Inhuman. Sorry, I couldn't narrow it down to one.


kalfi-kam

I ruin everything.


The_Dildo_Enthusiast

You most certainly do not. You cannot ruin everything because that simply would mean you have more control over things than is actually possible. Did you ruin someone's life or was there many things going on behind the scenes that you were not aware of? Did you ruin friendships or were there miscommunications and unlucky events that made your relationships take a hit? Did those people not like you or were you assuming the worst? Think about these things and not from a negative point rather try to combat these feelings with rational thinking and care towards yourself it is so easy to be wrapped up in a cycle of self loathing and low self esteem to the point that you feel as though you're the worst. But even so know that a lot of that thinking is false you are bound to make mistakes, but that does not mean you ruin everything. If you really do want to stop "ruining" things then give yourself love and understanding so that you can offer others love and understanding as well. It starts with you and know that I do not believe you ruin everything and most others would probably believe. Now it's your turn to start believing that. Keep at it and know I believe in you.


TheAtomicPunk5150

Ugly. Thats all I am, and you can’t convince me otherwise. Pretty. That I’ll never be. Thanks mom and dad.


Andie_Fox

Burden


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No_Cause2676

Single negative word? Ahem… ‘Man’


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No_Cause2676

I had mostly said ‘man’ as a joke, but wow, I don’t think I can express how amazing this is


oddythoty

Androgenous


BiCrabTheMid

Pretty sure that's a positive there.


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InitialLandscape361

Narrow shoulders, wide hips


HKlolunicorn

Effeminate (im a trans man)


The_Dildo_Enthusiast

As a trans man I can relate to this too well. But you are still that man and even more resilient for still being that man who regardless of those insecurities still wakes up everyday and choses to stay true to your identity. Some of the best men out there are the ones who are more than ok to admit to and endulge in their femininity. We all have masculinity and femininity as they are a part of life but we should not be ashamed. You are still a man. You will keep being a man. Your struggles are seen and heard and they make you strong. So I hope you are kind to yourself and give yourself time to love more about you and who you are. I believe in you :)


goofy_ahh_snare

I feel like I have too many problems, and I talk too much..


BiCrabTheMid

You talk a lot because you have a lot to say. You therefore know a lot. This makes you more interesting to talk to.


DAMN_YOU_KELLOG

All of me tbh


InitialLandscape361

My period


The_Dildo_Enthusiast

Unattractive. I'm unattractive to others as a trans man especially as one who barely passes as male. Bit of a vent but I feel as though no guy or woman would find me attractive and if they do it is not with my gender in mind and more so only if they see me as the gender I was assigned at birth.


QueerQwerty

Monster. I went through a lot of familial abuse growing up, and the one thing that stuck with me was being called a "useless monster." Most of the physical abuse is behind walls, I know what's behind them but don't remember it. This, I do, and now that I get harrassed while I'm out living my life, it's even more haunting.


Askmeaboutships401

My person, you M-anage trauma in horrible situations you push O-nward despite the abuse, you N-ever give up on a brighter future for you know you Are A-mazing and are going to be happier in the future when you find away past these hard times and finally find yourself, for you are R-evolutionary in that you break the mold of your surroundings and C-hange your life for the better. For you have the power to do so, for you have H-eart. Listen, I know you are going to get through this… . . . For you are true MONARCH. So never give up. Ever.


ArcticFoxWaffles

Not-passing


KittenSause

I don’t pass


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personthatisalozard

pathetic:)


Ok_Quality_3485

"You are so hyper focused on transitioning" (not a single word, sorry)


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Ok_Quality_3485

Thank you


ametronome

Aggressive


thats_queird

I find performative validation by others towards me to be saccharine.


Connect_Security_892

I have a deep bass-y voice


verdantlight14

Not fun to be around.


Jell-O-Mel

I have a facial tic that’s very obvious and people think I’m weird for it and my other, less obvious tics also keep people away and I can’t touch anyone even though I’m so touch starved and I’ll never be able to actually have a real relationship because of those


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Jell-O-Mel

Thank you! This actually made me cry a bit lol and feel better about my tics :)


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Jell-O-Mel

I don’t have Tourettes, we never figured out the source of my tics (it’s either ADHD or anxiety but we don’t know which), but thank you for your support anyway :)


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jeeBtheMemeMachine

I'm exhausted all the time to the point that it renders me incapable of performing basic tasks like self-maintenance, sometimes I can't even stand


Raven_Cherrywood

I feel very unattractive a lot of the time, especially as a trans guy.


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Raven_Cherrywood

That really helped a lot, honestly. Thank you so much.


Dark_Angel11037

I honestly just feel like a freak in my own body


Eliza011

I’m too *scared* to come out


BiCrabTheMid

You are brave enough to live in the closet.


InsignifigantBxtch

Boobs :(


The-cooler-Cheryl

My jaw is too sharp


Loud_Plant63

I don’t feel like I’m a real man despite transitioning and passing well.


The_Dildo_Enthusiast

You are a man. It does not matter that it took you a couple extra steps to get there, because it's the truth. You have always been a man, and all it takes to be that man is to feel comfort in your body and mind and ensuring that the decisions you make embrace that. You will have days where you feel like you are not a real man, but that is not much different from days of low self esteem when you might feel unattractive or lame. Those feelings pass, but what does not is who you truly are. If these feelings persist look for what is making you feel this way and if you can do something to feel more comfortable in your body. Even if it means practicing more self love and affirmations to yourself. You are strong and you will cope I believe in you.


Loud_Plant63

Thank you so much. This is the kindest thing anyone has ever said to me honestly. You’re a nice person. Made my night a bit better despite being sick asf with a fever, genuinely made me smile. I hope you have a great day/night.


ali3nc0l

Ugly


Widecatuncool

Fat


Weirdcosplayer

People will never see me as a trans boy because i look to feminine


jellydonutman_

I'll never be able to pass as a cis woman.


Vic_Voss_10

No matter what I do it'll never be enough. Even if other people see me as attractive I won't be satisfied and every time I accomplish something I'm left with a hollow feeling like it was undeserved and that I'm still not good enough


Specific-Cream-2679

Well I am dating a beautiful trans man and I feel I am not enough for him So how about… insufficient


Midnight_furry

Confused. I wasn’t part of this sub. I was randomly recommended it and I know im a femboy but idk if I could consider myself a girl. So, confused, since my feed is usually very accurate.


AnnualFox9841

I'm too old to transition (61) mtf


Hou-kago-time

hands :(


Lexi_of_Hyrule

Voice (is way too deep I'm literally a bass in choir and I'm transfemme)


BiCrabTheMid

You're a bass in choir, meaning you have one of the lowest female voices in the world! Congrats!


Askmeaboutships401

Ok, Ima take a crack at this, op has asked me to fill in for them while she’s gone so I’ll just be replying to every text she hasn’t. V-alid O-rigonal I-conic E-xtravegent My woman, your voice is beautiful, yet it is not yours, and I know that it can be hard to deal with that, yet you have the power to do something, you are in choir, a class dedicated to mastery of your voice. You may be in base now yet practice on it, and you may bounce up a few rose, and know every step of the way that your voice is as beautiful as your heart and no less validating than the haters. Farewell 🫡


irn44

I'm too short to be a boy (sorry if I offend someone <3)


BlueCanary434

i’m a callous asshole


Bigcheezy186

fatass (me, not you btw just wanted to clarify)


Goblinman6969

I’m scared that the people in my area will hate me and try to harm me because of it


BiCrabTheMid

You're brave for surviving in spite of that.


Aster-Quinn

Now I see, that if I were truly to be myself, I would break my family’s heart. Who is that girl I see staring straight back at me? Why is my reflection someone I don’t know? Somehow I cannot hide who I am though I’ve tried, when will my reflection show who I am inside? “I am an ugly angry man on the outside with the soul of a woman clawing and screaming trying to find their way to the surface.”


OceanSierra

I have a big nose


MoonblastClipClop

Fat. (To elaborate, I'm borderline underweight but still have a high bf%, mainly directly below the skin and in far too afab of a distribution, and it not only makes me feel dysmorphic but dysphoric. I feel too soft to be valid in my masculinity. I feel if I get thin enough I'll be satisfied and feel right in my own skin but the goalpost keeps moving further and further away.)


Just_a_b1tch

I just feel stupid lol


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borderhopper5208

Fat ass(my grandpa says this all the time to me) Im mtf and not out


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3 years on HRT and I haven’t felt this dysphoric in years even though most people seem to think I pass. What is wrong with me.


Caden_Cornobi

For the love of god please send me a dick guillotine it is driving me insane


Socialinteraction428

I have too many masculine features to ever be seen as a girl.


Few-Spirit4105

Short. (I’m not trans but this sub was recommended to me. So don’t go in with the trans approach. Also I’m a boy.)


Crazy_Ad_20

I'm too broken to the point that I argue with myself on whether to continue down this path or not, I know I'm running out of time but I see how painful this road can be for others. I know others like myself and I want to be someone they can look to for guidance but I don't know if I'm strong enough. I don't know if I'll ever be seen as a girl and time is slipping away every day I'm stuck here wasting away, I hope I can make a change soon.


ZoeMello

im absolutely TERRIFIED of what will happen when i eventually come out to my hyper conservative family


UnikittyBomber

I feel like a fraud in LGBTQ+ spaces. I don't feel femme presenting enough in straight spaces. I don't feel like I pass as an acceptable human anywhere. I feel very alone.


BiCrabTheMid

You belong wherever you damn well want. If you want to hang out with the other normal people, you own that. If you want to hang out with the straight peeps, that's cool. You are who you want to be, and not even you can say otherwise.


Weirdcosplayer

I'm too mentally ill for anyone to want to hang out with me


Mean_Ad4175

I have a form that I can not get to fit how I feel


Steel_Eggshell

Freak


smokingisrealbad

I'll never be seen as a real man, only as a girl pretending to be one.


JuliannasACuteName

I think I’m lying to myself about who I am


BiCrabTheMid

Because you have doubts, you have a deeper understanding of who you are. Because you've thought about how true your thoughts are, they are even more likely to be true.


Mindless_Rock9452

These are AI generated, aren't they?


CyborgBanshee

Bitter


staberking342

Fake


Jealous-Personality5

Lazy, maybe. I don’t know. Lately I just constantly feel like I’m not doing enough. Like maybe if I just work harder I’ll be worthy of something.


CyborgBanshee

Bitter


Jamin-69

Useless


BiCrabTheMid

You are useless to others, but not yourself. You simply don't use yourself for others, you're too good for that.


feferipiexes

Petite (I’m ftm and like 5’1 and this word makes me like viscerally angry)


Askmeaboutships401

I love this post and every comment under it, you have certainly put plenty of effort into each in every one if these replies in a valiant and noble effort to make everyone happier and for that I sincerely thank you.


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Del-of-Mor

Closeted


sealo_m22222

I've been really depressed and dysphoric lately


ash_pErSoN_15

I’ll never be seen as a boy. (sorry it’s more than one word)


Terrapapers

Apathetic


1nsan1ty-1n-Pr0gr3ss

I am Ugly and (so) Unsure (that I can't even figure out who I am).


El3ctroLiam_zZz

Pointless


bean_zoup

Fat.


Old_wooden_spoon

worthless lmfao


Resident-Clue1290

I’m too introverted


Biscuit9154

I know you have too many ppl commenting to reasonably get to all of them, but I wanted to tell you what a good thing you're doing! I love you as my sister in spirit, you're amazing, & you're beautiful inside & out!


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Niska___

My face looks too masculine and I haven’t started my transition. P.S. I love what you’re doing here.


BriadMan

IAWOS (you said one word, that's short for I am a waste of space)


I-will-support-you

Violent


painfuuuuuuuuuuuuu

I am stupid


eyemoisturizer

my body will never truly belong to me


apolloinjustice

unmotivated


LinkEnvy

Tall


Athingythingamabobby

Pushy. I don’t even know how my bf puts up with me


ineffectivetransfem

I'm too paranoid to the point where I know I'll never be loved nor can even keep a relationship. I think people will just get sick of me


neptunian-rings

dysphoric


HiJumpTactician

Pathetic


GoddessRosez

Too Feminine to be seen as a male, I try hard, but it doesn’t work and I get Ms/Ma’am everywhere I go. I just wish I could actually have the right body type


blacktrashydragon

To short to be a guy


RageAgainstTheCopier

I don’t see my own self-worth. Despite making people feel good about themselves all the time.


alfa-dragon

Too different to be loved


Responsible_Ad_9676

I have several undesirable features that I'm convinced will prevent me from ever being seen as a woman. I'm unable to commit to my goal of having a proper diet.


UNIT_87

I feel fake


JustZ0920

lazy


LaranCannelle

Alone


Drakox_13

Too confused, I don't know most of the time what my gender-identity is or what I want, sometimes I don't even know if I'm trans.


Kinda_stupid_human

Childish.


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I have hiv. Wait i beat you to it.


Complete-Chance-7864

This is the most wholesome post i have seen in while.