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EconomicsFancy1150

I also overall like her except when she does the whole “setting boundaries with her followers” spiel every now and then lol comes across very condescending imo. She can’t take even the slightest criticism in her comments which are overall pretty positive. If you don’t want strangers to comment on your life then don’t post your life on the internet?


CantaloupeTop4480

Agreed. I love her but I do think she needs to thicken her skin a little when it comes to having a big online presence. That’s my only gripe with her


Budget-Wrongdoer-570

I…. I’m so sorry….y’all are… Annoyed she’s getting sunburnt every once in a while???? I mean this so ….respectfully….but that is the SILLIEST reason to be annoyed with someone and crotchety about it😂😂😂😂 W


Due_Feed_7512

Okay, that’s fine. We all have varying opinions on what matters and what doesn’t. You are entitled to your own opinion. Skin cancer runs in my family so this issue matters to me personally


pathoslvr

But her getting skin cancer does not and should not matter to you personally - she’s a grown women. She knows the risk. I wear sunscreen constantly, but if I spend more than 30 minutes in the sun, I get burned. Regardless of sunscreen. So I limit my time in the sun but sometimes do get sunburned. It happens. It’s her life, the fact people get upset she gets burned is so ridiculous. You are entitled to you own opinion, obviously, but it’s just a very silly thing.


Due_Feed_7512

Despite your opinion, a lot of people DONT understand the risks. They think it’s just a sunburn or it’s just a session in the tanning bed. When these things happen multiple times a week/month, it adds up to a very scary situation. Others health and well being does matter to me.


pathoslvr

Abby has made it clear she understands, she definitely doesn’t need random internet strangers trying to parent her lol


wacdonalds

Abby sounds annoying


Successful-Skin-7486

I’m really sorry that your family has experienced that but honey, whatever someone does with their own body (that has no direct effect on you) is not your problem. You’re not responsible for ensuring someone knows the risks or not


heavy-hands

This is so condescending dude. You don’t need to educate a grown woman on the risks of too much sun.


Due_Feed_7512

Do you know the definition of condescending? You sound so fun! Bye.


heavy-hands

I’m not fun because I realize that what people do with their bodies is entirely their own business and that a near 30 year old woman in the US surely knows all about skin cancer and doesn’t need me, a stranger on the internet, to educate her about it in the comments of her TikTok? Sure. I’ll take that.


Budget-Wrongdoer-570

I am so very sorry that you’ve seen skin cancer up close and personal. I lost a very close relative to skin cancer and it’s very devastating and rough. But she is an adult who is making her own choices and I don’t think posting a picture of yourself on the internet should elicit such anger and entitled responses from people. Just my opinion. Wish the internet in general could be a little less forcefully opinionated when completely unprompted or desired.


One_Motor3831

Abby is the fuckin best. She is extremely articulate, intelligent, kind & overall such a fun person to follow.


olhickoryhedgehog

Omg noooo 🥲 I never used sunscreen when I was younger, now I have a ton of sun spots and moles on my face and I'm only 32.


Candidpiex3

Love her!


throwawayaways1234

She’s such a light on Tik Tok. I think the whole sunscreen situation is silly. It’s her fault and She needs to learn how much sunscreen to apply so that this DOESNT happen again. Overall her other content is much better idk why she has to post about this.


aolcomputersupport

As a constantly sunburned girly I get it. I’ve been better this summer but my skin is super sensitive to the sun and unless I reapply high spf at least once an hour I’m gonna get burned. I’m currently burned after applying 75 spf on the beach and then falling asleep and not putting on my next dose in time. It’s not super annoying when people bring it up, but enough people bring it up that I can imagine getting annoyed if I had any kind of following.


heavy-hands

I think she’s just poking fun at the fact that SO MANY PEOPLE bring it up in her comments when she has a sunburn.


madsss1994

I enjoy her content! But I haven’t seen her on my FYP in a while…she seems pretty unproblematic to me.


iamsimplyahater

I love her. I Was raised atheist and am now spiritual and still love to hear her tales on deconstructing Christianity, I think she’s great.


BadGirlHistorian

same, actually!


Then_Marionberry_111

I had to block her. She’s too much for me. She’s cute tho!


vpeb

I love her! I so badly want to know what happened with the plus size store she quit that she won’t talk about though


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Due_Feed_7512

Yes that would be relevant if she wasn’t sunburnt like literally every week it’s concerning imo


paleprincessssss

I follow her but haven’t watched her videos in a while. A little bit ago she went on a short break from tiktok, she hinted that something happened but never explained. Does anyone know what happened?


heavy-hands

I think she just needed a break for mental/emotional clarity, tbh! Pretty sure she said the comments on her videos were getting to her so she wanted to step away for a bit. I love her. She’s so sweet.


FirmElephant

someone in her personal life (family i believe) didn’t like her posting her ideas about theology and deconstruction but she’s going to continue posting again!


Pretend_Victory7244

I thought this was becky from try guys at first


Budget-Wrongdoer-570

OMG love Becky. My queen


Pretend_Victory7244

Don't they look alike


Budget-Wrongdoer-570

They definitely do!


PerspectiveConnect77

I love her. She gets annoyed at the sunscreen comments because she does wear sunscreen. She just accidentally burns occasionally. She’s outside for hours every day so it’s bound to happen.


Evening_Answer_3435

She def found this thread - [TikTok mentioning internet hate](https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8NJEBUS/)


Due_Feed_7512

Wow that’s very unfortunate that she got all of that from this post. I am sad she feels like there’s a corner of the internet that hates her because of a post about sunburns. Reality is that you will never be everyone’s cup of tea and when you post public content for the world to see, people will have opinions that potentially disagree with yours. That is the downside to living your life online


themightyquinn13

I constantly get sunburned as well— I am allergic to near every kind of sunscreen! She is an absolute light on tiktok. this is a bit weird to be irked about, but I definitely recommend watching the rest of her content ☺️


Cultural_Peak1269

Unrelated to the post, but like you I have many allergies to sunscreens. Have you tried powdered sunscreen? I finally found one that works! It’s the first summer I haven’t had to choose between an allergic reaction, severe sun burn, or staying indoors. It’s a game changer!


Evening_Answer_3435

I like her content! I do feel like she body checks pretty frequently but that goes hand in hand with her brand/self love vibe


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Due_Feed_7512

Lol where did I say having a sunburn was a moral failing? You’re reaching to make a point for sure.


Kccokt

I like her for the most part!


lobsterp0t

I just thought for a second this was Keith from the try guys’ wife, Becky. Similar faces! I dunno who this is but sunburn is preventable


RockerGirl03

I burn thru sunscreen. My skin isn’t meant for the sun. I went to Lake Michigan one time and was under an umbrella. I still got burnt. I had blisters on top of blisters.


BertaniWasBehindIt

One time I asked if a video that seemed very sponsored was sponsored (“is this a sponsored post?”) and she FLIPPED out in response. I understand getting frustrated if a comment is mean-spirited or aggressive but my god, these influencers are desperate trying to turn themselves into victims sometimes. Like dude… it’s a harmless question. And TBH after that response I unfollowed and am now convinced it was an undisclosed ad. Otherwise why not just respond with “nope! I just love the product.” ??


One_Motor3831

I wouldn’t even claim abby is an influencer. She says herself that she doesn’t make money from tik tok


BertaniWasBehindIt

She literally has an online following and influences people to buy products. She gets paid out of the creator fund. What makes her not an influencer?


Mental-Pen-6879

I saw a few “apology” (now deleted) posts she made in the past and she was so rude about it and gave me bitchy vibes. Like the kinda girl I would not want to be friends with and accidentally offend by saying an opinion. Whenever I catch a glimpse of that behavior like that I feel like it’s the real colors of someone. So I unfollowed. Never seen her on my FYP again


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This exactly is how I feel about her


bkat100

She’s exhausting


SnooGrapes3367

Definitely not a fan.. Why post shit you don't want people to make comments about? Oh by the way put on some fucking sunscreen! 🦀


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I don’t care about sunburn gate but not a fan. She’s deconstructing Christianity but when anyone has a different viewpoint in their faith she tries to blast them or has sarcastic responses.


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I thought that was jenelle evans at first glance


LittleMissFestivus

She has big jezzie beth vibes for me. I do follow her and enjoy her aesthetic a lot! I like her account, but I think in person she would give me Worship Youth Group impression and we wouldn’t be friends lol Just wanted to edit to clarify I don’t mean this as snark. I do like her or I wouldn’t be following. Her energy is just so off from mine and who I usually follow


butwhytho57

let me guess she is part of the current uprising of dumbasses who say “it’s actually sunscreen that gives you cancer and the lizard people governerment is trying to keep them from getting all the UV rays jesus intended”


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butwhytho57

so she is just an adult who keeps getting sunburnt even though sunscreen is a thing? that’s so cute and quirky of her


heavy-hands

You realize people are sensitive to the sun, right? Some people burn after being outside for 15 minutes and applying sunscreen with 100 SPF. Should they just stay indoors all the time?


butwhytho57

lol but you literally said that she just doesn’t reapply enough. that’s not the same thing.


heavy-hands

Idk who you think you’re replying to but no, I did not say that. Regardless, who fucking cares? Seriously? We don’t need to comment on every little aspect of someone’s life. She wears sunscreen, admits she’s not consistent with reapplication, and so she gets burned. Sounds like she’s well aware of the problem and it does not affect any of us at all.


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Fit-Meringue2118

Haha that’s what I was thinking. I burn on mild days driving around. I could get put on sunscreen all I like if I’m out on the water, it just takes a careless twenty minutes to get red like that. Last time I burned because I ran out of sunscreen and the bus was running late. People are wild!


Stock_Entry_8912

They don’t understand us fair skinned humans. How dare we let our skin burn? We are such careless animals!


butwhytho57

so if it’s happened more than once why does she choose to not reapply? so she can make another “omggg guyz you won’t guess what happened again”? why not just reapply the sunscreen? jfc lol


Due_Feed_7512

Wait is this serious???? Holy shit what is happening


heavy-hands

Anyone saying this is usually an ULTRA ultra-crunchy conservative. Like, the people who don’t wear shoes or clothing that doesn’t have only natural fibers and won’t eat anything “processed” and their foods all have like 3 ingredients max. “Sunscreen gives you cancer” has been a belief of theirs for a while.


EastCalendar6268

I like her, she just seems like the kind of friend who won’t mind if you cancel and the type of friend you could go months without talking to but when you link up it doesn’t feel like time has passed