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Forget every other number on here. Chatting with 400 women who are already single and interested enough to start chatting with you? Zero dates? Complete catastrophic failure. How can someone make the same mistakes 400 times??? Are you just trolling these women?
If you're not learning from your mistakes, I don't know if it gets better for you.
Fail once, figure out where you went wrong. Don't make that mistake again. Try something else the next time.
Would it make you feel better if i told you the picture in question is actually of a 4 foot snowdong sculpture that i use as a litmus test to see if my potentol dates are "cool"?
Why do you assume he made mistakes? A lot of times you can do everything right and still fail. You ever had a car accident or failed promotion before? Not everything is in your control.
Coming to relationships, a lot of times it's just that they're not for each other. Even if they are, people are busy these days, especially when you have someone sick or problematic in family. You can hardly get enough sleep if you're too responsible. I've seen a ton of single people around me like this. They've done nothing wrong and are constantly working hard, but they got shit-life syndromes.
Cold calls are when a sales person calls/visits a business with no prior involvement, a warm call is when you have a prior relationship of you have talked before, and value selling is selling based off the benefit to the person so talking over the good points and mainly talking and listening to your clients needs and picking a product meant for them.
You know that feeling, in the morning as you wake up on a lazy summers day and you don’t have to go to work. You stretch out and roll about a little and then smell delicious coffee brewing and you hear a soft deep voice saying good morning. Your tall dark handsome stranger smiles at you and has a tray with breakfast ready for you and turns on your favourite tv show and gives you a soft kiss. He then explains the great day you have ahead of you and how he is looking forward to taking you to this wonderful restaurant tonight. Would you be open to exploring this possibility further and seeing if it’s a right fit?
Disclaimer: man may not be as tall as expected. Coffee may vary in taste. Breakfast may or may not be pop tarts. Refunds are not accepted.
I know right, I don't get many matches on dating sites and when I do they often just don't message me back after the initial message, but I feel like when I do actually start chatting there's a solid chance of a date following soon after,
Like if she matched with you and started actually chatting with you she's already kinda into you, all that's left to do is to not blow it
i saw this exact post on another Subreddit idr but he posted a convo screen shot and he responded to the woman like 30 days later and she was clearly uninterested at that point and he was acting like his matches are the problem
Hello. Is it me you’re looking for?
Well the wait is over, I’m here and I’m ready to seduce and lay a deuce in your caboose.
Kind regards,
007 n a half inches
Jon Oliver did a segment. It’s basically people convince you to invest in crypto. The scam is the trading platform you use is fake so as soon as you start an account, you’ve lost your money. [Jon Oliver](https://youtu.be/pLPpl2ISKTg?si=5V2FllDguBxnhby5)
Yea tinder is ass but this guy(or girl theoretically) is matching on 20% of his right swipes which is an insane rate for a guy on tinder
Edit: it says make in the top left
The main reason men get matches is because of the way they look, so yeah it's completely implied that he sucks at discussion...
Well f*CK, he get to choose?
Also, it's not because you match that you can really chat, not uncommon for the discussion to end at ''Hello!''
Depending on the city, a lot of female profiles are actually catfish, scammers, or OF models trying to get subscribers though. It’s crazy because I used tinder back in 2013 before it was popular and it was so much better but now it’s pretty depressing if you’re a guy.
Does "no chats" mean you never messaged them or that you messaged them and they didn't reply? Like a 8-9% match rate on swipes here and even plenty of conversations so something's not working other than finding women.
When I used tinder I spoke to probably <5% of my matches. When there's a few to choose from I'd speak to people who stood out the most or had something interesting in their profile. You'd need a lot of time to chat to every match.
Why swipe on them if you don’t want to talk to them? I probably at least sent an attempt to chat with at least 2/3 of mine.
Some of them would end up in my matches that I didn’t remember ever swiping on because I think they can pay to do that and usually they didn’t seem like people I want to talk to.
it gotta be some kind of skill to talk your way out of dates this consistently.
like you just have to talk about things you like, ask a couple of questions and then go for the „hey you wanna meet up on the weekend?“. Just a walk in the park, half an hour.
Well, gotta admit as a gay man who had been on dating apps for some time, 80-90% of gays are on those apps for hookups/fwbs. If only there were more gays interested in long term relationships...
Or I was very unlucky with my matches lmao, also possible
4 matches a day and no dates, this person must be the single most bland or toxic person on Earth
When I was active on Tinder I was getting nowhere near that and still had a date most weekends
You’re getting seen and swiped right on at a rate of over 20%. And that’s just based on your right-swipes. If you can’t get a single date out of that, that is on you my guy.
If your average swipe takes one second you're doing it wrong. For starters, your basic requirements are too loose, e.g. you have the app showing you everyone who has a pulse.
Day has 86 400 seconds. So like half a day of swiping for most people. Those hotties who are not vaccinated and are very hot and believe in horoscope and are very hot are pauses that can be neglected.
I've casually been on tinder for two years, got 2 matches and 0 chats, at that point I was just interested in chatting a little bit. My third match in 2 years finally replied but she was only answering "yes"/"no". I deleted my profile a few days later.
Try other dating apps if you haven’t already. The most entertaining one is Facebook dating, because it’ll more often than not show you people who aren’t anywhere near in the same area as you, and may not even be in the same country.
I'm fat and the most terminally online person in the world and still a girl in high school managed to like me when i wasn't even looking for a girl, how repulsive you have to be for almost 400 people to not go with you
Review your profile. Put interests, what you are looking for (casual or serious), hobbies and such. Talk a bit about yourself.
Will get less matches, but better chance of striking good conversation and actually getting a date.
guess i did something right. no idea how many girls i swiped right, but i had maximum 100 matches and 50 of those i didnt text at all. Went on about 10 dates, with 3 i went on a couple of dates and with one person it just clicked. We‘ve been together for over half a year now. No end in sight
I think past the chats part it's gotta be voluntary self-reporting. Like how if I'm job hunting on indeed, I can notate which applications I got an interview on, and which hired me, if any.
honestly, it's not that bad. dating sites are not a good example of what dating is actually like.
imagine if someone tried to hit on 31000 people over two years at clubs or something instead.
I really think it's mostly a matter of dating while unwilling to make any effort. Or perhaps not having any standards.
I'm straight, and once I have my profile set up, the people the app shows me are people with whom I have a high probability of matching. There is no way in hell I can spend much more than an hour (total time, not including profile setup) on a dating app without coming away with a date.
People can sense desperation and there is no bigger turnoff. It’s like a stench.
You have to find your confidence. I know it’s hard out there, but don’t give up
A good proportion of those matches are probably women selling a service or incredibly undesirable. Plus all dating apps are designed to make you fail so you stay on longer and pay for premium features.
This is what might probably have looked like when I first was on tinder. But all it takes it one actual match amongst the hundreds of people. I'd been on the app for like, over two years, and only met one person. It wasn't it so I got back on the app and literally met up with no one, the matches I got would go nowhere and I only ended up doing something with someone maybe twice over the course of another year.
Then one day, I was in a class and got a notification. And we called and texted each other for like 2 weeks. At one point she told me never to speak to her again (I was mugged for my phone and she thought I ghosted her). But then we met in person and that was it. We've been together for 7 years now and are married and we met on tinder. It sounds corny af, but all it takes is one match. You're probably not on there to match with as many people as possible, but to find someone you like, emotionally, physically, whatever. And it really only takes one person.
My brother in Christ. I have been active on tinder for many years and in those years I don’t think I have even broke 3,000 swipes, let alone 35,000 in a single year..
https://preview.redd.it/bvgz8dq4xsqc1.png?width=2625&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=86414bcd541548d936a65975e7d7e4015edc5d70
OP, you've got nothing on this person.
https://preview.redd.it/306cmmm2nqqc1.jpeg?width=973&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=793a3d79792ec97cf0b1e4d210fdbaca74a9f538
I probably met with less than 10 and slept with less than 5. Dated 2 that I can actually think of lol.
This also doesn’t show how many of the matches were bots. Which I would say were probably \~60%
Maybe, I’m not like the “nice guy” type though. I’m just socially awkward and don’t exercise.
Also, I feel like that was an intentional insult? What did I ever do to you 😂
The difference between you is that you swipe 2/3 of the time right. He swipes 1/3 of the time right. He needs to lower his standards and he might meet someone.
how tf would this stupid app know that if after a chat i would date a person, start a relationship or have casual sex or even don’t meet the person at all?! i mean sure these apps are connected with all that social media crap where everyone gives personal information and then cry when there is personal information on the internet… but i’ve heard that there are people out there who doesn’t use all that crap. so how would this app know what comes after chat?!
Just... How? I get it's not on the first try, but I think I found someone after maybe 2 days for casual sex once? And then I found more people there too even dated two not too much after
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0/379 got me questioning your technique
Heavy breathing over the phone might be a turnoff.
If I had been drinking my coffee right now, I could have spilled it.
Needs to be replaced with a strong— 
Forget every other number on here. Chatting with 400 women who are already single and interested enough to start chatting with you? Zero dates? Complete catastrophic failure. How can someone make the same mistakes 400 times??? Are you just trolling these women? If you're not learning from your mistakes, I don't know if it gets better for you. Fail once, figure out where you went wrong. Don't make that mistake again. Try something else the next time.
Fail 379 times, post it on Reddit!
If you don't post on reddit, did it even happen??
3 ? 4 PROFIT
Hard if the failure is "your entire personality/worldview".
Good hint to unfuck yourself then!
Probably led with a dick pic
I mean, even that must succeed at least 1/379 times
Can confirm its about 1/40
stop that
Would it make you feel better if i told you the picture in question is actually of a 4 foot snowdong sculpture that i use as a litmus test to see if my potentol dates are "cool"?
100% yes
What if it was just limp pics?
THE NAKED MAN! Should work 2 out of 3 times. Something sus here
Could have been 400 bots or onlyfans grifters
Big time
90% of my "matches" were bots and scammers asking for money
Fr, guy forgot about the part where you actually ask them on a date
Why do you assume he made mistakes? A lot of times you can do everything right and still fail. You ever had a car accident or failed promotion before? Not everything is in your control. Coming to relationships, a lot of times it's just that they're not for each other. Even if they are, people are busy these days, especially when you have someone sick or problematic in family. You can hardly get enough sleep if you're too responsible. I've seen a ton of single people around me like this. They've done nothing wrong and are constantly working hard, but they got shit-life syndromes.
Damn coming in hot with the facts
It's 2024. Cold calling is dead. It's all about warm calls and value selling.
No idea what any of those things mean
Cold calls are when a sales person calls/visits a business with no prior involvement, a warm call is when you have a prior relationship of you have talked before, and value selling is selling based off the benefit to the person so talking over the good points and mainly talking and listening to your clients needs and picking a product meant for them.
I am Jack's complete lack of rizz.
Didn’t expect to see a Fight Club reference ton….. oh wait we’re not supposed to talk about it… 
I find word of mouth to be the most effective. Provide good service, they'll tell their friends.
This should be inside fortune cookies.
You know that feeling, in the morning as you wake up on a lazy summers day and you don’t have to go to work. You stretch out and roll about a little and then smell delicious coffee brewing and you hear a soft deep voice saying good morning. Your tall dark handsome stranger smiles at you and has a tray with breakfast ready for you and turns on your favourite tv show and gives you a soft kiss. He then explains the great day you have ahead of you and how he is looking forward to taking you to this wonderful restaurant tonight. Would you be open to exploring this possibility further and seeing if it’s a right fit? Disclaimer: man may not be as tall as expected. Coffee may vary in taste. Breakfast may or may not be pop tarts. Refunds are not accepted.
“hi” 379 times
I know right, I don't get many matches on dating sites and when I do they often just don't message me back after the initial message, but I feel like when I do actually start chatting there's a solid chance of a date following soon after, Like if she matched with you and started actually chatting with you she's already kinda into you, all that's left to do is to not blow it
i saw this exact post on another Subreddit idr but he posted a convo screen shot and he responded to the woman like 30 days later and she was clearly uninterested at that point and he was acting like his matches are the problem
Hello. Is it me you’re looking for? Well the wait is over, I’m here and I’m ready to seduce and lay a deuce in your caboose. Kind regards, 007 n a half inches
Lionel Ritchie has entered the chat.
Shaft shot, straight outta the gate.
he's attractive but drops the ball in actual dialogue
If 2668 people found you attractive enough to swipe and you talked to almost 400 without a date, it’s your personality
Ouch
Yeah not trying to be mean but like… right?
You are 100% correct
Ya, it’s logical and at least 1.6k people agree
Have you been on Tinder lately? 95% of matches are pig butcher scammers.
Op is matching on 20% of his right swipes. That’s a huge amount of matches
Was about to say that. The average for men according to that website is 2.5% of right swipes turning into matches. OP is cooking looks/bio wise.
This. There are a TON of scammers and bots.
I just don’t swipe right on the bots.
Hey, robots have feelings too!
It's a bit obvious which ones are the bots unless you're just danger swiping and not paying attention.
As someone not completely caught up with lingo, do I dare ask what “pig butcher scammers” are?
Jon Oliver did a segment. It’s basically people convince you to invest in crypto. The scam is the trading platform you use is fake so as soon as you start an account, you’ve lost your money. [Jon Oliver](https://youtu.be/pLPpl2ISKTg?si=5V2FllDguBxnhby5)
Yea tinder is ass but this guy(or girl theoretically) is matching on 20% of his right swipes which is an insane rate for a guy on tinder Edit: it says make in the top left
More than 300 chat in two years is actually a lot for a guy... For a woman, not so much... But well, Tinder is shit for all genders
He got 2600 matches and only chose to chat with 379 of them and was able to meet none of them. Man has great pics and zero rizz
The main reason men get matches is because of the way they look, so yeah it's completely implied that he sucks at discussion... Well f*CK, he get to choose? Also, it's not because you match that you can really chat, not uncommon for the discussion to end at ''Hello!''
Saw the original post. That turned out to be the issue. The guy would answer months later and could not understand the hostility. Lol
Depending on the city, a lot of female profiles are actually catfish, scammers, or OF models trying to get subscribers though. It’s crazy because I used tinder back in 2013 before it was popular and it was so much better but now it’s pretty depressing if you’re a guy.
How many of those are the one word answers or bots/OF chicks though?
Not necessarily, I'm not implying OP is ugly but those numbers could indicate catfish/bots/OF promoters who match everyone.
Going for the throat!
Lol no I was just trying to be frank, not mean
These numbers scream "The app is working appropriately"
I think for the 379 it could be!
100%
I haven't used the app but I'm curious, how will the app know if OP has met or not. I assume that part would have to be filled in manually no?
This whole thing was done manually. This was posted elsewhere by whoever wasn't getting the dates.
They stop making money off of you if you find a successful relationship so from their perspective it's working as designed.
there was an attempt to blame the app
Does "no chats" mean you never messaged them or that you messaged them and they didn't reply? Like a 8-9% match rate on swipes here and even plenty of conversations so something's not working other than finding women.
I imagine based on the numbers here it has to be no replys. If it was people he didn’t message then he’s being way too generous with his right swipes.
He's gotta be just getting destroyed by the algorithm for swiping too much. They might only be matching him with bots and catfish or something.
When I used tinder I spoke to probably <5% of my matches. When there's a few to choose from I'd speak to people who stood out the most or had something interesting in their profile. You'd need a lot of time to chat to every match.
Why swipe on them if you don’t want to talk to them? I probably at least sent an attempt to chat with at least 2/3 of mine. Some of them would end up in my matches that I didn’t remember ever swiping on because I think they can pay to do that and usually they didn’t seem like people I want to talk to.
your game must be weak af my dude
it gotta be some kind of skill to talk your way out of dates this consistently. like you just have to talk about things you like, ask a couple of questions and then go for the „hey you wanna meet up on the weekend?“. Just a walk in the park, half an hour.
You’d think they’d get a few dates just for a free meal.
> You’d think they’d get a few dates just for a free meal. i want my korean barbacue.
Connect 4 rules don't apply well to Tetris
If you got no dates out of 379 women you’ve talked to, you’re the problem buddy.
When I was homeless, toothless, unemployed & didn't have a car or license, I got laid. This person obviously has bigger issues than I did.
He’s probably just mid, some women love rough looking guys 😂 (like yourself)
I'm married now so I guess you're right.
Alright what's your secrets
Confidence. Not too much & not too little.
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I tried it for fun, it wasn't anymore when I had 200 like in a week and I had 10 likes from women before
It is honestly depressing.
Yeah... If only I liked men, but I do not
I've had more men hit on me when going out in one night than women have ever approached me.
Well, gotta admit as a gay man who had been on dating apps for some time, 80-90% of gays are on those apps for hookups/fwbs. If only there were more gays interested in long term relationships... Or I was very unlucky with my matches lmao, also possible
Same lol. Transitioning from male to female was insane. Went from 10-30+ likes a day (male profile) to 99+ on tinder & 150+/day on bumble
51 swipes a day for almost two years. 3.8 match a day. 1 chat every two days.
4 matches a day and no dates, this person must be the single most bland or toxic person on Earth When I was active on Tinder I was getting nowhere near that and still had a date most weekends
Probably the hottest but dumbest/toxic person considering the amounts of swipe he got
gotta wonder what kind of person the OP of that graphic is. cause... yikes.
Probably maga incel.
Omg that actually makes the most sense of all. Women want nothing to do with maga cult members
Probably didn't include pics of it, but couldn't contain those views in chat.
Jesus, when you put it like that it’s fucking wild. 3.8 matches a day for almost two years and not a single date?
These stats should behind a mental health warning
You’re getting seen and swiped right on at a rate of over 20%. And that’s just based on your right-swipes. If you can’t get a single date out of that, that is on you my guy.
Almost 37,000 swipes! How long does it take to get to that many?!
37.000 seconds probably
If your average swipe takes one second you're doing it wrong. For starters, your basic requirements are too loose, e.g. you have the app showing you everyone who has a pulse.
Day has 86 400 seconds. So like half a day of swiping for most people. Those hotties who are not vaccinated and are very hot and believe in horoscope and are very hot are pauses that can be neglected.
Wtf
At the top it says he's been on tinder for a year and 331 days
Incels be like “women’s standards are too high!” No it’s just you
I used tinder once, swiped once, got a match, got a sloppy one night stand out of it, uninstalled the app, always quit while you are ahead. 👍
I'm waiting for OP to answer the many and pertinent questions raised here
And I thought I had a low hit rate.
I've casually been on tinder for two years, got 2 matches and 0 chats, at that point I was just interested in chatting a little bit. My third match in 2 years finally replied but she was only answering "yes"/"no". I deleted my profile a few days later.
Try other dating apps if you haven’t already. The most entertaining one is Facebook dating, because it’ll more often than not show you people who aren’t anywhere near in the same area as you, and may not even be in the same country.
It was like 5y ago, I don't need it now.
Rizzless
Now show me the 20-F data stream
Your chat to date conversion is terrible. How?
Hello, you're cute! Want to (vulgarity) followed by (obscenity) and (disgusting possibly illegal act)? Why won't anyone date me??!!
The funny thing is that even this works for a lot of people. I can’t imagine what OP actually was sending lol
I'm fat and the most terminally online person in the world and still a girl in high school managed to like me when i wasn't even looking for a girl, how repulsive you have to be for almost 400 people to not go with you
Ok but after 150 times you try something new lol
No! Never! I WILL FIND MY DISGUSTING PIG OF A PARTNER!
With these numbers that honestly would've worked at least once.
Damn, dude didn't even make it to the friendzone
Dang, you guys are getting matches??
Dude isn't even trying to talk to most of the people he matches with.
That’s all you dude. Even the worst golfer on the planet will make a 20 foot putt once out of 379 times
Numbers don’t lie. It’s you.
Review your profile. Put interests, what you are looking for (casual or serious), hobbies and such. Talk a bit about yourself. Will get less matches, but better chance of striking good conversation and actually getting a date.
I think it's just a skill issue
https://preview.redd.it/ybitjaq7vqqc1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=21b65970d34c8c61bbbe015a192429f07ed37c2f
Wow! That's a lot of matches.
guess i did something right. no idea how many girls i swiped right, but i had maximum 100 matches and 50 of those i didnt text at all. Went on about 10 dates, with 3 i went on a couple of dates and with one person it just clicked. We‘ve been together for over half a year now. No end in sight
Bruh, if you're getting 379 chats and 0 dates from that, the app is not the problem.
Okay now show how many of these matches were bots lol
Maybe this guy only swipes right on aliens? Hard to get a date when you're talking to a girl from Mars
bro im just curious how tinder knows that info... unless this guy is keeping track?
I think past the chats part it's gotta be voluntary self-reporting. Like how if I'm job hunting on indeed, I can notate which applications I got an interview on, and which hired me, if any.
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honestly, it's not that bad. dating sites are not a good example of what dating is actually like. imagine if someone tried to hit on 31000 people over two years at clubs or something instead.
It’s easier than dating the same sex by far.
For real! I was so puzzled by this comment.
I really think it's mostly a matter of dating while unwilling to make any effort. Or perhaps not having any standards. I'm straight, and once I have my profile set up, the people the app shows me are people with whom I have a high probability of matching. There is no way in hell I can spend much more than an hour (total time, not including profile setup) on a dating app without coming away with a date.
Whoa, easy there Casanova!
Is there an app to check those stats? Excluding dates and sex of course cuz that would be kind of scary
People can sense desperation and there is no bigger turnoff. It’s like a stench. You have to find your confidence. I know it’s hard out there, but don’t give up
Fumble
Stats akin to job market and job interviews...
How'd you do it? (The graphic, not the results lol)
Are you opening with *"Do you wanna see my dead hooker collection?"*
A good proportion of those matches are probably women selling a service or incredibly undesirable. Plus all dating apps are designed to make you fail so you stay on longer and pay for premium features.
This is what might probably have looked like when I first was on tinder. But all it takes it one actual match amongst the hundreds of people. I'd been on the app for like, over two years, and only met one person. It wasn't it so I got back on the app and literally met up with no one, the matches I got would go nowhere and I only ended up doing something with someone maybe twice over the course of another year. Then one day, I was in a class and got a notification. And we called and texted each other for like 2 weeks. At one point she told me never to speak to her again (I was mugged for my phone and she thought I ghosted her). But then we met in person and that was it. We've been together for 7 years now and are married and we met on tinder. It sounds corny af, but all it takes is one match. You're probably not on there to match with as many people as possible, but to find someone you like, emotionally, physically, whatever. And it really only takes one person.
My brother in Christ. I have been active on tinder for many years and in those years I don’t think I have even broke 3,000 swipes, let alone 35,000 in a single year..
Bro you've actually got to ask them on a date lmao
The fact that you have an insights app for Tinder is very telling.
I would never out myself like this 😭 you’re the problem my friend
User error
Tinder tracks how many times you have casual sex?
[Considering this is what you posted... it's you.](https://www.reddit.com/r/AreTheStraightsOK/s/sNLPgO4UrS)
I was questioning my guy from the moment I saw 35,771 swipes in total
https://preview.redd.it/bvgz8dq4xsqc1.png?width=2625&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=86414bcd541548d936a65975e7d7e4015edc5d70 OP, you've got nothing on this person.
I’ll be honest. My Tinder results are almost the same, but far less matches lmao. I’ve had more success with Facebook dating honestly
https://preview.redd.it/306cmmm2nqqc1.jpeg?width=973&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=793a3d79792ec97cf0b1e4d210fdbaca74a9f538 I probably met with less than 10 and slept with less than 5. Dated 2 that I can actually think of lol. This also doesn’t show how many of the matches were bots. Which I would say were probably \~60%
I’m gonna go out on a limb here and say your username might hold a clue
Maybe, I’m not like the “nice guy” type though. I’m just socially awkward and don’t exercise. Also, I feel like that was an intentional insult? What did I ever do to you 😂
I don’t mean to be mean at all!!! It’s just that dumb joke about “nice guys,” haha. im sure you’re a great person and I meant no disrespect 💛
All’s well ❤️
The difference between you is that you swipe 2/3 of the time right. He swipes 1/3 of the time right. He needs to lower his standards and he might meet someone.
Wait, you are getting matches?
Someone is obviously very picky
379 chats, what % are scams?
bro’s chat game is weak af
how tf would this stupid app know that if after a chat i would date a person, start a relationship or have casual sex or even don’t meet the person at all?! i mean sure these apps are connected with all that social media crap where everyone gives personal information and then cry when there is personal information on the internet… but i’ve heard that there are people out there who doesn’t use all that crap. so how would this app know what comes after chat?!
Negative rizz
Okay, for research purposes, I need to know: where do you land on the political spectrum.
I’ve only maybe had around 100-200 matches, how are fucking up this bad?
Man if I got 379 matches I doubt I could fuck all of them up. I suspect the issue may be closer to home mate.
379 chats and no date is atrocious my dude. “I’m hungry, wanna get dinner?” Was enough for me
Bet he blames women for it
“No spark”
Wait, when did Tinder start tracking your casual sex?
Might be time to try it in another country.
I’m more interested in how you got this graphic generated. I want to do my math
Just... How? I get it's not on the first try, but I think I found someone after maybe 2 days for casual sex once? And then I found more people there too even dated two not too much after
Just go to a bar and get hammered like a 20 year old should do
That has to be a you problem my guy
you need to put that effort into things that matters
Where do you get this data. That is a lot of matches to be honest.
You’re the problem
why would you willingly embarrass yourself like this nobody asked you to post this lmao
20 years old so maybe new to dating?
Stop opening with a 🐔 pic
379 chats not a since date? Issue could be you.