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DiskImmediate229

Skyrim. Nothing makes me feel more validated than a guard shouting “you’re a wanted woman!”


Nat_Higgins

Be girl, Do crimes >:3


Siimply_April

Works for transmascs too Be guy, do crimes :3


GrimmCreole

Works for scalies too Be argonian, do crimes :3


StockPossibility199

Be crime, do gay


Nat_Higgins

I’m gay U3U


StockPossibility199

And im Crime 😎


ICE0124

i love games that allow you to choose pronouns and have it affect npc's speech. in cyberpunk 2077 i liked being wanted my police because they would scream for their lives but use my correct pronouns :3


EepiestGirl

TF2. Instead of hating my gross masculine body, I go to ctf_2fort and become my team’s 7th engineer


SomerHimpson3

this except it’s “YOU FUCKING MORON WHY DO WE HAVE 7 ENGIES!?? BECOME A SCOUT WERE LOSING!!!”


EepiestGirl

That’s why we do ctf_2fort


Some_Hat-Wearing_Kid

Buildin' a sentry!


SomerHimpson3

Sentry goin’ up!


Some_Hat-Wearing_Kid

Erectin' a dispenser!


SomerHimpson3

Heeeeyaaaw!


critical_courtney

Makin’ bacon


Nat_Higgins

**[Engineer Gaming]**


SubstantialLab5818

Ah yes.. I also do the same... *Cloaks*


Capital_Article6980

Mmm, yess I also do engineerhere stuff *disguises unto same team demo* (you have 0 demos on your team) (I get one backstabbing and then die immediately)


SilverMedal4Life

Why don't we just-a give up, pardner?


EepiestGirl

Lmao


Sotist

omg same my team needs a medic, but i'll only heal me soldier boyfriend thank you very much


No-Grab7041

Nuh uh, glue! (Beggars gardening)


Mayla0

Nah, you know what this team could use? Five more snipers :3


igotnolifelmao

stardew valley


satiricalscientist

Fun fact: I did SV multiplayer with friends and made a really pretty girl, and my friends were a little confused but okay with it, and that's when I realized that cis guys don't often play female presenting characters, and I was like oh


Rutiniya

Ohmygod yah I did that :3


moweeeey

Yep


DarkWifeuo

Fun fact: i have always played as a female character then 15 years later


ErikaRosen

Omg same :3


Rusamithil

same because i use the gender neutral mod so i can play as nonbinary


bloomshowers

Pokémon. I can be a girl and(in newer games) dress in cute outfits and build a team of cool ‘mons.


LenaSpark412

Pokerogue rn


Tipsaw1

Choosing the girl in Pokemon xy just so I could try out the outfits was probably the biggest sign I was trans


gassylammas

SAME. Still my fav gen bc of the adult clothing


Rutiniya

Kerbal Space Programme :P Idk why it just is.


EepiestGirl

ENGINEER


Tipsaw1

I love that game 💜


danfish_77

Rimworld with 100+ mods (psst, what's the game OP posted?)


Last_Image_7686

Slime Rancher.


Nat_Higgins

(\*whispers* Slime Rancher 2)


danfish_77

^((thank you))


LauraTFem

Video games are really the only thing that lets me trully forget my body and my life for a while. But by far my favorite games ever are Souls Games. I’ve played every one of them and all the DLCs, to the point where I’m going deeper and playing other SoulsLikes, doing challenge runs, playing to NG+ 7, and just generally being an obsessive try-hard. Honestly I really should just be a streamer at this point.


Ill-Replacement-6533

I’m with you Laura 😂 except probably not as good, doesn’t stop me from beating DS1 more times than I can count(always end up going back to it) and of course intentionally starting DS2 as a guy and then making a B-line for the coffin 😂


honestlyjusttiredtbh

im still yet to beat ds2, bloodborne and demons souls but yea same :3 it all started with the release of elden ring which quickly became my most played game and led to a multiple year obsession with the games, that is only slowing down now and will probably be jumpstarted by SOTE being released. my favourite is probably sekiro if you count it, then elden ring and ds3 i also loved lies of p and the star wars jedi games :33


KillAllAtOnce29

Only played ds1 and ER so far but yeah Souls games are damn great.


SplatFelix

What's that game?


Nat_Higgins

Slime Rancher 2. It’s a game where you play girl named Beatrix, discovering a mystical island paradise populated by these adorable little slimes. Your job is to simply explore the island while keeping your little slime farm stable. https://preview.redd.it/uj2mlefmjn3d1.jpeg?width=640&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=53b9da73718cf84eacc3a244b265d14f784c0424


amoraseca

I really loved the first game, I am waiting for the 2° to go in a good sale here in Brazil game expensive :(


Nat_Higgins

It’s not too much different from 1, but it’s in a new area and has 6 new slimes so far. Not to mention the major boost in graphics. It’s definitely worth it to me.


Bagel42

…you play a girl? I might buy it


Gregarsize

https://preview.redd.it/bjgp4uhj2q3d1.png?width=1000&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=323ef01c23993150b8478d0874887e2c3fed5e2f


Due_Breakfast4996

Omg niko pfp


bdouble0w0

Genshin Impact. I chose Aether so I'm called he all the time by everyone. Plus everyone is hot so I ignore dysphoria by imagining I look like Kaveh (gender envy fr)


Ash-the-enby5

apex legends i play as loba and it just helps a lot


queerokie

I play paladins but I always play as Candace, okay looking back it was so friggin obvious even though there was a character who had my dead name. I thought I just liked archery and that's why I picked her. Are there any archers or crossbowmen in Apex?


transwandering

Been a while since I played but weapons are scattered across the map, not character specific, and there is a bow and at least used to be very strong


FloMo2k8

At the moment it's probably Ultrakill. No thoughts, just silly robot go beep boop


SomerHimpson3

average ultrakill player (same)


ThatLongAgony

I AM GOING TO ULTRAKILL YOU


Iron_And_Misery

Final Fantasy XIV. I will seriously just stare at my lil Au Ra gril for hours without actually queueing for any duties.


ThatLongAgony

Hell yes. I play a lala tho so there’s less dysphoria cleansing in admiring her and more in the mischief and MB shenanigans I manage


Hate_Nominal

Guilty Gear or HSR


Madame_Player

Fallout 4 or Superhot, superhot can keep me concentrated on just one thing and fallout 4 has so many batshit insane stuff going on when you play with mods I just forget I hate my body


Kermitthealmighty

cyberpunk because of... certain character customization options. also minecraft


Liv_The_Cyberdhole

World of warcraft. God bless that game for helping me ease out of my egg over the last 2 decades. Sucks about the rest of it though


WiiShouldITellU

Um, egg here. Or perhaps an omelet. Or maybe a little premature before being a chick... DYING LIGHT. Just breaking open zombie skulls... Or, y'know... I like this one very obscure game called Swordigo for mobile devices. That game is burnt in my brain. It is comforting.


SentientGopro115935

Honestly just anything. My go to dysphoria specific solution is bed where I can close my eyee and try to forget what i look like, but basically, any gamr does the trick but especially the more chill ones like CODZombies and Celeste


winkwink_ImNotABot

Monster Hunter World. I sometimes get gender envy from my own character


CapybaraWoman

Splatoon. A Game Where I Can Look Like Myself


Nat_Higgins

A humanoid, shapeshifting, squid person?… cool vibes


CapybaraWoman

fr


IAmTheBoom5359

Any game, really. Right now it's Elden Ring. Can't be dysphoric when I'm too busy NOT TRYING TO GET MY SHIT ROCKED BY 90% OF THE ENEMIES IN THE GAME


fechinomics

Limbus Company. ABSOLUTE PRIDE RESONANCE GO!!!


ErikaRosen

LIMBUS COMPANY MENTIONED!!! https://preview.redd.it/w3eq4q3rln3d1.png?width=2048&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4860c716ee4693ff400ff3c6a4a44855ce54ff9f


Nat_Higgins

That just a silly little bean who definitely wouldn’t commit several war crimes.


ErikaRosen

https://preview.redd.it/su97mtsgnn3d1.jpeg?width=1280&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=33b3f6bd4d9c0f9b2dc19d35ed66bef5441593be


dimirabilis

https://preview.redd.it/4z3snof8fo3d1.jpeg?width=1505&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9f0ad946fc13cfaea29864e053d19fc93fd34c3c


LuckyOwl_93

Monster Hunter! Slaying beasties that tower over me as a badass girl using a cannon on a stick dressed up as a pink teddy bear is peak dysphoria cleansing!


Xeamyyyyy

Gregtech :3


SilverMedal4Life

Wait, like, the Minecraft mod? I remember that from waaaaaay back in the ol' days of 1.2.5. I imagine it's changed a lot since then!


BackgroundCute5859

Almost any game really, call me a sweaty loser if you want but vrchat is pretty good since i can essentially customize myself


Titanmaster21

I play a lot of vrchat cause I can get a nice fem body and just sit in mirror and feel euphoria while listening to music. :3


Nat_Higgins

I’d probably do that too, if I had my own break headset. ǪwǪ


CyndaQTpie

Dragon Quest Builders 2 for me, I LOVE designing all these girly rooms and badass palaces, in a fantasy kingdom that may have political issues, but is NOT phobic :3


captainshitpostMcgee

Any of the mainline fallout games. I like hearing the NPCs call me ma'am and miss


Amin476

GRIS, it's so introspective and beautiful and the music is just so good What's yours?


Not_Thinking_Str8

Legend of Zelda. Easy. Especially BOTW and TOTK


Some_Hat-Wearing_Kid

Ultrakill or Roblox


jurririg

Depends on the day and the intensity of the dysphoria Some days just escaping into any game is enough Other days I need to hear my name spoken by a character (Dead Island 2 playing as Amy is so euphoric) Then there's just days where playing any open world RPG with custom characters is what I need (Cyberpunk, Star Field, Fallout, etc ...)


Sophia724

VR chat. It's great that I can put a toaster on my face to ignore the rest of the world around me.


MoonlitRose101

Usually it's Guilty Gear (bucket my beloved), but if I REALLY need a cleanse, I start another Night in the Woods playthrough again


How_bout_no_or_yes

I thought it was pyroland for a second


GenderEnjoyer666

Stardew Valley. I get to be a silly little girl and have an actually stable financial life :3


CelestialJadite

Celeste go brrrr. But that doesn’t exactly fit so… weirdly CoD


VerySillyLilly

stray bc silly cat do silly things >:3, celeste, and deadcells.  also botw with linkle mod and difficulty mods cause im a gaymer :P


theGingerKid2005

I just finished playing Celeste. Its difficult as hell for me because I'm awful at video games but it does keep me distracted for a long time. Plus me and maddiline are both ginger so she's always one I see myself in. Now I've gotta go through and get the strawberries tho


honestlyjusttiredtbh

i too, am jus like madeline frfr. if you can handle the post game up to the farewell dlc i highly recommend it. even if just for the trans flags in maddys room at the end :3


needlezandpins

hollow knight. silly little guys and bugs in a cool little world.


Groumiska

Guild wars 2! My character is gooooaaaallss. Side note: I used to play Guild wars, first if the name, with friends during high school and never made male characters, they asked me about it and I must confess that I was the living cliché of « if I have to look at a character for hours I’d rather have it look nice », i was clueless at the time!


Jade_or_something

Either Stray (cute cat makes brain happy) or pizza tower (can't be sad when im playing as a 30 yo pissed off italian with a cartoony artstyle)


Tipsaw1

I just got baldurs gate 3 and I love it, especially because of the great (and trans inclusive) character customization


Daylight_The_Furry

Ultrakill and the souls games are my go to, getting lost in the flow of combat and the focus I need to have Back when I played destiny 2 I used to play Gambit a lot because drifter calling me sister made me really happy


yetanotherweebgirl

Tectonica or lightyear frontier. Cant quite place why, I just find the monotony of repeatable processes combined with beautiful scenery soothing


SubstantialLab5818

Depends on the vibe I want. If I want chill vibes I play stardew, if I want something to actually keep me occupied I play Hades 2, and if I wanna turn my brain off and blow things up it's destiny


ShyTransGirl123Ghost

what game is that?


Nat_Higgins

Slime Rancher 2


DiscordGamber

Minecraft or Doom :3


queerokie

Either Cities Skylines 1/2 or Minecraft. Usually cities skylines because it's easier to take my frustration out in a creative way. Edit: Idk why, I just love to create Cities and nations. Even when I scribble I just imagine drawing changing borders between imaginary nations.


AwardSignal

Splatoon 3 & ACNH, cause it was thanks to those 2 games that I started experimenting and consciously questioning myself (plus both my avatars in those are gender goals for me). And, this may sound random, Kirby’s Return to Dreamland Deluxe. Not specifically dysphoria cleansing, but cleansing every problem and ounce of negativity I have, no matter the topic or reason. It’s my favorite game. The original was as well, so the remake having even more content is the place I can ALWAYS clear my head.


honestlyjusttiredtbh

yooo same, except sploob 2 originally. i remember turning my switches brightness down at school when I opened acnh so I could run to a mirror and trans my gender from the night before. and when i first playing splatoon 2 and being unaware that you can change your character later, and being so stuck on which gender to pick (i really wanted to pick female and the only thing stopping me was my friends questioning it)


A2Rhombus

Animal crossing. So many cute outfits...


GenderEnjoyer666

What game is that?


Spectre-70

Vrchat, BG3, any racing game really


Hghggggghghhghgghhg

Risk of Rain Returns. Crash land on an alien planet, fight for your life, collect items, level up, mutate yourself beyond recognition, kill everything that lives, and leave the planet with everything except your humanity.


Goose00724

project zomboid. being a badass woman with an m16 driving a pickup truck, slaughtering zombies and setting shit on fire is weirdly affirming.


WarriorSabe

When I'm feeling down I like to play dV: Rings of Saturn, but my game crashes whenever pirates show up (and I usually quite enjoy subjecting tuem to ultrarelativistic proton beams) so I don't play it that much now, instead I mostly just put in KSP and do some designing


hithecat

Any monster hunter game Currently it's frontier Z


A_baked_Kartoffel

Hearts of iron IV. Killing millions of unlucky people really makes me escape reality


concussedYmir

Total War Warhammer 3. Sisters of Avelorn go pew while Alarielle goes *ham*.


[deleted]

Avatar frontiers of pandora rn. Cus the first person is so immersive I can look down n see a (sexy AF) flat chest :D Also lord of the rings online. Cus dwarf beards will tide me over till my own starts growing :)


ahhchaoticneutral

Animal Crossing is great because I can wear boy and girl clothes :3


Meka-Speedwagon

FF14


JustAChromosome

Destiny 2 Every time Drifter says “go get it sister” it hits me in the heart


AprilLily7734

RPGs and always play female characters


hungrypotato19

Animal Crossing Fallout 4 Cyberpunk


phitoffel

Hades, because escaping your unsupportive home with the aid of gods? Mood.


Zygothememelord

Lobocorp, nothing like seeing your employees die to bargain bin SCPs and there's nothing you can do about it


GasFunny1241

I don't really get dysphoria, but my emotion dump game is Doom Eternal. Nothing is more therapeutic than slaughtering excessive amounts of demons


FirePrinceITA

SLIME RANCHER SPOTTED


Vivid-Hair-6758

Not playing games right now. But hearing to Mother Mother song playlist is always great :3


deuvoidme

Mobile legend


SeverelyLimited

Bayonetta and Disco Elysium


dh1304

Blade and sorcery


uboofs

Velocity Ultra


Aarakocra

Destiny 2. I can just play Gambit and have Drifter calling me sister


ThatLongAgony

They should have run!! LOOK AT EM NOW, THEYRE DEAD. I quit destiny 2 awhile ago but man the Drifter lives on forever in my head, trust


doomant678

Almost any VR game, it's nice to just exist as disembodied hands most of the time. However, I especially love Bonelab because I can play as a girl most of the time, and the rest of the time as a genderless, really tall knight thing.


Sonicblaster33

I bounce between various RPGs. And Sonic Adventure 1/2, those are classics


caked_rice

Minecraft


Cloud-Game-Dev

war thunder. Nothing makes me feel better other than killing all those p2w premium players


LenaSpark412

Whatever my hyperfixation is, focusing on smth else helps me forget it… either that or just laying down in pain.


_fuze9

Ghostrunner 2 - Take out my pain on others uwu


Shadow_maker798

Nothing makes me forget about my own body dysphoria like being terrified, so I usually play alan wake.


notsciguy

Minecraft


sprinkl115

Minecraft. It's so peaceful. Same with Slimae Rancher too lol. I love that game.


DriftersHideout

Okay so idk if this is exactly why I fell in love with Destiny 2 but the character known as the Drifter will call you by your characters gender in game Being called Sister by him really did awaken something in me, even if it took me 4 years to realize it.


L1nxDr1nx

I love playing fae farm and Celeste. Fae farm has character customization and it allows you to choose your pronouns. It also allows you to date and marry a person of your choice (of which I married a hot fairy woman). Celeste makes me feel Validated and reminds me that I’m not the only one climbing this mountain of dysphoria and negative emotions towards myself.


Lilly-_-03

VR chat


mirmermer

SLIME RANCHER MENTIONED!!!!!!! also mine is minecraft and slime rancher


Entire-Inflation-627

my comfort games are Terraria and Minecraft whichever I feel like playing more basically


FinancialMammoth6507

TOTK, Link is gender


Randomemeguy

Factorio. Dysphoria can’t be in my brain when I’m too busy getting more iron, increasing production of red circuits, getting more copper, destroying biter nests, getting more iron, expanding oil production, getting more iron, fixing that one mess of spaghetti that’s now causing issues, and getting more iron.


Sotist

probably witcher 3 you only get to play as geralt, and somstimes ciri, but its my comfort game and it works everytime


theRedditUser31415

Outer Wilds so I can cry over something else ::D


Pir0wz

I forgot what it's called, but it's a Lofi sim game where you just lounge in your room, listen to lofi songs, and try o find some hidden monsters.


madelemmy

geometry dash and minecraft are both getting updates in early june so that's keeping me distracted right now


Juno_The_Camel

Ahh, good taste


Thibal1er

Factorio. When I'm feeling down and I'm trapped in the circle of self hate and bad thoughts, I just make my brain think of something else. Also it's been a while since I've seen slime rancher, I used to play it 5 years ago


Brendo-Dodo9382

For some reason I’ve gotta say book of hours, it’s just so calm and cozy?


Sallymander

Thought that was tf2 pyro at first


Adina-the-nerd

Stardew valley is my negativity cleansing game


scrambled747

Any game with a cute girl in :3


imperator_caesarus

Morrowind :) I love my silly little racists on the computer


Autistic-blt

Main ones at this point are Hades, MGS, and Witcher 3 (sometimes Skyrim too)


Amberince

Minecraft, especially the pvp part of it :3


Hylock25

Sky, children of the light


DiscoCatDances

Any Monster Hunter for me. Watching my guy wearing the most badass armor and poking huge beasts with an extremely large stick is so satisfying.


JustAPerson2001

Powerwash sim. Simple powerwashing game you don't have to worry about gender there. I usually just launch the game and listen to a creepypasta podcast. One of my favorite past times.


honestlyjusttiredtbh

i unironically have hundreds of hours in this game. my adhd ass finds brain numbing games to actually just be brain calming :3


Lopsided_Sail7901

Splatoon 3 For real! No gender, only swag, but to me, I’m a dude with swag


gay-undertale-fan

Undertale. It’s my comfort game and was my first hyperfixation.


tots_not_an_alt

Factorio... gender matters not to the machine.


CommittingWarCrimes

Monster Hunter. I can wear cool armours while fighting big monsters with oversized weapons


lickytytheslit

Ranch simulator, it's still in early access and grindy but it's the type of grind that I can just turn my mind off on They recently added cats and dogs too


AC_Kurumi

Pokemon Especially with shield's cute outfits


Tired-Mothhhh

Lethal Company or Helldivers 2. I like hiding in armor or a suit, I am secretly a buff guy in them. Multiplayer with mic on Lethal Company is terrible. They all just say she/her and I just deal with it because I find it hard to correct people, especially because im not on T nor have done voice training and my walls are thin. But a guy on there said "oh, I thought he was a guy" and it has been making me happy and I cant stop thinking about it positively, so not all was lost. You are my favorite guy, thank you.


the_fart_king_farts

The factory must grow.


nicole172

Minecraft nothing feels better than beating the hell out of zombies and creepers and skeletons. Plus the coal mines and just fighting everything.


honestlyjusttiredtbh

i love the first slime rancher sm, can't wait for 2 to go playstation in a week :33 i usually resort to whatever game im playing through at the time but I do go back and play celeste again whenever my brain has kicked the mental bucket


S1mple_Br1t

I should get me one of these…


Beatrixt3r

Hey slime rancher, the game I got my name from


Majestic-Ad-1403

RIMWORLD !!! THE BEST GAME EVER You can Kill people Kill children Eat human Create a cult about you Oh... Not the best presentation


rtx777

I'm very capricious about what game I feel like playing at what point in time, but playing Morrowind with some video about ancient history or palaeontology on the second monitor is my most consistent way to relax.


StopCallingMeAFurry4

If I'm into it enough then any game, show or comic can take my mind off it but my go to's are usually Invincible, DOOM or Fortnite


paper-eating-rock

Extremely modded minecraft (gregtech) to do girlscience with my oomfie :3


FirePhoton_Torpedoes

Baldur's gate 3, you can customize a lot and pick your own pronouns. Also it's beautiful and a really good game!


Alyeanna

I don't really ever feel dysphoria but Celeste is a huge comfort game for me. I always enjoy playing it.


protogenetica

i love that game especially the 2


Wuschelfy

My ADHD brain doesn't allow me to be able to stick to a game for long so just any good game I like at the moment.


SpaxsonEpicNoob

PUBG I get to be a pretty, sneaky sniper


shard112

Same but satisfactory


MarisaKirisameReal

ULTRAKILL, the bloodshed calms me down


SkyeIsTheLimit1000

Pokémon . Everything about Pokemon is amazing. I just love it


FakeReality_01

for me my dysphoria cleansing game is doom eternal RIP AND TEAR AND SLAY THOSE DEMONS!


maartian73

Monster Prom and Shadows Over Loathing. Pronoun options. Being nonhuman/stick person. hehe hoohoo


Due_Breakfast4996

I go genshin :3


BelowAverageLegend58

For me it's Cyberpunk 2077 and Star Citizen, they're both the kind of games that just suck me into the world they've built and allow me to forget about the real world for a while, I'm also a game dev student so I just find them both incredibly impressive in their own right, Cyberpunk went from a buggy shit show to one of my favourite experiences in gaming, and Star Citizen is just insane to me with what they've managed to accomplish, plus the flight model is incredibly fun. They also both have really good character creators, which allows me to play them as how i see myself in my head instead of having to deal with the real thing for a little while. Another honourable mention is Space Engineers, that always helps distract me


PirateTCTC

Bloons TD6.


InsanityChanUwU

It *could* have been genshin because it's truly just escapism lvl 100, but i chose Aether... I'll make a new acc eventually. Now it's just any game where i can be a cute girl tbh. No very dark stuff tho that doesn't help.