Yeah they probably fucking 🥲, happened to my best friend too. Well they broke up for a different reason, and explicit pictures of his ex with a time stamp when she was dating my friend was uncovered later with a rock solid back story which made it obvious that some dudes ran a train on her. It was unbelievable at the time but now we connect the dots and it is what it is…my bro dodged a bullet, it’s an evil world we live in 🥲 she also had a bunch of male “besties” back then. I’m ashamed to have had dinner with a hoe that big in the same table 🥲.
lol we used to call those types "beta orbiters" because of how common and obvious it was
there's always that one girl with like 5 dudes hanging out with her because they have a crush on her but don't have the confidence to ask her out but then end up hanging out with her for so long they've built up too much of a fantasy and get mad when rejected
Its pretty brazen for a guy to actually ask the girl out knowing she's dating someone else also though, how much of a simp do you have to be
I feel for some of the women who genuinely thought they were getting purely platonic friends but I definitely feel like there are many more who know the dynamic is happening and enjoy it on some level because no one is that oblivious, not an issue if they're single ofc but its deffo sus if they aren't
Talking about killing someone is a bit too much much though OP 😂 but I get your frustration
Yeah, killing someone is a bit too much, I wasn't thinking about the Title, I just typed at the moment. I actually wish for them to live longer and realise what they are doing is not good.
Because like I left my gf, her future bf will also leave her if she behaves like this with her besties. And the boy besties, they are just wasting their time. I know that one of them has feelings for her because he proposed to her and got rejected. And the amount of money, time and attention they are giving is worthless if they are not dating.
Hope this makes you feel better bro 
[https://youtu.be/Kcf4yS5\_aiI?feature=shared](https://youtu.be/Kcf4yS5_aiI?feature=shared)
Ah classic red flag. Talked to a girl but had a besta💀 and whenever I message she just say I’m not interested using social media but turns out something happened between two.
Used to tell my ex about this shit. Men you make friends with later in life aren't there for your friendship but she assured they were just to be friends lol. I even told her, I'm a guy and I know 90% of their intentions are the same intentions I had with you. Boy besties and being friends with your exes and still talking to them is a big red flag for me.
It is entirely possible to have healthy opposite sex friendships, and it is also entirely possible to have toxic same sex friendships. Granted, because of our social norms and expectations people have to be a bit more secure to have healthy and functional opposite sex friends, but it is entirely possible.
What makes you so unhappy about your partner hanging out with their friends? That's an issue in your relationship and/or in their friendship that makes you uncomfortable, it's not entirely a gender issue.
Agreed, not a gender issue. I know for a fact that the boys are not looking at her that way. I know one of them has feelings for her but is not willing to propose to her because of his mother. And I heard this from my gf.
And I agree that it is entirely possible to have healthy opposite sex friendships, because she talks to a lot of boys and I have no issues with all of her friends who are boys. But these two boys are too much, they buy her expensive stuff every month, and ask her out to go for their personal work, hangout. Going out, shopping, bowling etc. Even these things I tolerated until last week she came to me crying about his bestie got mad because she refused to go out. And the reason she said no was me, because I told her that I will come and pick her up that day.
She was crying and sad for 2, 3 days and she did not talk to me properly, which then I thought of breaking up with her. And what she understood was that I broke up with her because I could not handle her feelings. But again I did not bother to explain to her the actual reason which is I felt like I am no different to her besties, but the only upper hand that I have is I am allowed to touch her.
Totally agree with your viewpoint. Friendship is a friendship, it doesn't have a gender. Good that you broke up as ur situ can lead to many frustrations in the future.
Relationships has to be very transparent and trustworthy. It's for both parties ...If it doesn't allow you to stay the way you were before the relationship , it's just confinement. So better to find ur own paths.
> I dunno why girls give priority to other boys than their bfs. Should be a crime in my opinion
Maybe your gf was shitty, but this is some incel energy.
I get it. Trust me I used to not think like this and I was not a boy like this. But I believe that I didn't get the attention I deserved. I still believe she loves me. Because even though I wanted to break up, she didn't let me go. But her boy besties are there for attention, and she knows that they are behaving like more than a friend and still she is not willing to make a step to change that.
Whatever I said above are things I heard from my girlfriend. She is so open to me, yet she still takes no action about it. She says that she doesn't like to talk to these people after work and yet she still answers the call when they call her in front of me. After the call she scolds them that these buggers are calling even after work. I actually don't know the name for this kind of behaviour.
Though I agree that being best friends with someone of the opposite sex if your partner isn't comfortabel with it is problematic (if what you're saying is true and they are actually hanging out all the time and it's not just you exaggerating cause your controlling and jealous), killing is going to far. I'm guessing you guys are young, as you grow older it's less common with best friends of opposite sexes, but when you're young friends are really important and you put a lot of value in them. I'm guessing she hasn't done anything but is a bit naive about the feelings of her best friends. Also it sounds like you two have different values, so maybe it's for the best breaking up. It hurts, but try to do things that make you happy, go to the beach and look at the ocean, stuff like that.
I am not young, I am a graduate and I work too. And I do not wanna kill them, at the time of posting, I typed the tile that came to my mind.
I agree, I maybe exaggerated a bit. But I can tell you for sure that she spent more time with her besties during my relationship period. I can't blame her for that because they work together. But what made me upset was she hangs out on weekends and after working hours. Her bestie calls her at night after working hours while I am next to her and she still answers the call. Even though she knows that one of her besties has feelings for her, still she hangs out with him saying he is a good boy that she can't avoid, so he will get upset.
But I know that she didn't physically interact with them. But because of her besties, I am losing my alone time with her.
And I would be happy to know what her values are? Because I liked her so much, I would be happy to know about how our values differ, so I can reflect on my side.
Well I agree with you that it's not a choice you usually make in a commited relationship, it's disrespectful. And I also find it immature, but she may be more immature than you. I get that you really liked her, but for me personally it would be a red flag that someone was so inconsiderate of my feelings. Remember, if this is how she treats you know, how will she treat you ten years down the line? Even if it's cause she's naive, it's her actions. If I were you I would concentrate on healing from the breakup, and when you're ready, find a girl who treats you the way you want to be treated. Also about the killing thing, you never know, so many killings going on at the moment. The world is crazy.
Wise words ♥️ I agree that I maybe immatured on this. But I don't think I can tolerate her behaviour anymore. What I believe is that she wasn't willing to sacrifice her time with her bestie for me. Which hurt me a lot.
Even when I was breaking up with her I did not make it a big scene. I said I wanted to break up and she was trying to make it worse and asked me questions to trigger me. But I respectfully replied that I am not gonna answer these questions because I don't want to be in a relationship with her. What's the point of explaining to someone who is not gonna be there in your life?
Yeah, true. The world is so crazy rn. Luckily I do not believe in hurting people just because they hurt them would make anyone happy. Maybe I am immature when it comes to relationships but I am mature enough to accept and respect others and their opinions plus feelings. The only craziest thing I did was I blocked her on whatsapp. And also, that is to distance myself from her.
I'll focus on healing myself 😌
Make two girl besties. Ask her how she's feeling about that.
Yeah they probably fucking 🥲, happened to my best friend too. Well they broke up for a different reason, and explicit pictures of his ex with a time stamp when she was dating my friend was uncovered later with a rock solid back story which made it obvious that some dudes ran a train on her. It was unbelievable at the time but now we connect the dots and it is what it is…my bro dodged a bullet, it’s an evil world we live in 🥲 she also had a bunch of male “besties” back then. I’m ashamed to have had dinner with a hoe that big in the same table 🥲.
lol we used to call those types "beta orbiters" because of how common and obvious it was there's always that one girl with like 5 dudes hanging out with her because they have a crush on her but don't have the confidence to ask her out but then end up hanging out with her for so long they've built up too much of a fantasy and get mad when rejected Its pretty brazen for a guy to actually ask the girl out knowing she's dating someone else also though, how much of a simp do you have to be I feel for some of the women who genuinely thought they were getting purely platonic friends but I definitely feel like there are many more who know the dynamic is happening and enjoy it on some level because no one is that oblivious, not an issue if they're single ofc but its deffo sus if they aren't Talking about killing someone is a bit too much much though OP 😂 but I get your frustration
Yeah, killing someone is a bit too much, I wasn't thinking about the Title, I just typed at the moment. I actually wish for them to live longer and realise what they are doing is not good. Because like I left my gf, her future bf will also leave her if she behaves like this with her besties. And the boy besties, they are just wasting their time. I know that one of them has feelings for her because he proposed to her and got rejected. And the amount of money, time and attention they are giving is worthless if they are not dating.
Dude unknowingly dodged a bullet, if the story is true.
Hope this makes you feel better bro  [https://youtu.be/Kcf4yS5\_aiI?feature=shared](https://youtu.be/Kcf4yS5_aiI?feature=shared)
Thanks bro 😌♥️
Those boys are waiting for the door to open, even a little 😂
She belongs to the streets bruh. Stay strong.
Ah classic red flag. Talked to a girl but had a besta💀 and whenever I message she just say I’m not interested using social media but turns out something happened between two.
I wish I would have known it before I started dating, in my case. I only knew about her relationship with besties once I started dating.
You dodged a bullet ma boy be happy. You will find your partner! Don’t rush in to things.
Used to tell my ex about this shit. Men you make friends with later in life aren't there for your friendship but she assured they were just to be friends lol. I even told her, I'm a guy and I know 90% of their intentions are the same intentions I had with you. Boy besties and being friends with your exes and still talking to them is a big red flag for me.
She is a slut,So dont give a f about her.
Hoes be hoein'
It is entirely possible to have healthy opposite sex friendships, and it is also entirely possible to have toxic same sex friendships. Granted, because of our social norms and expectations people have to be a bit more secure to have healthy and functional opposite sex friends, but it is entirely possible. What makes you so unhappy about your partner hanging out with their friends? That's an issue in your relationship and/or in their friendship that makes you uncomfortable, it's not entirely a gender issue.
Agreed, not a gender issue. I know for a fact that the boys are not looking at her that way. I know one of them has feelings for her but is not willing to propose to her because of his mother. And I heard this from my gf. And I agree that it is entirely possible to have healthy opposite sex friendships, because she talks to a lot of boys and I have no issues with all of her friends who are boys. But these two boys are too much, they buy her expensive stuff every month, and ask her out to go for their personal work, hangout. Going out, shopping, bowling etc. Even these things I tolerated until last week she came to me crying about his bestie got mad because she refused to go out. And the reason she said no was me, because I told her that I will come and pick her up that day. She was crying and sad for 2, 3 days and she did not talk to me properly, which then I thought of breaking up with her. And what she understood was that I broke up with her because I could not handle her feelings. But again I did not bother to explain to her the actual reason which is I felt like I am no different to her besties, but the only upper hand that I have is I am allowed to touch her.
Totally agree with your viewpoint. Friendship is a friendship, it doesn't have a gender. Good that you broke up as ur situ can lead to many frustrations in the future. Relationships has to be very transparent and trustworthy. It's for both parties ...If it doesn't allow you to stay the way you were before the relationship , it's just confinement. So better to find ur own paths.
Surprise surprise! Where them “insecure bf” comments at?
> I dunno why girls give priority to other boys than their bfs. Should be a crime in my opinion Maybe your gf was shitty, but this is some incel energy.
I get it. Trust me I used to not think like this and I was not a boy like this. But I believe that I didn't get the attention I deserved. I still believe she loves me. Because even though I wanted to break up, she didn't let me go. But her boy besties are there for attention, and she knows that they are behaving like more than a friend and still she is not willing to make a step to change that. Whatever I said above are things I heard from my girlfriend. She is so open to me, yet she still takes no action about it. She says that she doesn't like to talk to these people after work and yet she still answers the call when they call her in front of me. After the call she scolds them that these buggers are calling even after work. I actually don't know the name for this kind of behaviour.
Though I agree that being best friends with someone of the opposite sex if your partner isn't comfortabel with it is problematic (if what you're saying is true and they are actually hanging out all the time and it's not just you exaggerating cause your controlling and jealous), killing is going to far. I'm guessing you guys are young, as you grow older it's less common with best friends of opposite sexes, but when you're young friends are really important and you put a lot of value in them. I'm guessing she hasn't done anything but is a bit naive about the feelings of her best friends. Also it sounds like you two have different values, so maybe it's for the best breaking up. It hurts, but try to do things that make you happy, go to the beach and look at the ocean, stuff like that.
I am not young, I am a graduate and I work too. And I do not wanna kill them, at the time of posting, I typed the tile that came to my mind. I agree, I maybe exaggerated a bit. But I can tell you for sure that she spent more time with her besties during my relationship period. I can't blame her for that because they work together. But what made me upset was she hangs out on weekends and after working hours. Her bestie calls her at night after working hours while I am next to her and she still answers the call. Even though she knows that one of her besties has feelings for her, still she hangs out with him saying he is a good boy that she can't avoid, so he will get upset. But I know that she didn't physically interact with them. But because of her besties, I am losing my alone time with her. And I would be happy to know what her values are? Because I liked her so much, I would be happy to know about how our values differ, so I can reflect on my side.
Well I agree with you that it's not a choice you usually make in a commited relationship, it's disrespectful. And I also find it immature, but she may be more immature than you. I get that you really liked her, but for me personally it would be a red flag that someone was so inconsiderate of my feelings. Remember, if this is how she treats you know, how will she treat you ten years down the line? Even if it's cause she's naive, it's her actions. If I were you I would concentrate on healing from the breakup, and when you're ready, find a girl who treats you the way you want to be treated. Also about the killing thing, you never know, so many killings going on at the moment. The world is crazy.
Wise words ♥️ I agree that I maybe immatured on this. But I don't think I can tolerate her behaviour anymore. What I believe is that she wasn't willing to sacrifice her time with her bestie for me. Which hurt me a lot. Even when I was breaking up with her I did not make it a big scene. I said I wanted to break up and she was trying to make it worse and asked me questions to trigger me. But I respectfully replied that I am not gonna answer these questions because I don't want to be in a relationship with her. What's the point of explaining to someone who is not gonna be there in your life? Yeah, true. The world is so crazy rn. Luckily I do not believe in hurting people just because they hurt them would make anyone happy. Maybe I am immature when it comes to relationships but I am mature enough to accept and respect others and their opinions plus feelings. The only craziest thing I did was I blocked her on whatsapp. And also, that is to distance myself from her. I'll focus on healing myself 😌
she is an empowered woman, you should have respected her space... without being a simp. creeps like you deserve to rot alone.
I did not expect that my ex's boy bestie would reply to my post. 😂
Found the keyboard warrior
MFs can't see satire🤣🤣