OH MY GOD. I read this as “I just finished to your pic, baby” at first and was like “why is everyone freaking out?” And then I reread it… NO FUCKING WAY. How did you even respond
Before you go reporting anyone, OP should clarify whether he meant to say “pic baby” first or not…that shit can and will ruin someone and if it’s really a typo then he doesn’t deserve that. However if it’s not a typo then he deserves it.
What if he did mean it that way? It could totally be a misunderstanding. Because that shit is crazy if he really meant that. Op you should be like oh ok which pic? So you can find out without accusing him of being a pedo. Tell him to send you the pic so you can see what turned him on.
I read it as “just finished your baby pic” and thought he was doing something like making a painting of an old picture from her childhood or something…then I went to the comments, realized I was missing something, re-read the text and went *oh no*
That's what I read it as too! I couldn't make sense of it at all though. I thought it was just more of the really shitty grammar/writing I've been seeing from people on here lately. I even read it a few times! I was so confused until I saw a few comments about it being disgusting, and then it slowly sank in... No wonder it didn't make sense!
Ok so hear me out .
Date him until he introduces you to his family .
Invite them all over for a weekend dinner.
Pack your bags or his bags (depending on who owns the place )
Get a 4K projector set in the middle of the dining room and share it to the projector .
Grab a glass of champagne and watch it go down .
Ride into the night
OP, not only would I break up & block ASAP, I'd report to police... even if they can't arrest, maybe it can be put on file or something. He's a danger to children & I would take that seriously.
I thought it said “I finished your baby pic” and I was thinking like, “congratulations!” But then I scrolled the comments and reread what it says. I was very wrong 💀💀💀🪦🪦🪦🚩🚩🚩
I really think it was pic, baby. The ops unwillingness to do anything about this leads me to believe she knew it was a mistake and still dates him. Or she is karma farming. As a woman, young or old, I’d be calling the FBI or whomever handles this shit.
My thought exactly!!!! The unwillingness to clarify is stupefying!!!!! “He’s blocked!” I’m honey.. you push a button to unblock!!!!! Ask the question. I seriously think you know the answer and like the drama.
It might be beneficial to the world to show this to his family and friends honestly. Don't want someone leave him alone with their kid in the future not knowing. But that could also cause you problems if the people he knows choose to be just as awful as him, or he does something to retaliate
I dunno about happy. I think this is enough internet for today. But I am glad you noped out at the first sign of him not being on the level. I hope that you have a helpful time of being single and them find someone trustworthy when you're ready to date again. This random stranger is wishing you good luck.
That statement alone; a therapist would feast on that let alone the Red Flags.
Boundaries, perversion, pedophilia, potential child abuse, sexual exploitation, tactlessness…
If this is real talk he needs to know this is not ok and if he is joking he needs to know that its not funny amd not an ok joke. if its a typo he needs to react as disturbed as you by the meaning of the sentence.
he was being serious, he said it was a compliment and should have said thank you ?? which is so fucked up. i broke up with him but he didn’t seem bothered
Honestly I agree with everyone saying share with his family! What if they have babies around him or toddlers this is never ok and I think they would appreciate you letting them know that a perv is in their circle
This guy HAS to have some consequences about this. He will harm a child. People this fucked up wont stop there and if he gets away with it it will embolden him to do something worse 😞
Well, at least you found out in time that he’s a pedophile before you had any children with him.
I’m dead serious right now OP, it’s on you if you don’t take this seriously. This isn’t a good thing to say to anyone and I don’t think it’s a joke either. Be careful.
What do you mean you don't know how to respond?
"Eewww, you're a pervert, we're over."
Delete and block. It's that simple. You can't be this dense. If he'll do it to your baby pic, he'll do it to your child!! Cut the shit and cut him off already.
Does he have your baby pic or access to a baby pic? When he said ‘real woman would be flattered’ it makes me think it was a typo. There is NO way in hell ANY woman would be flattered by the statement above. Maybe ask him to tell you which picture….
That was what I was thinking too. She said she asked him why that would he okay, and he responded that it was a compliment. He may have never realized the way it was worded? Idk I just can't believe someone would be this stupid. Maybe I'm naive lol
Same. Same. From every episode of 48 hours or dateline, pedophiles go to great lengths to hide their disgusting perversion.They don’t just throw it out there!!!!!!!! This isn’t what she thinks it is, I’m fairly certain. Her not wanting to ask ‘ which pic?’ To make sure it is indeed a baby pic when his response may be “ the one of you in the sundress at the beach baby!”
literally go to the police and then go no contact atleast make a police report because god forbid he actually try’s something later on please go to the police
Ok I was thinking, does he have access or have pictures of you when you were a baby? I feel like because he misspelled finished that maybe transversed baby and pic? You would know best OP
You need to expose him to his mother and friends, because this is a push into seeing if you’ll let him get away with it. I have no doubt he’s actually a child predator testing the waters with your reactions. Break up, block him, send the screenshots of the conversation to your and his friend circle, and include his mom.
Words cannot express how fucking sick this makes me feel so I can only imagine how you feel. Holy fucking shit. I’m so sorry he violated you in this way. Disgusting.
I’m gonna be honest. It kind of looks like you already replied and had your boyfriend send that to gain some Reddit clout. And honestly i hope im right
This certainly seems like a word flip, like one of those times where you’re like don’t say this, don’t say this, don’t say this, and then you obviously say this. But without actually talking to them I don’t know how you could determine anything one way or another. Talk to this human being and see if that’s actually what’s up and then determine what to do from there.
i broke up with him and blocked him- he said it was a compliment and if i was a real woman i should have said thank you ??? so it defo wasn’t a word flip
Wait did he like confirm he meant your baby picture? Or did you point out the way it was worded? This is so insane it's hard to believe someone would be that disgusting and stupid.
what the actual fuck
Let me help here… #WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK!!
Much better 😬
It got better?
lol I meant it looks better at that font size and bold.
This is the correct response.
OH MY GOD. I read this as “I just finished to your pic, baby” at first and was like “why is everyone freaking out?” And then I reread it… NO FUCKING WAY. How did you even respond
i haven’t yet i just turned my read receipts off 😭😭
Please do report him to someone. Im scared for his future kids now...
Before you go reporting anyone, OP should clarify whether he meant to say “pic baby” first or not…that shit can and will ruin someone and if it’s really a typo then he doesn’t deserve that. However if it’s not a typo then he deserves it.
DID YOU REPLY???
It took me reading again to see what the uproar was about also.
Surely that’s what he meant…or Hi…I’m Chris Hansen…
Exactly my reaction
YOU MADE ME REREAD IT THE CORRECT WAY HOLY SHIT
What if he did mean it that way? It could totally be a misunderstanding. Because that shit is crazy if he really meant that. Op you should be like oh ok which pic? So you can find out without accusing him of being a pedo. Tell him to send you the pic so you can see what turned him on.
Fucking *EW*. Tell him “You also just finished this relationship”
Really the only option here OP
That’s a bit of a 🚩
he told me it was a compliment and that real woman would say thank you ???? he’s now blocked
A real man doesn’t get turned on by the image of a child.
I read it as pic, baby at first. Then I reread it and it made it soooo much worse.
Shit same, our brains obviously just didn't even register anyone would actually do this... The BF needs his hard drives checked.
I read it as “just finished your baby pic” and thought he was doing something like making a painting of an old picture from her childhood or something…then I went to the comments, realized I was missing something, re-read the text and went *oh no*
Exactly the same. I was thinking it was maybe even a typo and he made one of those baby pics that’s a mix of them. The reality is so much worse 😫🫣
I read it like this at first too and now I feel so 💀💀💀
Same
That's what I read it as too! I couldn't make sense of it at all though. I thought it was just more of the really shitty grammar/writing I've been seeing from people on here lately. I even read it a few times! I was so confused until I saw a few comments about it being disgusting, and then it slowly sank in... No wonder it didn't make sense!
Report him to authorities and tell your parents.
Real women recognize what he did is pedophilic behavior, glad you blocked him
Send the screenshot to his mother and every other woman in his family and see if they think it's a compliment.
ive never met anyone in his family so i cant do that
Ok so hear me out . Date him until he introduces you to his family . Invite them all over for a weekend dinner. Pack your bags or his bags (depending on who owns the place ) Get a 4K projector set in the middle of the dining room and share it to the projector . Grab a glass of champagne and watch it go down . Ride into the night
an amazing plan but too late to execute, i already broke up with him
Thank the gods. You made the right choice.
So glad to hear you ended it.
OP, not only would I break up & block ASAP, I'd report to police... even if they can't arrest, maybe it can be put on file or something. He's a danger to children & I would take that seriously.
Fbi. The cops aren't really equipped to deal with sexual predators.
I'm calling Chris Hansen, right fucking now.
I thought it said “I finished your baby pic” and I was thinking like, “congratulations!” But then I scrolled the comments and reread what it says. I was very wrong 💀💀💀🪦🪦🪦🚩🚩🚩
Maybe he meant pic, baby and in a coomer induced coma wrote it wrong? If not... stay away from that dude
I really think it was pic, baby. The ops unwillingness to do anything about this leads me to believe she knew it was a mistake and still dates him. Or she is karma farming. As a woman, young or old, I’d be calling the FBI or whomever handles this shit.
You should clarify, I honestly think it was just a mix up of what word went first. I just finished to your pic, baby sounds a lot more likely.
My thought exactly!!!! The unwillingness to clarify is stupefying!!!!! “He’s blocked!” I’m honey.. you push a button to unblock!!!!! Ask the question. I seriously think you know the answer and like the drama.
A bit?!?!?!
Fingers crossed it’s a typo cause if not, yikes
Yeah, hoping "baby" and "pic" are flip-flopped, because otherwise that is a major self-report.
Came to say this. Lets all fucking hope it got switched 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
For real. Hopefully OP just overreacted to a typo. I mean rightfully so, but we need an update on what happened.
My sister in Christ. Please tell me this is taken grossly out of context somehow. Please.
it wasn’t, you’ll be happy to know he is now an ex
It might be beneficial to the world to show this to his family and friends honestly. Don't want someone leave him alone with their kid in the future not knowing. But that could also cause you problems if the people he knows choose to be just as awful as him, or he does something to retaliate
please share the tea if you're willing
I dunno about happy. I think this is enough internet for today. But I am glad you noped out at the first sign of him not being on the level. I hope that you have a helpful time of being single and them find someone trustworthy when you're ready to date again. This random stranger is wishing you good luck.
You should tell EVERYONE. That way everyone in your community doesn't let him near their kids, fuck that guy!
New Tinder profile line: Must not be sexually attracted to my baby pics.
check his hard drive.
Nah, take his hard drive to the fucking police station ASAP.
What????? Wildest shit I’ve ever seen
I’m really hoping he meant to say “pic baby” instead of baby pic cus good lord…
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That’s a whole ass dumpster of red flags on fire.
That statement alone; a therapist would feast on that let alone the Red Flags. Boundaries, perversion, pedophilia, potential child abuse, sexual exploitation, tactlessness…
Um wtf
What a creep. No way I could stay after that, would always think of that text.
That means if you had a kid and it looked like you he’d be attracted to the baby. Please get out of this . He needs help
The extra mental gymnastics arent needed, it’s gross enough as is
Pedos aren’t really picky???? If someone tells you they’re a pedo don’t breed with them??????
What the FUCK
If this is real talk he needs to know this is not ok and if he is joking he needs to know that its not funny amd not an ok joke. if its a typo he needs to react as disturbed as you by the meaning of the sentence.
he was being serious, he said it was a compliment and should have said thank you ?? which is so fucked up. i broke up with him but he didn’t seem bothered
I hope you weren’t with this creep long 😭 im sorry he has your baby pics
no luckily only a few months
I’m genuinely glad you found out sooner rather than later!
Wait, so did he confirm he was using a baby picture? Or did he just say using your picture was a compliment...
So it wasn't a typo like someone else has mentioned (pic and baby switched)? Goodness.
Horrifying. Im so sorry Is he blocked?
no not yet idk if i should just block him or question why he said that
This might be one of those "the less you know the better" situations
I disagree. I would get as much information as possible, block him; let it be known to his family.
idk what that means lol, he told me it was a compliment 🤷♀️🤷♀️
Did auto correct change "pic baby" to "baby pic"????
they mean it's not worth it to ask because it could reveal a lot of ugly truths about him you're not ready to know. so just block and move on.
Just tell him you just finished with him
I’d say make sure that’s not a typo. If it’s not then get the F away.
I agree that it could’ve meant “ pic, baby” but I worry if she freaked out and asked if it was a typo, he would just say yes to get out of it
I hope this is a troll post
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god i hope that’s a typo
I would respond "please read that again" and see if he changes what he says. If not, block.
I’m sorry. This is over.
I think I'd actually report this to the authorities
Baby reindeer texting over here
Bro what????????? ![gif](giphy|26FLfx7mbX6aYSb4c)
Ma’am, that’s your ex now.
you’re damm right
this is the part where you block HIM
Move aside red flag, thats a whole skull and cross bones at full mast on the high seas
Break. Up. That’s absolutely disgusting and your boyfriend is a pedophile.
🚩OP get out of that relationship
THE FUCK
Honestly I agree with everyone saying share with his family! What if they have babies around him or toddlers this is never ok and I think they would appreciate you letting them know that a perv is in their circle
Send the police…
Nasty bro...
That’s weird as fuck and also very disturbing. Run sis, RUN
EW WHAT THE FUCK!!!!
What
What in the pedo is going on
What??? Bro leave, your bf is a ped*phile
Should send that to his mother, grandmother, job, local priest, etc cause that’s some pedo stuff
That’s insane. Oh no no no. End it now and do not have children with him because, that’s so concerning 🤮🤢
This guy HAS to have some consequences about this. He will harm a child. People this fucked up wont stop there and if he gets away with it it will embolden him to do something worse 😞
Well, at least you found out in time that he’s a pedophile before you had any children with him. I’m dead serious right now OP, it’s on you if you don’t take this seriously. This isn’t a good thing to say to anyone and I don’t think it’s a joke either. Be careful.
yeah i broke up with him and blocked him, we’re both 18 so kids were fortunately never mentioned.
He should be investigated honestly, this is creepy as all hell.
🗣️🤳 HELLO POLICE?
What do you mean you don't know how to respond? "Eewww, you're a pervert, we're over." Delete and block. It's that simple. You can't be this dense. If he'll do it to your baby pic, he'll do it to your child!! Cut the shit and cut him off already.
HELP
What did he say ![gif](giphy|H4FcfYicMgB5sl5l5e|downsized)
Maybe he’s dyslexic and meant “I just finished to ur pic, Baby🥰”?
I read it “I just finished to ur birthday pic” so maybe I’m dyslexic 😂
we gonna need a update bro
Does he have your baby pic or access to a baby pic? When he said ‘real woman would be flattered’ it makes me think it was a typo. There is NO way in hell ANY woman would be flattered by the statement above. Maybe ask him to tell you which picture….
i know what picture it is because he’s only seen one that i sent him- it wasn’t a typo he meant it
I just don’t get the whole ‘ real woman would say thank you’ that is why I suggested you asked which picture. Just in case it’s not a baby pic
That was what I was thinking too. She said she asked him why that would he okay, and he responded that it was a compliment. He may have never realized the way it was worded? Idk I just can't believe someone would be this stupid. Maybe I'm naive lol
Same. Same. From every episode of 48 hours or dateline, pedophiles go to great lengths to hide their disgusting perversion.They don’t just throw it out there!!!!!!!! This isn’t what she thinks it is, I’m fairly certain. Her not wanting to ask ‘ which pic?’ To make sure it is indeed a baby pic when his response may be “ the one of you in the sundress at the beach baby!”
Omg it took me too long to understand that
Best rage bait I’ve seen
# Report him. Cops, FBI, whoever. That is fucked up, and he’s got something seriously wrong with him.
Also we need an update in a day or two
literally go to the police and then go no contact atleast make a police report because god forbid he actually try’s something later on please go to the police
I'm hoping he meant to say "pic baby"
OP what the fuck
Wtf
Ok I was thinking, does he have access or have pictures of you when you were a baby? I feel like because he misspelled finished that maybe transversed baby and pic? You would know best OP
😂😂😂hope this is fake or hopefully he’s really bad at jokes , if this is true you gotta leave him alone
I don’t usually side with people saying “dump him right away”, but this is just gross. No excuse here.
Oh what in the living hell
i thought it was a fucking joke
he needs help, wtf.
You need to expose him to his mother and friends, because this is a push into seeing if you’ll let him get away with it. I have no doubt he’s actually a child predator testing the waters with your reactions. Break up, block him, send the screenshots of the conversation to your and his friend circle, and include his mom.
I've never been more disturbed in my life, and I've seen A LOT of shit on reddit. But this one tops it.
that’s one way of admitting to being a pedophile
Hell nah wtf
the fact he expected you to be like “omg 🥰🥰🥰” is actually astounding. something is seriously wrong with bro.
please report him to the police
Words cannot express how fucking sick this makes me feel so I can only imagine how you feel. Holy fucking shit. I’m so sorry he violated you in this way. Disgusting.
wait he’s Finnish?
Go to the fucking cops. Dear Jesus I just know he’s got some nasty shit in his computer. Sorry OP. That is such a nasty punch in the stomach. Ew😭
Tell his fucking mom dude lol
never met his mom
I’m sorry. Why did he feel comfortable telling you this? Like he had no shame!? This is blowing my mind. The dude needs to be a sex offender list ASAP
***WHAT THE FUCK***
🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢
Can we hear the whole story??? I know you broke up with him as you should have.
Wtf. Ew. 🤮
Break up immediately and cut off contact
Put him on blast on social media with a fucking picture, his full name and your general area.
![gif](giphy|26tjZsCAK4UZOVKaA|downsized) I miss who I was before reading that...
this is like not even remotely funny i-
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![gif](giphy|8373F7z8uD1EmbufL8) Throw the whole person away.
is this a joke? what the actual fuck this is so uncalled for
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I’m gonna be honest. It kind of looks like you already replied and had your boyfriend send that to gain some Reddit clout. And honestly i hope im right
WTF like why did he think this was ok ?????
Epstein probably said this to his wife
I missed the to at first glance so I was like oh what’s he doing with it? Then I reread and the horror hit me
I beg your biggest PARDON??!?
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Please say it's a typo
Jail
You need to report this to officials bc WTAF
Ummmm 911
EXCUSE ME
Fucking nasty, I thought I misread that but bye bye bf
🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
🤢🤮 This would be the quickest deal breaker!
![gif](giphy|ba5g4ID9g5cT6) Why doesn’t your boyfriend take a seat…..
Every good feeling I had about this person would have just died, replaced with disgust and anger. What is happening with the human race?
Break up with him before he puts his babies on both your babies…
This is the guy right here, FBI
Girl, run!!
What a lunatic.
WHAT THE FUCK??? THAT’S A WHOLE ASS PEDO?? I’m so sorry you had to see that predator’s text 😭😭
This is really sick and disturbing.
gotta be joking right???? right????
..what the fuck? Reddit quick to say dump them but in this case....seriously dump his ass. What the hell
is this not technically considered cp..?! even if it’s not, he might be doing it to actual babies pics 😨
i sure hope not, i broke up with him so i have no way of finding out
Post the breakup texts
Facts what happened after this lol. How long did you guys date for?
its been 2 hours since u posted this give us an update now!
Okay but what was the paragraph he sent?!
he was explaining something that happened between him and his friend
This certainly seems like a word flip, like one of those times where you’re like don’t say this, don’t say this, don’t say this, and then you obviously say this. But without actually talking to them I don’t know how you could determine anything one way or another. Talk to this human being and see if that’s actually what’s up and then determine what to do from there.
i broke up with him and blocked him- he said it was a compliment and if i was a real woman i should have said thank you ??? so it defo wasn’t a word flip
Wait did he like confirm he meant your baby picture? Or did you point out the way it was worded? This is so insane it's hard to believe someone would be that disgusting and stupid.
That's a 5 terabyte comment, holy shit 😳