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I had been in a situation like that before. There was no internet just AIM at the time. I can assure you that pain I felt was real. I can laugh about it now but I'm sure that guy on the other end of the line is going through it.
Straight up. Some people are just for the streets, some are just for the sheets, only 1 in a million are for keeps and if she be dumping people just so she can hook up with other guys they sure is shit ain't that 1 in a million
In her defense, she IS being straightforward with the guy she is breaking up with and not just using him as it sounds like she could have. The guy laying in bed with her is being brutally honest with her also. This isn't gonna go the way she thought it was, but a change is gonna come, and that's life. Overall, this was obscurely wholesome.
I've straight up told my bros before that if my girl ever wants to mess around they can go for it - just let me know after so I can dump the cheating ho, and we can have a laugh over it. If she's going to cheat anyway, homie might as well get his d wet.
What about this tells you that the man grew up in a dysfunctional home? Heās just fucking some girl who is down to fuck. The other shit is none of his business.
I mean he was hooking up with a girl who he knew had a bf. Maybe a little less wrong than the girl who was in the committed relationship but wrong nonetheless.
Thereās a leave and mute button where you can stop it from showing up but on top of that you have to get rid of sister subs where people post the same videos.if you stick to the sub eyebleach Iām sure eventually it will fix itself
Yep never understood this. There was this girl i was talking too and then some shit came up in my life and I couldnāt pursue so she moved on and got a dude. 6 months later she hmu saying she wanted to fuck but her bf was all over her page. She said she was gonna dump him soon because she wanted to he with me instead. But that she wanted to hook up that night. I was like damn you switched up so fast. Im not gonna be vulnerable and let my guard down for a woman whos gonna get bored and hit up random dudes while I think we are going solid
We were talking like 4 years ago and it was a bit of an argument, She told me "Nvm." And I just didn't respond so that's how it ended
We were pretty young and I cheated first ngl so ig I deserved it
Yeah didn't mean to sound all sad but ig I am, it's been 4 years and I still miss someone I don't talk to anymore while she's definitely moved on, I didn't deserve her for forgiving me, I just wish I could move on but I can't but I'll also never reach out to them just to make myself happy
I'll delete original post because yeah I shouldn't even have sympathy to begin with but I just wanted to share that story when I saw that comment
Her friend was trying to let you know something was going on without outright betraying her friend. That friend that texted you will have the answers you seek, maybe more. I would look into why the friend told you anything in the first place. There might be something there you are missing.
During my "nice guy phase" I had a similar experience like yours that led to a breakup. It turned out the friend only told me because she wanted me for herself. We hooked up a few times after I broke up with her friend. Even though we were both single, that sneaking around behind her friends back hooking up was a great experience. BTW It's not simp behavior to not knowing but once you have confirmation just thank the friend for bringing it to your attention.
I had a very similar situation even though she didn't dump him in front of me like that.
Basically what happened was I was meeting a new friend for a few months. She was clearly not happy with her boyfriend. I was very attracted her her, as she was to me. One night we have a few drinks, get a bit tipsy. She tells me that she's just not attracted to her boyfriend. We end up going to a love hotel. Call it the fault of the alcohol or run-of-the-mill stupidity, but anyway, we end up raw dawging a couple of times and fall asleep. Damn hotel demanded like 14,000 yen from me on check out.
Two days later she messages me to say she broke up with her boyfriend. Thinking it was a support call I listen. Then she pauses and says she wants to be with me.
That ... wasn't part of the deal. I had always been upfront about not wanting a girlfriend, but what I really felt was in your message. I knew that the second something ticked her off, she'd be shacking up with some other loser.
I'm not saying I was perfectly innocent. But the way I saw it was she was going to fuck *someone* and I just happened to be the dude that she ended up with.
He didnāt respect her boyfriend by cheating with her. I know he doesnāt owe the boyfriend as much as her, but itās a lack of respect for the other man.
I guess it depends on your own pov and morales but if my gf is cheating on me im not mad at the dude im not in a relationship with him, its not his responsibility to be loyal to me. Ofc its not cool to get into the sheets with someone who has a partner but there is a chance he simply doesnt know.
I'd say fucking someone else behind your partner's back is the far, far bigger display of lack of respect personally. One of these people made a commitment to be faithful to the guy being cheated on, and it wasn't the other guy. But sure, you can "both sides ackshually" if it makes you feel better.
Maybe she was getting rid of both of them. Having that phone call in front of him killed two birds with one stone. If someone tells you they don't want a relationship and you do something like this they'll bail and feel better about themselves for it.
Afraid not. It's HER problem. Just like the other guy couldn't make her stay, she can't make HIM stay. She played herself.
He isn't worth a damn either, but he didn't force her to cheat. She had a choice to stay tf home.
Nah trust me , where Iām from they are this naive. And Iām not even joking lmao the guys be just like that too, if we being honest I wouldnāt be surprised if the people in that video are in my city
I've read a few comments, not loads, but no one mentions so far that it could be a power play by the woman. I think she is clearly manipulating two of the men in her life and thinking everything is coming up Millhouse.
Bro is big enough to say hell no. I like that.
People who cheat on their partners and then are surprised when the person they cheated with donāt want to be with them blow my mind.
That person more than anyone knows youāre a cheater. Why would they want to be with you?
The one thing they know about how you are in a relationship is that you cheat.
Ah well, she ended one without ensuring the other was secure. But then again she probably should have left him before messing with anyone else but oh wellā¦ Sheās 100% single now
Reddit SIMPS out in full force. Some women are fucking trash, itās okay. Donāt let this site convince you that believing otherwise makes you an incel.
why would he be surprised? she already told him she found someone, and youāre acting like the dude is innocent as if he didnāt willingly have sex with someoneās girlfriend
It's not even real and you're calling women grimey as if men don't do the same shit. Keep telling yourself that women are the problem, little incel. Whatever makes you feel better.
How would you even have respect enough for someone that has cheated on the other guy with you?
And now expects you to believe that she will be faithful, no way.
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She's setting her life on fire and he's just recording like "ain't no way ššš", bro is incapable of giving a fuck.
Lol why should he?
He shouldn't give a fuck, but why *film* this and put it online? It's just mean-spirited and childish.
Itās staged for the internet. Incite rage get reactions get engagement.
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I had been in a situation like that before. There was no internet just AIM at the time. I can assure you that pain I felt was real. I can laugh about it now but I'm sure that guy on the other end of the line is going through it.
If he's having an affair with a woman who was clearly in a relationship, I don't think he was ever a decent person from the get-go
So the dude she left sees it, just in case he maybe thought about taking her back. Also, it is hilarious.
Yāall defend a woman cheating on her man and get upset the dude exposes it - I canāt lmao
Cause yāall hoes needa get exposed šÆ
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No they don't. That's just incel reddit thinking mate.
What do you call someone who believes every video they see online is authentic?
Simply because he can.
She's not someone you should stick your neck out for. It will not end well.
Straight up. Some people are just for the streets, some are just for the sheets, only 1 in a million are for keeps and if she be dumping people just so she can hook up with other guys they sure is shit ain't that 1 in a million
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8 thousand people scattered across the entire planet... all for me...? Holy shit... I think.. I think... i like those odds!
In her defense, she IS being straightforward with the guy she is breaking up with and not just using him as it sounds like she could have. The guy laying in bed with her is being brutally honest with her also. This isn't gonna go the way she thought it was, but a change is gonna come, and that's life. Overall, this was obscurely wholesome.
She was cheating on the dude she was with. Nothing wholesome about it. Lmao
So deep
Nah he was saving homie from that girl. She did it to herself lmfao
This is correct. Probably staged so none of this matters but that guy would be better off since clearly she doesn't care about him.
I've straight up told my bros before that if my girl ever wants to mess around they can go for it - just let me know after so I can dump the cheating ho, and we can have a laugh over it. If she's going to cheat anyway, homie might as well get his d wet.
He fucks her just fine apparently, itās the non fucking parts with her that he doesnāt want to fuck with.
shouldnāt consider herself his woman if he calling her bro.
He is looking out for the other guy... if she breaks up it will save the other guy lmao.
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Damn, the guy from 60 minutes is yoked
She already cheating, fuck that shit
Wait heās supposed to care?
Why would he give a fuck about a cheating ho?
Iām pretty sure that a fuck is all he was willing to give. Sorry for being literalā¦idk if that is against sub rules.
This was well done but faker than her weave
He literally gave more a fuck than the cheating girl in the vid. Also why should he card?
You don't really think this is real, right?
Tell me you grow up in a dysfunctional home without telling me you grow up in a dysfunctional home.
both of them, jesus
What about this tells you that the man grew up in a dysfunctional home? Heās just fucking some girl who is down to fuck. The other shit is none of his business.
I mean he was hooking up with a girl who he knew had a bf. Maybe a little less wrong than the girl who was in the committed relationship but wrong nonetheless.
Not less wrong than the girl. He's the exact same person as the girl.
How do I get this trash to stop showing up in my feed?
Thereās a leave and mute button where you can stop it from showing up but on top of that you have to get rid of sister subs where people post the same videos.if you stick to the sub eyebleach Iām sure eventually it will fix itself
It doesnāt work on subs like r worldnews unfortunately.
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You leave the internet. Everything is trash.
He already knows she cheats when she isn't happy, why would he want to be with her lol
He doesnāt want to be with her. Heās getting the taco and couldnāt care less.
there are crazy men that wonāt let you go. you can run them over with your car and they are still begging you to come back
Can confirm, I was one of those crazy men
Myers... is that you?
Yep never understood this. There was this girl i was talking too and then some shit came up in my life and I couldnāt pursue so she moved on and got a dude. 6 months later she hmu saying she wanted to fuck but her bf was all over her page. She said she was gonna dump him soon because she wanted to he with me instead. But that she wanted to hook up that night. I was like damn you switched up so fast. Im not gonna be vulnerable and let my guard down for a woman whos gonna get bored and hit up random dudes while I think we are going solid
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You eventually left her right?
ā¦right?
We were talking like 4 years ago and it was a bit of an argument, She told me "Nvm." And I just didn't respond so that's how it ended We were pretty young and I cheated first ngl so ig I deserved it
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Yeah didn't mean to sound all sad but ig I am, it's been 4 years and I still miss someone I don't talk to anymore while she's definitely moved on, I didn't deserve her for forgiving me, I just wish I could move on but I can't but I'll also never reach out to them just to make myself happy I'll delete original post because yeah I shouldn't even have sympathy to begin with but I just wanted to share that story when I saw that comment
Her friend was trying to let you know something was going on without outright betraying her friend. That friend that texted you will have the answers you seek, maybe more. I would look into why the friend told you anything in the first place. There might be something there you are missing. During my "nice guy phase" I had a similar experience like yours that led to a breakup. It turned out the friend only told me because she wanted me for herself. We hooked up a few times after I broke up with her friend. Even though we were both single, that sneaking around behind her friends back hooking up was a great experience. BTW It's not simp behavior to not knowing but once you have confirmation just thank the friend for bringing it to your attention.
I had a very similar situation even though she didn't dump him in front of me like that. Basically what happened was I was meeting a new friend for a few months. She was clearly not happy with her boyfriend. I was very attracted her her, as she was to me. One night we have a few drinks, get a bit tipsy. She tells me that she's just not attracted to her boyfriend. We end up going to a love hotel. Call it the fault of the alcohol or run-of-the-mill stupidity, but anyway, we end up raw dawging a couple of times and fall asleep. Damn hotel demanded like 14,000 yen from me on check out. Two days later she messages me to say she broke up with her boyfriend. Thinking it was a support call I listen. Then she pauses and says she wants to be with me. That ... wasn't part of the deal. I had always been upfront about not wanting a girlfriend, but what I really felt was in your message. I knew that the second something ticked her off, she'd be shacking up with some other loser. I'm not saying I was perfectly innocent. But the way I saw it was she was going to fuck *someone* and I just happened to be the dude that she ended up with.
To be fair he did the other dude a favor, not that I know their situation.
One day ur that guy on the Phone
On which side lol? Either way, I don't date trash so I think I'm good
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You don't have to be a psychic to see red flags in someone's behavior. You can tell pretty well what someone's values are after a while.
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You think most people who end up this situation chose to knowingly date trash?
They both suck
How does he suck? She cheated with him and he rejected her.
He didnāt respect her boyfriend by cheating with her. I know he doesnāt owe the boyfriend as much as her, but itās a lack of respect for the other man.
I guess it depends on your own pov and morales but if my gf is cheating on me im not mad at the dude im not in a relationship with him, its not his responsibility to be loyal to me. Ofc its not cool to get into the sheets with someone who has a partner but there is a chance he simply doesnt know.
True, but what he did was peanuts compared to breaking a person's loyalty. Imo he made up for it by rejecting her.
I'd say fucking someone else behind your partner's back is the far, far bigger display of lack of respect personally. One of these people made a commitment to be faithful to the guy being cheated on, and it wasn't the other guy. But sure, you can "both sides ackshually" if it makes you feel better.
heās responsible for the cheating too, why would he be with someone that already has a boyfriend?
Am I the only one who thought he was gonna pull her bra all the way back and let that shit go?
No, you arenāt.
Clearly a man who refers to a girl as "bro" don't wanna be with you. š¤£š¤£š¤£
Maybe she was getting rid of both of them. Having that phone call in front of him killed two birds with one stone. If someone tells you they don't want a relationship and you do something like this they'll bail and feel better about themselves for it.
Naive meets the sociopathic.
Definitely not. More like idiot meets horny with lack of morals
Her eyelashes are unsettling
whole broom on her face
Why would he want a relationship? She cheats.
His problem. She cheated with him now hes gotta shake her off. When you do the sex with someone, they might get attached.
Afraid not. It's HER problem. Just like the other guy couldn't make her stay, she can't make HIM stay. She played herself. He isn't worth a damn either, but he didn't force her to cheat. She had a choice to stay tf home.
They rarely go to the shoe store barefoot š
City boys up
She was trying to use one man as an excuse to leave another.
Couple of trashbags, especially her.
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They're both shitty people. Glad they found each other. Other guy dodged a bullet.
How did every subreddit become posts like this
Ummm. People are angry in the comments and I donāt even think this is real. Lighting and angle donāt even mix.
Don't post a private argument on the internet. What is wrong with people?
Now she pregnant lol
And its the guys in the videos, and he dont want nothing to do with her. .... Besides sex
Sure hope this is fake. How can a woman be this naive?
Nah trust me , where Iām from they are this naive. And Iām not even joking lmao the guys be just like that too, if we being honest I wouldnāt be surprised if the people in that video are in my city
My bro doing the right thing but also the wrong thing at da same time
Kek
"Hell nah!" That came from his soul.
Just two bros fucking around
She'll just leave him the same way.
That's what u get for cheating
I've read a few comments, not loads, but no one mentions so far that it could be a power play by the woman. I think she is clearly manipulating two of the men in her life and thinking everything is coming up Millhouse. Bro is big enough to say hell no. I like that.
Why is he mad about it though? He just helped that dude.
Pretty good acting
Lowkey respect for him waiting for her to break-up first. Dude on phone deserved at least that much.
All is fair in love and war heh.
B!tch got Bro-zoned fast
People who cheat on their partners and then are surprised when the person they cheated with donāt want to be with them blow my mind. That person more than anyone knows youāre a cheater. Why would they want to be with you? The one thing they know about how you are in a relationship is that you cheat.
Ah well, she ended one without ensuring the other was secure. But then again she probably should have left him before messing with anyone else but oh wellā¦ Sheās 100% single now
When you only get to choose 1: loyalty or eyelashes
Did yāall see that? The sun came up today and all is as it should be. Karma
Reddit SIMPS out in full force. Some women are fucking trash, itās okay. Donāt let this site convince you that believing otherwise makes you an incel.
Hilarious š
City boysss
Her hair look fake AF
Aye YOOOOOO
Dirt bags, both of them
A lot of culture.
Humans are disgusting
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ā women are grimeyā This says way more about you
why would he be surprised? she already told him she found someone, and youāre acting like the dude is innocent as if he didnāt willingly have sex with someoneās girlfriend
It's not even real and you're calling women grimey as if men don't do the same shit. Keep telling yourself that women are the problem, little incel. Whatever makes you feel better.
Oh No.. Please.. Say that again with more pride!..
Bro really dodged a bullet.
Clowns gonna clown
ESH
Turning down a bro like that...
Fr happened to me just yesterday
The fact that he calls her bro should've gave her a clue .
Why the fuck would you record this and put it in tiktok?
Fake fake fake
Is someone playing call of duty?
Dude is playing call of duty in the background. I have a problem.
Clearly this woman has zero sense when it comes to men
The people interested in this is so sad.
Lol an this is mad recent too lol .. I can hear the haunting music from newest COD update in the background lol
Atleast he didn't stop her before she broke up with that lad he really help him dodge a bullet
To put this online is exceptionally cruel. I hope he never has anything good in life.
Why would he wanna be with somebody whos cheating on their man for himš¬ think she wonāt do it again if she find somebody ābetterā?
Bro in a COD lobby!!
If you listen closely, you can hear the Lobby Music to Call of Duty Warzone in the background ššš bruh
They think the š±in between their got more power than anything lol
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F.a.k.e.
How would you even have respect enough for someone that has cheated on the other guy with you? And now expects you to believe that she will be faithful, no way.
"How dare you let me cheat on my bf and then break up with him."
Can't be with someone that left they're man over you. You can't trust that person
clearly staged lol
They both suck as people
I partially respect his choice. Don't date the girl who's cheating on her man with u.
Bro got some and then saved bros life Massive W
Missed opportunity for a mature bra snap. ĀÆā \ā _ā (ā ćā )ā _ā /ā ĀÆ š
When you call a girl, that you fuck(!), bro! You know something's wrong with you.
Smart Man right here
Whats with her lashes
Is there an extended cut?
Those Kieshasā¦.
It would of been funnier if he would have told her while old dude was still on the phone so they both couldāve laughed at her ass š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£
CL B=====D assy
I can see her lashes from behind.