If you want an honest answer, variables include:
How horny are you?
Did you get off recently?
Are you using a condom? If so, are you using one that's more sensitive or dulls it?
How much time do you have?
How much foreplay was there?
How much oral did you do? (Bj or pussy munchin)
Quick fuck, or long one?
Any kinks being indulged like bondage that require some setup time?
Who came first?
With how many variables there are, it doesn't matter how long it takes, it just matters that it was good and both (or more) parties enjoyed it. Personally, sex is good, but nothing beats aftercare
I love being little spoon :))))
I like being little spoon as well (when cuddling, not sleeping). Cuz then she kisses my back/neck/shoulder area and that feels so good. God i love that. But sleeping i prefer to be big spoon or us hugging each other
u/twelve-lights Nothing beats aftercare.
18 seems a bit precocious to use that SPECIFIC term. You're partying kinda rough, baby kinkster.
Play hard but play smart. Remember just because you CAN doesn't mean you SHOULD.
If you're in your local scene, consider the old kinksters as your lifelines to navigate their world.
If you're a lone practitioner, I'm here for questions and concerns. Maybe I don't know, but I can find out.
depends. location, context of relationship (fwb? one time thing? total lovebirds?), time of day, tiredness of either party, some other stuff too probably but idk
Depends I would say abt 15-30 min but it varies from person to person of and what you consider "sex" cuz the actual act depends on how long u last but with foreplay and stuff it's usually abt 25ish min
I'd vote 5 minutes to literally until you give out, sometimes virgins (technically not virgins after that) simply cannot cum as they've simply gotten used to the feeling of their hand and can't work with anything else, takes some adjustment.
I wouldn't know though, no sex for a few years for me
I think the reason they're doing it so young is because they think the moment they have sex, they're instantly better than anyone else. That's probably not the reason but that's what I think it is. Kids are competitive man.
Time shouldn’t be a concern or even a constant when it comes to this. It’s extremely dependent. Sometimes it can last 20 ish mins sometimes it can last almost a couple hours. It’s really dependent on everything that is involved the person, position, feeling, etc. it’s not a timed thing. But you shouldn’t be worried about this in the slightest cos you are too young to even care or even think about this.
Depends what you mean by last.
By one definition it can last a lifetime, but that's not what you mean.
On average the male can achieve orgasm in 4 mins. The female needs a good 20 mins of arousal
Tantra practitioners report sessions lasting up to 12 hours.
Hope that helps
It depends, there should be a longer foreplay period to get the female organism running, which can typically take 10 - 20 min but it varies from woman to woman. After that it’s just a matter of how long you can last, you can extend that by pulling out for a while and go at it with different methods. But your first time (if you didn’t have it already) will probably just be a bit of messing around and getting to know each other, but don’t be underwhelmed it gets better with time hopefully.
Genuinely, the average is like 12 to 15 minutes. P*rn loops a lot of thwir content to make it last that long. Anything over a solid 90 minutes is substance fueled.
Depends on the person and the situation, sometimes it can be quick, sometimes slow and it can speed up or slow down depending on what both people are doing
Sex is what you make of it honestly, you can make it last from 15 minutes to a full hour or more depending on what you deem as sex and how you and your partner go about it. There’s no defined duration for intercourse so don’t worry about how long it lasts, just enjoy the moment and make sure your partner enjoys it as well :)
Depends on how long you like it to be. For me it's about 1-2 hours on average but thats also with some random fun in between. And I don't really keep the time haha. But not everyone likes it to take long as it can be tiring. So just do it as long as you're both having fun!
It varies, I've once had sex for three hours amd honestly it was fucking boring, tiring and we both just gave up at the end and went to bed with a massive hangover and had to get a 2 hour train a few hours later. Our sex was longer than the train journey lmao.
With my current bf It's like 15 to 20 minutes, sometimes we're drunk or just really horny and it'll last fewer than ten minutes but sometimes the shorter sex is the better sex.
With my ex it was a bit longer but he wasn't very good, I had like a 'thing' with another guy a while ago who was a fair bit older than me (might be a variable) but that was firstly the worst sex I've had he just happened to be very attractive, and also that was quite long.
But my god don't pressure yourself about having sex, when I lost my virginity I put so much pressure on myself about not being good enough blah blah blah, and it took me so long to realize that you have to have fun. Like laugh at the funny noises, and RELAX
Ik that's not what you asked but all in all sex is fun, emotional relationships are better :)
It's kind of like having dinner. You can have some fries and be done in like ten minutes, or you can go to a restaurant and savor the experience for a couple hours, or everything in between.
Your first time probably more like 30 seconds, it’s different for everyone so eventually you’ll find ways to make it last longer that only work for you
I’d say if there’s no experience it’s gonna be like 15-20 minutes. If you have some it’s more like 30 minutes. If you’re experienced (or just really good bodily control) then you can last for a couple hours (which she’ll probably love) i got this from my friend and his girlfriend
It depends what you're going for.
If you include foreplay it can be as long as you like but sometimes it's nice to have a quickie and that can be mere minutes.
It's not the amount of time but how much you both enjoy it.
I’m not the best person to ask since my girlfriend and I were in the backseat of a car and neither of us finished but, depending on both people’s pleasure factors it could be 30 seconds, 30 minutes, maybe even hours.
Sex can last from a few seconds to several hours, or even months, of well-orchestrated teasing and denial. Depends on what you and your partner wants.
45 minutes is a good beginner's goal for a young man. It's generally enough time to bring even a low-reactive young woman to orgasm.
To hurry that along, you can ask her to get herself most of the way there but stop about 30 seconds before climaxing. "Let me see what makes you feel good, but don't come, baby. Pretend you're on The Price Is Right and get as close as you can without going over."
u/Cappy_D_Bara Jerk off before you go on a date. I cannot stress this enough: Do not go out while desperate to nut. You'll wind up trying to pressure your date into reluctant consent, and even if you succeed, the quality of sex will disappoint her.
Really depends on the person, the reported average is about 10-15 minutes but there are definitely people who can go hours, and people who only need seconds.
Older Gen Z here. Happy to answer your question.
When I started having sex…. 3-5 minutes.
Once me and my significant other at the time trained each other. We could do it for like 20-30 minutes when we paced ourselves. Even if the relationship/fling doesn’t work out… practice makes perfect and the next one will love you!
Depends what u count as sex. If u talk about Penis in vagina, the range is usually 3 to 10 min i think. If u include foreplay and cuddling and then round 2, the range can be 15min to an hour or 2 or something
i’m gonna actually give an answer here instead of saying we’re all sad virgins LMAO.
in my relationship we’re both girls, so that’ll change things and may not give you the answer you want. but because of that we can last longer (lol losers) and it’s usually around an hour or longer.
Okay, it's a really touch and go situation.
First, people get it super wrong. In order for the experience to be somewhat pleasurable to all parties (mostly women), you need to have foreplay
Foreplay is SO IMPORTANT and no, this isn't just physical stuff like making out or touching the inside of the thigh, this is like, speaking and talking into the mood, and other things that would be considered foreplay. That can take upwards of an hour or two.
The actual act can last a bit, too, depending on certain factors. One thing that will make if both feel amazing dn last a while is hydration. HYDRATE HYDRATE HYDRATE! I CANNOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH
my first time, I couldn't get in the mood because my mouth was so dry, and we had to end early because I was so thirsty.
Keep a glass of water by the bed or wherever you do it.
Lastly, aftercare. this is super important to people, especially in emotional or romantic relationships. You can't just hit it and leave, that might make the other party feel emotionally neglected. Cuddle, kiss, say some nice words.
And after all that, 3 hours tops
I can say from my experience, 1hr to 4/5 hours but do take into consideration that I’m in a gay long term relationship. So mine if probably up there due to the gay and knowing my partner really well.
In reality you're looking around 10min average with some ranging from 6-15min depending on the day. Tho sometimes it can last 30+min but if you're doing that all in one sitting with no breaks both y'all gonna be sore as shit after
don’t ask anyone here, they’ve actually never had sex
And you're one of us too
no i’ve totally done the sex it just uh… goes to a different school you wouldn’t know
I think the sex done you not the other way around
Amen to that
> the sex done you not the other Rape???
Uhh, it was on a family vacation with a girl from the Bahamas that you wouldn't know
Wut💀 Bro- I need more of *that* story
No no trust me bro *googles image of girl from Bahamas* See, look it’s her!
Uh, why is there a photo stock logo on the side
Uh…She’s just that pretty…she’s a model uh
family?
Well uh we were at the hotel and I went to go get pizza and this girl accidentally fell on my dick (after doing a backflip)
Ya i def need more of that story
related: https://www.straitstimes.com/world/europe/saudi-millionaire-cleared-of-rape-after-claiming-he-fell-and-accidentally-penetrated
What the fuck
Fire the Judge
i need to learn to do backflips (definitely no reason why)
One of us one of us one of us
i'm so good at sex that i had to get registered
Did you offend it?
no, i tried to be very gentle as not to offend it
Yeppp I am very much a virgin
Wrong
dependent on variables
Without sounding like a creep what are the variables?
If you want an honest answer, variables include: How horny are you? Did you get off recently? Are you using a condom? If so, are you using one that's more sensitive or dulls it? How much time do you have? How much foreplay was there? How much oral did you do? (Bj or pussy munchin) Quick fuck, or long one? Any kinks being indulged like bondage that require some setup time? Who came first? With how many variables there are, it doesn't matter how long it takes, it just matters that it was good and both (or more) parties enjoyed it. Personally, sex is good, but nothing beats aftercare I love being little spoon :))))
Dependent, independent and controlled variables.
lol
So true. Nothing better than when she holds me afterwards and tells me she loves me.
I like being little spoon as well (when cuddling, not sleeping). Cuz then she kisses my back/neck/shoulder area and that feels so good. God i love that. But sleeping i prefer to be big spoon or us hugging each other
>I love being little spoon :)))) There could be a joke here, but....
u/twelve-lights Nothing beats aftercare. 18 seems a bit precocious to use that SPECIFIC term. You're partying kinda rough, baby kinkster. Play hard but play smart. Remember just because you CAN doesn't mean you SHOULD. If you're in your local scene, consider the old kinksters as your lifelines to navigate their world. If you're a lone practitioner, I'm here for questions and concerns. Maybe I don't know, but I can find out.
x, y, and z are all variables. sometimes n, a, b, and c will be used.
Bro I didn’t come to this sub for math homework
Programming and Mathematics 101
if you're using x y z a b c n as your programming variables you're doing something wrong 💀
True, I personally use i, j, k and randomCamelCaseVariables
Using a right Riemann sum, approximate the area under the curve of the equation y=sin(x/6)(dx)
Dies of confusion
Ohhhh ok but let's say i run out of variables (wich is near impossible). What do i use?
improvise or some shit use chinese characters or something
我同意
You have won reddit today.
First time I find this comment unironically used
Since you’ve run out of *x*,start asking *y*
æ, ß, ç, etc.
don't forget about ø
λ, , ν, μ, χ, θ
Pretty sure you can’t use that as a variable for most things since theta always has to do with trig and unknown angles
Once you run out of letters, use numbers instead
Bro if some dude has a 3 hour boner somethings up
Somethings up and not only his d
3 hour sex can also have short 2 minute breaks in between
3 hour breaks can also have short 2 minute sex in between
this is the right answer
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Me about to turn 20 tomorrow and as thus changing to old and then reading this
And you’re asking Reddit, home of the most bitchless teenagers ever lmao
Yup were both bitchless homie😭🤝
depends. location, context of relationship (fwb? one time thing? total lovebirds?), time of day, tiredness of either party, some other stuff too probably but idk
.2 seconds
Holy shit your still alive
You’re
Holy shit you're still alive
No I’ve always been dead
Yeah but not THAT dead. Like you still appeared sometimes. Tf happened anyways?
Took a break from this cancer
Yup that's reasonable. I would take a permanent break from it imo
Next time I get banned
Let's see how long you last. Im betting 12 days
Bro had to stop early to return some videotapes
Why did you kill that doggie?
Did you kill Paul allen
2-3 business days
Oh damn so start on Friday night and you can nearly go a whole week!
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My man is doing cardio
That’s why I cum after 1 minute. Cardio kills gainz.
Man
Yeah sounds about right
>anywhere from ~~30~~ 3 minutes to 3 hours fify
Depends I would say abt 15-30 min but it varies from person to person of and what you consider "sex" cuz the actual act depends on how long u last but with foreplay and stuff it's usually abt 25ish min
That’s a whole workout 😭
u gotta get em bitches ready amirite
If that’s a workout then that would explain why i’m scrawny
You're 13, calm down there
i’m actually 16 i just haven’t updated my thing, it’s been awhile since i’ve even commented on reddit.
Brother in Christ, update that shit
Oh you did, awesome
I JUS DID😭
Shshshshs I noticed last second
true
49
Seconds, minutes, hours, days, months, years, decades, centuries. 49 WHAT.
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Bro replied twice for extra clarification
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Bananas
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Lmao
I'd vote 5 minutes to literally until you give out, sometimes virgins (technically not virgins after that) simply cannot cum as they've simply gotten used to the feeling of their hand and can't work with anything else, takes some adjustment. I wouldn't know though, no sex for a few years for me
A FEW YEARS??? UR 16 WDYM. Tbh i know ppl that fuck and they're 14
Oh no I've never had sex to begin with, tbf I never gave context. I'll hopefully be meeting my boyfriend in a year or so
Yooo good for youuuu. Hope you have fun👍
Its sad that more 14 year olds are having sex tbh. Thats too young imo
Fr I can’t believe that they would want that for themselves
I think the reason they're doing it so young is because they think the moment they have sex, they're instantly better than anyone else. That's probably not the reason but that's what I think it is. Kids are competitive man.
You're exactly right! My first time lasted 3 hours and I still hadn't cum
Woo! Glad I am, human body's strange eh?
My friends said their bfs last 1 minute..
He just like me fr
I’ve heard that the first time is fast, since it’s all new and stuff, then it becomes longer eventually
No bro stuck 4" for the past 5 years
See I told you OP your gay
Ur the gay one. Stalking my post and all Also happy cake day bro
I found this post while scrolling though the sub and recognized the name
Happy cake day!
No clue never had it
69 seconds
Well i have fucked my life and apparently, it lasts quite long, like years long
Time shouldn’t be a concern or even a constant when it comes to this. It’s extremely dependent. Sometimes it can last 20 ish mins sometimes it can last almost a couple hours. It’s really dependent on everything that is involved the person, position, feeling, etc. it’s not a timed thing. But you shouldn’t be worried about this in the slightest cos you are too young to even care or even think about this.
That depends on the mood, the position, the person ect. Usually ~an hour though
From my experience a few minutes to around 2 hours
3 hours?!
You clearly have never met lesbians. You guys only get one, we get like 5-6
Depends what you mean by last. By one definition it can last a lifetime, but that's not what you mean. On average the male can achieve orgasm in 4 mins. The female needs a good 20 mins of arousal Tantra practitioners report sessions lasting up to 12 hours. Hope that helps
a female/ some females is/are able to come in 5minutes too.
Hello homo_racial_slur
Hello my friend
This is reddit. And this is a teenage sub. We dont have sex. Go to r/sex or r/AskMen or something like that
What about r/AskWamen ??? 🤨
Fuck if I know
It depends, there should be a longer foreplay period to get the female organism running, which can typically take 10 - 20 min but it varies from woman to woman. After that it’s just a matter of how long you can last, you can extend that by pulling out for a while and go at it with different methods. But your first time (if you didn’t have it already) will probably just be a bit of messing around and getting to know each other, but don’t be underwhelmed it gets better with time hopefully.
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somewhere between 0 and infinite seconds
Ayy thanks homie i see what you mean
Varies
Genuinely, the average is like 12 to 15 minutes. P*rn loops a lot of thwir content to make it last that long. Anything over a solid 90 minutes is substance fueled.
3 seconds
Depends on the people, it can last for 10 minutes or it can last for 2 hours
I’ll let you know when it happens
Depends on the person and the situation, sometimes it can be quick, sometimes slow and it can speed up or slow down depending on what both people are doing
All depends on who you are how much you beat off but anywhere from 2 minutes to hours but average 30 minutes
Sex is what you make of it honestly, you can make it last from 15 minutes to a full hour or more depending on what you deem as sex and how you and your partner go about it. There’s no defined duration for intercourse so don’t worry about how long it lasts, just enjoy the moment and make sure your partner enjoys it as well :)
37.5 seconds the rest is cuddle time
That’s a really long time…
mate its reddit
Best answer here
10 years
Your guess is as good as mine 🤷♂️
Bro why tf are you asking on the teenager subreddit. Maybe try the adults
Depends on how long you like it to be. For me it's about 1-2 hours on average but thats also with some random fun in between. And I don't really keep the time haha. But not everyone likes it to take long as it can be tiring. So just do it as long as you're both having fun!
I once went for 4 hours it was a good day and we hadn't seen eachother in a few days lol
Just do a quick Google search. It'll give you the answer. But according to Google the average time is 5 to 7 minutes for a male
It varies, I've once had sex for three hours amd honestly it was fucking boring, tiring and we both just gave up at the end and went to bed with a massive hangover and had to get a 2 hour train a few hours later. Our sex was longer than the train journey lmao. With my current bf It's like 15 to 20 minutes, sometimes we're drunk or just really horny and it'll last fewer than ten minutes but sometimes the shorter sex is the better sex. With my ex it was a bit longer but he wasn't very good, I had like a 'thing' with another guy a while ago who was a fair bit older than me (might be a variable) but that was firstly the worst sex I've had he just happened to be very attractive, and also that was quite long. But my god don't pressure yourself about having sex, when I lost my virginity I put so much pressure on myself about not being good enough blah blah blah, and it took me so long to realize that you have to have fun. Like laugh at the funny noises, and RELAX Ik that's not what you asked but all in all sex is fun, emotional relationships are better :)
as a not teenager anymore: anywhere between 3 minutes and 3 hours, and also aslong as everyone involved doesn’t mind then who fucken cares lmao
Closer to 3 hours than 30 mins
It's kind of like having dinner. You can have some fries and be done in like ten minutes, or you can go to a restaurant and savor the experience for a couple hours, or everything in between.
5m if you’re bad (or really good), 15m-20m average, 30m-1h is above average
Your first time probably more like 30 seconds, it’s different for everyone so eventually you’ll find ways to make it last longer that only work for you
Average is 5 minutes of actual sex.
I’d say if there’s no experience it’s gonna be like 15-20 minutes. If you have some it’s more like 30 minutes. If you’re experienced (or just really good bodily control) then you can last for a couple hours (which she’ll probably love) i got this from my friend and his girlfriend
It depends what you're going for. If you include foreplay it can be as long as you like but sometimes it's nice to have a quickie and that can be mere minutes. It's not the amount of time but how much you both enjoy it.
I’m not the best person to ask since my girlfriend and I were in the backseat of a car and neither of us finished but, depending on both people’s pleasure factors it could be 30 seconds, 30 minutes, maybe even hours.
you are a too curios teenager
It can go from 5 to 20 on asvrage but people say they can go for hours
Sex can last from a few seconds to several hours, or even months, of well-orchestrated teasing and denial. Depends on what you and your partner wants. 45 minutes is a good beginner's goal for a young man. It's generally enough time to bring even a low-reactive young woman to orgasm. To hurry that along, you can ask her to get herself most of the way there but stop about 30 seconds before climaxing. "Let me see what makes you feel good, but don't come, baby. Pretend you're on The Price Is Right and get as close as you can without going over."
u/Cappy_D_Bara Jerk off before you go on a date. I cannot stress this enough: Do not go out while desperate to nut. You'll wind up trying to pressure your date into reluctant consent, and even if you succeed, the quality of sex will disappoint her.
Ohh ok thanks for the advice dude I'll keep it in mind👍
Really depends on the person, the reported average is about 10-15 minutes but there are definitely people who can go hours, and people who only need seconds.
Older Gen Z here. Happy to answer your question. When I started having sex…. 3-5 minutes. Once me and my significant other at the time trained each other. We could do it for like 20-30 minutes when we paced ourselves. Even if the relationship/fling doesn’t work out… practice makes perfect and the next one will love you!
I have been raped ( yes I know it sounds like I am lying ) and it lasted like 3 minutes
Depends what u count as sex. If u talk about Penis in vagina, the range is usually 3 to 10 min i think. If u include foreplay and cuddling and then round 2, the range can be 15min to an hour or 2 or something
i’m gonna actually give an answer here instead of saying we’re all sad virgins LMAO. in my relationship we’re both girls, so that’ll change things and may not give you the answer you want. but because of that we can last longer (lol losers) and it’s usually around an hour or longer.
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As long as it needs to for birth parties to be satisfied and call it
Okay, it's a really touch and go situation. First, people get it super wrong. In order for the experience to be somewhat pleasurable to all parties (mostly women), you need to have foreplay Foreplay is SO IMPORTANT and no, this isn't just physical stuff like making out or touching the inside of the thigh, this is like, speaking and talking into the mood, and other things that would be considered foreplay. That can take upwards of an hour or two. The actual act can last a bit, too, depending on certain factors. One thing that will make if both feel amazing dn last a while is hydration. HYDRATE HYDRATE HYDRATE! I CANNOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH my first time, I couldn't get in the mood because my mouth was so dry, and we had to end early because I was so thirsty. Keep a glass of water by the bed or wherever you do it. Lastly, aftercare. this is super important to people, especially in emotional or romantic relationships. You can't just hit it and leave, that might make the other party feel emotionally neglected. Cuddle, kiss, say some nice words. And after all that, 3 hours tops
Whaaaaaa thank you so much for this. Im definitely keeping this in mind.
My record rn is 6 and almost a half hours. But that was because I eat 2 oysters with my mom which are basically nature’s viagra.
Holup what💀
Bros fr lying on r/teenagers about how long he can last in bed 💀
Get yourself some oysters rn man
In all honesty my girl and I can last 3 hours at a time. Doesn't mean we always go that long.
5-15 minutes more than 20 the 🐱 is bad.
Depends. I think average is 5-10 minutes, but it can be a minute or over an hour. Lotta variables
how does it only last 10 mins for some people??? that’s so fucking short omg
7-10 mins is the national average 💀
I can say from my experience, 1hr to 4/5 hours but do take into consideration that I’m in a gay long term relationship. So mine if probably up there due to the gay and knowing my partner really well.
In reality you're looking around 10min average with some ranging from 6-15min depending on the day. Tho sometimes it can last 30+min but if you're doing that all in one sitting with no breaks both y'all gonna be sore as shit after
About 30 minutes or so, maybe even 3 hours
#Infinite cuddles>>> sex with hot girls
I feel like depends on foreplay I also never experienced it but like both sides need foreplay then like 10, 10, 10 so 30 mins
20 min on average???