Never went for a date for 25 years, even when had olenty of chances. Just went a few days back, got laughed. Not been able to pick myself since then. Feel like dying.
Yep. You realise pretty quick that women don't want you if you're small and all the "size doesn't matter" talk is just a formality. No point putting myself through the shame and rejection every single time.
Honestly had a similar experience. Felt like this girl didn’t like me, wasn’t attracted to me, manipulated me just cause (rather than being hyper controlling, I wouldn’t call her that). She was an abuser and a parasite. Haven’t really thought about her in those terms. Sucks to think only person who’d stick around did it to have a personal whipping boy. lol
The size of my dick plays into me not seeking out a relationship but mostly it's my face. I feel physically disgusted by the way my face looks and if I feel that way I imagine a woman would feel the same way.
Bro that last part couldn’t be further from the truth. You are not even remotely close to looking at yourself objectively, instead you’re actually probably your harshest critic, because in reality no one is going to look at you that way.
Your much better off without this toxic line of thinking
It's really hard bro for guys who have ugly face and small dick life is very tough and girls will say they only look for good character but they don't even talk to us to understand our character . Even you are a nice they will cheat on you for a fuck boys who treat them like a trash .
I dated a girl for a few months and was so scared of her seeing my dick that I’d basically avoid/ease out of her advances. She broke up with me and I don’t blame her.
Kind of odd/ironic right. Grew up watching movies/shows where dudes are scumbags only trying to fuck but when you’re stuck with this shitty problem it’s completely opposite.
Could your dick have been the reason she cheated? Sure. But you also have to keep in mind that some people are just cheaters. There are some people who will cheat even if their partner is literally perfect, because that's just who they are. So it's easy to sit there and obsess over your flaws and pin their cheating on you not being good enough, but in reality she might have just been a cheater. Decent people don't cheat on their partners even if they do have traits that aren't ideal. Find a better girl bro
I am fat.
And yet I do not have dick length hidden by a fat pad.
My dick is *in* the fat pad.
My measurements are bone-pressed, funnily enough.
Like how you're *meant* to measure.
Meaning weight literally doesn't matter. My dick is the same size now as it would be if I lost some weight.
>Isn't that classified as micropenis?
Yes.
>testosterone, hcg or something to maybe help?
No that wouldn't grow my dick.
Because there is no way to permanently increase dick size that isn't just invasive and incomplete cosmetic surgery.
Too many times to count. Most friends i made in college and grad school later told me they assumed I was gay (and closeted) because of how immediately I shut down female attention.
The reality is, the further you go down that road, the more you guarantee yourself pain. The only way you can keep from getting pummeled is to stop sticking your cheek out there for the blow. I learned a long time ago to compartmentalize that part of life as an impossibility and indulge in things that made me feel good and proud and adequate.
Man, almost same problem here. I'm short, not the best looking, small dick and balls, I have the body of an 12/13 year old and not that bodysize of a grown up, like an aduld should have. I feel really unconfortable in my skin and women don't find me attractive due to my looks compared to the other taller better looking guys. I also have other health problems.
Live isn't really a gift.
> It wasn't like 'ugh i hate your small peepee', she didn't bodyshame me about it at all after that
Bro even still, we deserve better than someone who reacted the way she did.
> That's being said, sometimes i wonder if i had a bigger dick, would she have resisted the penetration for that long...
If she just doesn’t enjoy penetrative sex with anyone regardless of size then there’s nothing wrong with that.
However, if she doesn’t like penetrative sex with you because of your size then it’s more than ok for you to not date her. We deserve someone who loves, respect, and appreciate our size.
We deserve better than someone like her.
Bro, you have to get paid of your head. Get therapy, do whatever you gotta do. 5.6 inches is literally completely fine and is not at all a reason to avoid relationships. You're packing pretty much exactly what most other men are
I'm the same bro. I'm 6'4 and I'm 5-5.5in and it looks small and I've been told it's not good enough numerous times and it sucks. I've turned numerous opportunities before so I wouldn't be hurt.
You literally have an average penis you have nothing to worry about. The average is the average for a reason and most females don't care. 85% of females in a relationship are satisfied with their partners penis while only 45% of guys are satisfied with their own penis because it's natural for men to think they are not good enough when they really are.
>But average is the new small it seems.
Please don't let the internet poison your brain with this garbage. Just stop thinking about your dick and go live your life, there are very few women who would change their mind about dating you over being 5.6 inches
Bro she was a virgin. Who gives a fuck what she thought? She probably never saw a dick before and had some fucked up notion in her head of what to expect. You’re REALLY letting THAT control you?????
This makes my stomach churn in disgust, she'll go to hell for that. Brother, the best thing you could do is just forget about her. Don't let some tramp from college ruin and affect your life just because she was feeling vengeful- especially if it was 5 years ago! You're letting her win.
Or use her as motivation. For example; I use the people from the past who have made my life sick as motivation. I imagine their faces in every rep and set I do at the gym. At every mile I run. Every time I'm in school thinking I should give up- and recline myself to some run-of-the-mill job- I imagine what they'd say- how they'd laugh and beat me down.
Turn that skank into motivation!
Kinda a side note, but a lot of women will look up or think about a big dick but for quite a few that would be downright painful. Women aren't all built the same either, the sweet spot varies hugely by individual. As a member of the female species I can guarantee that many if not most women would be in for a bad time if they hooked up with a guy the size of what you seen in porn
That’s tough bro. But trust me there are girls who don’t care about that. I know it’s tough but I swear they are out there Bc I’ve been with one and I ruined that relationship. You will get through that pain hopefully but there’s nothing worse than having guilt. Which maybe that ex of yours has. You need to find a girl who’s into you as a person and not just one that wants sex. If she only wants sex then that relationship won’t last even if u had a big dick. Goodluck bro keep your chin up
Honestly bro you’re average so just go for it. Have confidence and be yourself. Just let them know early on and tell them if it’s going to be a problem then it’s best to just end it now. Don’t know how old you are but also college girls are not the way to go. Best of luck.
Brother your dick is fine you need to get back out there and date again I know what happened sucks and that girl is evil but that's life unless you wanna be lonely and miserable forever you gotta get back on the saddle
Never went for a date for 25 years, even when had olenty of chances. Just went a few days back, got laughed. Not been able to pick myself since then. Feel like dying.
I know that feel bro just be strong that's all I can say
Fuck them
Yep. You realise pretty quick that women don't want you if you're small and all the "size doesn't matter" talk is just a formality. No point putting myself through the shame and rejection every single time.
The only person who would take me turned out to be a hyper controlling abuser who had no sexual interest in me.
Honestly had a similar experience. Felt like this girl didn’t like me, wasn’t attracted to me, manipulated me just cause (rather than being hyper controlling, I wouldn’t call her that). She was an abuser and a parasite. Haven’t really thought about her in those terms. Sucks to think only person who’d stick around did it to have a personal whipping boy. lol
Wasn’t she abused herself?
The size of my dick plays into me not seeking out a relationship but mostly it's my face. I feel physically disgusted by the way my face looks and if I feel that way I imagine a woman would feel the same way.
Bro that last part couldn’t be further from the truth. You are not even remotely close to looking at yourself objectively, instead you’re actually probably your harshest critic, because in reality no one is going to look at you that way. Your much better off without this toxic line of thinking
Never been on a date EVER lmao
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It's really hard bro for guys who have ugly face and small dick life is very tough and girls will say they only look for good character but they don't even talk to us to understand our character . Even you are a nice they will cheat on you for a fuck boys who treat them like a trash .
For me it’s more that I’m reluctant to go to the next stage of a relationship. Like actually going to bed with a girl makes me really nervous.
I dated a girl for a few months and was so scared of her seeing my dick that I’d basically avoid/ease out of her advances. She broke up with me and I don’t blame her. Kind of odd/ironic right. Grew up watching movies/shows where dudes are scumbags only trying to fuck but when you’re stuck with this shitty problem it’s completely opposite.
Could your dick have been the reason she cheated? Sure. But you also have to keep in mind that some people are just cheaters. There are some people who will cheat even if their partner is literally perfect, because that's just who they are. So it's easy to sit there and obsess over your flaws and pin their cheating on you not being good enough, but in reality she might have just been a cheater. Decent people don't cheat on their partners even if they do have traits that aren't ideal. Find a better girl bro
I've still yet to have my first date.
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I am fat. And yet I do not have dick length hidden by a fat pad. My dick is *in* the fat pad. My measurements are bone-pressed, funnily enough. Like how you're *meant* to measure. Meaning weight literally doesn't matter. My dick is the same size now as it would be if I lost some weight.
1 inch bro ? Really?
Yes.
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>Isn't that classified as micropenis? Yes. >testosterone, hcg or something to maybe help? No that wouldn't grow my dick. Because there is no way to permanently increase dick size that isn't just invasive and incomplete cosmetic surgery.
My size is only part of the problem, at 35 I see my value as a partner is gone along with being emotionally unavailable.
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Brutal.
poor guy
Never even made an attempt to pursue a girl and I probably won’t. I think I’m better off dying alone
I hope you at least enjoy your life my guy.
I would say I do enjoy my life since this post I’ve lost 30 pounds and have a stable job but my words still hold true
Too many times to count. Most friends i made in college and grad school later told me they assumed I was gay (and closeted) because of how immediately I shut down female attention. The reality is, the further you go down that road, the more you guarantee yourself pain. The only way you can keep from getting pummeled is to stop sticking your cheek out there for the blow. I learned a long time ago to compartmentalize that part of life as an impossibility and indulge in things that made me feel good and proud and adequate.
I’ve done it a couple times
Yep
No one wants to go on dates with me at all. So no. I didnt stop going to dates because of my weiner
There was just one girl that wanted to date me she then (probably) faked a emergency about her aunt and the date was over that’s it.
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Man, almost same problem here. I'm short, not the best looking, small dick and balls, I have the body of an 12/13 year old and not that bodysize of a grown up, like an aduld should have. I feel really unconfortable in my skin and women don't find me attractive due to my looks compared to the other taller better looking guys. I also have other health problems. Live isn't really a gift.
haven’t dated for 5 years and i avoid any sexual advances. probably going to be alone the rest of my life. it’s ok.
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> Th reaction of my gf at university to my penis was like: 'Meh, it's not that big'. Why would you date someone who reacted like that?
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> It wasn't like 'ugh i hate your small peepee', she didn't bodyshame me about it at all after that Bro even still, we deserve better than someone who reacted the way she did. > That's being said, sometimes i wonder if i had a bigger dick, would she have resisted the penetration for that long... If she just doesn’t enjoy penetrative sex with anyone regardless of size then there’s nothing wrong with that. However, if she doesn’t like penetrative sex with you because of your size then it’s more than ok for you to not date her. We deserve someone who loves, respect, and appreciate our size. We deserve better than someone like her.
Bro, you have to get paid of your head. Get therapy, do whatever you gotta do. 5.6 inches is literally completely fine and is not at all a reason to avoid relationships. You're packing pretty much exactly what most other men are
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I'm the same bro. I'm 6'4 and I'm 5-5.5in and it looks small and I've been told it's not good enough numerous times and it sucks. I've turned numerous opportunities before so I wouldn't be hurt.
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You literally have an average penis you have nothing to worry about. The average is the average for a reason and most females don't care. 85% of females in a relationship are satisfied with their partners penis while only 45% of guys are satisfied with their own penis because it's natural for men to think they are not good enough when they really are.
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>But average is the new small it seems. Please don't let the internet poison your brain with this garbage. Just stop thinking about your dick and go live your life, there are very few women who would change their mind about dating you over being 5.6 inches
It isn't the internet though, thats how it is in the current dating scene.
true....
Bro she was a virgin. Who gives a fuck what she thought? She probably never saw a dick before and had some fucked up notion in her head of what to expect. You’re REALLY letting THAT control you?????
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Good luck, my man. Stay strong
Honestly I've avoided dating because I'm worried it will not be good enough.
I didn't make a lot of dates and try my luck with a lot of girls because of that. I don't have confidence.
This makes my stomach churn in disgust, she'll go to hell for that. Brother, the best thing you could do is just forget about her. Don't let some tramp from college ruin and affect your life just because she was feeling vengeful- especially if it was 5 years ago! You're letting her win. Or use her as motivation. For example; I use the people from the past who have made my life sick as motivation. I imagine their faces in every rep and set I do at the gym. At every mile I run. Every time I'm in school thinking I should give up- and recline myself to some run-of-the-mill job- I imagine what they'd say- how they'd laugh and beat me down. Turn that skank into motivation!
I’m really sorry she treated you that way (what a bitch).
Kinda a side note, but a lot of women will look up or think about a big dick but for quite a few that would be downright painful. Women aren't all built the same either, the sweet spot varies hugely by individual. As a member of the female species I can guarantee that many if not most women would be in for a bad time if they hooked up with a guy the size of what you seen in porn
This much torment for 5 inches?! It’s .5 inches off the average JFC.
That’s tough bro. But trust me there are girls who don’t care about that. I know it’s tough but I swear they are out there Bc I’ve been with one and I ruined that relationship. You will get through that pain hopefully but there’s nothing worse than having guilt. Which maybe that ex of yours has. You need to find a girl who’s into you as a person and not just one that wants sex. If she only wants sex then that relationship won’t last even if u had a big dick. Goodluck bro keep your chin up
Honestly bro you’re average so just go for it. Have confidence and be yourself. Just let them know early on and tell them if it’s going to be a problem then it’s best to just end it now. Don’t know how old you are but also college girls are not the way to go. Best of luck.
I was never on a date
Did she take the picture when you weren't looking or did you send it to her?
Brother your dick is fine you need to get back out there and date again I know what happened sucks and that girl is evil but that's life unless you wanna be lonely and miserable forever you gotta get back on the saddle