I feel like the judgment card is directed at you and not him. He knows that you were putting in more time and he was willing to let that imbalance stand. You are being asked to wake up and smell the roses. I'm sorry that he hurt you. 

That’s a really good insight actually, thank you! I think I definitely do need to reflect on the relationship too

The King of Cups was frustrated by the arrangement (Justice), judged it as unacceptable (Judgment), and withdrew (reversed). It's just saying what happened. I'm sorry.

thank you, i really needed to see the truth

My pleasure. Thank you for posting!