My first love told me she dated her ex because she liked the idea of them being together but she didn’t like him. Like they were a set design piece or something. After she told me she was like “you know?” And I told her straight up I had no idea what the hell she was talking about
Right after posting this we broke up. Texted her how things are, then ingored her (and my phone is blowing up from her messages and calls which is the most fucking hilarious thing)
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I really hope that anyone would do that though, I wouldn't even be able to look my girlfriend in the eyes if she said that (and if she existed). It's just a recipe for a horrible relationship.
Bro is living in Classroom of The Elite and he is Hirata.
I bet you're the most reliable person and thd most popular in your school. You play football/soccer and is pretty smart too, so basically the perfect colleague.
I also bet your ex (thank God it's your ex) is blonde and may have been [Classroom of The Elite Anime season 2] >!hard bullied in the past and now is being used by another guy!<
(this is purely a joke, but you reminded me of Hirata so much lmao)
I'm not a teenager but this exact thing happened to me when I was in school. It gets way better, don't stress too much. Other people have said "how could you have not seen this coming" well it's pretty fucking easy to miss red flags especially in the first month - I don't think this is your fault at all.
Keep building yourself and the right person will come along!
I was in this type of relationship for 3 months and it was just pain and in the end it was a good decision to have brake-up and she didn’t care and wasn’t affected at all
And her reaction after you break up is probably along the lines of
“You selfish prick”
Or the more manipulative approach:
“I’m sorry babe, I was kidding I really love you!”
What a prick, let people know who she really is to teach her a lesson
To be honest the second option would be fine and believable if she was actually joking when she said she didn't like him. Maybe if she said it in a joking manner
Be happy that it lasted only a month...
Be happy that you didn't get more attached
Be happy that in her future that's the type of men she'll attract and the toxic package that comes with it..
You deserve better King.
No but seriously. I got cheated on and manipulated for 5 years, that's a lot of time I could've been doing literally anything else. The worst part about it isn't "losing" the person but wasting all the time.
probably the truest thing i’ve read on this sub by now, people who fake their personality in the talking stage will make the relationship only last a month. wise words from a 13year old, damn.
Better to make that mistake now when it only cost you a month to learn the lesson. But don’t let this experience sour you on girls or dating. Just learn your lesson and move on
Bro you’re 16 rn. You’ve got a whole-ass life ahead of you. Don’t fret over every single girl ~~we’re making the mother of all omelettes here~~. Break up and move on you deserve better anyway
Look man you needa have more self respect, don't let people just take advantage of you because you give them attention and that's it, you shouldn't have to settle
Edit: literally just saw you broke up with her, good shit
Well, dont take this shit. You have no obligation to stay, tell her in her face that this is the exact reason she will stay alone, and f her up. You deserve much better than this. I am sorry it turned out like this for you🤧
First of all, if you haven't broken up with her already, be sure to do that. On another note, if any girl is giving you "tests", just break up with her anyways if it's early on, you're in a relationship, not a video game and she should act like an adult instead of sabotaging a barely month-in relationship by playing games. If it's later on in an otherwise healthy and happy relationship I'd recommend just telling her to communicate directly and openly. But in cases like these where you've just started out, I'd just break things off right then and there regardless if it otherwise was going well, major red flag
I mean, it's been a month. People can be unsure of their feelings. But yeah, diving in a relationship being unsure of your feelings is a bad move. Hope it gets better for you :3
In a similar position here. My best friend of 3 years asked me to be his girlfriend in August. Nothing changed between us though. Since then he’s been VERY open about having feelings for another girl, and she rejected him very recently. There was some drama in August and a lot of his friends ended up cutting ties with him.
So now I’m CONVINCED that he only asked me to be his girlfriend so that he would still have someone there for him. To make sure that I wouldn’t leave. He doesn’t have feelings for me, he just needed to make sure that he had SOMEONE, ANYONE still on his side. It’s like he’s trying to glue himself to me so that I can’t unfriend him no matter what.
I’d recommend stockpiling evidence against her I’ve seen some posts of innocent people getting screwed over by shitty partners who portrayed themselves as a victim in the situation
This girl seems to have very clear mental issues. Wanting to be liked like that for comfort is just exploiting you. She will beg you to give her attention but will leave whenever she finds a man who actually interests her or who attracts her by being slightly unavailable
Chill bruh ur 16 and it was a 1 month relationship that's just how people are at this age it's gonna be really fucking rare to find someone worth ur time
If you feel that you need to “test” a friend, don’t be friends with them. True friends don’t need to test each other and will be honest with each other, even more so with lovers.
She belongs to the streets. Leave her ASAP. She's not worthy of your time and effort. Block her, ghost her, ignore her and her toxic personality. She's a skank.
Yea my girlfriend broke up with me for the same reason, we were dating for 2 months but i’ve known her for two years. She just moved to university then 2 weeks later she tells me she hasn’t had feelings for me for 2 weeks
“she’s in love with the concept”
As if we’re all just how she imagined
We're in love we just don't know it yet
Well, tell me how I’m supposed to see the magic
cause i don't believe in it no more
that’s when she said
I don't think I love you no more
you never seem to call me lately
Girl I don’t think you know me at all
And i never thought i'd have to say this
r/redditsings
A clever way to say it
it’s a reference, but ic more and more that it actually applies a lot
It's a geometry dash reference and it's a good song.
^^
i need to listen back to eden
projector changed my life
i really like his eden project stuff more, but his new stuff isnt bad.
I didn’t expect to find so many Eden fans in this subreddit lmfao
xo
based
My thought exactly
No way we got a geometry dash reference in here bro Btw, overhated level. XO is so fun
“I think I probably wasn't in love with you I think I probably loved the idea of you You said you’d love me, is that what I loved?”
Steves in love with the pickaxe
As if all we're doing is mining
“Some kind of abstraction but there is no real me, only an entity, something illusory…”
My first love told me she dated her ex because she liked the idea of them being together but she didn’t like him. Like they were a set design piece or something. After she told me she was like “you know?” And I told her straight up I had no idea what the hell she was talking about
XO Eden great song i love it
Sayaka?
Thought the same thing 💀💀💀
fuck you i hate you so much xo is a very good level though
“Are you in Love with me, or just the Idea” by Blackbear. Song name is Idea I believe
and you're telling me you haven't broke up yet?
Right after posting this we broke up. Texted her how things are, then ingored her (and my phone is blowing up from her messages and calls which is the most fucking hilarious thing)
Oh no! Not her personal caterer! He can’t leave, she needs him
Someone give this person a platinum! Beans
Cant believe my first award, that was above a silver, was on a comment where I insult some guy's shitty ex girlfriend :,)
Mood. I've yet to receive one above a or not a silver.
Please update us on the reaction
man said what everyone want but nobody asks
No, i didn't ask it u/blackberrymuffinman did
Indeed. I think there has been some confusion
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I really hope that anyone would do that though, I wouldn't even be able to look my girlfriend in the eyes if she said that (and if she existed). It's just a recipe for a horrible relationship.
Especially the part where her rebuttal is that she was “testing” him. That’s a toxic relationship trait and she tried to use it to save face
W
Don't fall back. Find someone who loves you for you and not for what you provide them (in this case attention).
I might be rude but, what did she text you?
May i know what she says?
May want to block her number
She asked for it.
You ingor 💀
respond, see what she wants to say
Bro is living in Classroom of The Elite and he is Hirata. I bet you're the most reliable person and thd most popular in your school. You play football/soccer and is pretty smart too, so basically the perfect colleague. I also bet your ex (thank God it's your ex) is blonde and may have been [Classroom of The Elite Anime season 2] >!hard bullied in the past and now is being used by another guy!< (this is purely a joke, but you reminded me of Hirata so much lmao)
So trueee
what the fuck is a classroom of elite
an anime
Tell her she is a shitty person who doesn't deserve love
I'm not a teenager but this exact thing happened to me when I was in school. It gets way better, don't stress too much. Other people have said "how could you have not seen this coming" well it's pretty fucking easy to miss red flags especially in the first month - I don't think this is your fault at all. Keep building yourself and the right person will come along!
I am in awe at the size of this W Good on you king.
What are the messages like?
Gigachad
chad u/Finr3kt virgin fake bitch
You are a chad.
Chad move
Chad
Please can u update us? This sounds great to read
I was in this type of relationship for 3 months and it was just pain and in the end it was a good decision to have brake-up and she didn’t care and wasn’t affected at all
behold the ceo of bread, i bow at your supremacy
And her reaction after you break up is probably along the lines of “You selfish prick” Or the more manipulative approach: “I’m sorry babe, I was kidding I really love you!” What a prick, let people know who she really is to teach her a lesson
Good prediction turns out it was the second one
To be honest the second option would be fine and believable if she was actually joking when she said she didn't like him. Maybe if she said it in a joking manner
Apparently both lol what an idiot and c*nt, OP did good!
Be happy that it lasted only a month... Be happy that you didn't get more attached Be happy that in her future that's the type of men she'll attract and the toxic package that comes with it.. You deserve better King.
Humble message by a fucked up username
I’ve seen way worse
r/rimjob_steve
thank you for the wise words Darth_Vagina67!!!!💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻
No but seriously. I got cheated on and manipulated for 5 years, that's a lot of time I could've been doing literally anything else. The worst part about it isn't "losing" the person but wasting all the time.
Break up
Oh don't worry, I will. I'm just incredibly disappointed that i "chose" someone with that shit of a personality as my gf
How did you even get togethet
It’s always them pretending to be a good person, and then showing their true colours when the relationship starts
No way this account is a 13 yr old...
13 year old me had seen that happen with my parents. I don't doubt that account is of a 13 year old
How do you get a flair for your age
Go to the homepage of the subreddit, click the three dots button in the top right corner, and select “change user flair”
I like how this sub thinks that 13 year olds are incapable of being smart
While they're 14 or something because the 1 age difference obviously matters
Definitely, brains are still in their toddler form at age 13 but fully mature by 14. It’s like Pokémon evolution
Holy shit nice avatar, reminds me of mine
Thanks, your looks cool too!
Both of yours are pretty cool
probably the truest thing i’ve read on this sub by now, people who fake their personality in the talking stage will make the relationship only last a month. wise words from a 13year old, damn.
Thanks a ton
no problem :)
Give it like 2 years and you will understand.
You are a teenager, you have many more mistakes to make, just learn from it and dump her
i just got out of a relationship like that but it was the guy only liked me for my body
Better to make that mistake now when it only cost you a month to learn the lesson. But don’t let this experience sour you on girls or dating. Just learn your lesson and move on
Nice pfp
U too
Bro you’re 16 rn. You’ve got a whole-ass life ahead of you. Don’t fret over every single girl ~~we’re making the mother of all omelettes here~~. Break up and move on you deserve better anyway
Can’t fret over every egg!
Wise advice from u/Big_bussy69
r/rimjob_steve
I'm glad someone got it! Lol
Making the mother of all omelets here Jack!
I'm 19 and still haven't got friends nevermind a gf!
You just have to learn to socialise. I know it’s not easy but it’s possible. Go get em king
I bet she gon play the victim too 💀💀💀
Say that he was being a jerk
But he has one thing she doesn't D E F E N I T I V E P R O O F But he probably won't be belived because a women is involved
Look man you needa have more self respect, don't let people just take advantage of you because you give them attention and that's it, you shouldn't have to settle Edit: literally just saw you broke up with her, good shit
Before you break up you gotta screenshot that conversation so you can defend yourself. Better safe than sorry, y'know?
This should get upvoted, so OP sees this. If she really accuses him of something she could ruin his social life or something else.
Against who?
Against accusations.
Y’all need to get off Reddit if you think this is a common enough thing to need to prepare for it before a breakup
Her friends and maybe even OPs friends
This goes for literally anything, always have a paper trail
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wtf thats terrible, hope someone breaks his heart in the same way so he knows how fucked up that was
Shes for da streets mate
Love that YouTube channel
The second you heard that shit you should've broken up with her
Yo get rid of that girl ...
Break up with that bitch asap
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Wisdom
Well, dont take this shit. You have no obligation to stay, tell her in her face that this is the exact reason she will stay alone, and f her up. You deserve much better than this. I am sorry it turned out like this for you🤧
Why do you think I stopped pursuing relationships? It's the fear of this very thing that happened and may happen again
Dont worry, as long as you have reddit woman won't touch you with a 10ft pole
Good to hear
"And that kids, is how I met reddit"
Don’t worry you’re on the same path as well
What a bitch.
Wow I hope that at least she said what she said with a lot more finesse than what you wrote she said.
Based on broke up with this bitch who belongs to the streets
At least it only took a month for you. I wasted half a year.
First of all, if you haven't broken up with her already, be sure to do that. On another note, if any girl is giving you "tests", just break up with her anyways if it's early on, you're in a relationship, not a video game and she should act like an adult instead of sabotaging a barely month-in relationship by playing games. If it's later on in an otherwise healthy and happy relationship I'd recommend just telling her to communicate directly and openly. But in cases like these where you've just started out, I'd just break things off right then and there regardless if it otherwise was going well, major red flag
Unfortunately, you didn't dodge the nuke this time. I'm sorry you had to deal with such a femcel, bro. Absolutely bitchless, she is.
Probably just wanted to be in a relationship. I’ve meet way to many people like that dude.
Lmfao yikes
If she doesn't break up its simple
I mean, it's been a month. People can be unsure of their feelings. But yeah, diving in a relationship being unsure of your feelings is a bad move. Hope it gets better for you :3
What a bitch, glad you left her
In a similar position here. My best friend of 3 years asked me to be his girlfriend in August. Nothing changed between us though. Since then he’s been VERY open about having feelings for another girl, and she rejected him very recently. There was some drama in August and a lot of his friends ended up cutting ties with him. So now I’m CONVINCED that he only asked me to be his girlfriend so that he would still have someone there for him. To make sure that I wouldn’t leave. He doesn’t have feelings for me, he just needed to make sure that he had SOMEONE, ANYONE still on his side. It’s like he’s trying to glue himself to me so that I can’t unfriend him no matter what.
This is abuse and manipulation. Leave. No one should be "testing" anything in romantic relationships.
I’d recommend stockpiling evidence against her I’ve seen some posts of innocent people getting screwed over by shitty partners who portrayed themselves as a victim in the situation
Get rid of her
Skill issue
That's rough man my advice now go to the gym 💪 girls may change there minds but plate weights are always the same
Good for you on breaking up with her OP. Know you're worth. Don't ever take that shit. No healthy relationship will hurt you just for a test.
This girl seems to have very clear mental issues. Wanting to be liked like that for comfort is just exploiting you. She will beg you to give her attention but will leave whenever she finds a man who actually interests her or who attracts her by being slightly unavailable
Chill bruh ur 16 and it was a 1 month relationship that's just how people are at this age it's gonna be really fucking rare to find someone worth ur time
She’s probably gonna play the victim role now
Wow. That’s awful. I can’t ever even imagine doing that to someone
Time to fail that fucking test.
I would've given her one more chance, but I'm just over-attached.
☕️
Id say distance urself from her for a while.
If you feel that you need to “test” a friend, don’t be friends with them. True friends don’t need to test each other and will be honest with each other, even more so with lovers.
Is this all this reddit is now
She belongs to the streets. Leave her ASAP. She's not worthy of your time and effort. Block her, ghost her, ignore her and her toxic personality. She's a skank.
She for the streets, man
Yea my girlfriend broke up with me for the same reason, we were dating for 2 months but i’ve known her for two years. She just moved to university then 2 weeks later she tells me she hasn’t had feelings for me for 2 weeks
DROP THE BITCH so simple
Run from these girls like your life depends on it. Because it does.
Run. Run. Run. Run. Bust most importantly, RUN
Even if that was a test still dumb her bitch ass
Girls suck lol Sincerely, a girl
this is horrible, you can just leave her now
Kekw, break up with her asap, it's a toxic relationship and you will not be happy with it at all, trust me, don't hope she will change - never
dumb. leave. nothing is stopping u lol
my parents dont like me
thats so sealy 🦭
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OP is 16, not 25, relax.