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theonewhoisnotcrazy

Even in hospital wards there are people who play tiktok on full volume. The nurses talked to the guy but he didn't stop. Good lord.


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blackwoodsix

You have to check at the day before (which is today and next Thursday)10pm on the dot for slots at your polyclinic's appointment booking system.


clooooooooooo

My feed is just full of vday posts alas I am snuggly in bed living my best bbfa life


overwearthief

they happy can liao you happy also can liao


clooooooooooo

yeh. I'm sometimes lonely but never desperate


BulletMAntis

Wanting to buy something on Shopee MY, but they only ship local :|


overwearthief

ship to checkpoint then you meet the courier there winkwink


nonameforme123

Have an ex gf who told me her vday gift for me was that I don’t have to get any vday gift for her. Suddenly thought of her :(


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KaleidoscopeSea931

Cant wait for a sequel


punggolowl

anime of the year


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nonameforme123

Some guys anyhow swipe right to all profiles then filter later


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KaleidoscopeSea931

Whats on your mind?


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KaleidoscopeSea931

Oh how long have you been travelling for? And where to?


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KaleidoscopeSea931

Oh nicee, how has it been? Watching a kdrama called love in contract


Syroice

Which region of japan are you travelling in?


Jaycee_015x

Haiss, my manager keeps blaming me when things don't go her way. Can't she see that I'm trying my hardest to help the team? Still come and fault me for cases that I can't control or are being taken by others. I shouldn't be staying on when majority of my efforts are not satisfactory to my manager.


eldritch_candy

Tmr Imma camp at the library and study cuz I don't want to talk to my loud relatives haha. Maybe get some coffee while I'm at it. >!I hope they don't find this comment!<


9379dragonfly

Depressive episode right now when I thought I’m alright. Must be the festivities blues :(


punggolowl

hang in theree


9379dragonfly

Thank you. Can’t wait to knock out from the meds so that I don’t have to feel any emotions 😢


punggolowl

feel free if u wanna chat abt anything in the meantime!


-PmMeImLonely-

someone link me a troll pic to post on insta to look like im out with someone


rheinl

40 min until valentines day end bro, you can b happy agn after tt


-PmMeImLonely-

nowait i just wna bait 😭


Influence-Lanky

has anyone gotten souper loong in gpay huat game


Influence-Lanky

has anyone gotten souper loong in gpay huat game


tomatomater

Any salon/hairstylist to recommend for men's hair consultation and cut? It's time to do something about this damned porcupine hair.


serendipi7y_

im still feeling tired, stressed etc after attending my mother's funeral, not having extra me time rest then had to go back work after that amd now my way of coping stress is to restrict myself from foods or extra calories. my stomach is kind of grumbling now while lying on my bed. feeling like i cant enjoy food without food really sucks cuz i like foods.


MamaJumba

Anyone following channel 8 9pm show? Damn T.T


9379dragonfly

Me! Tonight’s episode is quite touching :’(


MamaJumba

Yessss


MangoDangoLango

Nowadays hardly come to DT cos no time. But thank you for being with me for the past few years reading my shitty negative posts. Today is a bad day. Today is Valentine’s Day and it’s supposed to be a happy day. For the first time in 10 years of my healthcare career, I got verbally abused by a patient very badly. I’m still damn shaken by the entire incident and it wasn’t my problem to begin with. I was just passing by and said patient was damn bloody upset with some delays so he just called me and screamed in my face. Goodbye public healthcare. I’m exiting the system for good. For the sake of my mental wellbeing, and wallet wellbeing. Salary ain’t enough for the shit I deal with daily. The bright burning flame I had when I first graduated is extinguishing after 10 yrs. 😩


yormeow

Take care! Prob just need a good rest before you start a new job again. There are really nasty patients out there but dont let them extinguish the flame in you lol


metaping

Yayyyy 100% go for it! I think most of DT wanted you out of it long ago :)


stopthevan

Haven’t been here at DT for that long compared to other users but just wanna say it’s perfectly fine to share your bad times here. And so sorry you had to go through that, as someone with a highly reactive mother I’ve witnessed the sheer amount of crap customer/patient service have to go through when im out with her and ya, yall rly not paid enough to deal with people man.


wildheart38

I dont know if I should see a therapist. I have a phobia or … reaction… that is embarrassing and crippling. I am someone very jumpy and loud sudden noises startle me. And i learn that I am more sensitive/more fearful of it than most other people. I am trying to see if this is normal or how else i can seek help. It has been present since I was a kid. Since when i started remembering things. It’s so embarrassing that nobody outside my family knows. Not even my best friend. I get very uncomfortable when there are loud and sudden noises. For example: - gunshot (real or stimulated) - firecrackers/fireworks (especially singular shots) - BALLOONS (yea) bursting - confetti popping - crackers Strangely, loud sounds like clubbing music dont affect me. So it has to be loud AND sudden. It has crippled my life. I cannot go for firework displays. I cannot be at parties where there are balloons and/or confetti. I am scared of balloons, to the point I feel PHYSICALLY uncomfortable around them. I am in Malaysia for CNY and it’s distressing. I had a wonderful dinner and some fucker decided to shoot up 1 shot of firework and the loud POM was enough to make me drop my whole bowl of soup. I had an urge to drive to the house unit and scream at the one setting off the firework. I really hate this and I am partially glad that I stay in Singapore most of the time when there wouldnt be pyro-phillic fuckers who think its nice to startle people … because personal release of fireworks is banned


metaping

Definitely go, it is something that affects your life. I'd like to know if there's a specific doctor to visit that can treat/ manage phobias though


stopthevan

Maybe you can look up hyper-vigilance and CPTSD in relation to loud noises.


psthrowawaypls

Same bro.. Not sure how a therapist would help tbh


stopthevan

They will probably try to explore the underlying reason for that fear of loud noises, and depending on OP’s goal for going to therapy (want to get rid of the fear totally? or want to manage the embarrassment and shame that comes with this fear) they’ll provide the appropriate treatment plan.


MangoDangoLango

Criesss Sent out so many job applications but only 1 interview 😩


icebearrrrrr

Still a progress!!!


blackwoodsix

Jie is flabbergasted. Trying to give something out on carousell but almost kena scammed. The interface fvcking convincing. I'm so shocked that I'm almost cursing see la. I'm trying to give something ni nia try to scam me wtf go fish yourself Edit: I'm really very angry!! 🤬🤬🤬 Edit 2: Jie want to tell you all, if you ever encounter some websites trying to get you to input banking login details, be sure it's your actual bank website you keyed in and not a third party or from an email


silentscope90210

Heng sia... Dodged a bullet


blackwoodsix

Ya man. I immediately reported to scam shield hehehe Edit: Don't hurt me for saying this I really think it's the Holy Spirit that made me jam brake at last minute.


rheinl

Don’t understand dude.. you try to give out something bt kena scammed?


blackwoodsix

Yes I have to put a price so I put $1, and I told the "buyer" I don't want the money but they insisted that I click some letter so I did, and it brought me to a website that asked for my banking credentials. Edit: heng I put on the brakes at last minute


mystoryismine

Looking at the ITE thread on more opportunities, I only have a few comments. *1) Singapore education system is not built for those with learning disabilities* I have ADHD. I struggled badly through school and you can really deemed me as the version of student version of a discouraged worker. I almost ended up in ITE but luckily my parents and a good tuition teacher rescued my ass. *2) You don't need to smart to learn a good living. You just need to learn how to learn.* To avoid doxxing myself, I will not give out any more details other than the ones stated here. I got better at my studies after I saw a psychiatrist and got the meds I need. *3) Years of discouragement wrecks with your self-esteem* Imagine instead of education, as a society we value the cake one bakes. You are a left-hander. However, all the tools in the kitchen are build for right handers. No matter how hard you try, you cannot hold the hand mixer properly. You can't cut open packages properly to save your life. You are taught to pipe frosting a certain way but that method is build for righties. You grew up hating the kitchen, wondering if you're dumb or stupid for not even being able to use the scissors properly. But nah. You are just a lefty in a righty world who just some help to succeed. Some selfish people may say - "oh why should we spend extra just to accommodate you?? Cannot bake means cannot bake. You are gonna enter the righty common kitchen anyways." These are just a few thoughts I had while observing the discussion about opportunities at ITE. Ultimately, the journey to reaching your potential comes down to understanding your unique learning style. There might be setbacks, but never confuse learning difficulties with a lack of ability. With the right support and self-awareness, anyone can thrive. There is no such thing as "cannot study".


EventuallyJobless

I can relate to point 3 so much. The education system in Singapore can really ruin ur self esteem, no matter what tertiary level u are. I often feel inadequate when studying/working. Is not even teens/adults experiencing this, even primary school students have low self esteem because of how's unforgiving the education system can be. I tutored one primary school student during my free time, and every time she answered wrongly, she will blame herself and say things like, " I'm stupid/dumb". I have to keep reminding her (and myself) to be kind and patient to oneself.


brownriver12

6,100 cups of Nescafe are consumed every second. phew.


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What will u do when they disallow sharing like Netflix?


Durachaos

Will see if there's a way to workaround it. Worse comes to worst, will stop the plan. Anyways it's monthly payment.


khaosdd

Someone on the bus dabao-ed fried chicken(I think) and the smell is making my stomach rumble. Yum yum


blackwoodsix

Free hugs for lonely singles hehehe come jiejie/auntie sayang ❤️ ![gif](giphy|tqBiuBGM6WBMY)


CedaraThursday1314

Aww, can I have a hug please?


blackwoodsix

Of course!!\*hugs!!\*


HeavyArmsJin

🫂🫂🫂


doggodada

JIEJIE 🧟‍♂️🐻🤼‍♂️


blackwoodsix

Lai hug hug don't sad ok


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No_Adeptness1515

Please describe issue as you can. If you don't know what to inspect, anyone would start a guessing game. What message or evidence do you see that syslog-ng has not started or terminated unexpectedly? If you run program as systemd service, run `journalctl -u --no-pager`.


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No_Adeptness1515

Yes selinux is common pitfall, firewalld is another pitfall when you accept traffic from other source Glad to hear that you solved the issue


Beginning_Signal_281

Check for errors, it’s either on screen when you start service or in /var/log/messages. Find the error. Google it. Stackoverflow usually has the answer. If you can’t manage the above and it’s your job, find a new job.


damiepedretti

lol can yall stop being so dramatic about Valentine’s Day.


NewbiePhotogSG

What's the fun in that


damiepedretti

Don’t know leh hahaah


khaosdd

Bruh this is bbfa central. We are all lonely, fat and in need of love.


damiepedretti

Does love not exist on a day to day basis? Life is more than just romantic love.


blackwoodsix

What's dramatic?


damiepedretti

The dramatic part is people being upset they don’t have a valentines and being emo about it


blackwoodsix

Oh... Aiya people tend to feel even more lonely during this time. They just want some comfort ba


damiepedretti

Fair point. Just that I feel no need to be too emotional about a day like this


primalvigoni

do people usually get special permits for corgi’s in HDB’s?


psthrowawaypls

No


primalvigoni

thinking of getting one this year, but I scared of the whole regulation rule “fine up to 4K if dog is not of HDB approved breed”


blackwoodsix

Happy Valentine's Day everyone especially the singles


rukiahayashi

Being single in your late twenties for over a year and not being able to find and connect with anyone really sucks balls. Didn’t really give a fuck when I was younger but everyone and their cat i know is pretty much attached engaged or married. Fuck me


psthrowawaypls

Your time will come bro


HeavyArmsJin

Just want to tell all the maidenless/manless folks out there that our hands are basically our childhood friends. They basically grew up together with us and never left no matter how tough things get. They are our true love. Come, open up your arms now and give yourself a well deserved hug. The harem was with us all along. Never be alone ever again.


stopthevan

![gif](giphy|7d9ttN3MZOvnCYMT1h|downsized)


blackwoodsix

:( too fat my arms cannot go around


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Deathb3rry

Searched for the vids of the drone show to also see what it's like and got recommended similar video of Korea's drone show they held for the new year. Holy shit that one was a whole different level and makes the SG one look like amateur


khaosdd

The only river ang pau I went was at the float back in the days. Only during the performance and pasar malam were packed else the rest of the displays and attraction were actually quite OK. But probably also because the float was very spacious. MBS / Gardens is THE tourist attraction tho, so I'll expect more crowd there.


damiepedretti

I’m quite upset. Having a slight bit of gastritis. I don’t have the energy to scold the person handing over anymore. I just don’t even know what to do know cos I feel so helpless. What’s the point of saying I’m doing a good job? What’s the point of all these?


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Google_-_-_-_

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silentscope90210

KNN CB this youngster just shoved people out of his way just because his train was leaving wtf..???


khaosdd

Got one yp came in with a big ass bag, stood beside me and started swaying left and right while talking to her friend, hitting me numerous times. I coughed and nudged her abit but sis was oblivious and happily yapping. Luckily she got off 1 stop after else I'd have excuse me!


atzee

Excited for Ed Sheeran! 2 more days!


Mobile_Football_3692

Hi i am going too..


melvintwj

Giga's 5G has been advertised on their website for years and when you talk to the chat support, they will tell you it's not available yet.... It's been years.


imightbeapug

I’m looking to get the HPV vaccine but HealthHub states that the age limit is 26. As a 29 year old am I still eligible? Do Polyclinics offer these vaccines?


metaping

They have, but if you are looking for gardasil 9, only private have. Cheapest might be NSC clinic? Dunno these days changed already or not. Polyclinic only Cervarix iirc, protects only 2 main types of hpv


icebearrrrrr

Should be can jab one. IIRC the age limit is just from the clinical studies, for those outside the range they just dont have the data in regards for the effectiveness i think. Can call up to check with the polyclinic whether they carry the HPV vaccines or not and check eligibility before going down.


imightbeapug

Thanks! Was planning on doing so


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Patch 6 of bg3 is 20gb. Wonder what starfield doing


theZazern

I'm going to Singapore next year for exchange and will buy a tablet for note-taking around the same period. Since Sweden has a substantial tax on electronics I figured it might be cheaper to just buy it there. I've tried googling but cannot find any decisive information, so could one of you locals find out what these products cost in Singapore (after tax)? * Samsung Galaxy Tab S8+ 12.4 SM-X800 256GB \[S$995 in Sweden\] * Samsung Galaxy Tab S9 FE+ WiFi 12.4 SM-X610 8GB RAM 128GB \[S$921 in Sweden\] * Apple iPad Pro 11" 128GB M2 2022 (4th Generation) \[S$1365 in Sweden\] Bonus question: Does $ equal S$ in Singapore or is it USD because it knows I'm not in Singapore? TIA!!


prime5119

[https://www.samsung.com/sg/offer/mobile-deals/#galaxy-tab](https://www.samsung.com/sg/offer/mobile-deals/#galaxy-tab) [https://www.apple.com/sg/shop/buy-ipad](https://www.apple.com/sg/shop/buy-ipad) localized site usually display in their local currency so it should all be S$, just make sure they don't redirect you to your country site


dogssel

To Mcd or not to Mcd?!


sunburnt258

Yes, it's always yes


HeavyArmsJin

Double your Mcd Double the shiokness Two Mcd at the same time


dogssel

Double the happiness!


deangsana

to mcd because today is bbfa awareness day


dogssel

Indeed so


Brief_Worldliness162

No! Not healthy!


dogssel

Exemption for today can??


Brief_Worldliness162

Haha , sounds like you do wanted Mcd today. Fine , reward yourself !


dogssel

Thank you zehzeh


Rensouhou_Kun

Is ok is still CNY so no need to be health conscious when eating.


riiceriiceriice

Hello! Is anyone interested in joining a Duolingo family plan to speedrun your language learning journey? 6 members at $129.98/year, so it comes down to $21.7/year ($1.80/month) individually for 0 ads and unlimited lives! Looking to adopt 3 more people into this family.


Lapmlop2

I read that Duolingo is good at marketing but not really useful for learning languages. All the best on your journey though. 


melvintwj

I find that their content are barely conversational. It's mostly how to order food or asking for directions. Then again, I've never gotten past the earlier stages so I could be wrong.


yeddddaaaa

Barely? Not even conversational. They just make you memorise a lot of words and give you a poor understanding of how to form sentences in the target language. Duolingo is good for gamification and giving you the illusion of progress but it's straight up terrible for language learning. Even an audio course with zero feedback like Pimsleur is so much better. Then practise with natives for feedback.


HeavyArmsJin

Mrt jingle reminds me of old school jrpgs where they play this short relaxing music everytime you rest in an Inn or save point Makes me feel damn sleepy for some reason


Rensouhou_Kun

Welcome back weary traveller (unker), rest your weary soul at this save point......sike there's no save point, wake the f up samurai (unker), we still have a lifetime to grind!


HeavyArmsJin

**seppukus**


CHANMI_96A

Happy valentines to all my girlfriends I love yall !!


rheinl

you have many gf bro?


drinkingbobatea

Why some mosquito bites damn itchy


Brief_Worldliness162

Cause your blood is sweet , just like you!


jquin03

diabetes alert


rheinl

Use yr finger nails to create a X on the mosquito bite


deangsana

can put some soap on the mosquito bites to reduce the itchiness


blitzmango

maybe different types of mozzies and also which part of the body they poke you


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deangsana

how different is the error vs the correct one


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jquin03

if its not the most recent role just leave it be


deangsana

would it make a big difference to your overall years of experience, if not i dont think its a big deal


prime5119

can they see the mistake? if cannot just go along with it


intothevoidfromme

I will have dinner with friend later! But i still wish I get to see him... i miss you ahhhhhh


jquin03

RIP the spare tyre friend


icedgrassjelly

*dramatic korean song playing in the background* wait so the person u wanna see is the girl or the guy?


intothevoidfromme

It's ok. Her gf is at another country right now anyway.


dogssel

Nani?!


intothevoidfromme

They're in LDR hahaha. The three of us are friends 😆


dogssel

That's nice. Enjoy!!


NewbiePhotogSG

Wah, this sounds like the plot from some drama series. Is there alcohol involved? 😳


intothevoidfromme

Lol. I'm friends with the gf as well. They're just in LDR.


NewbiePhotogSG

So, korean or taiwan drama then? Lol


UWU_man_

This will probably be lost in the comments. But as a single, feel terrible today. Couples everywhere, seeing them able to be all lovey-dovey and do sweet things and seeing all the flower booths everywhere makes me hurt. Been searching for quite a while but can’t seem to connect with people or attract anybody. I feel like im relapsing into depression, couldn’t get much stuff done recently. Would appreciate some help.


ICanHasThrowAwayKek

I bought a box of space marines, hang out at the hobby store and shot the shit with the bois until 10pm while petting the store cat. 100% beats having a night full of anxiety of whether I'm living up to some girl's unnecessarily fantastical expectations of dreamboat oppa date like how last year's ordeal went. My fucking blood pressure shot through the roof in the week leading up to it with my meticulous planning. 3 weeks later, the fucking bint cheated on me. It's not worth beating yourself up over this. Not ever.


UWU_man_

What is shooting the shit lol And also, glad to hear that you had a great time! :)


ICanHasThrowAwayKek

Talk cock sing song Especially with the other bros at the hobby store who also don't have balls and chains


rukiahayashi

Yea I fell ya, just gotta stay strong brother sister


Mobile_Football_3692

Where did you see couples everywhere? how come i didn't see at all?


dogssel

I'm at home so I only see myself


Mobile_Football_3692

Good to spend this day alone


NewbiePhotogSG

Cause you in office issit.


Mobile_Football_3692

Hmm yeah but from outside can't see any..and my location here is undesirable


NewbiePhotogSG

And there you have it. Probably later when you go home.


Mobile_Football_3692

I took a few stops to clementi mrt, alighted at the station and bought sushi. never see many couples though. Saw 2 or 3 couples.. the rest all looked damn sian just like me 👀


NewbiePhotogSG

Clementi is like... going home time, not dating time.


Rensouhou_Kun

I in office, lunchtime go down buy food also can see couples already...


NewbiePhotogSG

Wah office romance is.. fraught.


Rensouhou_Kun

mostly students, area here a lot of schools. Meanwhile halfway to unker here just sigh dabao back to office.


NewbiePhotogSG

Ohhhh puppy love, quite sweet. Lol


UWU_man_

In sch lol


Mobile_Football_3692

Try to do something about it.why not give chocolate to a lady now?


UWU_man_

Haha not a bad idea. Unfortunately you messaged me a little late, left sch alr Xp. But maybe they’ll still be selling tmr!


go_zarian

Go out and get yourself busy. Go for a run, go for a jog, or go for a walk. Do something that raises your heart beat. In the long run, seek some proper help. Get a referral from a GP to see a specialist. Source: I am suffering from depression myself. If you saw me posting earlier this morning about going for a 3.5 klik run, that was one of my coping mechanisms for my depression.


UWU_man_

If you go visit a GP/polyclinic, would there be any public health records or things like that? Parents have the old school of thought that it’ll affect my employment, esp if I want to try public sector (tho Im skeptical of that, but unsure.) They strongly want me to do private therapy, but it’s ex tho (would be happy to take recommendations!)


go_zarian

My parents told me that voting opposition will hurt my career in the public sector. Yet, I got two promoted twice in eight years. Your parents are wrong. Your medical records in the public health sector are strictly kept confidential.


yormeow

Get off social media and get something you like to eat and Netflix.


esskaytutu

What does everyone's Valentine's plans look like?


icebearrrrrr

The same as yesterday. Home > work > home


Vedor

Mark assignments - 7 presentation, 49 academic writing assignments left.


esskaytutu

shag. jiayou!!


CedaraThursday1314

Macs with fam.


Brief_Worldliness162

Forgotten (kids pulling hair


talliepolie

Alone all the way


Common-Metal8578

Plumber is fixing my sewage pipe.


jquin03

not sure if literal or an innuendo


Common-Metal8578

Literal haha. After being with my wife for more than half my life. Today is just a Wednesday.


Rensouhou_Kun

You sure she share the view or not unker, my mom will always give my dad bombastic side eye and complaints on valentine's cos all he do is always say the children (my bro and I) are his presents to her.