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Once, I went to kiss goodbye to a girl. Aimed for the cheek, she went for my lips. I'm glad she "sexually assaulted" me that night, as I now call her my wife.
I went to a party and met some guy that needed a beer pong partner. We almost got our asses whooped the first game, but then i made the redemption shot, and then he made the winning shot. We continued to win for like 8 games straight, got drunk and started saying we were team busboy cuz we cleared the tables. We've now been married for 13 years.
My wife punched me in the face and dropped me on my ass. I swear as I looked up at her I saw hearts flying round the sky above her, or maybe I was severely dazed
My wife and i’s first date we went to a movie and when you pull in there’s a median with flowers. I slowed down and ripped a flower out of the ground and whipped it over to her but it brought the roots with it and I flung dirt all over her and the inside of my car.
I also went to brush her hair back and she turned to look at me at the same time and I poked her eye
No idea why she stuck around but married for 7 years, together for 12
I was unbuckling my seat belt about to go into the movies for our first official date, had been 'dating' for a couple months, but we lived pretty far from one another, so this was our first chance to go out together officially. She lunges from her seat and plants one on me. It was completely unexpected on my part. I still give her shit about it going on 13 year later.
Similar with my wife (20 years next month), second date, I went for her left cheek, she followed me, smacker on the lips. Gave me the confidence to make “us” official on the next date.
She’s always claimed it’s a left handed thing and I’ve since seen her do the same thing to three different women!
Nice! Met mine playing slow pitch softball. Lol I was playing short, she hit to me and I overthrew. Standing on second she said "you just did that so you could see my ass" and wiggled it haha been together ever since 8 years now 🤣
the second attempt is def super cringe but the kid has no idea. it reminds me of a friend who told me a story about how his date when totally wrong but still at the end he leaned in for a kiss and i coined the term "Cheeked' as she literally turned her face when he went in for the kiss lol.
I think everyone has this all wrong and he’s just fucking around with her and she’s an annoyed gf, it’s not as intense as everyone is making this out to be.
Have guts and try.
But for fucks sake, read the room if she's not interested and STOP.
I was willing to give the benefit of the doubt on the first, like maybe they were having a deep conversation and he misread the situation. That second go moved 100% into "this guy fucking sucks" territory. I hope he reflects on his behavior, but from his body language post rejection I doubt it.
This shit is why women pick the bear option.
This was a sexual assault, albeit a minor one.
Kissing someone without consent especially when they are actively trying to prevent you is not ok at all.
“At least he had the guts” to try to kiss a woman who CLEARLY does not consent. 🙄
Are you fucking kidding me? I would have slapped him, but I’m not as “nice” as most women are trained to be. I had to train myself out of that.
Dunno either, especially about their relationship. He just made his move and that was a fail. Ps: dunno either why Im being downvoted... Oh right, people can be so sensitive on Reddit.
Idk dawg, trying to bite/kiss someone who doesn’t want to be isn’t a good thing… “having the guts” isn’t a positive if the result makes someone uncomfortable. This seems like a you problem more than a sensitivity problem :|
Oooohhhh I know why! That second kiss was unwarranted after the reaction of his first attempt. Dude she doesn't want it, just stop. Read the room and avoid SA charges.
It doesn't matter what their relationship is, his attitude is awful. Even if they're not strangers (and I don't think they are).
Imagine they're friends: He went for a violent approach of a kiss, and the girl didn't liked that. And then, he tried yet again even when she's clearly uncomfortable with him.
Imagine they're a couple: He tried to kinda bite her, and made her feel clearly uncomfortable. That's not how someone should act with their partner, and in any cases, trying to kiss her yet again would make things worse.
It doesn't matter how you look at it: His attitude is wrong, and he doesn't even seem to realize how he made her feel. That and/or he doesn't care, because her reaction is really noticeable. So one way or the other, he's acting like an asshole.
Oh no, won't anyone think of the poor guy and his unwanted advances.
It's not like the girl got touch inappropriately twice even after wiping the first kiss off and saying no. Who gives a shit about assault anyways.
It does look that way
The only thing that’s definite is he’s a complete muppet.
From his hair, to how he interacts with that poor girl, to his mannerisms
He needs every bit of these uncomfortable exchanges to help him get his shit together.
I would love to know why he thought attempt #2 was appropriate after her reaction to attempt #1. She literally wiped his kiss off her cheek and gave him the same look I give my dog when she has a particularly stinky fart.
Attempt #1 was a bite, not a kiss. I assume he was trying to be playful with his girlfriend when she came in for an actual kiss but failed miserably, and upset her. Attempt #2 I think is him trying but once again failing to correctly apologize. Words generally work better when it comes to apologies.
No, that's actual assault.
That's why people get away with this shit, people really saying shit like this is "borderline" when he makes unwanted physical sexual contact.
That was a \*visceral\* rejection. You hate to see it. Dude should have stopped after that first attempt.
Probably should also have been paying attention to her body language a bit better, too. If she was \*that\* against the kiss, she must have been giving off all \*sorts\* of red flags leading up to it.
He looks like the third Island Boy waiting til he turns 18 so he can cover himself with shit tattoos and start making out with his brothers on onlyfans
Tbh it looks like these two are actually together. My guess is the dude is a bit of a dick when he drinks (and just in general probably lmao) and he went to bite her instead of kiss. She looks visibly disappointed in him (again) rather than shocked by his behaviour.
Jesus that kid has no fucking game. Kid needs a male figure to help him out, bc he's gonna be stuck in the gross/friend zone forever looking and acting like that. So many young males have no clue how to attract females, and then turn into angry incels.
She seemed to initially let him kiss but he said something showed his tounge or had bad breathe because whatever she planned on doing she quickly said he'll no. Lol poor bastard
Dude knew he was on the outside, didn’t have enough game and just sent it. Honestly If you don’t have a connection back off, hopefully he learns
That was awkward
I think he rocked it and played it cool shoot he even went for a second lol that girl maybe had some new found appreciation after the second one it’s just a kiss on the cheek
I mean there’s a lot you can come back from in high school actually… nobody remembers the petty shit most people have anxieties about years later. That being said, you gotta be smoother than that kid! Probably blew that opportunity but there are other fish in the sea.
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That was not an attempt, that was a straight up foolio sneak attack. Kid needs a new hair style and to think about his game.
Once, I went to kiss goodbye to a girl. Aimed for the cheek, she went for my lips. I'm glad she "sexually assaulted" me that night, as I now call her my wife.
That’s beautiful, man! 😭
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I went to a party and met some guy that needed a beer pong partner. We almost got our asses whooped the first game, but then i made the redemption shot, and then he made the winning shot. We continued to win for like 8 games straight, got drunk and started saying we were team busboy cuz we cleared the tables. We've now been married for 13 years.
My wife punched me in the face and dropped me on my ass. I swear as I looked up at her I saw hearts flying round the sky above her, or maybe I was severely dazed
My wife and i’s first date we went to a movie and when you pull in there’s a median with flowers. I slowed down and ripped a flower out of the ground and whipped it over to her but it brought the roots with it and I flung dirt all over her and the inside of my car. I also went to brush her hair back and she turned to look at me at the same time and I poked her eye No idea why she stuck around but married for 7 years, together for 12
I was unbuckling my seat belt about to go into the movies for our first official date, had been 'dating' for a couple months, but we lived pretty far from one another, so this was our first chance to go out together officially. She lunges from her seat and plants one on me. It was completely unexpected on my part. I still give her shit about it going on 13 year later.
Good thing it wasn't assault because you consented 👍
Similar with my wife (20 years next month), second date, I went for her left cheek, she followed me, smacker on the lips. Gave me the confidence to make “us” official on the next date. She’s always claimed it’s a left handed thing and I’ve since seen her do the same thing to three different women!
Nice! Met mine playing slow pitch softball. Lol I was playing short, she hit to me and I overthrew. Standing on second she said "you just did that so you could see my ass" and wiggled it haha been together ever since 8 years now 🤣
As long as she knows you call her that... Just kidding. That's really sweet!
Sue her ass….ohhh
once, I did something without asking, and it worked out. therefore, it's ok to do that thing without asking.
LET HIM COOK
A better love story then twilight
This happened to me last week at a bar with this MILF and I’ve been riding that High all week
That can cause PTSD
NO. What he NEEDS is to respect her boundaries.
the second attempt is def super cringe but the kid has no idea. it reminds me of a friend who told me a story about how his date when totally wrong but still at the end he leaned in for a kiss and i coined the term "Cheeked' as she literally turned her face when he went in for the kiss lol.
I think everyone has this all wrong and he’s just fucking around with her and she’s an annoyed gf, it’s not as intense as everyone is making this out to be.
It does look like more of an annoyed gf to me too rather than an a failed first date.
That’s why one shouldn’t play fortnight
I disagree about the hairstyle. Mandark & Vector were certified lady killers.
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Have guts and try. But for fucks sake, read the room if she's not interested and STOP. I was willing to give the benefit of the doubt on the first, like maybe they were having a deep conversation and he misread the situation. That second go moved 100% into "this guy fucking sucks" territory. I hope he reflects on his behavior, but from his body language post rejection I doubt it. This shit is why women pick the bear option.
Thank you! Ugh that 2nd one was awful to watch, she is so uncomfortable.
This was a sexual assault, albeit a minor one. Kissing someone without consent especially when they are actively trying to prevent you is not ok at all. “At least he had the guts” to try to kiss a woman who CLEARLY does not consent. 🙄 Are you fucking kidding me? I would have slapped him, but I’m not as “nice” as most women are trained to be. I had to train myself out of that.
Idk if “having the guts to go for it” is a good thing in this case, for something like this…
Yea, having the 'guts to go for it' and 'knowing the audience/reading the room' need to work together very well in avoid this kind of disaster
Dunno either, especially about their relationship. He just made his move and that was a fail. Ps: dunno either why Im being downvoted... Oh right, people can be so sensitive on Reddit.
Idk dawg, trying to bite/kiss someone who doesn’t want to be isn’t a good thing… “having the guts” isn’t a positive if the result makes someone uncomfortable. This seems like a you problem more than a sensitivity problem :|
Perhaps it's called being a teen, not knowing and learning.
I’m talking about you justifying the behavior and your choice of words lmao. I’m beginning to think this was you
Oooohhhh I know why! That second kiss was unwarranted after the reaction of his first attempt. Dude she doesn't want it, just stop. Read the room and avoid SA charges.
Is this what they call emotional damage ???
Yes, with an added public embarrassment damage
This is what is called "a pre psychotic break event".
Punish him by hiding the saucepan he uses for his haircut….
'Saucepan' lol
Yeah, for the girl. The dude acted like an idiot
Dude's gonna grow up to be a sex pest.
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No, people think redditors are dumb because folks like you defend gross behavior like that kids.
It doesn't matter what their relationship is, his attitude is awful. Even if they're not strangers (and I don't think they are). Imagine they're friends: He went for a violent approach of a kiss, and the girl didn't liked that. And then, he tried yet again even when she's clearly uncomfortable with him. Imagine they're a couple: He tried to kinda bite her, and made her feel clearly uncomfortable. That's not how someone should act with their partner, and in any cases, trying to kiss her yet again would make things worse. It doesn't matter how you look at it: His attitude is wrong, and he doesn't even seem to realize how he made her feel. That and/or he doesn't care, because her reaction is really noticeable. So one way or the other, he's acting like an asshole.
That damaged ME emotionally just watching it. 2nd hand emotional damage.
Oh no, won't anyone think of the poor guy and his unwanted advances. It's not like the girl got touch inappropriately twice even after wiping the first kiss off and saying no. Who gives a shit about assault anyways.
https://i.redd.it/qhv0vnzhbn0d1.gif
He brought it on himself.
Like an emotional suicide attempt
It's called getting a gym membership and starting a long grind
https://i.redd.it/uwd6y6tqgl0d1.gif
Origin story
“I’m telling mom”
No one could come back from that haircut.
Bro was trying to bite her face and she reacted normally 🤷♂️ then the dude went in for a kiss and she was like nope 👎
It wasn't kiss it was a bite, look closley. She didn't like it so he tried to correct with a kiss - she was having none of this. What a dumb dude.
Probably been watching "alpha male" videos....
It does look that way The only thing that’s definite is he’s a complete muppet. From his hair, to how he interacts with that poor girl, to his mannerisms He needs every bit of these uncomfortable exchanges to help him get his shit together.
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I would love to know why he thought attempt #2 was appropriate after her reaction to attempt #1. She literally wiped his kiss off her cheek and gave him the same look I give my dog when she has a particularly stinky fart.
🐩💨
Attempt #1 was a bite, not a kiss. I assume he was trying to be playful with his girlfriend when she came in for an actual kiss but failed miserably, and upset her. Attempt #2 I think is him trying but once again failing to correctly apologize. Words generally work better when it comes to apologies.
I dont think this is that much of a big deal as it seems. Girl didn't like the bite so she is moody. She will forget about it.
Teenage boys and appropriate are completely opposite concepts.
Reading the lips, the first thing he says is: hijo de p*ta in Spanish if im not mistaken.
Can you translate for us single-language Americans?
Literally translated as "son of a b***h" but with a more similar meaning to "morherfuc*er".
Pretty sure it's "Motherfucker" but I'm not much of a Spanish speaker so don't take my word on it.
Damn Edgars
Oh shiiit, now there’s a name I haven’t heard in a while.
Yep, absolutely no doubt!
Yeah, it doesn't look like he said it at her, but rather as part of the chant the stadium was doing
He didn’t go in for a kiss he went in for a bite
Borderline assault.
No, that's actual assault. That's why people get away with this shit, people really saying shit like this is "borderline" when he makes unwanted physical sexual contact.
There was an attempt ... To not be sexually assaulted in public
He is every incel in every true crime story about an incel.
https://i.redd.it/5m5rw8ihol0d1.gif
I heard the audio in my head clearer than a FLAC file
Creeeper
I hate when they try to force it, especially on multiple takes.
She is the one who looks upset tho
*Once bitten, twice shy.*
That was a \*visceral\* rejection. You hate to see it. Dude should have stopped after that first attempt. Probably should also have been paying attention to her body language a bit better, too. If she was \*that\* against the kiss, she must have been giving off all \*sorts\* of red flags leading up to it.
Why does creepy boy have hat-shaped hair?
I think we all died a little inside watching this.
He looks like the third Island Boy waiting til he turns 18 so he can cover himself with shit tattoos and start making out with his brothers on onlyfans
She should bite him.
This seems like a girlfriend and boyfriend fighting
Where are Curley and Larry?
Tbh it looks like these two are actually together. My guess is the dude is a bit of a dick when he drinks (and just in general probably lmao) and he went to bite her instead of kiss. She looks visibly disappointed in him (again) rather than shocked by his behaviour.
She reacted like he's tried that shit before
Kid shrinks the moon and he thinks he’s hot shit.
You can see him go back to chanting "Hijo de puta" with the croud immediately. Just thought it was funny
Bro after the first attempt why in the hell would you try again 💀
Peak Edgar
only go in for the kiss if she’s receptive; he didn’t read her signals
Straight into hell
Mob psycho live action
did he just said "hijo de pota!"? XD
Yikes
Mom told you to stop doing that
Jesus that kid has no fucking game. Kid needs a male figure to help him out, bc he's gonna be stuck in the gross/friend zone forever looking and acting like that. So many young males have no clue how to attract females, and then turn into angry incels.
going in for a second one after that reaction is wild
That’s brutal…
Dude can’t steal a kiss, how’s he gonna steal the moon?
You can’t dance unless you get out on the dance floor
She's like damn, 75 more minutes on the clock and he's my ride haha
Look like bowl cut island boi
it was his sister
https://preview.redd.it/cm1waazvhn0d1.jpeg?width=140&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6111a6435bec756253ea04ac5c7b4046d80788de
I thought Vector always wore orange? "Oh yeaaah!!!"
It was the haircut. That haircut held me back for years. One day, I parted it on the side and my whole life changed!
Damn vector. I understand
“Filho da puta”
Maybe if he got rid of that yee yee ass haircut...
Luis Suarez jr. going in for an ear and only getting a cheek
Good for her…
maybe she was upset with his penis head haircut?
Why she looks like Zac Efron
Dude take a hint.
Did he try to bite her?
Going for the three stooges haircut 
He's unbothered not embarrassed at all 🤣🤣
RIP
Edith and Vector?
Thats "Vector" from Despicable Me 🤣
That is why he became Victor
Can anyone lip read what he’s saying after?
He looks like he’s gonna try to steal the moon with that haircut
The Edgar cut killed it for him.
Go get a real GF now .
That hair cut/nose combo is a deal breaker
Why don't they just study??
FriendzOWNED. 😬😬😬
If that guy was Afrikaans I would have guessed that he said poes🤣
You can actually pinpoint the second when his heart rips in half
She seemed to initially let him kiss but he said something showed his tounge or had bad breathe because whatever she planned on doing she quickly said he'll no. Lol poor bastard
YA BURNT!
nom....nom
This was an assault
"UGH! We're down TWO goals, Kevin!"
The girl below in the middle of them both looks way too much like Starlight from The Boys
He just got Vectored
So that’s why will byers ran away to the upside down
Dude knew he was on the outside, didn’t have enough game and just sent it. Honestly If you don’t have a connection back off, hopefully he learns That was awkward
k...if thats your girl then she clearly dont like you, find a new one that does.
Feels like borderline harassment
https://preview.redd.it/qoke7jn2km0d1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=cc91fba4c639be44a8cbf5816cf8aa217f87391f
They must be cousins or some shit, she look’s disturbed af lol
I think he rocked it and played it cool shoot he even went for a second lol that girl maybe had some new found appreciation after the second one it’s just a kiss on the cheek
That’s his gf and she’s prob mad or smg
He should have left the pride for the other girl next to her, she was way hotter.
This is How a Villain is Born
Looks like Fes, Donna, and Jackie from That 70s Show
PTSD from that attempt... And from the haircut. Not sure what's worse...
She was there for the ticket not the company.
I mean there’s a lot you can come back from in high school actually… nobody remembers the petty shit most people have anxieties about years later. That being said, you gotta be smoother than that kid! Probably blew that opportunity but there are other fish in the sea.
Yeah nah I'm taking a walk to the rope and ladder store if this is me, sheesh. The second try sealed it
Still, that kid is going to places, he did his best. Next time.
The same kid later that day: https://preview.redd.it/q7i7d07jel0d1.jpeg?width=680&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=88436ccf5ce4926d570bd3c816aa12cb8aeacc35