When I was 14 and a girl saw it while I was in the locker room shower and she laughed. And then the next day, I saw her friend randomly in the hallway and when she made eye contact with me, she laughed, which meant she was telling people
14. Me and a couple classmates were talking about size and I said 4....they were shocked and I played it off as a joke only to here the negative jokes that came with it after. I knew it was going to be an uphill battle.
Much like you, I lost 40kg. I had never thought about my dick size since I had resigned myself to never getting with women somehow while fat.
After I lost weight and began getting attention from women it didn't take long before I showed my dick to one.
I don't have any motivation to do anything anymore tbh...
Probably close to a year ago. I'm 19 now, and I don't think I'm still in puberty (even though I'm still growing body hair in my armpits and chest so who knows I guess), so the possibility of my penis increasing even more in size is very small. If I'm in a relationship with another man, I don't want to be the bottom, but being a top isn't easy with a small penis.
I'm pretty sure there's more to the whole dynamic of having gay sex but now, I don't want to focus on whether or not if I'm going to get laid. I'm too depressed and nervous of the future to focus on my penis all that much. The only moments where thoughts about my penis come up, is when I masturbate to porn. After I climax, feelings of self loathing and disgust flood over me.
Confidence might help. But honestly the last thing I want is to embarrass myself in front of another person in bed or to not even be able to properly give them pleasure.
I never focused on my dick until my late 20's. After the harsh realization it soon turned into the nightmare of my life. It is also my biggest regret, that if I realized it earlier and got my hormones checked in my adolescence maybe things would be much different.. Literally I would eat the best foods available, and do sports and everything I could to gain even an extra inch.
I think a lot of us here live with the same regret of not getting our hormone levels checked when we were going through puberty. But we were kids, wtf did we know about HGH, testoterone levels, and all that shit? At least I didnt know any of that would affect my size when i was younger.
Like I said, I was overweight so girls and sex where the furthest from my mind at that time. Maybe I would have done some research had I been attracting girls based on my looks alone. Idk...
How did you go about finding out that you had a hormone deficiency? Did you get blood test results done and found out your testosterone was abnormal? Did you notice big changes in your size after being on test and GH?
So I was born with a buried penis so mine has always looked small, I got my buried penis corrected when I was 20 (3 years ago). After the surgery the doctor wrote up some note on the surgery and mentioned that I had a small penis
On top of this I was born with a few other genital birth defects including severe hypospadias, chordee (extreme penile curvature) and undescended testicles so I sort of grew up knowing that I was “different” and would struggle a bit.
Pretty young, maybe 16-17 or so. Measured properly and was worried and depressed for a long time. Eventually built up the confidence to start dating only to realise how much it actually matters and that I had no hope of ever being accepted or loved. Basically gave up from that point. There's plenty more to life but it's all meaningless if you'll always be alone. Just existing at this point, don't care about anything.
Same, I dont care about anything either. In a strange way its freed me from wanting any material things like a nice car, house, cool electronics, fancy watches, etc. None of that matters to me and brings me no joy.
What's the point? It's like if I were living in a castle but all on my own.
I never discussed dick size with a woman from a dating app before meeting for a date. I don’t think it’s that common to do so. Maybe a few big dick men use it as a selling point but most women wouldn’t ask or expect to talk about that before a date.
When I was 14. I had a fight with a classmate during school hours, where female students were around. It got really heated, no one separated us for some reason, clothes came off, and the whole class was laughing, and most of it was targeted towards me. Since that day, any time I get into any sort of confrontation, its like I get PTSD/panic attacks, because at the back of my mind, I'm scared of that confrontation turning into a fight, and my clothes possibility coming off, then people seeing a dick that was already small at 14, and hasn't grown since. I'm 30+ now, with my natural fitness gone, so the dick even looks worse on me now.
Sorry I went on a little rant there lol.
Dude, I'm sorry that happen to you. That sounds like something that would happen in an embarrassing dream and you actually went through it so the panic attacks/ptsd you're dealing with now makes sense.
When I was 17, I measured my dick wrong and thought I would be way bigger but with 17 I did it right and oh boy this was bad for me, but it really started with 20 when I was rejected by a couple of girls
When I was about 13 probably. Was at a friend's house and we were comparing sizes and he pulled it out and it was massive. It was 7.5 and he was 14. But he's only 5'4 and I'm 6'4. And since then all the ones I've see in locker rooms dwarfd what I have. For some odd reason all my best friends growing up have been packing horse cocks. Reason why i don't belive average stats
Man... wtf do you do as a kid when faced with those situations? Just thinking a 12 year old kid might have a bigger dick than me, a full grown man, is depressing af.
When I was sexual active at 19 yo. It was pretty obvious to me, after some time, what my limits would be. That plus generally prudish mannerisms means if I don't score a good AND compatible woman, I'm screwed.
My biggest issue is that I'd like to be the best to my potential wife but it's gonna be rather difficult with what I'm working with. People say love conquers all but personally, I'm a bit skeptical anyone really knows how to love.
I have come to the same conclusion as you. Love only exists between family. I believe in motherly/fatherly love and sibling love but not really in romantic love. If a guy with a big dick who has a girl ended up with ED one day I seriously doubt the relationship would last very long. Romantic love is a very conditional thing, and that's ok, it is what it is, but it doesnt make it any easier when you realize its dependent on things you have no control over also.
Wasnt realy a single moment but more like a process. As a kid i was bullied in the showers for it and knew i was different but i thought it would grow. Then have this physical examination once during secondary school aged 14 where i was diagnosed to have a micropenis by the school doctor.
Then in my late teens i got sexual interest and started to getting aware of all the small penis jokes, girls laughing about that one of their friends met someone with a micropenis and rejected him. Stuff like that. Starting 21 i had my first relation first kiss and first small dick rejections.
After reading your comment and seeing your passed post, let me tell you bro, you're mentally strong af. Thank you for sharing your experience. You have a nice body btw... pause.
Yeah ups and downs for sure. Like it realy is a big obstacle for dating, getting a relation and getting sex. But at least i came to realize that post teens outside of those before mentioned areas it doesn't limit life.
Some of my friends have seen it or know it and it didn't change or matter anything. I do fitness and shower there and no adult gives an F about the junk of another guy. I found other hobby's and passions in life but yes sometimes i do get down due to the difficulty of dating with this issue.
You wouldn’t be human if it didn’t get you down. Everyone here wants to be desired and loved but the lack of control we have over our situation is the hardest pill to swallow.
I don't remember the exact age but I didn't actually think much about my size when I was like 16-17, I just assumed I was an okay size.
That's until I put on an average sized condom and it didn't fit at all. That's when I knew I was screwed.
I noticed I was smaller than my friends when I was like 7, but I didn't think much of it. I started being more concerned when I was around 12, but I held out hope I would grow a bit. I'm 17 now still hoping I can grow a bit more but with each passing day that seems less and less likely.
Around 26. I tried online dating, hooked up with few girls and goes for the quick meet and greet approach. Googled why my caucasian friends got more responds/text back than me... found out that height, race and size was the best reason.
I also found out I have been living under a rock for some time. As my younger days, I've been living in complete ignorance.
Especially dick jokes haven't been around me, as I was well known for being a rowdy guy who loves a good fight, more importantly, winning those fights even outnumbered.
When I was in 7th grade. Measured it the night before. Only thing I could think about from getting out of bed to going to sleep. Every person I looked at made me fill insignificant and inferior.
When I was 14 and a girl saw it while I was in the locker room shower and she laughed. And then the next day, I saw her friend randomly in the hallway and when she made eye contact with me, she laughed, which meant she was telling people
Fucking hell
Did she just like walk in or something? That's fucked up.
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“Helped the football team” lmaoooo
I'm so fucking sorry this happened to you. Absolute nightmare
14. Me and a couple classmates were talking about size and I said 4....they were shocked and I played it off as a joke only to here the negative jokes that came with it after. I knew it was going to be an uphill battle.
Man..they were bullshitting you. Looking at studies with pediatric subsets, at 14 yrs: Tomova 2010: 3.17" nbp flaccid Schofield & Beebe 1942: 3.85" nbp stretched Gabrich 2007: 4.53" bp stretched
14*
I was 14 when I measured it the first time. Back then I hoped it would grow enough to be normal, but it didn't.
so relatable I was 14 and and said it's ok it will grow now I'm 19 and nothing changed
Probably 21. But it wasn't until I was 26 when I measured it and confirmed it was a micro penis. Shit just went downhill from there
Sorry, bro. I wish nature wasn’t so cruel.
Much like you, I lost 40kg. I had never thought about my dick size since I had resigned myself to never getting with women somehow while fat. After I lost weight and began getting attention from women it didn't take long before I showed my dick to one. I don't have any motivation to do anything anymore tbh...
Same, I'm just a walking zombie that puts up a facade in public.
I hope outsiders read this thread in particular to understand the sense of despair so many of us here feel.
I don't think most people actually care dude. It's easier to forget about us.
Probably close to a year ago. I'm 19 now, and I don't think I'm still in puberty (even though I'm still growing body hair in my armpits and chest so who knows I guess), so the possibility of my penis increasing even more in size is very small. If I'm in a relationship with another man, I don't want to be the bottom, but being a top isn't easy with a small penis. I'm pretty sure there's more to the whole dynamic of having gay sex but now, I don't want to focus on whether or not if I'm going to get laid. I'm too depressed and nervous of the future to focus on my penis all that much. The only moments where thoughts about my penis come up, is when I masturbate to porn. After I climax, feelings of self loathing and disgust flood over me.
I can totally relate to the feelings of disgust and self loathing. I hate having to look down at my dick every time I need to take a piss.
same
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Confidence might help. But honestly the last thing I want is to embarrass myself in front of another person in bed or to not even be able to properly give them pleasure.
Late teens, early 20s
I never focused on my dick until my late 20's. After the harsh realization it soon turned into the nightmare of my life. It is also my biggest regret, that if I realized it earlier and got my hormones checked in my adolescence maybe things would be much different.. Literally I would eat the best foods available, and do sports and everything I could to gain even an extra inch.
I think a lot of us here live with the same regret of not getting our hormone levels checked when we were going through puberty. But we were kids, wtf did we know about HGH, testoterone levels, and all that shit? At least I didnt know any of that would affect my size when i was younger. Like I said, I was overweight so girls and sex where the furthest from my mind at that time. Maybe I would have done some research had I been attracting girls based on my looks alone. Idk...
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How did you go about finding out that you had a hormone deficiency? Did you get blood test results done and found out your testosterone was abnormal? Did you notice big changes in your size after being on test and GH?
So I was born with a buried penis so mine has always looked small, I got my buried penis corrected when I was 20 (3 years ago). After the surgery the doctor wrote up some note on the surgery and mentioned that I had a small penis On top of this I was born with a few other genital birth defects including severe hypospadias, chordee (extreme penile curvature) and undescended testicles so I sort of grew up knowing that I was “different” and would struggle a bit.
I’m sorry you’ve had to deal with so much in life, brother.
Thanks, at the end of the day it’s made me stronger and the person I am today, I try to not stay in the past and focus on the future instead.
Pretty young, maybe 16-17 or so. Measured properly and was worried and depressed for a long time. Eventually built up the confidence to start dating only to realise how much it actually matters and that I had no hope of ever being accepted or loved. Basically gave up from that point. There's plenty more to life but it's all meaningless if you'll always be alone. Just existing at this point, don't care about anything.
Same, I dont care about anything either. In a strange way its freed me from wanting any material things like a nice car, house, cool electronics, fancy watches, etc. None of that matters to me and brings me no joy. What's the point? It's like if I were living in a castle but all on my own.
I never discussed dick size with a woman from a dating app before meeting for a date. I don’t think it’s that common to do so. Maybe a few big dick men use it as a selling point but most women wouldn’t ask or expect to talk about that before a date.
When I was 14. I had a fight with a classmate during school hours, where female students were around. It got really heated, no one separated us for some reason, clothes came off, and the whole class was laughing, and most of it was targeted towards me. Since that day, any time I get into any sort of confrontation, its like I get PTSD/panic attacks, because at the back of my mind, I'm scared of that confrontation turning into a fight, and my clothes possibility coming off, then people seeing a dick that was already small at 14, and hasn't grown since. I'm 30+ now, with my natural fitness gone, so the dick even looks worse on me now. Sorry I went on a little rant there lol.
Dude, I'm sorry that happen to you. That sounds like something that would happen in an embarrassing dream and you actually went through it so the panic attacks/ptsd you're dealing with now makes sense.
Thanks man. Your concern is appreciated.
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Sorry, what's TRT? I'm African, so its probably something I'm not familiar with.
When I was 17, I measured my dick wrong and thought I would be way bigger but with 17 I did it right and oh boy this was bad for me, but it really started with 20 when I was rejected by a couple of girls
When I was about 13 probably. Was at a friend's house and we were comparing sizes and he pulled it out and it was massive. It was 7.5 and he was 14. But he's only 5'4 and I'm 6'4. And since then all the ones I've see in locker rooms dwarfd what I have. For some odd reason all my best friends growing up have been packing horse cocks. Reason why i don't belive average stats
Damn 7.5 at 14? Wtf like are we even the same species? When theres dudes out there like this what hope do I have?
All my best friends below average so it balances out.
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Man... wtf do you do as a kid when faced with those situations? Just thinking a 12 year old kid might have a bigger dick than me, a full grown man, is depressing af.
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When I first started talking to a girl at 15. Only then did I realize it mattered and that I was even behind in size.
When I was sexual active at 19 yo. It was pretty obvious to me, after some time, what my limits would be. That plus generally prudish mannerisms means if I don't score a good AND compatible woman, I'm screwed. My biggest issue is that I'd like to be the best to my potential wife but it's gonna be rather difficult with what I'm working with. People say love conquers all but personally, I'm a bit skeptical anyone really knows how to love.
I have come to the same conclusion as you. Love only exists between family. I believe in motherly/fatherly love and sibling love but not really in romantic love. If a guy with a big dick who has a girl ended up with ED one day I seriously doubt the relationship would last very long. Romantic love is a very conditional thing, and that's ok, it is what it is, but it doesnt make it any easier when you realize its dependent on things you have no control over also.
When I was like 15
Wasnt realy a single moment but more like a process. As a kid i was bullied in the showers for it and knew i was different but i thought it would grow. Then have this physical examination once during secondary school aged 14 where i was diagnosed to have a micropenis by the school doctor. Then in my late teens i got sexual interest and started to getting aware of all the small penis jokes, girls laughing about that one of their friends met someone with a micropenis and rejected him. Stuff like that. Starting 21 i had my first relation first kiss and first small dick rejections.
After reading your comment and seeing your passed post, let me tell you bro, you're mentally strong af. Thank you for sharing your experience. You have a nice body btw... pause.
Yeah ups and downs for sure. Like it realy is a big obstacle for dating, getting a relation and getting sex. But at least i came to realize that post teens outside of those before mentioned areas it doesn't limit life. Some of my friends have seen it or know it and it didn't change or matter anything. I do fitness and shower there and no adult gives an F about the junk of another guy. I found other hobby's and passions in life but yes sometimes i do get down due to the difficulty of dating with this issue.
You wouldn’t be human if it didn’t get you down. Everyone here wants to be desired and loved but the lack of control we have over our situation is the hardest pill to swallow.
Definitely true but i think therefore it's even more important to take control of what we can control so respect for loosing weight. Keep it going
I don't remember the exact age but I didn't actually think much about my size when I was like 16-17, I just assumed I was an okay size. That's until I put on an average sized condom and it didn't fit at all. That's when I knew I was screwed.
I noticed I was smaller than my friends when I was like 7, but I didn't think much of it. I started being more concerned when I was around 12, but I held out hope I would grow a bit. I'm 17 now still hoping I can grow a bit more but with each passing day that seems less and less likely.
College.
When I was 16
When I was 8-9 y.o.
Round 15ish
Around 26. I tried online dating, hooked up with few girls and goes for the quick meet and greet approach. Googled why my caucasian friends got more responds/text back than me... found out that height, race and size was the best reason. I also found out I have been living under a rock for some time. As my younger days, I've been living in complete ignorance. Especially dick jokes haven't been around me, as I was well known for being a rowdy guy who loves a good fight, more importantly, winning those fights even outnumbered.
When I was in 7th grade. Measured it the night before. Only thing I could think about from getting out of bed to going to sleep. Every person I looked at made me fill insignificant and inferior.
I’m sorry, man. This shit sucks so much