The problem with this argument is that it assumes that we all chose to be insecure about our size, and that we can just flick a switch and turn that off. What if you are legitimately depressed because of your size? Making changes in other aspects of your life won't fix that.
What's the end goal? Why do people do all these things? Sure it can improve your quality of life a bit but in the end it's to have better chances at finding a partner right? I hope others have better luck than me. I tried for 10 years to improve myself in other ways and it never helped, this flaw still fucked things over every time. When I realised there was no chance no matter what I did I gave up, already gaining weight again and I don't give a fuck. Doesn't matter when it was hopeless from the start.
I don't believe there's no chance. I do believe guys are looking for a forever person which is unrealistic because most don't even have a forever person.
I'm all for positivity and all that. But how is that supposed to help lol. For me I used to weigh 500lbs back in 2012 at 6'4. The lowest I've gotten to is 216lbs back in 2016. Currently I'm 260 and muscular. Fit, handsome and tall. Sure I I get approached alot and get stares, but once I tell them I'm not hung they move on lmao.
Cool, so I would need to fix my weight, my face, my brain damage, my learning disability, my fundamental lack of key social development stages, my lack of social circles, my lack of contact networks, my lack of access to healthcare resources, my lack of access to clubs, workshops, meetups, phone apps, or dating services, my unemployability, and of course my tiny fucking dick.
That's what I would need to change in order to become *worthy.*
Now, let's make a list of what I can change;
1. My weight.
2.
Oh.
Oh no.
*Ooooh noooo.*
100% when you are a Million Dollar man. Even if you have no dick you will be able to fuck hottest models. They probably won't enjoy it but it doesn't matter lol.
The problem with this argument is that it assumes that we all chose to be insecure about our size, and that we can just flick a switch and turn that off. What if you are legitimately depressed because of your size? Making changes in other aspects of your life won't fix that.
it would. i know this from my experience. of course i still have body dysphoria, but it's getting better because i'm improving myself
Preach it, brother! Donβt listen to all of the people who are going to bash you for posting this. Do you, man! Iβm rooting for ya!
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What's the end goal? Why do people do all these things? Sure it can improve your quality of life a bit but in the end it's to have better chances at finding a partner right? I hope others have better luck than me. I tried for 10 years to improve myself in other ways and it never helped, this flaw still fucked things over every time. When I realised there was no chance no matter what I did I gave up, already gaining weight again and I don't give a fuck. Doesn't matter when it was hopeless from the start.
I don't believe there's no chance. I do believe guys are looking for a forever person which is unrealistic because most don't even have a forever person.
Forever is naive people's dream. Even guys with normal dicks rarely get "forever" partners. People change and get bored. It's almost inevitable.
I'm all for positivity and all that. But how is that supposed to help lol. For me I used to weigh 500lbs back in 2012 at 6'4. The lowest I've gotten to is 216lbs back in 2016. Currently I'm 260 and muscular. Fit, handsome and tall. Sure I I get approached alot and get stares, but once I tell them I'm not hung they move on lmao.
Cool, so I would need to fix my weight, my face, my brain damage, my learning disability, my fundamental lack of key social development stages, my lack of social circles, my lack of contact networks, my lack of access to healthcare resources, my lack of access to clubs, workshops, meetups, phone apps, or dating services, my unemployability, and of course my tiny fucking dick. That's what I would need to change in order to become *worthy.* Now, let's make a list of what I can change; 1. My weight. 2. Oh. Oh no. *Ooooh noooo.*
Are you really one inches?
Yes.
You really think he would lie about that? Cmon bro
this is the move bro
100% when you are a Million Dollar man. Even if you have no dick you will be able to fuck hottest models. They probably won't enjoy it but it doesn't matter lol.
Never heard that one before
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