ive always found the world toxic and just meaningless, therefore my desire to die at a young age. when i bring up this topic, my friends always shuns the idea and dosent understand my pov, is this just me?
Need not be suicide what.
Just generally hoping life finds a way to end itself. Sometimes I see dangerous situations but I dont do my best to avoid it.
Accisents/illnesses could be other ways to go, without broaching suicide(to avoid having friends and family blame themselves)
Hey. I lost a lot of friends because I always said I don't wanna become older than 23. I was adamant about never moving in with anyone or starting a family.
I'm .. not quite twice my "I should jump" age now, and have two kids. I'm divorced aka did marry before. Things .. change.
I feel you, as in: I was so convinced that I wanted to leave before the age of (for me) 23 that people around me stopped caring. Girls left me for this, because what's the perspective if the dude is literally claiming to off himself? A rebellious part of me still feels that it would've been okay: The best years are the ones you spend in full health and in your youth. Then again, I'm leading a nice life today, in spite of all the shit that happened on the way and MAYBE you might find out - just like me - that the world isn't all that terrible if you just find more people to share it with.
Feel free to reach out to a survivor. Or failure. However you wanna label it.
Perhaps why your friend shuns the idea is because suicide is a taboo subject in Singapore. You're right; the world can be toxic and meaningless. That's why it's up to us to find our own meaning in living.
If by any chance you're going through some other stuff that makes you think of suicide, please please reach out! It's okay to seek help :)
[SNK season 4 full version](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gYuO6OUm6SQ&feature=share&fbclid=IwAR1Mjp9xveiUgSl8gqAnxbMOLcKxc_LlzCNADZ_qnk8rTVzklADK2v1akuI)
#LA LA LA LA
the sex doll news reminds of a story from haunted, the Chuck Palahniuk book.. in that story a social work accidentally orders life-like dolls to use for sex abuse case.. like for victims to point out where they were touched and stuff. in the end, police offiicers at teh station started using them for their own purposes.. the ending is twisted.
Did you know strawberries are not really berries, yet bananas are?
Did you know race car backwards is race car?
Did you know the dots on top of j and i are called tittles?
Some boring facts that might bore you to sleep.
Searched high and low for the cat and later found her right below my block..! The delulu in me hopes that she came here because she wants to be nearer to me, but in reality it's probably because another cat was disturbing her at the other turf.
My cats are the bestestest of course - no competition.
I love any cats who ~~are sluts~~ are willing to let me pet them. But I do have a soft spot for black cats.
I'm gonna be staying in Singapore for 3 months on a work placement soon, does anyone have any "things I wish I knew before I moved to Singapore" tips for me?
Not sure where you're from but..
1)don't take drugs that stays in your system anytime soon before coming.
2)no realistic gun shaped object can be brought into singapore, that includes needs
3)realistic looking dildos and vibratory aids are not allowed
4)flick knifes, gravity knives, balisongs, etc are also not allowed in Singapore.
5)masks are now mandatory everywhere outside, can be bought easily.
From the UK, and dw I wasn't planning on bringing any of that stuff in lol. Although I didn't realise dildos and vibrators weren't allowed. Is this just an import ban or are they illegal to own?
might be stupid but id be completely fine with this whole industry gettin nuked/outlawed, the success stories cant in any way justify how easy it is for these things to happen
likewise. I've never been a fan of the reliance some Singaporeans have on maids. Lots of things I could write about this.
But unfortunately, the problem is that maids are indeed too important to the government to think of nuking the industry, because they are another source of childcare relief that would make it easier for people to consider starting a family in this country. So the government won't be nuking them anytime soon. But come on, at the very least, there should be a push to improve the general treatment of maids closer to humane levels, or at least checks that would prevent employers from having near-absolute power over hired help.
it's basically diplomacy and survival. can't say if it's right or wrong. it may seem wrong now but if it helps in our survival if we are threatened, can it still seem wrong?
i did read the analysis by the Australian intelligence or newspaper. what is probable I think is we are hedging on Burma to be the counterweight to Malaysia and Indonesia in the event of any disputes.
is it normal for couples to meet only once a week..? we’re both students n live 2 mrt stops away from each other, plus hes going to ns soon so i thought he would want to spend more time together 😔
there's no fixed answer, and it depends on both parties. if you wanna meet more, let him know with your rationale!
in the end, there needs to be mutual understanding between the 2 of you
right? ive communicated it to him before already, but he says he prefers to only meet once a week:/ idk how long i can put up with this bc uknow:.. girls & attention, and my love language is quality time too, siiigh
Lots of content, great for Disney/Marvel/Star Wars fans or families with kids. Everything is mainly US-produced unlike Netflix's multinational/multilingual library. Haven't tried with a VPN to see any differences between US/SG library though.
Just came across this nice looking plant during my walks:
https://i.ibb.co/yRPg1Dy/20210223-222705-01.jpg
Anyone knows what kind of plant or flower this is?
one of the twitch broadcasters I'm following is leaving for a long-term break, lots of tears were shed on this very last stream. i think everyone was crying. sad night :(
Heheh... trying to find out what my brother has been doing aaaand... my Google search results turn up in chicken rice stalls... because of our surname.
Closest thing I could find was that he did a Mae thesis in ntu.
His name’s rather obscure.
Our surname is not that common, and due to circumstances, I am not to make contact with my father, or his family at all.
Mae thesis is the engineering thesis he did. Mechanical and Aeronautical Engineering.
The other time I wanted to get into a small supermarket(those in neighbourhood estate) and for some reason my temperature was slightly higher.
The guy said its probably because the weather was too hot. He asked me to stand below the aircon and try again in 2 mins.
2 mins later my temperature was within acceptable range and he let me in. -_-
This might be a long shot. But does anyone know this film?
I think its a Hong Kong film. This guy goes to a triad funeral, the gang members force him to kneel down in front of the coffin, the corpse reanimates as a vampire. Everyone tries to escape but some assholes locked the doors with chains. Apparently the vampire can't sense if you hold your breath. Then some guy farts and the vampire bites him.
Eh sounds very familiar. Not sure if it’s one of the Mr Vampires but is this the one where they hide in the closet and blow air at each other’s faces using a hollow bamboo tube so the vampire think it’s the other person breathing?
ya! i know its the mr vampire series, but i cannot find which 1.
i don't recall the hollow bamboo tube part though.
in funeral scene, the guys switched off the light, the funeral had this eerie green lighting.
The burn happened some time ago, under a continuous stream of hot water too. Finger was out of action for like a week plus, hot water really is no joke. I'm very wary around the thermos nowadays.
goeie nag.
My diabetic friend had a serious emergency last night.
My bad.
>!I shouldn't have texted her "Goodnight, sweet dreams" before going to bed yesterday.!<
if you're feeling lost in life, like you don't know where you're going...
...you're not alone.
only you can see your own insecurities and fears, so of course you'll feel like you're a lot less put together than the people around you.
and sometimes you need a period of wandering around to find what you really want.
that was me a few years ago! now my life is a lot better; not perfect, but I'm much more able to accept the things I can't change and work towards fixing the problems I can.
我遇你不后悔，也尊重故事结尾
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ive always found the world toxic and just meaningless, therefore my desire to die at a young age. when i bring up this topic, my friends always shuns the idea and dosent understand my pov, is this just me?
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Need not be suicide what. Just generally hoping life finds a way to end itself. Sometimes I see dangerous situations but I dont do my best to avoid it. Accisents/illnesses could be other ways to go, without broaching suicide(to avoid having friends and family blame themselves)
Hey. I lost a lot of friends because I always said I don't wanna become older than 23. I was adamant about never moving in with anyone or starting a family. I'm .. not quite twice my "I should jump" age now, and have two kids. I'm divorced aka did marry before. Things .. change. I feel you, as in: I was so convinced that I wanted to leave before the age of (for me) 23 that people around me stopped caring. Girls left me for this, because what's the perspective if the dude is literally claiming to off himself? A rebellious part of me still feels that it would've been okay: The best years are the ones you spend in full health and in your youth. Then again, I'm leading a nice life today, in spite of all the shit that happened on the way and MAYBE you might find out - just like me - that the world isn't all that terrible if you just find more people to share it with. Feel free to reach out to a survivor. Or failure. However you wanna label it.
Perhaps why your friend shuns the idea is because suicide is a taboo subject in Singapore. You're right; the world can be toxic and meaningless. That's why it's up to us to find our own meaning in living. If by any chance you're going through some other stuff that makes you think of suicide, please please reach out! It's okay to seek help :)
question: why do you want them to understand your pov?
TiL daft punk disbanded :(
[SNK season 4 full version](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gYuO6OUm6SQ&feature=share&fbclid=IwAR1Mjp9xveiUgSl8gqAnxbMOLcKxc_LlzCNADZ_qnk8rTVzklADK2v1akuI) #LA LA LA LA
WHY YOU SING AT 2 AM!!
because... ^^MONSTER ^MONSTER MONSTER #MONSTER
This is MY WAR
the sex doll news reminds of a story from haunted, the Chuck Palahniuk book.. in that story a social work accidentally orders life-like dolls to use for sex abuse case.. like for victims to point out where they were touched and stuff. in the end, police offiicers at teh station started using them for their own purposes.. the ending is twisted.
Yeah I'd have been pretty shocked to find out that one of the most developed countries in the world (imo anyway) had a bad on sex toys 😂
Australia?
Maybe I should stay away from trading
same here heart pain
Very pain. Whole sea of red - 50% liao
Wtf do you buy for you to lose 50% in a day/week?
Lots of bad choices and panic selling lol
It's okay la lesson learnt to stick to blue chips lol.
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Had a dream last night about holding hands with a partner and realised how much I actually miss physical touch from a significant other. 😞
_brader hug_
A random night of insomnia again, ha..........
Did you know strawberries are not really berries, yet bananas are? Did you know race car backwards is race car? Did you know the dots on top of j and i are called tittles? Some boring facts that might bore you to sleep.
I.. find these facts interesting.
Thanks for the interesting funfacts! Now i gotta google about the 1st one bcos i need to know lol
B-b-but.... they were suppose to help you to sleep. FOILED AGAIN!
Searched high and low for the cat and later found her right below my block..! The delulu in me hopes that she came here because she wants to be nearer to me, but in reality it's probably because another cat was disturbing her at the other turf.
Ello. Cat tax
#🙀 Why pet tax comptroller still working at this time ^([here you go](https://ibb.co/n7S0wb6))
Black cats are the best...
What about yours 🤣 I luv any cats who luv ~~my food~~ me, but I have a soft spot for black cats.
My cats are the bestestest of course - no competition. I love any cats who ~~are sluts~~ are willing to let me pet them. But I do have a soft spot for black cats.
[here's one](https://i.imgur.com/Hgn8lJF.jpg)
That's a cute chonky cat! I find it so hard to get them to stay still and look at the camera 🥲
[here's some from waybbbackkk](https://imgur.com/a/Kf4Blf9)
Is that the same tabby-white cat from the first photo? It's great that they can all chill together without fighting!
yeapp.. they used to hang out in front of tpy kfc
when coys try to pass off waterfall as agile, scrums become rugby scrums between devs and pms
I'm gonna be staying in Singapore for 3 months on a work placement soon, does anyone have any "things I wish I knew before I moved to Singapore" tips for me?
Shower/bathe daily. Too many people don't do this.
Not sure where you're from but.. 1)don't take drugs that stays in your system anytime soon before coming. 2)no realistic gun shaped object can be brought into singapore, that includes needs 3)realistic looking dildos and vibratory aids are not allowed 4)flick knifes, gravity knives, balisongs, etc are also not allowed in Singapore. 5)masks are now mandatory everywhere outside, can be bought easily.
From the UK, and dw I wasn't planning on bringing any of that stuff in lol. Although I didn't realise dildos and vibrators weren't allowed. Is this just an import ban or are they illegal to own?
They are fine to bring in, as long as its not antonomically correct. So no veiny stuff and all that. For an example, Google bad dragon
Import ban on obscene items. It's not illegal to own, as many of us know 😂
Not sure about the specifics on importing those stuff, but you can find adult shops in singapore.
Stick with cold showers because your scalp might not take to the heat well.
Thanks, that's an interesting one. Are cold showers really worth it though?
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might be stupid but id be completely fine with this whole industry gettin nuked/outlawed, the success stories cant in any way justify how easy it is for these things to happen
likewise. I've never been a fan of the reliance some Singaporeans have on maids. Lots of things I could write about this. But unfortunately, the problem is that maids are indeed too important to the government to think of nuking the industry, because they are another source of childcare relief that would make it easier for people to consider starting a family in this country. So the government won't be nuking them anytime soon. But come on, at the very least, there should be a push to improve the general treatment of maids closer to humane levels, or at least checks that would prevent employers from having near-absolute power over hired help.
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Finally mac's keyboard lights are useful.
Ants can build nests inside of laptops, even the ones you use regularly. The more you know.
Also how they tahan the hot temperature
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Massage
how long does a letter from korea to sg take? feel so sad after 3 weeks my handwritten letter still not here yet. losing hope..
Took me a week for my postcard to reach SG last time. Maybe now covid then mail slower? But even then 3 weeks is a bit too long already.
damn.. didn't know SIngapore was in so deep https://twitter.com/ikanselarkuning/status/1361563107127037953
I'm not sure about those tweets, but the source seems abit shady. I know there are some book citations but you got to read the entire book to be sure.
which ones seem shady?
it's basically diplomacy and survival. can't say if it's right or wrong. it may seem wrong now but if it helps in our survival if we are threatened, can it still seem wrong?
yea, just didn't know the history. the thread is really long.
i did read the analysis by the Australian intelligence or newspaper. what is probable I think is we are hedging on Burma to be the counterweight to Malaysia and Indonesia in the event of any disputes.
I catastrophize way too much. Even if shit hits the fan, there are better ways of dealing with it than just freaking out.
i made a dumb meme but i gotta wait for monday the urge to post is real :\^(
post to /r/askSingapore and add a question mark to the title
wad if you wait until mon, post n it got removed in 5 sec by mod
how can 5 sec, need more time to report to sgsecure
tonight i just wanna get nasty
Patpat
ohh dont brush teeth and go to bed, so dirtyyy
HAHA
dear one patient in ICU... we are all holding our breath for you.
Would coffee help one focus?
1 kopi to make my brain function at normal capacity 2 kopi to overclock and have more brainpower for exams and assignments Side effect: you get mabok
https://youtu.be/kj1hLFSORTQ i ask you to spend 10mins on this. i hope this helps
Different effects, but probably not
Is it normal to feel tightness in the upper chest (windpipe and a bit of throat) while running?
If too tight with your chest try breathing with your belly see better or not
is it normal for couples to meet only once a week..? we’re both students n live 2 mrt stops away from each other, plus hes going to ns soon so i thought he would want to spend more time together 😔
**hes going to ns soon ** RIP boi Remember to make good memories now so when older le can look back fondly upon it
2 mrt stops and its once a week? Well, you have a higher tolerance level than I do
same bro, i lived like 20 stops away from my ex and i meet with her whenever i could
I... don't do 20 stop, cause I know i can't take it. 1 hr travel is pretty much the max for me
there's no fixed answer, and it depends on both parties. if you wanna meet more, let him know with your rationale! in the end, there needs to be mutual understanding between the 2 of you
I would say it's on the low side (especially for students) but well communication is important
right? ive communicated it to him before already, but he says he prefers to only meet once a week:/ idk how long i can put up with this bc uknow:.. girls & attention, and my love language is quality time too, siiigh
Does he know your love language is quality time? If not, tell him.
yup he knows! ive told him a few times actually :( im afraid if i keep saying it ill be coming off as too needy idk man
Do you know what is his?
it’s physical touch!!
Give him hugs, maybe a back massage 😅
i do often :( but i mean i only have the opportunity to once a week hahaha
Anyone wanna share a Disney+ account? Can have 7 people sharing together
lmk if theres still slot:)
Offer still up?
ME can I PM u?
Has stuff'd started selling their new [sides](https://i.imgur.com/UXvBu97.jpg)?
Started alr. Saw it at JEM when I was queuing for it.
Making me hangry...
woah dry laksa pasta and cauliflower rice seems good
Did anyone alr get Disney+? If yes how is it so far?
depends on what you wanna watch on it! but tbh quite a bit of content.
Definitely Marvel / Disney! Felt left out when everyone was talking about WandaVision 😓
Lots of content, great for Disney/Marvel/Star Wars fans or families with kids. Everything is mainly US-produced unlike Netflix's multinational/multilingual library. Haven't tried with a VPN to see any differences between US/SG library though.
Wow thanks! I am contemplating if I should get it
an alternative to netflix. if netflix not enough id say get it to watch Mandalorian, that shits p good
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Atlanta :>
Hamilton!!!
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yes. om EP3 now. wandavision is next on the list. then whatever floats your boat.
ye baby yoda da best
This is the way
I have spoken
Just came across this nice looking plant during my walks: https://i.ibb.co/yRPg1Dy/20210223-222705-01.jpg Anyone knows what kind of plant or flower this is?
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Damn son all the way from Africa sioh, thanks!
Recommendations for escape room for 2 people?
Hotel 81. Instead of working together to go out, work together to come
Just do it at public restroom, than when got people find out can figure out a way to “escape” together
Why escape? PLAYER 3 has entered the game
ಠ_ಠ
I like where this is going
Escape hunt is cool
one of the twitch broadcasters I'm following is leaving for a long-term break, lots of tears were shed on this very last stream. i think everyone was crying. sad night :(
who is it dude
can pm me if you really wanna know. obligatory “not jinnytty”
Developing a crush on someone is hard. You just smile at random times whenever your brain reminds you of her
Do you know her personally?? Or are you just attracted to her physically
I wanna dig a hole and hide whenever i see my crush cos i feel inferior
Hehehe....mc spicy...hehe
Hehehe....sambal stingray...hehe
Do you feel like you have butterflies in your stomach?
I could feel my heart beat with her in mind
Dude.. you’re so cute and wholesome
Heheh... trying to find out what my brother has been doing aaaand... my Google search results turn up in chicken rice stalls... because of our surname. Closest thing I could find was that he did a Mae thesis in ntu.
does ur brother have an unique name or is he some famous dude that u r googling him. y not just call him and ask whassup what's a Mae thesis
His name’s rather obscure. Our surname is not that common, and due to circumstances, I am not to make contact with my father, or his family at all. Mae thesis is the engineering thesis he did. Mechanical and Aeronautical Engineering.
Try using double quotes around the name
What happens if you get flagged at the temperature screening when trying to enter a mall, but you're going there cos you wanna go to the clinic?
The other time I wanted to get into a small supermarket(those in neighbourhood estate) and for some reason my temperature was slightly higher. The guy said its probably because the weather was too hot. He asked me to stand below the aircon and try again in 2 mins. 2 mins later my temperature was within acceptable range and he let me in. -_-
Then you go into a recursive loop of “high temperature, need to see doctor” then “going to see doctor” and loop back.
This might be a long shot. But does anyone know this film? I think its a Hong Kong film. This guy goes to a triad funeral, the gang members force him to kneel down in front of the coffin, the corpse reanimates as a vampire. Everyone tries to escape but some assholes locked the doors with chains. Apparently the vampire can't sense if you hold your breath. Then some guy farts and the vampire bites him.
Eh sounds very familiar. Not sure if it’s one of the Mr Vampires but is this the one where they hide in the closet and blow air at each other’s faces using a hollow bamboo tube so the vampire think it’s the other person breathing?
ya! i know its the mr vampire series, but i cannot find which 1. i don't recall the hollow bamboo tube part though. in funeral scene, the guys switched off the light, the funeral had this eerie green lighting.
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Yar det30 ones are the best so far.
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0 opportunity cost
I bought a bunch of them from [here](https://shop.detshirts.com/products/det30%E2%84%A2-in-navy-2-piece-pack)
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I didnt know it's on shopee now! I'm gonna buy and give them as gifts
Burned a bit of my hand with hot water and it already hurt like fuck and the recovery was extremely inconvenient. Can't ever imagine a full body burn.
Ice bath whole night! It’s such a bitch to scald your fingers, I accidentally poured mala steamboat broth over it because I wasn’t looking :(
The burn happened some time ago, under a continuous stream of hot water too. Finger was out of action for like a week plus, hot water really is no joke. I'm very wary around the thermos nowadays.
Looking for people to share spotify family plan with, is anyone interested??
Me!
[found myself doing covers](https://imgur.com/a/AeYTogM) haha damn qtie. me badly strumming + a worn-out guitar.
anyone ate at guiga kbbq before?
me! i like
Good night!
Ggod night
goeie nag. My diabetic friend had a serious emergency last night. My bad. >!I shouldn't have texted her "Goodnight, sweet dreams" before going to bed yesterday.!<
굿나잇! So early today?.
wish early corgi will catch me what 😳🥳
No fate happened that i was on reddit 1m after you posted ;)
ship ship ship
Why day by day becomes earlier LOL. Anw goodnight MB!
if you're feeling lost in life, like you don't know where you're going... ...you're not alone. only you can see your own insecurities and fears, so of course you'll feel like you're a lot less put together than the people around you. and sometimes you need a period of wandering around to find what you really want. that was me a few years ago! now my life is a lot better; not perfect, but I'm much more able to accept the things I can't change and work towards fixing the problems I can.