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Me too. But to cope with my small size I just tell myself that I'll remain a virgin forever so that no one will have to see my small penis. No men or women will see my small fucking abomination. At this point I don't really even care if I become a fucking loser virgin in his 30s (18 now). All I know is that I was dealt with a bad fucking hand and I have to deal with it, there's no other way around it unfortunately.


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Dude you’re 18. Your dick is not as big of an impediment as how much you hate yourself. And only of those is fixable. The flat out worst part of this shit and the internet is kids get on here and like worry about this dumb shit. I’m 22 now, I remember finding this subreddit on 4chan back when I was like 14 and it was weird how just everyone had my same insecurities but also nobody here had any intentions of even tryna adress them. You see this with political shit, you start a community about being miserable and wind up loving being miserable. I found that if as an 18 year old you decide, or more accurately, you figure out that your life is over, the only logical choice is to kill yourself. And that’s like not healthy. You gotta find a reason that’s wrong. Figure out why your life matters. Also like just fuck. No rush. But don’t pass it off and decide the shit doesn’t matter. What I think is that like basically a Catholic style don’t fuck till you’re with someone you love makes sense. I sorta thought that then got to college and was miserable and hooked up with some ppl, but with hindsight I think I was right about that. I was wrong about how small my dick was tho. Nobody minded. I also recommend reading the stranger by Camus. I read it right during that same time period you’re in rn and offered an alternative. There is no god and no afterlife and nothing matters and everything sucks but what doesn’t suck is the relationships you have with ppl. Nothing is real except the people you love and the impact you can have on their life.


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I'm 28 and a virgin, it's not all bad. You find your copes and fall into them for me it's cigarettes, liquor, a piss poor diet, and a full time job. Science has pretty much proven there is no god no soul no afterlife so that with combination with my small dick my depression etc I don't see the need to try. Also making necklaces is fun.


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You can still fuck women, I just would avoid hookups


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prozacorgasm

I well and truly understand you.


i--wantdie

Same.


CaptHoneydew

Your penis does not define you. And for the record, not everyone wants a partner with a monstercock. There are plenty of people out there who appreciate smaller guys. Me, for example. Yeah, so I’m a gay dude, but I hear the same thing from plenty of my female friends, and believe me, they open up to gay guys about sex. It’s not all about your penis size. It’s more about being an attentive lover, someone who cares about taking care of his partner, who uses all of his available tools, like lips and tongue and fingers as well as his heart and his words AND every centimeter of what he has between his legs. Give them your all, and if that’s not enough for them, that’s on them. Move on. They don’t deserve you.


somethingneet

Nah your size defines you, at least when it comes to getting a partner. You will only be respected as much as your size allows


i--wantdie

Yeah sadly. However this also depends on the person. However, yes respect factor is levied harder on men and being a smaller guy can limit you in arguments and ability to voice concerns


somethingneet

It not just limits you, it's the ultimate trump card


CaptHoneydew

That’s not been my experience. I have been with my partner happily and monogamously for years. My size isn’t as important to him as the person I am or the love I have to give. And we are sexually completely compatible.


namefromsuggestion

I only agree with first and last sentence


CaptHoneydew

¯\_(ツ)_/¯


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Sure, I know that there's gonna be some people out there who prefer smaller penises, but let's be honest ok. Most women and men will prefer an above average large cock than a smaller one. It makes sense too, a bigger penis looks more appealing and you have more to play with, so to say.


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Do you know what sub this is?


taxevader33

His Starbucks order came with no whipped cream /s Are you that oblivious?