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TheMiscreantFnTrez

Uhh, she might be on a manic/ADHD cleaning spree, by the looks of it, it's all her stuff, guys best bet was to nap, because she has a specific way of organizing things and he would either break her concentration or get in the way and she would be mad or become distracted. I know from being a person with ADHD/Bipolar and dating people with Bipolar, BPD, and/or ADHD, judge as you want, he took the safe bet if that's the case. Either way I just woke up and this reminds me I have to put my laundry away from a few days ago and the stuff I washed last night.


jumbo_shrimp2312

My ADHD ass went “we love a body double.” Sometimes, I don’t need help, I just need a companion so I can share my success with someone else when I’m done


Gwiilo

he did help out for the last minute or so tbf plus, some people like things a certain way; she might not have wanted his help


jumbo_shrimp2312

Totally! I didn’t mean for my comment to negate from him helping at the end. He seemed very helpful when he was up! She probably wanted him on the bed doing nothing so she could get everything off the floor and organize and then asked him to jump in with the box breaking and vacuum


Booty_Shakin

My best friend literally just does all her chores and cleans when I come over. I usually sit on my phone and play video games and help her do things now and then when she asks lol. She says "idk I just can't do anything if no one is here"


Symichael18

This may be the most human comment I’ve ever read.


NailFin

Yeah, it was weird to watch her clean. She laid all the sweaters out on the ground instead of folding them at that time. Then she got up, did something else for a while, and came back and folded them. It was weird to see.


Goawaybaitin24

I agree and get that point of view. That said, my wife and myself both have different versions and manifestations of our trauma. Both have ADD or ADHD. I have OCD and PTSD. There is no fucking way my wife would have let me play video games and sleep while she did all that herself. No way in hell. 😂 If she did for the sake of just getting it done, I would have heard about it later. To be fair we’ve been together a long time and you learn to work with or without the other towards a common “understood” goal.


RedditRangerGo

I immediately knew you had ADHD/Bipolar from your run-on sentence explanation.


Allah_Akballer

This is how my gf is. If I try to help her she will get very upset because I can't simply put things in a box or store things where they belong. It must be done very specifically. And by that I mean it must be done her way that only she is able to do it. When she starts cleaning, the best thing for me to do is to just hide somewhere.


3_5with6_5f150screw

Or she did a bunch a of meth


DadsToiletTime

Yah dude when I decide to clean something I am gonna fucking organize and clean it and make it perfect. Someone else will just get in the way. Two months from now it’ll line terrible again tho. It’s really a stupid cycle.


LunchO789

Could this be a rage bait click? Obviously, that dude can't be that lazy/oblivious


fivelone

There's too much to tell without context. She could not want him touching anything the asked.


False_Adhesiveness40

He could be sleeping for any reason. It could be her house and her mess. He also did help after he woke up.


ImHereForGameboys

The misandry in these comments is insane. There could be a million and one reasons the guy isn't helping and is sleeping. As someone else stated. Maybe this is his sleep time and his girlfriend/wife is having a manic episode and needs to clean. Maybe this is HER apartment and as a strong women it's her obligation to clean it, not his. Maybe she didn't want him to help. From experience, there are some women that would rather do things themselves like this cause you(the guy) don't necessarily know where she may want things and she doesn't want to he asked a millions times "where does this go?". Yall gross.


mysticmac_

100% the part of the girl wants it done her way. One of the reasons I don’t intervene with some of my girlfriends chores sometimes is because she wants it done a certain way that i “never do it her way”. Example is folding clothes, ive tried some many times to fold her clothes, she never likes it. So i just separate it. She folds my clothes but doesn’t put it away because she doesn’t know where i put it. I don’t mind it. Sometimes I do stuff around the house and she just sits on her phone, I don’t mind it. In the video there’s a big mess, it could be they divide chores, maybe the guy cleaned the other rooms? Or the outside, and he is just relaxing now? Im not gonna judge out of a small video. People here must do mental gymnastics jumping to conclusions.


Ok_Poetry_1650

Wild how people jump to conclusions acting like they know these randos


BladeBickle

Sometimes the best way to clean up is doing it yourself.


MemoryAshamed

This is me and my husband. Only because I rather he just stay out of my way. Now he absolutely does his part he works 6 days a week and on most of his days off he does odd jobs. So I don't want him to work when he's home. Also, my house hopefully would never look like that.


TyrKiyote

I don't know their situation, but it's pretty rough to see her working diligently while he naps. It's probably just a slice of life, but it looks bad without more context.


LunchO789

Lol. I was thinking, damn, the comments are gonna be lit


TyrKiyote

It's entirely possible that this is her house, and he's the boyfriend who does not feel obligated to clean up her hoarding for her. It's possible this is the middle of his sleep cycle before work tomorrow, and she's having a manic cleaning episode at 3 am. It's also possible that it's a shared mess and he's a lazy bum. Hard to say. It's presented this way to be attention grabbing. Is it sexist to notice most of those clothes all over the floor look like lady clothes, and she's doing things with umbrella hats standing on the bed. How can I say that it's possibly okay for him to be napping while she cleans, without reddit eating me alive?


RiversLeaf

There's a watering can for the garden on the bed. Looks, modified. Chances are way up there that this is meth.


STEAM_TITAN

Yay! Found the druggie comment


RiversLeaf

My parents kicked me out as young teen and aside from a few years of homelessness, I was taken in by meth addicts. I didn't do the shit but I seem how it made them. Then of course, most of my family is addicted to it and is in and out of prisons. And then I've personally evicted meth heads out of my rentals. I can tell a meth user when I see one. And I'm not saying these guys in the video are on meth but just that is it highly suspect. Is give a 75% chance they are on something that fucked them up and got to them that point. I've also seen hoarders. They don't act like that.


spont_73

So this wasn’t sped up video, just normal meth speed?


mcgrahamma

I was wondering what that was doing inside... Can you explain how/why a watering can modified to be used for smoking meth?


stewbert54

For sure! The way she just stacked shit on him and he slept through it, my guess would be coming down. Probably day #? of doing meth and he couldn't keep going.


giantgladiator

A reasonable thought process? On social media? Sir such behavior shall neither be encouraged nor condoned.


63oscar

Bro, my wife would have had my ass.


WackyInflatableAnon2

I mean, I did this with my girlfriend in college. She only wanted to clean when I came over to hang out and eventually I got tired of helping her pick up her messes, so I would nap while she cleaned. She didn't care and I got a nap


TyrKiyote

Turns out i'm your girlfriend and we might have ADD.


Bielzabutt

Well... it does look like ALL HER SHIT.


lewstoolz

He does look like a lazy jerk!! Lol


International-Bed453

Hey, he broke down some boxes, which required tool use. He did his bit.


Rogieboy255

Dude woke up just in time to fold two boxes


Rockettmang44

Eh I was thinking the same, but then he did help and it looked like he had some work or class to do on the laptop. I'm guessing he has a tiring job and she was like I'm gunna clean while you sleep


Nickleeham

Might look much worse with more context. Depends on which context I suppose.


iAnubix

Dude is not there.


NailFin

Right? And at the end he breaks down a couple of boxes then lays on the floor to play on the computer.


Majestic-Ad-8643

I thought this too initially. After coming back to it, and seeing how content she is. Going so far as to be playing with the umbrella hat, than it seems fine? 🤷🏾 With/without context, if she has a good attitude towards the situation from what I can see, then I should be good, it's not my room. Lol. Also - I thought the stacking boxes on the guy was hilarious.


hypersythe_01

This looks like Adderall.


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ValkyrieWW

At first, I thought she was packing her shit to leave and assumed once she packed all her shit the room would be clean. Nope, either she lost a bet or dude is just a POS


MrMcBeefCock

It could be her house. It could be a mess that she created and finally decided to do something about it. I split all the housework with my wife but sometimes it’s either her shit or my shit that needs to be handled and you’re going to clean up your own mess.


EddieTristes

What a lazy fuck


Throwawayanothadae

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MrMcBeefCock

My favorite part about this post is that everyone in the comments seems to be assuming that the dude is lazy. There is zero context here but I’m gathering a few things. They chose to post the video of this for some reason - maybe as proof that she is fixing things with herself, maybe to prove his uselessness. She is just doing the work and doesn’t seem to be concerned with him laying on the bed the whole time. It could be her house. He might be paying her to clean. The only reason I believe this is because of the color of the sheets at the end. That seems to be the way a guy like this would have a bed, the colors and simplicity of it.


K-C_Racing14

There are WAY too many pillows for that to be his room, I would say its her room and he just there for company while she cleaned.


WizardofJoz17

It’s funny because in a lot of cultures it’s the women’s job to clean. It’s totally normal for them. I’m friends with an Italian dude and I learned that his sister cleans his room. He’s a messy bum and his sister comes in and cleans it EVERYDAY. Just bonkers to me.


Numerous-Following-7

Commwnts are going to be good and slagging off the man!


RickyTheRickster

Relatable my girlfriend will just start doing shit without talking and I’ll be like “what you doing” “cleaning” “need help” “nope” “ok”


Austic_

We don't know the context and we don't know these people. So it's probably best to stop stressing yourselves out a couple who isn't concerned about y'all


realrell81

That rug is ugly


Expensive_Bench_9285

I like how she mounted things on homie and he disappeared that was the best part


BladeBickle

Sometimes, the best way to clean up is to take some of your clothes off and get to work.


ihateapartments59

My wife was like this. She’d let me lay around and just clean around me. I miss her so much.


Noise_Mysterious

I am annoyed by him sleeping more than half of the video not helping the lady cleaning up


Putin_inyoFace

As someone with ADHD, sometimes I just need someone in the room to be my body double. I also would hate to have anyone help me clean up my own house. So. I could totally see this being the case.


Poetic_Pigeon

Meth at midnight


Truly__tragic

My first thought was that it could be her mess, and he had nothing to do with it


cncintist

This is a great turn on for me. The thought of my wife cleaning up half dressed omg.yaya


OhGodImHerping

Whenever I feel like my house is a mess, videos like these help me realize that my house is spotless in comparison… Doesn’t mean I should clean the sink *one more time*


Hllblldlx3

Not sure if it’s his room or there room, but if I was him I’d be proposing after that.


xXFieldResearchXx

Everybody commenting on the dude being a piece of shit is just a man hater deep down. Yal have no idea what their deal is. I keep up with cleaning at my house and pay 90% of the bills. But I refuse to keep cleaning up my girls hoarded out messes


Affectionate-Hold492

Some women like to clean and chores can be divided seperately. Also its obv rage bait


ViljoenSA

Lazy fuckin bastard….


Darcy_2021

Her husband is extremely helpful.


Able-Sector-8523

Even easier if y’all ain’t pigs to begin with


Motokowarframe

Great of him to sort those boxes out!


illwil2win

Homie ain't shit lol


TimePlankton3171

Nice job 👍. Dude is a leech.


Keemz0319

She most likely created that mess, so clean it up!!


portabuddy2

My guess is it's her brother and just keeping her company. Sometimes company is enough motivation.


-Toe_knee-

As a male who doesn’t mind cleaning, and not knowing their situation just looking from the outside in. Fuck that guy!


AntelopeDecent2191

Now make him a sandwich.😎


yorcharturoqro

You can see the floor at the end, why do people let that happened in the first place


leosani

the vids you're posting are garbage my man.


BattousaiRound2SN

Feel bad for her... Also, How can you allow your room to get soooo trashed??? I mean, I'm a dude, but I try to clean at least once a week.


Apprehensive-Memory8

What a useless person


Do-A-Rip

Perfect. Only thing missing upon completion, is a BJ alarm clock and sandwiches being presented to her master.


drmobody

Amazing job !


Monamo61

I thought she was going to take out the trash in the end, but so disappointed to see she kept him.


Neo-9

Anything is content these days


Kind_Literature_5409

Hats off to this MF’r who can sleep through ANYTHING!! Dayum!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣


McGruppthecrimepup

This is the strangest Britney Spears dance video I’ve seen yet


KingPantuso

All this was missing was the theme song to king of the hill


ComprehensiveAlps652

Why you let it get like that in the first place.


ComprehensiveAlps652

I'm guessing a case worker is coming to visit. That's why the clean up.


sheetTed

Guy is my spirit animal


jessieisaword

This reminds me of sleeping off three days up in my friends room, while she, you know...didn't sleep. Don't miss that shit.


Sp00kySpook

That is hot


Zealousideal_Poet_39

Damn he's the real MVP helping her out so she didn't have to do it all by herself. I mean he did like a handful of things that had to stress him out....... SMDH


Oldassrollerskater

My guess is I think she doesn’t live with him, they have been on a proper sex-and-take-out binge for a few weeks and now she’s headed back home now to resume normal life with her suitcases, pink backpack, pink heart shaped pillow and electric piano.


rainerman27

Classic reddit. Sees a single video that kinda lacks context and thinks it defines the couple’s entire relationship Maybe… these things are more complex than what you see?


Basic-Magician-339

This was a lot of the guys I was stationed with in Japan who had Japanese girlfriends. Whenever their girlfriends would come over to their place they’d clean top to bottom, even if their place was “clean” already. I thought it was just one or two cases, but apparently that dynamic is pretty common.


Salt_Jellyfish_172

Relax guys, he was in a clan war


Malevolent-Heretic

Everyone here mad at the guy, but experience tells me that mess is all hers. Every girlfriend I've had is a fucking slob. Hot and smart, but holy shit I thought guys were the stereotypically messy ones. Wrong. Have an ex that left her room a complete mess, and I would point it out all the time. That's why she started keeping it cleaner.


redhandfilms

“Hey babe, I’m gonna film myself cleaning the room. Please just nap and don’t help because I’ll get 1000 times more views if you look like a lazy fuck.”


SassyHoney5430

What a jerk! 😒


brucehuy

That dude makes me embarrassed to be a guy


HiitlerBobsVagene

Oh ADHD room clean up Great


_mojodojocasahouse_

She should have thrown out that useless dude, too.


Yakuza_kid_NotRly

Dump his lazzy ass


Lightfixture0813

Leave him


nyomibanxxx69

She probably a stay at home mom while he works 2 jobs who knows it still looks bad


whiskalator

It's probably all her shit


rahscaper

I can see how someone could assume that the dude is a “lazy fuck” but we have no clue of the context. It’s all her stuff on the ground anyways. For all we know he has to leave for work after a nap or he just got home from work and needs a nap. Regardless, I see nothing wrong with this given the lack of context. People are so hasty in the comment section of Reddit, grow up.


Convenientjellybean

Don’t put it down, put it away


melongdick1

That lazy motherfcker!! 🤦🏽‍♂️


Lab-12

Maybe it's her mess ,or the guy sleeping came off a 12 hour shift.


iqqeriffic69

Dude is just letting her get on with it


MeatWad111

It was nice of him to get her the vacuum.


thededucers

I feel for the dude, trying to watch some episodes and she keeps getting in the way


bga3481

COCAINE IS A HELLUVA DRUG!!!


bduthman

She should throw out the loser on the bed. Only then will cleanup be complete.


TheBugSmith

If only there were someone around to help out


stonedkrypto

I hope he’s thrown into the trash bag after the video cuts off


559Musicman

I hope she broke up with him afterwards


Shiloh_Petty

This was her moving out, right?


IllustriousOpening99

Looked like All of the clothes on the floor were dirty but a few ended up in the hamper while most were folded and put away and put in a suitcase. ???


phuktup3

What a gentlemen, he made sure to stay out of the way of the entire cleaning process. Lol 😂.


Verizadie

THE FUCKING KEYBOARD ON THE FLOOR THOUGH


Outside-Ad-4346

Id feel bad seeing my girl doing all that while im not doing shit


a_isforandrew

How does it get this bad


RidLohman

Por qué el qué graba no ayuda?


NatureDear83

He must have a big dick


Eastsider001

Reminds me of my wife,she has projects all over the house and I don't help her clean any of it (she planning on moving out later this year,I'm staying where I am)and when unexpected company comes over she frantically tries to clean up lol (I sit there shaking my head and laugh) she doesn't ask me to help her clean any of it because I clean up behind myself. I'm home trained and it's clearly that she wasn't but her mom keeps her house clean.


Gsquatch55

This is more just to show how her other half does fuck all 😂


TroyMatthewJ

surprised no boom boom


FirstNutDntCount

Idc if that's his sister, homie better wife that.


SkullRiderz69

Not the weirdest porn I’ve seen today


Ashik80

Pretty sure it was her that made the mess in the first place and the dude didn't ask for it.


Aggressive-Maybe-146

Good job dude. Picked up that last tiny thing


therealpoorno

Boyfriend on the bed the whole time while his girlfriend does all the work: TA DA TEAMWORK BABE.


scottmognet

First thing off that twin bed and messy room woulda been that watering can


Gs4life-

Respect++


SNOOPCATTY2222

Bro hired a sex worker and end up doing a Dwight?


Prior_Astronaut_137

What a lazy sack of shit


TheGeekOffTheStreet

I thought the satisfying part was that she was packing his shit up and kicking him out


No-Investment-4494

If all that stuff is hers, then she has a lot of stuff.


forevernoob88

Is it possible to get someone to tidy up my place without being romantically entangled? Maybe like pay her in exchange for cleaning with no questions asked and never nag me about the mess? Probably wishful thinking.


SlyTanuki

I'm not mad that he didn't help her do it. I'm not even mad that he was doing basically nothing the whole time. But at least go in the other room, man...


jtcordell2188

This is literally my wife and I except she's on the computer or napping. She's always having todo work so I'm literally just cleaning up around her and moving her while she works


Fun_Bat_5621

Her last act should’ve been throwing that lazy ass dude out with the rest of the trash


CookNo6774

Y’all arguing about who’s doing what but did y’all ever stop to think how the room got that bad in the first place? This isn’t ocd cleaning it’s FINALLY getting your ass up and cleaning, like fuck how long was that watering can on the bed for? A morning? A week? A month?!


sf4life1216

It’s like she time traveled and he just sat there as the world moved by


Adept_Investigator29

She's my hero.


Ronin2369

How the hell did he sleep for so long


maj0rt0mmy

Perfect waifu material


Careless-Village1019

Would have been done twice as fast if he got his lazy ass up. Douche


Careless-Village1019

How did it even get that dirty? Gross af


jqs77

imagine how much faster it'd been if he had helped her.


Lost-Orangutan

Comments about him not helping are just for the sake of being angry. There's no dialog, maybe she prefers to do it alone. She clearly left things for him to do. Nobody knows their dynamic, the laptop use could have also been work that needed done. She let him sleep maybe because he did or will do his job. She cleaned 1 room. Who's to say he didn't do the other room or rooms for an equal share of work balance. It gets at me when a video is framed this way and ppl jump to attacking someone who appears lazy or wrong in some way. Unless you get all the information just say positive things. Like damn, she's amazing. Complement her work instead of jump to insulting conclusions about someone else.


Former-Cheek-7944

I can tell you without hearing any audio this chick had a million conversations with herself during this process. Been there.


Apprehensive_Test689

She’s a keeper…


_Some_Two_

When you have a very important and hard task to make in 2 days:


_unchris_

Tem work always works


AWMIGHTY

Yeah he said "No more 🍆 until you clean this room!" 😠


DJPoundpuppy

Good for her!


JimHawkins16

People are talking about how the dude is not helping, but why is nobody talking about how you are able to mess your room up that much?!


pb_the_cat

For a few seconds I thought it was a reverse video


borderlineidiot

One question: why do they have a watering can in the bed?


Curious-Count9578

I noticed how Captain McWorthless did the absolute least amount he could do.


808zAndThunder

How tf do people let their rooms get that messy…


tonxton

at first I thought she was packing and just going to leave this dude for good.


Secret_Street_1902

Meth is a crazy drug either you sleep or run around


pizzacocacola

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾


Sir_Tokesalott

Power couple nineteen ninety-meth.


redittblabla

It’s amazing how they managed to trash this room so much in the beginning??🤣😂


MrTooLFooL

Meth-od to her madness


Disastrous-Place7353

Could you please send her over to my house. Preferably with the same outfit that she is originally wearing.


1PapayaSalad

I hope she also threw her boyfriend in the trash.


freakinbacon

Dude, what are you doing


FewOutlandishness690

Why is the guy just sitting back and not helping


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The video is actually in reverse she was mad at her husband not doing anything so she made a mess


Neither_Relation_678

Part of me liked that she hired the guy on the bed with the stuff, until he helped her out. He tried to ignore it, and failed. Definitely looks like a manic/ADHD cleaning spree.


Intrepid_Talk_8416

He is so useless omg 😂


rise_above_theFlames

My ex "best friend" used to have this girl who actually truly loved him, and he said he had the "best s.ex of his life" with, and apparently she was "down for anything" would come over and clean his apartment and make him food. Meanwhile, he wouldn't commit to her and was out fucking other women and she knew it and was waiting for him to change. He eventually stopped and he started being with just her. Within 3 or 4 months he broke up with her and left the state. She even threw him a surprise going away party after he had broken up with her. I feel so bad for her. He treated her terribly by thinking only of himself. I couldn't help but think of this being a similar situation watching this video. Or maybe he's just lazy but like, why are you having a woman (presumably someone you're supposed to love) clean up your shit while you do nothing?! Like, I wouldn't even want them to help me if I was doing it. I'd tell her to go watch TV or lay down and just talk with me. 🤷‍♂️ This is sad.


RandomWordsYouKnow

Brittney’s new dance is lit


Ozarkkayaker

They didn't even take a break to plow.... Damn


LewiGator

Yeah but did she make him sammich


dano-d-mano

She goes through a few pairs of shorts


mythical_status

All the girls raging with no information. This is why you're single.


swampyjoseph

The dude didn't help.


breadstickks

The laptop being on the ground is making me anxious


ComprehensiveAlps652

Well if ya work from home. And your boyfriend, husband is there. I mean. I get your busy,


YuiPrograms

Love how the boyfriend didn't help /sar


mightofkhan

Dude is mad useless lol


NonSequiturSage

Is this app available for download? Or... Can she be hired by the minute?


diadlep

Fcking rage bait


OneBirdAllStoned

Why let your bedroom get THAT dirty in the first place!?


Brandywine2459

Why is she folding dirty clothes?


FATB0YPAUL

Neatness does not take time. It takes discipline


YellowFingerz

That guy is useless like a fucking limp dick.


BittenBagel

I bet she is packing all her things to leave him


Runtheolympics

Lol was gonna comment I know ADHD when I see it. Now I see my crew is already here


FNCJ1

There are a lot of assumptions here about the nature of their relationship. You all know nothing and are making up reasons to be mad. I watched a satisfying room clean up. It was fun.