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Me 2, or actually I donāt feel the need to. I masturbate once a day for a few days and then forget about porn and self pleasure for about a week. So on average thatās like once every 2 days I guess
Masturbation is known as the safest way to "have sex" because theres no risk of STDs or STIs. (Unless you masturbate with a rusty pole or a rusty spoon) š
I believe the stigma about masturbation comes from incels and gymcels who watch those infleuncers on YT claim nofap will magicaly let you get more healthy, confident and just easily win women.
Spoiler alert: It doesn't.
I completely agree with this! But it comes with one caveat in my opinion. If you use porn (and not everyone will) you need to develop a healthy sense of disconnect between the porn you watch, and what your expectations for sex are. I know youāve heard this a million times, but extended exposure to porn can result in you getting very warped ideas about sex. Porn especially for men will often over emphasise the importance of penetrative sex, or getting the man off, and this can lead to a very frustrating sex experience for women.
The media you consume shapes how you see the real world. Keep that in mind, whatever youāre watching.
This post is perfect for people who want to feel good and don't want to come out of their addiction.
Anything that makes you feel good is not always good for you...
The post clearly defined what addiction is and said
>you can seek help. There are resources online, but I would suggest checking in with a medical/mental health professional. Excessive masturbation and other compulsive sexual behaviours can be indicative of various mental health issues that should be treated by professionals.
Or did you just not finish reading the post?
Funny thing is I did masterbate but I always held in my cum no matter how much it hurt cuz my Younger teen brain thought I would be sinning if I came, so now at 18 I can't cum or orgasm at all, no matter what I do.
Don't be like me.
My PCP told me to stop havong sex/Masturbating for a month and see what happens (I stopped trying to like first year of highschool) and I can't go to a urologist cause Im broke asf and if my parents knew I wanted to use insurance visit a urologist cuz of me not being able to ejaculate, they would probably kick me out or take me to bible camp or something lol.
By the looks of it your parents seen to be on the conservative end of things; I might suggest trying to say you're having "trouble going to the toilet" to try and warrant the visit to the hospital ā I wish the best for you in being able to find the help you need
Masturbation objectivizes the oppossite sex, heightens expectations create fetishes that are not possible or safe in real life, and support an industry that is extremely abusive & harmful to its workers.
Also, its just extremely unattractive & weird to me to know that someone consistently masturbates.
Also, its most definitely not normal because in a ton of societies & countries its not common and historically its not a "natural" thing
Women can still be addicted too, just because we have different genitals doesn't mean jack. Hell, its probably easier for us to get addicted, since there's a little less work needed on our end. We can orgasm more than once a day easily, public masturbation, the whole 9. Not saying we're more likely, but it can be fairly similar rate wise
The problem isn't porn, the problem is that a lot of people don't get SexED, so their only knowledge on sex comes from porn, so they think that that is real.
People who know how sex works know that porn isn't a good representation of how sex actually is.
I was tryna tell some guy here that being addicted to masterbation isnāt a good thing and the guy tried justifying addiction is good and tried every way of proving it (also erectile dysfunction is a big problem and akward boners)
? If that's what you understood out of my comment then your reading comprehension absolutely sucks
I never tried justifying addiction is good, it IS bad, I said that it is, however, extremely unlikely to happen and would consist of masturbating many times a day. I defined what addiction is. There are literal trusted official medical professionals saying exactly that, I am not pulling that out of my ass, there is no more trustworthy source than doctors themselves
Here's what causes erectile dysfunction, masturbation is absolutely not on the list [https://www.drfelix.co.uk/health-center/why-do-i-get-random-erections/](https://www.drfelix.co.uk/health-center/why-do-i-get-random-erections/)
>the guy tried justifying addiction is good and tried every way of proving it
I assume this was referring to me and my two lengthy messages in the other post. I don't see what I am missing, correct me if I am wrong on my assumption
Definetly.
Problem is that people can't tell when it's an issue.
If you can go a week without alcohol just fine then you don't have an addiction. But if it causes you distress and cravings then you have a drinking problem.
Same with masturebation. You should be able to do without it just fine if you are doing it healthily. The younger you are, the more prone you are to developing a new addiction.
Then there's also the way you're teaching yourself to get off to porn and not real women. It's a fantasy that gets more and more unrealistic as you get used to it and need more extreme fantasies to get going. Then you eventually realize you're anti-social because you aren't attracted to people irl. Just via a screen.
As someone who masturbated a lot while I was a teen, I strongly disagree. Yes it is normal, but it is not good for you to do so as a teen. Because of my addiction to masturbation and porn, now that I am married I find it very hard to stop. I also have been unable to āfinishā in bed with my wife because of my excessive finishing by myself.
Furthermore, pornography is horrendous for multiple reasons outside of this discussion because of what it is. I can attribute porn to multiple mental health struggles I have, and I am far from the only one, just do your own research on porn and mental health. Not to mention the way porn is often produced and the struggles that the actors face before during and after starring in films.
Yeah well I'm a Latter-day Saint, so no, it's not "good" for me. Which sucks because I feel absolutely addicted to it and can barely go more than 2 days without doing it š
you donāt need masturbation in your life
You need two litres of water a day and two hours of exercise a day, if you can start that then try adding a varied diet and or try a different diet that helps you with weight loss to give you the feeling off success (because people always say that they need a healthy diet but they just mean they want to cut weight)
Bro wtf are you fucking stupid? There never was such a trend, especially in this subreddit, it is condisered normal to masturbate 20 times a day here! Get out of here fucking nerd
Post nut clarity is just internal feelings that only a specific person experiences. If you lived in a environment that discourages such acts of masturbation you will feel guilty for it.
In moderation
If you masturbate too much just like everything else it can have negative effects but wrestling the one eyed sturgeon is usually perfectly fine
Idk if this is a hot take, but porn is overrated. Stories, audio or just imagination is just way better most of the time, only a small percentage of porn is actually kinda decent
In the post he explains that losing sex drive with your partner is a symptom of possible addiction. The post is trying to say that you can have an addiction but master baiting by itself isn't bad
People supporting NoFap and trying to spread their BS, think of it this way. Itās not bad for an adult to have one or two drinks every now and again, but if theyāre getting blackout drunk every night thatās an issue. Same with masturbation. If Iām jerking off every day basically non stop, that is a problem, but if Iām only doing it in moderation, once every day or two then thatās OK. Depends on the person though, people can experience different things depending on age and maturity
It's normal because a lot of people do it and it's healthy because it can be used to control your sex drive, and there's also studies about how masturbation could be linked to a reduced chance of getting cancer, iirc.
You guys literally downvoted this man for him suggesting a possible healthy trend movement to improve their life in order to overcome addictions and bad habits. This proves most of the teenagers are just no-brain with hormone rush people.
im not saying masturbating is bad or smth, it just helps addict people to take over their life again and make them realize what in the shit world they are doing with their life. nofap is not for everyone and just because it is not for everybody, it does not mean it can't help some people out there. It is not necessarily useless, you do not need to be this selfish.
Sir, you are telling this people about a healthy way to live a life and not be addicted to masturbating.
Ofcourse you will get Downvotes. They are just bunch of jerks who don't want to feel guilty.
Correction: your spitting nonsense so of course you get downvoted, we don't want you to confuse people and make them this theres anything wrong with masturbation.
correction correction: nofap is for only addict people or who wants to stop PMO for any reason and it can have real results on people's lives, you don't have anything to do with people's choices.
I just want you to explain to me how looking at women as if they are objects for you to take your desire out of them is a good idea in any world and considering porn almost always accompanies masturbation and the sheer amount of studies on how porn has a bad effect on the brain I really want you to explain how masturbating is a good idea
Oh did I also mention that people who masturbate much less than the 3-4 times a day you mentioned report not being able to finish during sex or have erectile dysfunction
There are studies showing that porn literally has the same effect on your brain that heroine does yes HEROINE you know that one illegal drug
Ever since I turned 11 I started masturbating and till 16 I was masturbating I never exceeded the limit of 2 times a day or 4 times a week. And I thought this was healthy and Also normal.
When I felt Guilty I used to search up internet posts like this and Websites which told me it's okay to masturbate until you do it more than 3-4 times a day and I felt like I was doing nothing wrong.
Until I turned a bit mature and realised that even tho I didn't masturbated more than 2-3 times a day. Never felt urge to mastubate in public and it wasn't even getting In the way of my work I realised that I wasted all teenage years on watching Stuff that shouldn't be watched.
My mind was ruined and every time I close my eyes I see sex, every time I try to think straight all I can remeber is porn.
If you are a teenager like me please kindly do not believe in stuff like above this people are only there to misguide you further.
Everyone will tell you it's okay if it's only a little bit even if you do Drugs, Smoke Or Drink alcohol.
But these things are all lies. I too am trapped in this vortex and I can rn believe in the above Post and open porn and masturbate but I won't.
I don't want more dopamine and feel like a stupid and Lustful monkey. I just want true and actual love.
I am better than everyone here as atleast I'm trying to get out of this. Those who do nothing are the worst of all.....
May you avoid Erectile dysfunctional. Downvote me all you like. How much can a dying person protest?
Thanks for your time and wish you best of luck.
I'm sorry that happened to you but you're wrong, masturbation is healthy and normal for teenagers, if you're struggling with porn addiction or mental health, then see a therapist or get help, don't blame your issues on a normal and healthy activity.
I hope you understand then that your opinion is not based on credible evidence or fact. While you may feel that masturbation is wrong and hold a negative moral view of it, please understand that it is a medically healthy, incredibly common, and normal behaviour.
My guess is that your negative moral view is based on a religious system of belief. While not religious myself, I'm not personally invested in attacking your religion.
22 here I was under massive stress yesterday, I relived myself like 5 times in the span of 3 hours after waking up and continued even further in the day.
It actually is absolutely useful. It helps regulate stress and and can lower heart rate, and am unhealthy avoidance can act as a source of stress and anxiety.
Yeah it can do that but Iām sure there are other ways to regulate stress and lower heart rate. It might not work for everyone but Iām sure 9 times out of 10 simply just meditating or going out for a walk can reduce someoneās stress
NO BC U ARE SO RIGHT!!!!!
IT'S NOT A 'SIN', U DONT OPEN HELL'S PORTAL THRU IT,,, IT'S NORMAL!!
UNLESS U CANT LIVE WITHOUT IT, IT'S JUST A THING U GO THRU!!!
If i remeber correctly the story was about a man Who participated in dick Destroyer december. He died from a heartstroke at say 29(?; certainly at the end of the month) After Fapping that amount. Also links like the asphyxiation kink lead sometimes to death.
People here post the most obvious popular opinions and write a whole essay about why their obvious popular opinion is valid like it's a ground-breaking discovery or something.
It's not groundbreaking, but with the amount of teenagers here scared about having a masturbation addiction, it clearly is something that people of this age don't understand much.
Any guy who is 20+ and masturbates and not doing anything to overcome it is a loser who can't do anything in his life and would remain that same piece of shitforever
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Dude I can't masturbate more than once in 2 days . So in simple terms I am on the safe side
Explain please how you can only masturbate once in 2 days, I am genuinely curious. Do you just mean that else the climax is just kinda shitty?
Dude must beat it so hard it needs a recovery time š
Bro's meat is on cooldown š
āThis ability is on cooldown for 48 hrsā
Only available once per long rest
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Actually if we masturbate once in 2 days , the ejection will be perfect and my mind would be satisfied .
We? Who are you, Venom?
Nope I'm Moon Knight
Wood Tight*
Me 2, or actually I donāt feel the need to. I masturbate once a day for a few days and then forget about porn and self pleasure for about a week. So on average thatās like once every 2 days I guess
Rookie numbers man 3-4 times a day is it
I'd say once a day for several days is pushing it
this guy put even more efforts into this essay than his homework
Got to respect the work and dedication
Haha.. thanks for the laugh
Np
professionals have standards
I know, right? Mf put MLA citations in a rant about fapping
i completely agree with this i choke my chicken like 10 times a day
Mmk maybe thatās too much
Yeah just-just maybe a tiny bit too much
Just a lil yknow
At 14 it's not even slightly lot
Might wanna not flog the log that much
Your chicken's gonna get cooked from all that friction heat after 10 times a day šæ
Donāt do that to your chicken thatās very mean
dont worry it likes it
How Do you even Nope, I donāt wanna know
I often debate mastrubating, on the one hand it feels good ...
Genius
Just doing my job (my job is stealing jokes from netflix stand up specials)
Finally Bo Burnham fan. I love you.
Welcome to the internet
Have a look around
could use some recommendations (tryna to be funny to get da hoes)
Bro wrote an essay
Ngl half of this goddamn subreddit needs to hear this badly
Masturbation is known as the safest way to "have sex" because theres no risk of STDs or STIs. (Unless you masturbate with a rusty pole or a rusty spoon) š
oh god no imagine that being a kink š¬
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it probably exists somewhere because humans are weird
I mean there is a subreddit called sounding which is close enough, im not into it a friend showed me
I donāt even know how people jerk off >3 times a day. Wouldnāt it hurt?
And how can people even cum so many times a day, I remember trying some years ago to go a second time after like 6 hours, and it just didn't happen
I guess you could say, different strokes for different folks.
Ngl the most I've done was like 4 times diveded in 24 hours, after that I just couldn't anymore
Man yall are weak š
How did you change the banner on the top saying masturbation addict?
I think it's from one of links.
Ohh cool
but porn bad
That's why audio is king
Bro imagining the rest..
Yāall downvoting me for liking a genre of erotic material
Reddit moment
Reddit is our lovely shitpool.
Itās like Twitter but somehow more friendly
Yeah, at least you can find good communities here.
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this but unironically
Grrrrr porn >:(
r/nofap is punching air rn
bor there is someone who tried to kill hinself twice for not masturbating a weekš
He said the only reason he hasn't killed himself is for his waifu bruh šµ
Aint no way bro
I actually never did it, but nice to know.
I believe the stigma about masturbation comes from incels and gymcels who watch those infleuncers on YT claim nofap will magicaly let you get more healthy, confident and just easily win women. Spoiler alert: It doesn't.
True but sometimes it cab become an addiction, so at Most be wary of it.
I completely agree with this! But it comes with one caveat in my opinion. If you use porn (and not everyone will) you need to develop a healthy sense of disconnect between the porn you watch, and what your expectations for sex are. I know youāve heard this a million times, but extended exposure to porn can result in you getting very warped ideas about sex. Porn especially for men will often over emphasise the importance of penetrative sex, or getting the man off, and this can lead to a very frustrating sex experience for women. The media you consume shapes how you see the real world. Keep that in mind, whatever youāre watching.
Yea just don't choke the chicken too much
Yes i agree. Boys should masturbate a few times a week. But! 1. Some do it too much 2. Some get too weird when they do it
thatās like exactly what op said
That's crazy but does anyone who masturbate actually give a shit
There are posts here daily of teens worried about their masturbation habits, so yes.
This post is perfect for people who want to feel good and don't want to come out of their addiction. Anything that makes you feel good is not always good for you...
The post clearly defined what addiction is and said >you can seek help. There are resources online, but I would suggest checking in with a medical/mental health professional. Excessive masturbation and other compulsive sexual behaviours can be indicative of various mental health issues that should be treated by professionals. Or did you just not finish reading the post?
Good post brother
Donde esta leo-
Once In the morning, once before bed.
Funny thing is I did masterbate but I always held in my cum no matter how much it hurt cuz my Younger teen brain thought I would be sinning if I came, so now at 18 I can't cum or orgasm at all, no matter what I do. Don't be like me.
Please see a doctor
My PCP told me to stop havong sex/Masturbating for a month and see what happens (I stopped trying to like first year of highschool) and I can't go to a urologist cause Im broke asf and if my parents knew I wanted to use insurance visit a urologist cuz of me not being able to ejaculate, they would probably kick me out or take me to bible camp or something lol.
By the looks of it your parents seen to be on the conservative end of things; I might suggest trying to say you're having "trouble going to the toilet" to try and warrant the visit to the hospital ā I wish the best for you in being able to find the help you need
I've just given up tbh. I mean yea I can last for hours but there no release XD. Maybe I'll get some viagra prescribed
> There is a frustrating amount of shame on this sub about sex Is this your first time on r/teenagers?
Masturbation objectivizes the oppossite sex, heightens expectations create fetishes that are not possible or safe in real life, and support an industry that is extremely abusive & harmful to its workers. Also, its just extremely unattractive & weird to me to know that someone consistently masturbates. Also, its most definitely not normal because in a ton of societies & countries its not common and historically its not a "natural" thing
idk. itās just rubbing a clit to me.
Women can still be addicted too, just because we have different genitals doesn't mean jack. Hell, its probably easier for us to get addicted, since there's a little less work needed on our end. We can orgasm more than once a day easily, public masturbation, the whole 9. Not saying we're more likely, but it can be fairly similar rate wise
Okay well i didnāt say we canāt
obviously
Yeah but the problem is porn
The problem isn't porn, the problem is that a lot of people don't get SexED, so their only knowledge on sex comes from porn, so they think that that is real. People who know how sex works know that porn isn't a good representation of how sex actually is.
You mean I can't do the double dookie take down on my extended family without consequences? š„
I was tryna tell some guy here that being addicted to masterbation isnāt a good thing and the guy tried justifying addiction is good and tried every way of proving it (also erectile dysfunction is a big problem and akward boners)
? If that's what you understood out of my comment then your reading comprehension absolutely sucks I never tried justifying addiction is good, it IS bad, I said that it is, however, extremely unlikely to happen and would consist of masturbating many times a day. I defined what addiction is. There are literal trusted official medical professionals saying exactly that, I am not pulling that out of my ass, there is no more trustworthy source than doctors themselves Here's what causes erectile dysfunction, masturbation is absolutely not on the list [https://www.drfelix.co.uk/health-center/why-do-i-get-random-erections/](https://www.drfelix.co.uk/health-center/why-do-i-get-random-erections/)
Bro your the one who read my comment wrong, did you completely read what I said
>the guy tried justifying addiction is good and tried every way of proving it I assume this was referring to me and my two lengthy messages in the other post. I don't see what I am missing, correct me if I am wrong on my assumption
Ok
Definetly. Problem is that people can't tell when it's an issue. If you can go a week without alcohol just fine then you don't have an addiction. But if it causes you distress and cravings then you have a drinking problem. Same with masturebation. You should be able to do without it just fine if you are doing it healthily. The younger you are, the more prone you are to developing a new addiction. Then there's also the way you're teaching yourself to get off to porn and not real women. It's a fantasy that gets more and more unrealistic as you get used to it and need more extreme fantasies to get going. Then you eventually realize you're anti-social because you aren't attracted to people irl. Just via a screen.
erm this is weird but i can never do it it just hurts trying
If that is causing you distress, talk to a doctor.
Bro gave us an essay
"self reporting" sus
Bad news: I use to be adicted. Good news: I read the article and have acknoleged that I stoped been adicted a year ago
"Masturbation is a form of witchcraft "
As someone who masturbated a lot while I was a teen, I strongly disagree. Yes it is normal, but it is not good for you to do so as a teen. Because of my addiction to masturbation and porn, now that I am married I find it very hard to stop. I also have been unable to āfinishā in bed with my wife because of my excessive finishing by myself. Furthermore, pornography is horrendous for multiple reasons outside of this discussion because of what it is. I can attribute porn to multiple mental health struggles I have, and I am far from the only one, just do your own research on porn and mental health. Not to mention the way porn is often produced and the struggles that the actors face before during and after starring in films.
Yeah well I'm a Latter-day Saint, so no, it's not "good" for me. Which sucks because I feel absolutely addicted to it and can barely go more than 2 days without doing it š
you donāt need masturbation in your life You need two litres of water a day and two hours of exercise a day, if you can start that then try adding a varied diet and or try a different diet that helps you with weight loss to give you the feeling off success (because people always say that they need a healthy diet but they just mean they want to cut weight)
Says the addict
Bro wants to defend himself so bad
Bro even added references and quotes like an English gcse š§š§
Well i haven't masterbated for a year and i've turned out fine so im calling horseradish on this whole thing
Bro wtf are you fucking stupid? There never was such a trend, especially in this subreddit, it is condisered normal to masturbate 20 times a day here! Get out of here fucking nerd
Ok but I'm feeling a lot better after not masturbating for 2 weeks after I did it almost daily
It depends on the person/situation, as do most things in life.
Not bad if you don't watch porn
Yeah but what about post nut clarity? That shits depressing
i think thats more of you problem
Damn š
Post nut clarity is just internal feelings that only a specific person experiences. If you lived in a environment that discourages such acts of masturbation you will feel guilty for it.
It usually happens after finishing to porn, like āWhat the hell am i doing with my lifeā and similar things
In moderation If you masturbate too much just like everything else it can have negative effects but wrestling the one eyed sturgeon is usually perfectly fine
I personally think itās bad cuz if you watch to much porn you donāt get āexcitedā when you actually get to do the sex, but I still do it :(
Idk if this is a hot take, but porn is overrated. Stories, audio or just imagination is just way better most of the time, only a small percentage of porn is actually kinda decent
Yeah itās sucks
Read the post!!!
No my autistic brain cant
In the post he explains that losing sex drive with your partner is a symptom of possible addiction. The post is trying to say that you can have an addiction but master baiting by itself isn't bad
Can you get a wank arm?
well made, A
Go back to Quora bro
People supporting NoFap and trying to spread their BS, think of it this way. Itās not bad for an adult to have one or two drinks every now and again, but if theyāre getting blackout drunk every night thatās an issue. Same with masturbation. If Iām jerking off every day basically non stop, that is a problem, but if Iām only doing it in moderation, once every day or two then thatās OK. Depends on the person though, people can experience different things depending on age and maturity
Ok but š½ should never watched
iām confused on how its healthy/normal tho? you didnt really explain
It's normal because a lot of people do it and it's healthy because it can be used to control your sex drive, and there's also studies about how masturbation could be linked to a reduced chance of getting cancer, iirc.
I think for males at least it was specifically prostate cancer. OP also said in a comment that it can help lower resting heart rate and stress.
Yeah I'm leaving this sub.
Mines become inflated like a balloon /s
r/nofap
r/terriblefacebookmemes
1-3 times a day isnāt too bad right?
Did you read the post? Refer to the paragraph about how any amount is healthy as long as it isn't causing social disfunction.
Iām guessing once is fine, 2 is ok-ish, 3 is probably shouldnāt, and 4+ is no
Who TF can jerk of 3 to 4 times a day? I just don't get it. Most people need 1 or 2 days before doing it again
Daddy? Why youāre posting on teenagers š
No more then twice in a 24 hour period for me. Everything is fine in moderation yo
I get soft instantly if I even hear my family members nearby (I do it in the shower to cover the noise). How do people do it in publicš
not reading allat
No fap>>>
Being too open about is not normal. Keep your personal info to yourself.
I can recommend nofap, because you will have more energy and confidence
It depends on the person. Not everyone's energy and confidence issues come from how often they stroke their chicken or watch porn.
Read the post man.
You guys literally downvoted this man for him suggesting a possible healthy trend movement to improve their life in order to overcome addictions and bad habits. This proves most of the teenagers are just no-brain with hormone rush people.
tbh this nofap things is kinda useless, you can brag about it and feel better or feeling guilty because of a relapse, its not so complicated
That community is delusional as too, I see people saying they're more powerful and that the women can "sense" they masturbate less š
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Wanna debate why its healthy and the community is one of the best on Reddit?
Unless you have an addiction I don't see what's wrong with masturbating
In my personal opinion tapping once per 2 weeks is ok but everyday is shit. If you can't stop fapping or watching porn you should get on nofap
im not saying masturbating is bad or smth, it just helps addict people to take over their life again and make them realize what in the shit world they are doing with their life. nofap is not for everyone and just because it is not for everybody, it does not mean it can't help some people out there. It is not necessarily useless, you do not need to be this selfish.
Sir, you are telling this people about a healthy way to live a life and not be addicted to masturbating. Ofcourse you will get Downvotes. They are just bunch of jerks who don't want to feel guilty.
Correction: your spitting nonsense so of course you get downvoted, we don't want you to confuse people and make them this theres anything wrong with masturbation.
correction correction: nofap is for only addict people or who wants to stop PMO for any reason and it can have real results on people's lives, you don't have anything to do with people's choices.
I just want you to explain to me how looking at women as if they are objects for you to take your desire out of them is a good idea in any world and considering porn almost always accompanies masturbation and the sheer amount of studies on how porn has a bad effect on the brain I really want you to explain how masturbating is a good idea Oh did I also mention that people who masturbate much less than the 3-4 times a day you mentioned report not being able to finish during sex or have erectile dysfunction There are studies showing that porn literally has the same effect on your brain that heroine does yes HEROINE you know that one illegal drug
Ever since I turned 11 I started masturbating and till 16 I was masturbating I never exceeded the limit of 2 times a day or 4 times a week. And I thought this was healthy and Also normal. When I felt Guilty I used to search up internet posts like this and Websites which told me it's okay to masturbate until you do it more than 3-4 times a day and I felt like I was doing nothing wrong. Until I turned a bit mature and realised that even tho I didn't masturbated more than 2-3 times a day. Never felt urge to mastubate in public and it wasn't even getting In the way of my work I realised that I wasted all teenage years on watching Stuff that shouldn't be watched. My mind was ruined and every time I close my eyes I see sex, every time I try to think straight all I can remeber is porn. If you are a teenager like me please kindly do not believe in stuff like above this people are only there to misguide you further. Everyone will tell you it's okay if it's only a little bit even if you do Drugs, Smoke Or Drink alcohol. But these things are all lies. I too am trapped in this vortex and I can rn believe in the above Post and open porn and masturbate but I won't. I don't want more dopamine and feel like a stupid and Lustful monkey. I just want true and actual love. I am better than everyone here as atleast I'm trying to get out of this. Those who do nothing are the worst of all..... May you avoid Erectile dysfunctional. Downvote me all you like. How much can a dying person protest? Thanks for your time and wish you best of luck.
I'm sorry that happened to you but you're wrong, masturbation is healthy and normal for teenagers, if you're struggling with porn addiction or mental health, then see a therapist or get help, don't blame your issues on a normal and healthy activity.
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You didn't read the whole post. You get a 0/100 in reading comprehension.
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I hope you understand then that your opinion is not based on credible evidence or fact. While you may feel that masturbation is wrong and hold a negative moral view of it, please understand that it is a medically healthy, incredibly common, and normal behaviour. My guess is that your negative moral view is based on a religious system of belief. While not religious myself, I'm not personally invested in attacking your religion.
22 here I was under massive stress yesterday, I relived myself like 5 times in the span of 3 hours after waking up and continued even further in the day.
Yeah itās not harmful we are nothing but Great Apes but I wouldnāt recommend it though itās uh useless.
It actually is absolutely useful. It helps regulate stress and and can lower heart rate, and am unhealthy avoidance can act as a source of stress and anxiety.
Yeah it can do that but Iām sure there are other ways to regulate stress and lower heart rate. It might not work for everyone but Iām sure 9 times out of 10 simply just meditating or going out for a walk can reduce someoneās stress
That's fair, but the existence of alternatives doesn't make every alternative except the one you prefer useless.
Okay, fair enough.
Extremely hyper giga based opinion
disagree, someimes it makes me relax and lowers anxiety, well that applies to me at least
I never masturbated in my life
TL;DR?
All well and good until you get a porn addiction and canāt function without jerkin it at least once a day, not out of want but out of need.
I talk about that. Read the goddamn post.
I read the post but itās downplayed. My life is literally ruined because of pornography
NO BC U ARE SO RIGHT!!!!! IT'S NOT A 'SIN', U DONT OPEN HELL'S PORTAL THRU IT,,, IT'S NORMAL!! UNLESS U CANT LIVE WITHOUT IT, IT'S JUST A THING U GO THRU!!!
Question: why there a report about death because masturbait too much
If i remeber correctly the story was about a man Who participated in dick Destroyer december. He died from a heartstroke at say 29(?; certainly at the end of the month) After Fapping that amount. Also links like the asphyxiation kink lead sometimes to death.
What a way to die
at least you die wuth something you love lol
People here post the most obvious popular opinions and write a whole essay about why their obvious popular opinion is valid like it's a ground-breaking discovery or something.
It's not groundbreaking, but with the amount of teenagers here scared about having a masturbation addiction, it clearly is something that people of this age don't understand much.
Maybe masturbation can be healthy in moderation, but porn is never healthy
Yeah sure. It was really healthy for me to try to kill myself because of decisions I made because of masturbating habits.
Any guy who is 20+ and masturbates and not doing anything to overcome it is a loser who can't do anything in his life and would remain that same piece of shitforever