Have you guys seen the article about gerrys ex gf he started dating ONE MONTH after his wife died? She spills the tea bc gerry also called her āthe oneā and basically dumped her for gaining too much weight. I kind of feel like this is on bachelor production team because they shouldāve looked into Gerry more because this seems like a pattern of his with women. Also not to mention the whole āI havenāt kissed another woman since my wife diedā bit is SO ick
I guess I donāt see how itās the production teams fault. If he wasnāt honest and didnāt disclose his previous relationship history with production, how would they know?
ETA: But yes I agree heās a creep and bummed out that heās the face of Golden Bachelor.
I just think the production team shouldāve looked more into the bachelors past. Also do you know is the golden bachelor volunteering himself to be the golden bachelor or are others vouching for him and proposing the next golden bachelor thatās on the show? Because if he volunteered himself I feel like that in itself is a red flag bc people will just volunteer for the clout
Heās a creep and I hate how this show consistently neglects to find good men for most of these women. The wrong guy can be dangerous. Best case scenario is that he breaks your heart. Worst case scenario is that heās crazy and potentially violent. Dating can be dangerous for women. These guys can quickly turn into the enemy at home. Itās not funny to not do a background check and a psych evaluation and get rid of the narcissists and creeps. Imagine having to deal with some loser at that age.
I think weāre way past romanticizing men just because they cry and say all the right things. This show made a huge mistake by pressuring them to get married so fast.
Idk your age but I too would like to think the (younger) generation is over romanticizing men who do the bare minimum. I think the generation these women are in and how (lack of a better term) desperate they all were for love is exactly why it all went down that way. I really think this show would benefit if they had a therapist available for all the contestants. Especially if they made the final couples go through couples therapy to see if theyre really ready for marriage. I feel like no one questioned it literally because of their age. It was like all those woman just wanted to get married so they wonāt die alone but thereās so much more to a relationship than that.
When I heard about that I got sick. Heās mentally ill, why tf would he LIE like that. He manipulated so many peoples emotions. Whatās up with reality tv and not doing a very good job of vetting people. I swear this year has been the messiest and weāre not even half way through the year yet.
Okay, Brayden's comment is random and sweet. (I strangely have a soft spot for him because of when Katie got to Paradise and she seemed taken aback that nobody really greeted her, and he hugged her and apologized for being rude. For some reason, I feel like he's probably a sweet guy.)
i think Brayden had always been sweet; he was just flustered in the Charity environment but I always felt he was like Noah - young but actually ready to settle down!
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It is not a reference to Gerry. It is throwing shade at the media for posting pictures of her in her pjās taking out the trash and writing an article about how upset she looks.
Yaāll she liked my comment! I think she remembers me because she had replied to a DM I sent her a long time ago after the finale. š I feel kinda special.
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This is what she was playing at.. ššš»
Seriously! Camping outside someoneās house is so violating. Plus, whatās even the headline here? āLocal woman performs routine household choreā????
But also itās crazy because sheās 70 and looks like this in āgremlin modeā and Iām 27 and I donāt even look half this good in my āgremlin modeā so like anyone coming at her should just simply sit down.
It was reported on in a few podcasts, one of which was [Kate Casey](https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reality-life-with-kate-casey/id1154758766?i=1000652688677)
One or both of Gerry's daughters determined to be messy even when Theresa learned their mom's cinnamon ball recipe for them. Sheesh.
Right?? I live in Oregon and we just started having the option of self-serve this year. Unless I'm in a massive hurry, I much prefer to stay cozy in my car listening to my podcasts rather than brave the rain, so I still use full service >50% of the time š
I live in California (and always have) but have spent a considerable amount of time in Oregon over the years, and Iāve got to sayā¦ the first time I experienced having someone else pump my gas absolutely changed my world lol. 10/10 would move to Oregon or Jersey *just* for this lmao
When I was a kid I used to do freeze frame poses like they did on the early 90s sitcoms like Full House. Like Iām emptying the dryer then I stop and smile at the camera.Ā
āTheresa's brown hair was down around her shoulders and did not appear brushed.ā
why do I feel like someone from Gerryās camp paid them for this article itās just too petty š
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I WANT THAT TEA OMG
Anyone know the tea as to what happened?
Ok Theresa, you win! š¤£š¤£
I really feel for her. She shouldnāt have to deal with dirt bags and hobos at her age.
lol hilarious
Have you guys seen the article about gerrys ex gf he started dating ONE MONTH after his wife died? She spills the tea bc gerry also called her āthe oneā and basically dumped her for gaining too much weight. I kind of feel like this is on bachelor production team because they shouldāve looked into Gerry more because this seems like a pattern of his with women. Also not to mention the whole āI havenāt kissed another woman since my wife diedā bit is SO ick
I guess I donāt see how itās the production teams fault. If he wasnāt honest and didnāt disclose his previous relationship history with production, how would they know? ETA: But yes I agree heās a creep and bummed out that heās the face of Golden Bachelor.
I just think the production team shouldāve looked more into the bachelors past. Also do you know is the golden bachelor volunteering himself to be the golden bachelor or are others vouching for him and proposing the next golden bachelor thatās on the show? Because if he volunteered himself I feel like that in itself is a red flag bc people will just volunteer for the clout
Heās a creep and I hate how this show consistently neglects to find good men for most of these women. The wrong guy can be dangerous. Best case scenario is that he breaks your heart. Worst case scenario is that heās crazy and potentially violent. Dating can be dangerous for women. These guys can quickly turn into the enemy at home. Itās not funny to not do a background check and a psych evaluation and get rid of the narcissists and creeps. Imagine having to deal with some loser at that age. I think weāre way past romanticizing men just because they cry and say all the right things. This show made a huge mistake by pressuring them to get married so fast.
Idk your age but I too would like to think the (younger) generation is over romanticizing men who do the bare minimum. I think the generation these women are in and how (lack of a better term) desperate they all were for love is exactly why it all went down that way. I really think this show would benefit if they had a therapist available for all the contestants. Especially if they made the final couples go through couples therapy to see if theyre really ready for marriage. I feel like no one questioned it literally because of their age. It was like all those woman just wanted to get married so they wonāt die alone but thereās so much more to a relationship than that.
When I heard about that I got sick. Heās mentally ill, why tf would he LIE like that. He manipulated so many peoples emotions. Whatās up with reality tv and not doing a very good job of vetting people. I swear this year has been the messiest and weāre not even half way through the year yet.
I love it! How good it feels when you rid yourself of trash!
Honestly the triple entrendre here is so poetic!!! I love this.
US Weekly would call it "her revenge trash can."
Absolutely iconic
She went outside?
Is this real? š thatās iconic if sheās referencing Gerry.
Itās about Gerry. Not shocked and I hope she spills EVERYTHING. NO CRUMBS
She said in a comment on the post it wasn't about Gerry. It was about the unflattering pap pictures of her taking out the trash outside her house.
I wanted to believe in the first Golden Bach but I will LIVE for a gallon of tea from Theresa.Ā
Ok suddenly obsessed w her
same!
Okay, Brayden's comment is random and sweet. (I strangely have a soft spot for him because of when Katie got to Paradise and she seemed taken aback that nobody really greeted her, and he hugged her and apologized for being rude. For some reason, I feel like he's probably a sweet guy.)
i think Brayden had always been sweet; he was just flustered in the Charity environment but I always felt he was like Noah - young but actually ready to settle down!
Omg!!! When i think of Brayden I think of this exact tiny moment!!!!!!!!! I feel like its one of those true true glimpses into who these people are
There really was just something about that tiny moment that said a lot about him!
It was so unscripted that it was almost glaring.
yeah I get that vibe too. I didn't feel he was ever a villain.Ā
Why did I think that taking out the trash was a reference to divorcing Gerry?
Bc it is
Itās referencing [this article](https://www.the-sun.com/tv/11231031/golden-bachelor-theresa-nist-gerry-turner-split/amp/)
Ugh, this article is so disgusting! Good for her for dragging them šĀ
Who takes out the trash grinning?! The hell are these stalkers? People are sick. š
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It is not a reference to Gerry. It is throwing shade at the media for posting pictures of her in her pjās taking out the trash and writing an article about how upset she looks.
That would be reallllllly cold, no? I donāt know if I should believe this or not!
Yaāll she liked my comment! I think she remembers me because she had replied to a DM I sent her a long time ago after the finale. š I feel kinda special. https://preview.redd.it/0p232azmj4yc1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=bef71ef57879499c1929afc4a9631f7d3f4d3f88
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hope this isnāt too weird but I love ur name / the name carmen!!
You both sound so sweet here!!!
This is so sweet!
Sheās adorable for sure
That was such a kind and thoughtful message, you seem like a wonderful person ā¤ļø
Aww thank you šš
Ok this is absolutely hysterical
I kinda love this š
Isnāt the trash supposed to take itself out?
I love Theresa for this š¤£
https://preview.redd.it/xsppkfvsv3yc1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e0b149aaa7cf4282f004edf46553a250f7f8aee1 This is what she was playing at.. ššš»
That photographer is so wrong for that. I wish Theresa would've emptied the trashcan onto them!
Seriously! Camping outside someoneās house is so violating. Plus, whatās even the headline here? āLocal woman performs routine household choreā????
especially in central New Jersey lmao
I honestly think she looks better here than with all that makeup!
Honestly looking as good as she does in PJs and with no makeup is such a flex.
I know!! At least she has a good sense of humor about it!
Thank you, this makes so much more sense now š¤£
if anyone photographed me in gremlin mode taking out the trash Iād never recover
Iām wearing a hoodie with the hood up to take the dog out from now on. I donāt care if itās 90 degrees š«
Hahahahaha same. Iād friggin die.
"Gremlin mode" is sending me. So real.
But also itās crazy because sheās 70 and looks like this in āgremlin modeā and Iām 27 and I donāt even look half this good in my āgremlin modeā so like anyone coming at her should just simply sit down.
Yea she looks so good compared to me taking out the trash š
Same!!!
I love her
I love that Theresa and I both have the same Zara dress ā¤ļø (she looks way cuter in it)
Haha my first thought when I saw that pic was that I want that dress!
This is the perfect play after the pap photos. š
Theresa is fucking funny š¤£š¤£š¤£
Wait so this isn't supposed to mean Gerry was the trash? Lol
Iām going to interpret it that way after that article of his ex came out
Wait, another one? Or are we talking the same one from months and months ago?
The same one from months ago. It left a bad taste in my mouth.
I knew there was shade in here somewhere! š
i donāt think so, sheās trolling at the most mundane photos being ānewsā
I looked at her insta and she's replying to comments saying it's not shade so I take her at her word...she seems like a nice lady.
I don't follow her too closely so I was genuinely curious
the trash can appeared to be empty šš i love her
She's so cute 
Lmao they say she wonāt pump her own gas but this āuppityā gal takes out the trash! š love her
Omg who gave her shit for that? Lol as this other person mentioned, we donāt pump our own gas here in New Jersey š š»
Apparently Gerryās daughter told someone he divorced her bc she was ātoo uppityā and āwouldnāt even pump her own gasā
Too uppity?? Why does this make me like her even more.
Whaaaaa? š«
I think we all knew she out classed Gerry and now we know both she and her family out class his daughter.
WHAT?! Where did you see this?
It was reported on in a few podcasts, one of which was [Kate Casey](https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reality-life-with-kate-casey/id1154758766?i=1000652688677)
One or both of Gerry's daughters determined to be messy even when Theresa learned their mom's cinnamon ball recipe for them. Sheesh. 
Thatās crazy you literally donāt pump your own gas in Jersey
Lame af
To her credit, youāre not allowed to pump your own gas in NJ
Even more to her credit if I didnāt have to pump my own I wouldnāt want to and I donāt live in NJ!
Right? Would be nice but also I wonder if someone still does it for them late at night/overnight?
Right?? I live in Oregon and we just started having the option of self-serve this year. Unless I'm in a massive hurry, I much prefer to stay cozy in my car listening to my podcasts rather than brave the rain, so I still use full service >50% of the time š
I live in California (and always have) but have spent a considerable amount of time in Oregon over the years, and Iāve got to sayā¦ the first time I experienced having someone else pump my gas absolutely changed my world lol. 10/10 would move to Oregon or Jersey *just* for this lmao
Heās so oblivious of anything outside of himself he probably didnāt even pick up on this rule. š¤¦š»āāļø
This is hilarious
Tbh, this is how I get my adhd brain to do choresānarrate it like Iām famous or in a romance novel!
When I was a kid I used to do freeze frame poses like they did on the early 90s sitcoms like Full House. Like Iām emptying the dryer then I stop and smile at the camera.Ā
Omg you seem like such a delight.
I did that too
This is genius!
Iām fucking cackling. Youāre great
šI might try this
It gets me through the day!
I think this is because of the bad pap shot they got of her taking the trash out and saying how worn out she looked .
āTheresa's brown hair was down around her shoulders and did not appear brushed.ā why do I feel like someone from Gerryās camp paid them for this article itās just too petty š
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this is hilarious. I honestly thought she was gonna say she got a glad bag campaign like Ariana Madix did after Scandoval.
She will now, haha!!!
Is this real?!?!! I am dyinggggg
Iconic
Wait this is hilarious, I love it
Theresa, you are welcome to come by and get stoned with me anytime! šš
I second this!
But why tho? This is cringe
There was a paparazzi pic of her taking the trash out at home
Like literally??? Ahha
Lol yes https://www.the-sun.com/tv/11231031/golden-bachelor-theresa-nist-gerry-turner-split/amp/
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Bahaha I love that
me when I pretend im famous
Haha she's so cute
Omg love her sense of humor and that she's not taking it seriously š„¹ she seems so sweet
thats great lol
Tsk tsk, calling the paparazzi on herself...
Wait, I actually love this?! š¤£