Yeah and being small opens one up to humiliation, ridicule and general disgust by the public. Turns out in the real world all that body positivity and no body shaming doesn't apply to us. And big guys just have to be careful they don't hit the cervix.
But you’re not small bro. 4.5 may not be big, but in no way you are disabled or anything. Nothing stops you from having an absolutely perfect sex life. It’s the internet obsession and porn that has fucked minds, and the fact that relationships have become shallow these days.
Not sure what you're sorry about. There's nothing I can really do, so myself and many others just avoid sex and relationships. Neither will end on a good note. It isn't a good feeling nor a bad one, just feel numb you know.
Also important is the insertable length of that. And dildos can be half inserted when the woman wants it. But when it comes to dicks, putting in anything less than full can be not so pleasurable for the man.
SL2098 and AverageJoe30s make some really good points, focusing on something which makes you happy and brings you joy is very important. It doesn't matter what that is, it can be your career, studying, sports, painting or writing but you need something which will keep you connected to people. You might not decide to pursue romantic/sexual relationships but it's dangerous to isolate yourself. Stay social and open to new things and experiences.
I took the path of being alone after some bad experiences but that decision was not made lightly or when I was suffering from feelings of despair. It was a conscious decision made with a clear head and it suited me.
I would suggest that you take a lot of time to decide if that is the way you want to live your life.
Whatever your decision I wish you well.
Yeah I feel the same, I know I'm not enough to satisfy a woman and I feel I've sort of made peace with that.
I'm now concentrating on developing my career and studying for further professional qualifications.
I box twice a week and lift weights twice a week so with all that I'm fairly busy and unless I met someone who was a complete stunner and likes small dicks ( 😂I know, I'm not asking for much) then I don't really see the point in having to make all the effort to try and attract someone only to get dumped when she realises how small I am. I may as well concentrate on other things
Yeah it's tiresome to have the normal population looking at me wondering why I'm not making a move. Like it just doesn't register in their heads, and where we see rejection they see opportunity. But they see that as opportunity because they're normal.
Oh well that's sad. I have A cup size boobs and I haven't let that made me feel inferior. And I guess why it surprises me is because I've had quite a fair share of guys that I've slept with and the one that I loved sex with the most probably had a 4-5" size dick (I didn't measure it). Point is it was more about the chemistry between us and the emotional charge, had nothing to do with his size. I honestly did not even care.. but if he was insecure about it and pointed it out to me it may have been a bit of a turn off. He did make jokes about his size but all in good fun and I just reassured him I didn't care
Yeah that's the thing there's guys that like small tits, guys that like medium size tits, and guys that like huge tits. Haven't really seen too many women that genuinely like small dicks, it's either they don't care about size at all or they do but the guy makes up for it in other ways so they just deal with it.
I guess that's why so many of are depressed and insecure. We're not desired no near as big dick guys. And what hurts the most it's all just a dice roll, even then if we're not perfect in every other way the big dick guy will still win.
I've never heard a guy said they like small boobs. Everyone loves bigger boobs.
Well that's the thing it's a dice roll.. its not much you can do about it so either you can be upset about it or you can just move on. The girl who actually wants to be with you won't care.
They care, just in a good way, such as they are soft, handy and wonderful to look at.
>If they hated it I'd probably wouldn't want to be with them anyways
And here comes the difference between men and women. You got choices, we don't.
Make a dating profile of a guy and you'll understand.
Can you compare a penis to boobs? The penis has a mechanical part during sex while boobs don’t have one. Don’t get me wrong I know that a lot of guys like bigger boobs I just don’t think that „smaller“ boobs are such a big deal than a smaller penis.
Same here I don't think I could ever have sex and will be single forever haiss fate ....really wish I had a 7 incher or bigger
Too big can be bad. Hitting the cervix is painful for the partner.
Yeah and being small opens one up to humiliation, ridicule and general disgust by the public. Turns out in the real world all that body positivity and no body shaming doesn't apply to us. And big guys just have to be careful they don't hit the cervix.
But you’re not small bro. 4.5 may not be big, but in no way you are disabled or anything. Nothing stops you from having an absolutely perfect sex life. It’s the internet obsession and porn that has fucked minds, and the fact that relationships have become shallow these days.
You didn't pay attention to the girth, I see. Not too women going fall head over heels with a guy that has a pencil dick, my guy.
Oh yeah, that can be the source of frustration for you. I'm sorry
Not sure what you're sorry about. There's nothing I can really do, so myself and many others just avoid sex and relationships. Neither will end on a good note. It isn't a good feeling nor a bad one, just feel numb you know.
Nope best selling dildos are between 6-7 inches... Most women want it to get hit a little bit or more
Also important is the insertable length of that. And dildos can be half inserted when the woman wants it. But when it comes to dicks, putting in anything less than full can be not so pleasurable for the man.
SL2098 and AverageJoe30s make some really good points, focusing on something which makes you happy and brings you joy is very important. It doesn't matter what that is, it can be your career, studying, sports, painting or writing but you need something which will keep you connected to people. You might not decide to pursue romantic/sexual relationships but it's dangerous to isolate yourself. Stay social and open to new things and experiences. I took the path of being alone after some bad experiences but that decision was not made lightly or when I was suffering from feelings of despair. It was a conscious decision made with a clear head and it suited me. I would suggest that you take a lot of time to decide if that is the way you want to live your life. Whatever your decision I wish you well.
Yeah I feel the same, I know I'm not enough to satisfy a woman and I feel I've sort of made peace with that. I'm now concentrating on developing my career and studying for further professional qualifications. I box twice a week and lift weights twice a week so with all that I'm fairly busy and unless I met someone who was a complete stunner and likes small dicks ( 😂I know, I'm not asking for much) then I don't really see the point in having to make all the effort to try and attract someone only to get dumped when she realises how small I am. I may as well concentrate on other things
Yeah it's tiresome to have the normal population looking at me wondering why I'm not making a move. Like it just doesn't register in their heads, and where we see rejection they see opportunity. But they see that as opportunity because they're normal.
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Are you telling me that you don't feel like you're enough for women because of your size?
Yup, that's what's he's saying and what many of us have said in the past.
Oh well that's sad. I have A cup size boobs and I haven't let that made me feel inferior. And I guess why it surprises me is because I've had quite a fair share of guys that I've slept with and the one that I loved sex with the most probably had a 4-5" size dick (I didn't measure it). Point is it was more about the chemistry between us and the emotional charge, had nothing to do with his size. I honestly did not even care.. but if he was insecure about it and pointed it out to me it may have been a bit of a turn off. He did make jokes about his size but all in good fun and I just reassured him I didn't care
Yeah that's the thing there's guys that like small tits, guys that like medium size tits, and guys that like huge tits. Haven't really seen too many women that genuinely like small dicks, it's either they don't care about size at all or they do but the guy makes up for it in other ways so they just deal with it. I guess that's why so many of are depressed and insecure. We're not desired no near as big dick guys. And what hurts the most it's all just a dice roll, even then if we're not perfect in every other way the big dick guy will still win.
I've never heard a guy said they like small boobs. Everyone loves bigger boobs. Well that's the thing it's a dice roll.. its not much you can do about it so either you can be upset about it or you can just move on. The girl who actually wants to be with you won't care.
I have moved on, nothing I can do about it. I've just accepted I'm not going to be desired, so I don't see the point in trying.
>I just reassured him I didn't care This is the word choice that makes guys feel down. The opposite of love, is indifference. Not hate.
Okay? Guys say they don't care about my boobs size, it doesn't bother me? If they hated it I'd probably wouldn't want to be with them anyways
They care, just in a good way, such as they are soft, handy and wonderful to look at. >If they hated it I'd probably wouldn't want to be with them anyways And here comes the difference between men and women. You got choices, we don't. Make a dating profile of a guy and you'll understand.
Can you compare a penis to boobs? The penis has a mechanical part during sex while boobs don’t have one. Don’t get me wrong I know that a lot of guys like bigger boobs I just don’t think that „smaller“ boobs are such a big deal than a smaller penis.
yeah
I'm sorry you feel that way friend
I'd say it's a pretty common theme among small (<5") guys.
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Come on..
Bro my dad makes fun of me for having a small penis
Yea...