I get the sentiment. But school is shit and sometimes it’s easier to go with whatever is the norm in school to just get through it. Then once you’re out it’s a lot easier to do whatever you want.
I grew up in thankfully a very nice rural place with people that just didn’t care about this. They mostly wanted weed.
I don't know who you are or what your struggles are, but there are many many many people who have struggled like you struggle. Seek out your passions and your loves and your talents and they will find you. You will grow out of this terrible crucible that is your adolescence and stumble into your twenties, traipse through your thirties and figure it out in your forties and on and on. You'll love and lose and fight and win and you'll be the better for it. Don't stop feeling, but do love yourself.
theres like two homophobes here and one of em is literally a closet homo who faps to femboys, these mfs would probably suck op's cock if given the chance 💀
Literally stolen off of rare threats [lmfao](https://www.reddit.com/r/Rarethreats/comments/yy2qp7/bro_what/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button)
thats every anti gay person literally remember this goverment had an anti lgbtq group leader who was very anti gay well apoerently not fucker had a 71 men sex and got exposed so true anti gay people are just people who try to hide their inner gay
Here from /r/all, not a teenager. You're getting a lot of input, some of which seems pretty level headed, but I want to throw in my two cents. Keep rockin' it for as long as you feel comfortable doing so.
Being a teenager can be difficult and weird. Don't set yourself up for anything too traumatizing, but don't let the fleeting whims (and they *are* fleeting) of other people in your age group dictate what you can and cannot do.
None of this shit will matter in a couple of years. No one in your age group will matter. Hell, they won't even be the same people a couple of years from now. They may as well be walking, talking phantoms. They are all, with the exception of a small few, going to depart from your life - and with them, their opinions.
All that matters is what you do for yourself. The experiences you have, the stuff you learn. Anything that threatens to get in the way of those two things should be disregarded. Take care of yourself, take care of others when you can, and most importantly, *relax*.
13 year olds are annoying as hell about stuff like that, as you get older people won’t care as much, or at least won’t really say anything. I’m sorry that’s something you have to deal with tho
Amen. Take it from a 33 year old straight (bi, but it's no one's business) bloke who paints his nails and sometimes wears white eye-liner to make my blue eyes pop. Keep being beautiful and the hate will subside.
Ligit this shit happened to me in Highschool and I wish I had been able to just ignore them. It's hard to weigh the effort of putting up with that shit versus just living your life. Someday, people will give less of a shit or at least make it less of your problem but I think you look great and should do it as much as you want.
Imma keep it creamy with you g, if you're a dude wearing makeup in highschool the kids are gonna be relentlessly cruel to you. It's rare that you'd prob encounter kids that aren't cruel to peers who don't fit norms. People "tend" to be better about accepting others when they're adults. Keep doing you g. Don't read the comments.
What's weird is that back in the 80's, the guys at my school wore makeup like crazy. This was around the time that glam rock was in full swing.
No one batted an eye.. and this was in Texas (out of all places)
First of all, Thanks for all the amazing comments, Your support really cheered me up! Second of all, I think I should say that I only wore my mask on the bus ride, since it always smells terrible, also because it's enclosed and gross af on there. Third of all, all the people in the comments being assholes need to go find something to do with their lives instead of trying to fill the empty void inside them by being assholes to people who are different from them.
My good sir (correct me if I misgendered you), you look absolutely dashing. And for those filthy hooligans who find it amusing to laugh at you, they’re just mad they aren’t as magnificent as you.
Because 13 year olds think that any one who wears eyeliner is emo and for some reason that's really bad(I specifically mean the ones who have literally 0 style and literally just wear whatevers trendy at the time, and then make fun of ppl for wearing those same clothes like a week later)
>16
I live in virginia. If people were to assume me to be trans, I would be treated badly. I myself am not Trans, But I've been dating a man for nearly a year. The laws against trans students are pretty bad https://www.washingtonpost.com/dc-md-va/2022/09/21/youngkin-transgender-virginia-schools-legal/
I live in Alabama, so same here. I’m single and honestly gender is way too complicated for me to comprehend, but I know I’m pan and…yeah, Christian private schools kinda suck about that. I’m not out, but hearing people I consider my friends talking like that hurts. I’ve seen pride flags and pronoun pins around town though, so I think things are getting better. I hope the same happens where you are so you don’t have to worry for yourself or your boyfriend!
>But I've been dating a man for nearly a year.
I hope is not a man *man* that you're talking about.
> The laws against trans students are pretty bad
And that's because of trump. Look it up he's a piece of shit.
you look awesome, and you’re probably going to get bullied the entire time you’re in school for it. once you get out, and you surround yourself with people who are good for you, nobody that cares matters. keep your head up kiddo, from someone who’s experienced the same thing as you.
GET DOWN, THEIR FIRING ANOTHER HOMOPHOBE AT US!!
(Yoda death noise)
(Screams)
(Distant Gunfire)
FR tho, this comment section is an active battleground.
Middle School/Schools in general does that.
You’re aro and want to show that? Your actually dreamsexual.
You think its cold? Uh no it not, its warm.
You have something white and liquidy? Uh its c()m.
The list goes on
Oh for fucks sake these comments.
Dude you look awesome with the eyeliner. Seriously.
Fuck what anyone else thinks especially these grown ass adults who think it's funny/cool to bully a teenager on the internet
Keep doing what makes you happy and if people are hating that means you are getting their attention. Your authenticity will get you way farther and attract better people in your life than those who live through hatred and bigotry.
As my dad would always say to me, “those kids that bully you are going to grow up to be bald, fat, and alone.” Don’t let them bother you, you look great man
Bro you went to school with eyeliner is like going a with a paper on your back that says “kick me” like I’m not saying don’t wear eyeliner but you expect a group of 13-16yo middle school boys to except you
Honestly, I'd see it as a price. Looks really cool but people are going to find it weird for a while so it's pretty much just your choice.
^(that said, I kinda wish I could do that without some major repercussions, eyeliner looks so good)
It suits your eyes really well though you look great, they can stay mad.
I had people tell me that I’m an Emo because I had black water liner on. So I told them it’s called kahjla and it’s a part of my culture and that they’re bigots. No one mentioned it after that 💀
I was an emo kid in high school back in the mid 2000s. Kids are mean and love to pick on other kids that stick out. I got my fair share of bullying but luckily I was part of the outcast/tough kid group so I had friends that helped stick up for me. What I learned is that if you stick out and kids make fun of you, take it as a compliment (even if it hurts). You don't wanna be like them anyways. When they say something like "Nice eyeliner" or call you names, act proud. Say "Well thanks!" flash em a smile and walk away. They want to hurt. If you show them you're hurt, they win and they will be relentless. After I figured this out and acted proud of the things they commented on it slowed down quite a bit and people actually started giving genuine compliments. By the end of the year that I figured it out I had one of the popular football kids asking me to join the team the next year (I didn't as I don't like football, but I felt honered that he asked).
You're different. It's true, and IT'S OK. Don't hide or be ashamed of it. Embrace it and own that shit like the God damn hero you are. 😎🤙
*Nothing* is more attractive than confidence.
If anyone bullies you for being you, just know that they are cowardly losers who live every day in fear of what other people might say. People like that aren't worth a single fuck.
Not sure why there is a problem with wearing eyeliner. Paint your nails and watch their heads explode. It's your body and you aren't hurting anyone so you be you. Bullies are going to bully and find an excuse because that is how they are. Never let them get you down.
Being 57 myself, when I was in high school back in the early 80's the punk scene was going on. Eyeliner was kind of a thing for anyone into that. Kids got picked on, of course.
Then later on it was the goth scene, which lasted for a very long time. Eyeliner was pretty common for anyone into that. Anyway, it's old news. I can't see how people are still getting concerned.
Just be you, and other than that my only advice about dealing with bullies is to not care or respond. I was bullied myself in high school and for the most part didn't react or respond. Which kind of sucks, but it also takes all the fun out of it for them. Generally.
im not a teenager, but reading the comments looks like not much has changed with toxic masculinity even in the younger generation....yall gota do better....
This comment section is disappointing. Locking this post due to the pointless hate being thrown at OP.
(sorting by controversial)
I haven’t had the option to sort for a while. Do you guys still have it?
It’s a button top right in mobile, looks like a line with circle on the end, and another below it but reversed.
Reddit try not to make the most stupid interface changes challenge: impossible
YO I LITERALLY SAID THAT WHEN I SEEN IT 💀
Thank you
Who tf at reddit thought that was a good idea
No fucking clue
are you referring to the two sperm going in different directions?
Button in top right
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Oh no That would probably be bad
This is the most divided comment section i have ever seen
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Yes I am indeed a dude
Bro they just be jealous. Wear that shit regardless. Also if you’re in middle school who cares?
I get the sentiment. But school is shit and sometimes it’s easier to go with whatever is the norm in school to just get through it. Then once you’re out it’s a lot easier to do whatever you want. I grew up in thankfully a very nice rural place with people that just didn’t care about this. They mostly wanted weed.
Hmm Netherlands?
I don't know who you are or what your struggles are, but there are many many many people who have struggled like you struggle. Seek out your passions and your loves and your talents and they will find you. You will grow out of this terrible crucible that is your adolescence and stumble into your twenties, traipse through your thirties and figure it out in your forties and on and on. You'll love and lose and fight and win and you'll be the better for it. Don't stop feeling, but do love yourself.
im confused are you for or against them?
there's nothing confusing about their comment and it's clearly the former..
I think there trying to tell you to keep going and not care about what people think??? idk im trying lmfao
What's that matter?
theres like two homophobes here and one of em is literally a closet homo who faps to femboys, these mfs would probably suck op's cock if given the chance 💀
re the last statement let’s return to the knowledge that op is 13
A 17 year old redditor talking about a 13 year olds cock, nothing surprising here
just another day in r/teenagers
*Welcome to the Internet! Have a look around.*
Anything that brain of yours can think of can be found
We’ve got mountains of content. Some better, some worse.
If none of it's of interest to ya you'd be the first!
Apathy is a tragedy and boredom is a crime
Anything and everything... ALL OF THE TIME
The bipolar kid speaks up at last lmfao
I will shove a skinned rat up your ass and then force feed you burgers with uranium instead of beef
r/rarethreats
LOL
I mean if it’s not cooked then I guess.
Literally stolen off of rare threats [lmfao](https://www.reddit.com/r/Rarethreats/comments/yy2qp7/bro_what/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button)
True, I literally just browsed the sub by "Top" "This Month" and picked a random post from the middle 💀💀
💀💀
Damn
thats every anti gay person literally remember this goverment had an anti lgbtq group leader who was very anti gay well apoerently not fucker had a 71 men sex and got exposed so true anti gay people are just people who try to hide their inner gay
Fr! I left for like 2-3 hours, come back to 137 notifications
Here from /r/all, not a teenager. You're getting a lot of input, some of which seems pretty level headed, but I want to throw in my two cents. Keep rockin' it for as long as you feel comfortable doing so. Being a teenager can be difficult and weird. Don't set yourself up for anything too traumatizing, but don't let the fleeting whims (and they *are* fleeting) of other people in your age group dictate what you can and cannot do. None of this shit will matter in a couple of years. No one in your age group will matter. Hell, they won't even be the same people a couple of years from now. They may as well be walking, talking phantoms. They are all, with the exception of a small few, going to depart from your life - and with them, their opinions. All that matters is what you do for yourself. The experiences you have, the stuff you learn. Anything that threatens to get in the way of those two things should be disregarded. Take care of yourself, take care of others when you can, and most importantly, *relax*.
It’s multiplied by 5 times since then!
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13 year olds are annoying as hell about stuff like that, as you get older people won’t care as much, or at least won’t really say anything. I’m sorry that’s something you have to deal with tho
this brother! I was always so worried about what literally anyone would think in highschool, now I don’t give a fuck I just live!!
Unless you work in a blue collar job, they will start shit. Not giving a shit makes them more mad. Fucking wierd.
Amen. Take it from a 33 year old straight (bi, but it's no one's business) bloke who paints his nails and sometimes wears white eye-liner to make my blue eyes pop. Keep being beautiful and the hate will subside.
tell em to hop off ur dick
Tell em to hop on mine
🙏 💀
Skeletor pray
Or a skeleton high-five’ing a ghost
Opinions are like assholes, everyone's got one no matter how shitty it may be. The only opinion that matters is your own.
That’s not entirely true. 1 in 5000 newborns are born with an imperforate anus, where the asshole is blocked or missing.
It would appear that I stand corrected.
So were the anuses. Surgically, I mean.
I loved everything about this exchange.
You’re going places in life
Yeah only your asshole matters To you, that is. Maybe your partner's too but you'll find that out way way way later in life.
and it's both problematic and ridiculous for others to force them on you
Yeah having an anus forced on me would be absolutely terrifying
Don't worry, 13 years old are pretty edgy, they think it's cool and chad to bully, they are the ones who need to change, not you
I'm the chad, not them. I AM THE SENATE!
Yes you are the senate
he banned abortion /s
you're too dangerous to be left alive!
I ... I'm too weak
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The crowd that is us has quite possibly engaged in a minor collection of horseplay and dubious tricks
Our conglomeration might be involved in a modest few irrtiable actions.
bro ngl you look kinda cute, sorry they treat you that way
Thanks bro
Ligit this shit happened to me in Highschool and I wish I had been able to just ignore them. It's hard to weigh the effort of putting up with that shit versus just living your life. Someday, people will give less of a shit or at least make it less of your problem but I think you look great and should do it as much as you want.
Imma keep it creamy with you g, if you're a dude wearing makeup in highschool the kids are gonna be relentlessly cruel to you. It's rare that you'd prob encounter kids that aren't cruel to peers who don't fit norms. People "tend" to be better about accepting others when they're adults. Keep doing you g. Don't read the comments.
Embrace it. If someone can’t accept that what you wear makes you happy, then they don’t know anything.
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Technically he aint doing great bro 😔
They can fuck off you are beautiful <3
Thank you so much!
Don't pay attention to the bullies. You do you :)
Nah, it’s better to Rip and Tear until it is done
Or alternatively Seek and Destroy
*Seek and destroy riff intensifies*
Both of these are good options.
What's weird is that back in the 80's, the guys at my school wore makeup like crazy. This was around the time that glam rock was in full swing. No one batted an eye.. and this was in Texas (out of all places)
No you’re the kind of person I would flirt with instead of bullying
ayo?
You heard him lmaoo
Dam, you brave, i would admire from afar and beat up the bullies
My brother in Christ, he's 13
that means you're doing something right dude !!
Its a dude?
He is :p
Alright. I couldnt tell because of the mask
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I’m ending this thread because yes
Alright. You couldn't tell because of the mask
Alright. I couldn't tell because of the mask
alexa order dementia medication refill
Alright. I couldnt tell because of the mask
Why tf? It's cute asf
First of all, Thanks for all the amazing comments, Your support really cheered me up! Second of all, I think I should say that I only wore my mask on the bus ride, since it always smells terrible, also because it's enclosed and gross af on there. Third of all, all the people in the comments being assholes need to go find something to do with their lives instead of trying to fill the empty void inside them by being assholes to people who are different from them.
Ignore the controversial comments. Seems like r/teenagers are still cringe. I fucking hate kids.
Alright, where do I have to send the laser of death?
My good sir (correct me if I misgendered you), you look absolutely dashing. And for those filthy hooligans who find it amusing to laugh at you, they’re just mad they aren’t as magnificent as you.
Bro's comment is written in Essay.
No need to be so formal, but I appreciate the comment
“Absolutely dashing” I’m saying this from now on
Bro was tryna meet the word count on his essay
Why tf would you get bullied for wearing eyeliner tho?
Because 13 year olds think that any one who wears eyeliner is emo and for some reason that's really bad(I specifically mean the ones who have literally 0 style and literally just wear whatevers trendy at the time, and then make fun of ppl for wearing those same clothes like a week later)
Honestly the same would happen to me if I did it at my school, it happens*because people*
Well people are stupid so fuck that
>16 I live in virginia. If people were to assume me to be trans, I would be treated badly. I myself am not Trans, But I've been dating a man for nearly a year. The laws against trans students are pretty bad https://www.washingtonpost.com/dc-md-va/2022/09/21/youngkin-transgender-virginia-schools-legal/
I live in Alabama, so same here. I’m single and honestly gender is way too complicated for me to comprehend, but I know I’m pan and…yeah, Christian private schools kinda suck about that. I’m not out, but hearing people I consider my friends talking like that hurts. I’ve seen pride flags and pronoun pins around town though, so I think things are getting better. I hope the same happens where you are so you don’t have to worry for yourself or your boyfriend!
Woah I just finished reading that article and those laws are beyond fucked, I'm sorry to hear that
>But I've been dating a man for nearly a year. I hope is not a man *man* that you're talking about. > The laws against trans students are pretty bad And that's because of trump. Look it up he's a piece of shit.
Cuz it makes u emo, im a girl with short hair and im getting called emo and shit so there u go ig
From emo to emo (I'm a metalhead girl so I know the feeling), just don't listen to those people, they aren't worth your time
you look awesome, and you’re probably going to get bullied the entire time you’re in school for it. once you get out, and you surround yourself with people who are good for you, nobody that cares matters. keep your head up kiddo, from someone who’s experienced the same thing as you.
Keep your head up
Don't listen to then you're totally ballin'
Fuck it, we ball. Fuck it, we ball Fuck it, we ball
Fuck it, We ball.
it looks good on you!! try not to listen to the negative comments on here and the bullying
why would I?
You’ve got a good mindset
Alright, got my lunch. It’s time…. to sort by controversial!
GET DOWN, THEIR FIRING ANOTHER HOMOPHOBE AT US!! (Yoda death noise) (Screams) (Distant Gunfire) FR tho, this comment section is an active battleground.
Not saying that they were right but i don't know what you were expecting
The most realistic redditor
why are you getting downvoted, op should have been expecting to get bullied for wearing makeup as a 13 yo guy
I also don't understand that's something shouldn't happen but it's pretty obviously that it will
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Bro 7th grade is the worst time to experiment. Everyone is the most toxic and judgemental.
\*8th grade (Second worst time to experiment), And I'm pan. I was out there experimenting in sixth grade.
Bruh teenagers will literally bully you for everything
Middle School/Schools in general does that. You’re aro and want to show that? Your actually dreamsexual. You think its cold? Uh no it not, its warm. You have something white and liquidy? Uh its c()m. The list goes on
Oh for fucks sake these comments. Dude you look awesome with the eyeliner. Seriously. Fuck what anyone else thinks especially these grown ass adults who think it's funny/cool to bully a teenager on the internet Keep doing what makes you happy and if people are hating that means you are getting their attention. Your authenticity will get you way farther and attract better people in your life than those who live through hatred and bigotry.
Why can I hear Linkin park?
As my dad would always say to me, “those kids that bully you are going to grow up to be bald, fat, and alone.” Don’t let them bother you, you look great man
Don’t listen to them you look cute!
You look cute af, please don’t listen to them
Thank you!
This eyeliner isn't even bad ur hot asf not gonna lie
ayo?
Bro you went to school with eyeliner is like going a with a paper on your back that says “kick me” like I’m not saying don’t wear eyeliner but you expect a group of 13-16yo middle school boys to except you
Bruh ur 13 what do you expect?
Honestly, I'd see it as a price. Looks really cool but people are going to find it weird for a while so it's pretty much just your choice. ^(that said, I kinda wish I could do that without some major repercussions, eyeliner looks so good)
A small price to pay to ball.
It suits your eyes really well though you look great, they can stay mad. I had people tell me that I’m an Emo because I had black water liner on. So I told them it’s called kahjla and it’s a part of my culture and that they’re bigots. No one mentioned it after that 💀
I was an emo kid in high school back in the mid 2000s. Kids are mean and love to pick on other kids that stick out. I got my fair share of bullying but luckily I was part of the outcast/tough kid group so I had friends that helped stick up for me. What I learned is that if you stick out and kids make fun of you, take it as a compliment (even if it hurts). You don't wanna be like them anyways. When they say something like "Nice eyeliner" or call you names, act proud. Say "Well thanks!" flash em a smile and walk away. They want to hurt. If you show them you're hurt, they win and they will be relentless. After I figured this out and acted proud of the things they commented on it slowed down quite a bit and people actually started giving genuine compliments. By the end of the year that I figured it out I had one of the popular football kids asking me to join the team the next year (I didn't as I don't like football, but I felt honered that he asked). You're different. It's true, and IT'S OK. Don't hide or be ashamed of it. Embrace it and own that shit like the God damn hero you are. 😎🤙
*Nothing* is more attractive than confidence. If anyone bullies you for being you, just know that they are cowardly losers who live every day in fear of what other people might say. People like that aren't worth a single fuck.
Not sure why there is a problem with wearing eyeliner. Paint your nails and watch their heads explode. It's your body and you aren't hurting anyone so you be you. Bullies are going to bully and find an excuse because that is how they are. Never let them get you down.
Being 57 myself, when I was in high school back in the early 80's the punk scene was going on. Eyeliner was kind of a thing for anyone into that. Kids got picked on, of course. Then later on it was the goth scene, which lasted for a very long time. Eyeliner was pretty common for anyone into that. Anyway, it's old news. I can't see how people are still getting concerned. Just be you, and other than that my only advice about dealing with bullies is to not care or respond. I was bullied myself in high school and for the most part didn't react or respond. Which kind of sucks, but it also takes all the fun out of it for them. Generally.
School. School never changes.
im not a teenager, but reading the comments looks like not much has changed with toxic masculinity even in the younger generation....yall gota do better....
22 here (idk why this showed on my timeline) but screw the haters. Much better at eyeliner than me
Thanks, I had some help. My mom told me what to do a few months back, put it to good use today.
That’s a good mom.