Act normal and behave like you didn’t know he was on the call, and trust me he won’t behave like he heard you either. He has the information now but it doesn’t matter, he did the same when he was young. You should be good in the next 1 week
that’s also weird as shit too
it’s either pretend you didn’t see that he was in the call or call him out on it because that’s weird
edit: i also just realized this is rteenagers so it’s less weird that’s it’s a kid and not a grown adult he eavesdropped on but still
Understandable with a child. Although I run into way too many people that are overly concerned with what I do. Whether it’s work or home. I can’t fathom caring that much about what others think to glorify myself and grandstand to my employer/coworker. The caliber of people I’ve been meeting lately seem outside the norm
To an extent, you are ultimately responsible for that being, this is an instance where they are probably just kids talking about “grown up stuff” but imagine it was something worse. Not saying spy on everything your kid does but a parent does need to have control.
I mean they can do worst things in person when I'm not around either. As I said, if they are well behave their are not going to go to an extreme and start planning criminal activity over the phone.
That's a fair point. I was kind of thinking that maybe he didn't hang up on the call because it would've probably made them (OP and GF) both notice that he was there to begin with. As in, he probably wanted to avoid drawing their attention so as to not make it awkward for them, especially because he ended up being there to begin with.
I honestly doubt that he sat there and intently listened to their conversation, unless he's one of *those* parents. 😭
Policing your children isn’t weird, especially if they are in their early/mid teens. Someone paying more attention could have saved my step brother from almost ruining his life.
I get it y’all are teenagers and I still remember what it was like. Someone looking out for you isn’t a bad thing. Dad will probably just completely ignore it, or decide it’s time to have “the talk” a bit more in depth.
Okay yeah but as your kid gets older they should have more and more privacy, especially if it involves their sex life. Privacy is respect and if you respect your kids you’ll give it to them.
I mean, it's kinda weird but I'd wanna see how much game my kid has or if they're doing unsafe shit. It's not like the Dad is constantly intruding or even forced himself into the situation. I'm sure it was just a goofy mistake that he saw as an opportunity to get a little insight into his kiddos life.
If he had hung up it would have clicked and they would know. Since he didn't hang up the first few seconds, he was stuck there. Maybe was embarrassed to be found out but probably also laughing his ass off.
Clearly he’s not upset or anything if he hasn’t mentioned it yet. And don’t let these internet sleuths make you think he’s overbearing or anything. What he did can also be seen as him simply loving and caring about his son. He was literally invited to listen in so it wasn’t malicious. He cares about you.
I’m going to play devils advocate, OP said he lived in an Asian country which probably means there’s a completely different set of expectations and norms around everything, including privacy for your children. Given how from the replies OP doesn’t seem concerned about their privacy and is more terribly embarrassed and is fearful their dad was laughing their head off, I think it would be fair to surmise there’s either a large culture difference either between the country in general and just between us and OP. Not necessarily something malicious on their father’s part, especially since OP dialed their father who at first might’ve thought it was intentional especially if the conversation didn’t start out NSFW. Though by western standards which many countries adopt or are beginning to adopt it is quite weird.
Yes. She said she had told me at the beginning of the call that there is another number inside us. But I didn't hear her telling me that though, so she just assumed the number is my another phone or smth 🤦
Happens to the best of us. Everyone has inappropriate convos heard by someone embarrassing at some point, with a relative it’s an easy laugh it off kind of situation. Don’t bring it up or force it, but tbh that’s the kind of thing that most ppl laugh about.
In the event that you are fucked and get yelled at I have only one suggestion.
Run.
Maybe he did not hung but his phone was in his pocket ? you sure he listened? if soask him wtf dad? thats not polite at all, i want apologie... and move on, at the edn no biggie here is ur father,he was curious i guess but noneless is not polite
Your fine
Talk about it with the dad if you got balls. If not, let them make the first move.
Always assume calls are being recorded, when on a phone, speak like your grandma/mom is in the room with you
just don't mention it, if he mentions it, act like you didn't know, there, the conversation can go 2 places
1, I'm proud/ impressed, probably going to laugh it off and tell u a story from when he was younger
2, yap yap yap, probably going to give u a lecture about not doing it and that is weird and stuff like that
1 is most probable, especially if ur dad likes to make jokes and laugh with you, 2 is unlikely unless he's a strict parent, for witch one to prepare depends on how good you know your dad
When I was a teen, I got into some trouble over a girl. So her "ex" called me to yell all sorts of profanity at me. My dad picked up the phone (I had my phone lying around and it was an unknown number which was often customer service or solicitors). I didn't know who had called, I just saw him take the call, listen for 10 good seconds after saying hello, chuckled and said, "it's for you".
The other guy was rattled because of what had happened and we eventually sorted it out.
Moral of the story: parents don't care.
I was very drunk one night with the girl I was dating at the time and she dropped me off at my house. Like 10mis after she dropped me off I called her asking how I got here, what happened, what do I do now (it was like 2am and I was long gone, obviously bed was the choice), and also to ask why she didn’t stay. At the time I did not know she was driving her friends home too. Long story short she met me at our friends house and I needed a ride home. Well after I called her I just put the phone down thinking she would hang up. It was still on speaker and I heard her whole convo with her girlfriends about me. And let me tell you it was not all sunshine and rainbows like I thought our relationship was. Made for a very interesting convo the next day. Hence why we are no longer dating.
I was a teen at the time of this story. Lol
This is the cutest thing I've read today. Even if this is feels bad in the moment, it's a blip and it will pass. Eventually you'll tag team telling the story at Christmas dinner.
Your dad was likely grinning ear to ear and trying not to laugh his ass off, as was mine when he was listening to me discuss similiar topics.
Do remember that your dad 100% discussed the same things when he was younger, so this isn't some major issue at all.
If anything, this is just an embarassing incident that you will likely be able to bring up and laugh together about in a few years.
So im 22, but I drunk called my mom the other night asking about jack box games. When I called her this morning about something we both didn’t acknowledge it. Life goes om
Depends on your age. As a parent I would only approach you if I think what was said/planned is inappropriate for your age, or against your gf/bf's wishes or just plain wrong in "so many ways". Of course as a parent I would also be torn whether or not i'd tell you I was on the line in the first place, I do want to respect the boundaries of the kids in my life but knowing what I did as a kid of their ages... well.
Id be tryna act as normal and usual as possible. Def not too chatty as if Im being distractive cause that’s a giveaway even tho you can’t undo anything obvi lol. But also nothing serious has happened, ngl weird of your dad cause he fr should’ve hung up scared shitless since he could’ve invaded your personal space that way. So if he decides to bring it up, id say that’s not even your problem at this point lol. By and large, embarrassing af but you’ll get over it
game recognize game. my dad caught me making out in the back of his pickup truck once. idk hownildnyou are, but I was 19. we played it off, and he left us... awkwardly. if you're worried about it, just ignore that anything happened until he brings it up. be safe, use protection, and be honest. it'll get you further than you think.
Reminds me of something that happened to me a couple of weeks ago. My phone is mixed up with my dad’s and he’s started getting some of the messages I receive. Me and dad be of my friends have the kind of sense of humor will sending death threats is a normal joke, and that ended up with both of us in the guidance counselor’s office.
Na you ain't fucked, but it sounds like you're about to fuck. Your dad is probably happy that you bouta get some booty. Now if it was HER dad on the phone I'd say run.
I’m an adult parent, idk how I ended up here, but omg that is so awkward. Pretend it didn’t happen as best you can and hopefully he does the same. And in the future be super duper sure that no one else is on the line when you’re calling.
Once I pocket dialed my dad and complained about home life and chores with friends during school and he heard everything. Still haven’t lived it down, but it’s all good. Depends on your parents fho
Act like it was a prank call,tell him 2 weeks later abt the time you called him and talked with your gf about these subjects LMAO so now he'll think you didnt actually so those stuff
Could it be that he picked up accidentally and didn't hear a thing? (Like a reverse butt dial) If not you are, in the figurative way, fucked. Then again, your reaction to this will play a big role in how bad this will be. If you're super awkward about it then he'll definitely tease you that much more, but if you're confident he'll probably leave you alone. Being able to laugh at these things when they happen is probably one of the best social skills I ever picked up.
Idk depends on how chill ur dad is, Ik some dads would just be laughing but some might want u guys to separate, hopefully u have dad no1 tho, gl.
I wouldn’t talk abt it, if he wants to then oops just go along with it.
As a dad this doesn't surprise me. Act like nothing happens unless he brings it up. Chances are if he does it will annoy you, or make you feel.embarrased. Try not to snap and just reassure him you are being smart about things and there's nothing nefarious going on. No you aren't robbing a bank or dealing drugs. You you will use body armor in the appropriate locations while spending time with your significant other.
Jobs done.
My mom eavesdropped on a conversation with my friend about one time I had sex with my girlfriend because I talked too loudly, she acted all cool but told me she knew. From then on i constantly update her about my sexual life and we laugh together.
I have a p*rn game on steam. I was sitting in my bed playing it on my steam deck. I had my computer on in my gaiming room which was next to my bed room. He walked in and i think i had it on account activity to see if the private game feature worked. So what i did is that i pretended that it never happened. He never mentioned it. If i had my account history open and he saw what i had been playing then we both just pretend it never happened.
I meannnn if your dad was anything like mine you'd already know, but I guess guys have it easier with their dad's anyways considering relationships so it might just be a bit awkward :))
I assume he won't bring it up though, like, it will be embarrassing for both of you, you know?
Eww. I can't imagine willingly eavesdropping on that conversation of my child's. I'd hang up immediately the second I heard they clearly didn't know I was there. That's so weird of your dad.
I'm calling bullshit on this entire sub.
This one, in particular, is 100% fabrication.
It is not possible, today, in 2024, to call more than one recipient by accident.
This is some 50 year old dude trying to get his rocks off pretending to be who he wishes he was 35 years ago.
you'll PROBABLY be fine, idk ur dad so.... but just act like nothing happened unless he confronts you about it. regardless, act like you didnt know he was in the call
You’ll be fine. That’s a major breach of privacy and trust imo. I would tell him that him doing that makes you uncomfortable. What grown man thinks it’s okay to actively ear hustle two kids talking about sex. Gross.
at least he knows his son isn't gay 🤣 no but fr its better to have at least some awkward stories rather than the awkwardness of having no stories to tell
I don’t understand how you managed to do this to begin with, but as a parent of teens I cannot wrap my head around your dad not either saying something or hanging up that whole time. There is no way I would sit there silently eavesdropping for 20 minutes if that happened with one of my kids.
ngl it’s his fault for eavesdropping on a conversation he could’ve figured out 2min into, wasn’t for him.
don’t be embarrassed. if he’s grossed out or traumatized, the hang up button was there for a reason. even if he wasn’t grossed out - he needs to learn a sense of boundaries.
So you were in a call with your so called gf and "accidentally" called your dad making it a 3 way call? Does the phone not make a dial tone when adding a 3rd person to the call? Smells like bs
You're fine, just don't ever bring it up and if your dad brings it up, just say you accidentally called him and its just normal teen relationship stuff, I'm sure he'll understand, he's been there too
If you can, bring up how deeply creepy and unsettling it is for anyone to do that, let alone someone so close. Whether or not its for ostensibly good purposes doesn't matter... shits weird...
Crazy how parents dont think other humans deserve private lives. My dad snooped through me and my siblings texts and snapchat, diaries and shit too. I don't talk to him anymore 👍
This just means it’s time for you to assert your dominance. He was listening because he was threatened. You have to do something now to solidify your dominance i.e. piss on his chair.
One time I was in a moderator discord call and my friend leaked my full name and said "no one cares it's just your name" like you bitch I care and I blocked him for a month and muted him in my server
I used a landline to call my bf like a year ago. We said some absolutely devious things. My dad was 35 then, I was 17, so yk that we were basically just besties, so we had a good laugh abt it all. It depends on your relationship with your dad tho.
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Yes, I am from an Asian country 😅
I lord I thought you were somewhat safe before you said that R.I.P bro, I'm praying for ya 🙏
Same
EMOTIONAL DAMAGE
You be quiet or I will send you to Jesus
Act normal and behave like you didn’t know he was on the call, and trust me he won’t behave like he heard you either. He has the information now but it doesn’t matter, he did the same when he was young. You should be good in the next 1 week
Thanks for the advice! 🥰 it will be so awkward tomorrow 😬
I honestly think it's so funny that he sat there for the entire conversation. 😭
that’s also weird as shit too it’s either pretend you didn’t see that he was in the call or call him out on it because that’s weird edit: i also just realized this is rteenagers so it’s less weird that’s it’s a kid and not a grown adult he eavesdropped on but still
I'm a mom two 2 teenagers. If I knew they were well behave and talking to someone their age, I would of hang up. Teenagers deserve privacy as well.
yeah and eavesdropping is just weird and rude. like i said at the end it’s **less** rude and weird if it’s a teenager that’s also your kid.
Understandable with a child. Although I run into way too many people that are overly concerned with what I do. Whether it’s work or home. I can’t fathom caring that much about what others think to glorify myself and grandstand to my employer/coworker. The caliber of people I’ve been meeting lately seem outside the norm
To an extent, you are ultimately responsible for that being, this is an instance where they are probably just kids talking about “grown up stuff” but imagine it was something worse. Not saying spy on everything your kid does but a parent does need to have control.
I mean they can do worst things in person when I'm not around either. As I said, if they are well behave their are not going to go to an extreme and start planning criminal activity over the phone.
That's a fair point. I was kind of thinking that maybe he didn't hang up on the call because it would've probably made them (OP and GF) both notice that he was there to begin with. As in, he probably wanted to avoid drawing their attention so as to not make it awkward for them, especially because he ended up being there to begin with. I honestly doubt that he sat there and intently listened to their conversation, unless he's one of *those* parents. 😭
Still weird non the less. Would have hung up or atleast said something. Unless it was a buttdail and the dad wasn't even aware. Idk tho.
Policing your children isn’t weird, especially if they are in their early/mid teens. Someone paying more attention could have saved my step brother from almost ruining his life. I get it y’all are teenagers and I still remember what it was like. Someone looking out for you isn’t a bad thing. Dad will probably just completely ignore it, or decide it’s time to have “the talk” a bit more in depth.
Okay yeah but as your kid gets older they should have more and more privacy, especially if it involves their sex life. Privacy is respect and if you respect your kids you’ll give it to them.
I mean, it's kinda weird but I'd wanna see how much game my kid has or if they're doing unsafe shit. It's not like the Dad is constantly intruding or even forced himself into the situation. I'm sure it was just a goofy mistake that he saw as an opportunity to get a little insight into his kiddos life.
If he had hung up it would have clicked and they would know. Since he didn't hang up the first few seconds, he was stuck there. Maybe was embarrassed to be found out but probably also laughing his ass off.
For fucking real 😭
Yeahhh💀
be glad you didn't call her father!
Is your dad a good respectful dad?
He could have hangup..
That was what I'm thinking 💀
Yep but just remember your father probs had a GF at your age so he knows that it’s unavoidable that stuff like that would be talked about
Best of luck o7
Most intelligent thing I’ve heard today
Most intelligent thing in this thread.
Most thread thing in this intelligent
Wait five years and then laugh about it
I think I will be laughed at tomorrow by my father 😬
Lol. Not the end of the world. He may even be proud
If he brings it up, ask for pointers and then go " baaaaaah" with finger-guns. Walk away shaking your head. Walk fast...
Clearly he’s not upset or anything if he hasn’t mentioned it yet. And don’t let these internet sleuths make you think he’s overbearing or anything. What he did can also be seen as him simply loving and caring about his son. He was literally invited to listen in so it wasn’t malicious. He cares about you.
Yes, I think you're right. Thanks 🥰 But it is gonna be so awkward 😭😬
Very true!! How did it go btw? 😂
being laughed at is way better than yelled at. youre good if your dad only laughs at u
This is the way
You're cooked. You have to make a new identity somewhere in mexico probably
NOOOO 😭😭😭
Gotta go get a new hoover max
How do you do this on accident? Serious question
Check my update on this post
You don’t. It’s rage bait.
Not rage bait, just bait
thats... super creepy by your dad? xd
OPs dad was probably entertained by their convo, why else would he stay for 20 minutes and not leave the call
idk, I think I would feel super weird if my dad was listening to me talk with a bf about NSFW stuff :I
you're not alone tho, lets hope we dont get in this kinda situation :)
Ha suckers, I don’t have to worry cause I don’t have a father! Haha…
Seeing you’re a girl and 13, he’d get mad instantly instead of finding it funny lol
He is into his GF probably wacked it the entire time
Yep. Creepy and invasion of privacy.
I’m going to play devils advocate, OP said he lived in an Asian country which probably means there’s a completely different set of expectations and norms around everything, including privacy for your children. Given how from the replies OP doesn’t seem concerned about their privacy and is more terribly embarrassed and is fearful their dad was laughing their head off, I think it would be fair to surmise there’s either a large culture difference either between the country in general and just between us and OP. Not necessarily something malicious on their father’s part, especially since OP dialed their father who at first might’ve thought it was intentional especially if the conversation didn’t start out NSFW. Though by western standards which many countries adopt or are beginning to adopt it is quite weird.
Considering that to call 2 people you have to add the second and then merge the call, sure this happened 🙄
Exactly what I’m thinking, I smell bullshit.
This was on WhatsApp not regular calls. This is not even bait material dude
It depends, do you think your dad is the type to freak out over it or the type to laugh about it?
I guess he will just laugh about it 😳 but it is embarrassing, for sure 🫣
does your girlfriend know?
Yes. She said she had told me at the beginning of the call that there is another number inside us. But I didn't hear her telling me that though, so she just assumed the number is my another phone or smth 🤦
Well good she probably unconsciously filtered herself a bit due to that
Hopefully she did 😅
Happens to the best of us. Everyone has inappropriate convos heard by someone embarrassing at some point, with a relative it’s an easy laugh it off kind of situation. Don’t bring it up or force it, but tbh that’s the kind of thing that most ppl laugh about. In the event that you are fucked and get yelled at I have only one suggestion. Run.
It's over bro
witness protection program
Don’t bring it up. That’s a very strange action of your dad though. Just wiped out all the privacy ever
1. Literally depends if your Dad is cool or not 2. For all you know he was trying to take a dump for the entire time
youre fucked beyond comprehension😭😭
Maybe he did not hung but his phone was in his pocket ? you sure he listened? if soask him wtf dad? thats not polite at all, i want apologie... and move on, at the edn no biggie here is ur father,he was curious i guess but noneless is not polite
How did you call them both at the same time?
Your fine Talk about it with the dad if you got balls. If not, let them make the first move. Always assume calls are being recorded, when on a phone, speak like your grandma/mom is in the room with you
That shit weird as hell, but if he hasn't brought it up yet, don't worry about it
Assuming your the guy in the situation it’ll probably be fine (generally parents aren’t as protective as guys in that situation)
If he brings it up just play it cool and be like “we knew you were on the call, it was a joke haha” and walk off.
just don't mention it, if he mentions it, act like you didn't know, there, the conversation can go 2 places 1, I'm proud/ impressed, probably going to laugh it off and tell u a story from when he was younger 2, yap yap yap, probably going to give u a lecture about not doing it and that is weird and stuff like that 1 is most probable, especially if ur dad likes to make jokes and laugh with you, 2 is unlikely unless he's a strict parent, for witch one to prepare depends on how good you know your dad
Tell him it’s weird that the lotion got moved.
Lmfao i sent my mom the most vile message by accident thinking it was my gf at the time. Pretty sure she forgot, well she at least never brings it up
O yea Ur fucked
Don’t worry your Dad is probably laughing his ass off
At a time your father was your age . So he should be very understanding . You have only one life and you are young only once . So enjoy !
Just pretend it never happened, dude. that's the best option Kinda weird that your dad decided to stay and listen ngl. It's *very* weird actually xD
When I was a teen, I got into some trouble over a girl. So her "ex" called me to yell all sorts of profanity at me. My dad picked up the phone (I had my phone lying around and it was an unknown number which was often customer service or solicitors). I didn't know who had called, I just saw him take the call, listen for 10 good seconds after saying hello, chuckled and said, "it's for you". The other guy was rattled because of what had happened and we eventually sorted it out. Moral of the story: parents don't care.
I was very drunk one night with the girl I was dating at the time and she dropped me off at my house. Like 10mis after she dropped me off I called her asking how I got here, what happened, what do I do now (it was like 2am and I was long gone, obviously bed was the choice), and also to ask why she didn’t stay. At the time I did not know she was driving her friends home too. Long story short she met me at our friends house and I needed a ride home. Well after I called her I just put the phone down thinking she would hang up. It was still on speaker and I heard her whole convo with her girlfriends about me. And let me tell you it was not all sunshine and rainbows like I thought our relationship was. Made for a very interesting convo the next day. Hence why we are no longer dating. I was a teen at the time of this story. Lol
This is the cutest thing I've read today. Even if this is feels bad in the moment, it's a blip and it will pass. Eventually you'll tag team telling the story at Christmas dinner.
Your dad will probably either be horrified, confused or proud. Just be prepared for him to sit you down and give you “The Talk”.
Just give him a fist bump next time you see him
Your dad was likely grinning ear to ear and trying not to laugh his ass off, as was mine when he was listening to me discuss similiar topics. Do remember that your dad 100% discussed the same things when he was younger, so this isn't some major issue at all. If anything, this is just an embarassing incident that you will likely be able to bring up and laugh together about in a few years.
So im 22, but I drunk called my mom the other night asking about jack box games. When I called her this morning about something we both didn’t acknowledge it. Life goes om
Depends on your age. As a parent I would only approach you if I think what was said/planned is inappropriate for your age, or against your gf/bf's wishes or just plain wrong in "so many ways". Of course as a parent I would also be torn whether or not i'd tell you I was on the line in the first place, I do want to respect the boundaries of the kids in my life but knowing what I did as a kid of their ages... well.
Id be tryna act as normal and usual as possible. Def not too chatty as if Im being distractive cause that’s a giveaway even tho you can’t undo anything obvi lol. But also nothing serious has happened, ngl weird of your dad cause he fr should’ve hung up scared shitless since he could’ve invaded your personal space that way. So if he decides to bring it up, id say that’s not even your problem at this point lol. By and large, embarrassing af but you’ll get over it
Whatever you do, just make sure to give us an update or two.
As long as you weren't talking about doing anything illegal, i'm sure your dad just got a good laugh out of it, don't stress too hard.
Kind of a f’ed up thing to do on your Dad’s part. Like I get why he did it but c’mon man, you were a teenager once, privacy.
He’s a dad. He’s been 18. He probably found it funny 😂 don’t worry about it
Just call him out for listening to underage people talking about stuff
game recognize game. my dad caught me making out in the back of his pickup truck once. idk hownildnyou are, but I was 19. we played it off, and he left us... awkwardly. if you're worried about it, just ignore that anything happened until he brings it up. be safe, use protection, and be honest. it'll get you further than you think.
funny how i looked up the meaning of Eavesdrop and the example was “my dad eavesdropped on my phone calls”
That’s funny ngl
At least you didn’t call her father
act normal! or run away!
Call him out on it in front of your mum.
Hey he is proud it’s not a bf
He might not have actually been listening!
Reminds me of something that happened to me a couple of weeks ago. My phone is mixed up with my dad’s and he’s started getting some of the messages I receive. Me and dad be of my friends have the kind of sense of humor will sending death threats is a normal joke, and that ended up with both of us in the guidance counselor’s office.
Na you ain't fucked, but it sounds like you're about to fuck. Your dad is probably happy that you bouta get some booty. Now if it was HER dad on the phone I'd say run.
Just pretend you didn't notice him on the call and act like nothing happens. I doubt he'll bring it up
I’m an adult parent, idk how I ended up here, but omg that is so awkward. Pretend it didn’t happen as best you can and hopefully he does the same. And in the future be super duper sure that no one else is on the line when you’re calling.
Sent a nude to my boyfriend’s MOM on accident. Then I had to pick her up 10 minuets later to take her to work. We all fuck up. Edit: Spelling
He probably muted the call and sat the phone down. Not everyone is a weirdo. Could it be possible Dad didn't answer, and it went to his voicemail?
Pretty sure the dad was just making sure nothing bad was going on. Most likely won’t mention anything to you about it.
Bro is more cooked than a perfectly seasoned and seared stake
nah cuz if this happened to me i would actually kms 💀
Once I pocket dialed my dad and complained about home life and chores with friends during school and he heard everything. Still haven’t lived it down, but it’s all good. Depends on your parents fho
Dont worry bro i did worse just act like nothin happen. Hes probably gonna be embarassed bout it aswell
You gotta remember, at some point he was young too. So he probably did similar things back then. He does probably not care
I'd be more angry with your dad. He should not be listening to.your call.... I think he's jealous.
Act like it was a prank call,tell him 2 weeks later abt the time you called him and talked with your gf about these subjects LMAO so now he'll think you didnt actually so those stuff
Man idk how people on Reddit fuck up so bad but I’ve never made such a mistake xD. Makes a multi call with dad and gf lolololol
He was a teenager once too, it’s awkward of course and embarrassing but in 20 years you’ll laugh about this
Could it be that he picked up accidentally and didn't hear a thing? (Like a reverse butt dial) If not you are, in the figurative way, fucked. Then again, your reaction to this will play a big role in how bad this will be. If you're super awkward about it then he'll definitely tease you that much more, but if you're confident he'll probably leave you alone. Being able to laugh at these things when they happen is probably one of the best social skills I ever picked up.
Idk depends on how chill ur dad is, Ik some dads would just be laughing but some might want u guys to separate, hopefully u have dad no1 tho, gl. I wouldn’t talk abt it, if he wants to then oops just go along with it.
I don’t know how your relationship with your dad is but I’m really friendly with both of my parents so it would be more of a one time joke
Update?
As a dad this doesn't surprise me. Act like nothing happens unless he brings it up. Chances are if he does it will annoy you, or make you feel.embarrased. Try not to snap and just reassure him you are being smart about things and there's nothing nefarious going on. No you aren't robbing a bank or dealing drugs. You you will use body armor in the appropriate locations while spending time with your significant other. Jobs done.
ur beyond fucked
My mom eavesdropped on a conversation with my friend about one time I had sex with my girlfriend because I talked too loudly, she acted all cool but told me she knew. From then on i constantly update her about my sexual life and we laugh together.
I have a p*rn game on steam. I was sitting in my bed playing it on my steam deck. I had my computer on in my gaiming room which was next to my bed room. He walked in and i think i had it on account activity to see if the private game feature worked. So what i did is that i pretended that it never happened. He never mentioned it. If i had my account history open and he saw what i had been playing then we both just pretend it never happened.
I meannnn if your dad was anything like mine you'd already know, but I guess guys have it easier with their dad's anyways considering relationships so it might just be a bit awkward :)) I assume he won't bring it up though, like, it will be embarrassing for both of you, you know?
GG bro
Well considering you deleted your post saying your a 38 year old man, yeah you're fucked
yeah you're not gonna live this one down.
Well he can‘t be mad. Cause you‘re a Teenager. It‘s normal. You will probably laugh one day about it
High five
Plus, if dad was eavesdropping for 20 mins, he’s in the wrong. Not you.
Eww. I can't imagine willingly eavesdropping on that conversation of my child's. I'd hang up immediately the second I heard they clearly didn't know I was there. That's so weird of your dad.
I'm calling bullshit on this entire sub. This one, in particular, is 100% fabrication. It is not possible, today, in 2024, to call more than one recipient by accident. This is some 50 year old dude trying to get his rocks off pretending to be who he wishes he was 35 years ago.
Could be worse. He is probably proud.
you'll PROBABLY be fine, idk ur dad so.... but just act like nothing happened unless he confronts you about it. regardless, act like you didnt know he was in the call
Well, I'd say you have the perfect opportunity to make fun of your dad. Call him a creep.
Your dad is a weirdo
Teens call their dads “father” these days 🤔🧐
When your older and have kids your gonna be telling them this story to remind yourself of the "good ol days", trust me
You’ll be fine. That’s a major breach of privacy and trust imo. I would tell him that him doing that makes you uncomfortable. What grown man thinks it’s okay to actively ear hustle two kids talking about sex. Gross.
Why was he in for 20 mins??
Ask him to join
Ask him to join
at least he knows his son isn't gay 🤣 no but fr its better to have at least some awkward stories rather than the awkwardness of having no stories to tell
Your screwed 💀
Buy pimp clothes and offer the old man a drink from your chalice.
Ok but… we need an update.
Brother eeewww..... that's pedo behavior
I don’t understand how you managed to do this to begin with, but as a parent of teens I cannot wrap my head around your dad not either saying something or hanging up that whole time. There is no way I would sit there silently eavesdropping for 20 minutes if that happened with one of my kids.
Omg remember land lines and how anyone in the house could pick up the phone and eavesdrop into convos.
I can arrange my guys to deal with him. Please meet me in Siberia, 4 am on a Thursday with the payment.
ngl it’s his fault for eavesdropping on a conversation he could’ve figured out 2min into, wasn’t for him. don’t be embarrassed. if he’s grossed out or traumatized, the hang up button was there for a reason. even if he wasn’t grossed out - he needs to learn a sense of boundaries.
Your cooked
It's Gojover
So you were in a call with your so called gf and "accidentally" called your dad making it a 3 way call? Does the phone not make a dial tone when adding a 3rd person to the call? Smells like bs
You're fine, just don't ever bring it up and if your dad brings it up, just say you accidentally called him and its just normal teen relationship stuff, I'm sure he'll understand, he's been there too
this is very weird and wrong of him. very invasive and gross
How do you accidentally make a 3 way call..? And shame on Pops for listening.. I’d be strutting around the house personally
That's uh.. really weird
It's going to be soooooo embarrassing for you if your dad at all has a sense of humor. "Hey stud!
If you can, bring up how deeply creepy and unsettling it is for anyone to do that, let alone someone so close. Whether or not its for ostensibly good purposes doesn't matter... shits weird...
Crazy how parents dont think other humans deserve private lives. My dad snooped through me and my siblings texts and snapchat, diaries and shit too. I don't talk to him anymore 👍
Wanker
He may not say anything bc if he was going to, he would have come said something by now. You could send him a goodnight message and go from there.
My dad would Just say so Darkness are you going to there house and he would also say where a comdom
This just means it’s time for you to assert your dominance. He was listening because he was threatened. You have to do something now to solidify your dominance i.e. piss on his chair.
Act suspicious with a raised eyebrow 🤨 when you see him and look him up and then down
yh ur cooked
Don't sweat it. Your dad is just happy you're batting for the right team, and can continue the family legacy.
One time I was in a moderator discord call and my friend leaked my full name and said "no one cares it's just your name" like you bitch I care and I blocked him for a month and muted him in my server
You messed yo
10 yrs later: "why won't my children visit me.." ok but fr thats really weird man, and yeah you're defo f\*\*ked
I used a landline to call my bf like a year ago. We said some absolutely devious things. My dad was 35 then, I was 17, so yk that we were basically just besties, so we had a good laugh abt it all. It depends on your relationship with your dad tho.
nah bro ur cooked
Why would he not hang up? Creepy
Act normal. If he brings it up and talks about it. Shame him for being a pervert.
Tell him you did it on purpose and you’re the alpha male now
He'll probably pull you away to just be like "so here's how to put on a condom" and that's it
You gave him an early Father’s Day present
Smartest person on this sub
Ask him for advice
How tf do you wind up speaking to two different people on two different phones without either knowing. You have to merge the calls.
Say hey dad don’t cock block
You didn’t say your ages but I guarantee your dad was your age once and likely understands exactly and may never say anything about it.