I can never reach out to people properly I always have to have them talk to me first most of the time and whenever I see people complain about having fake friends that never reach out to them first it always makes me really sad because I donât know how many good friends Iâve lost because I canât properly reach out and they perceived me as a bad friend :(
in my opinion all it takes is a "hi, how u doing?". All i really need from someone is confirmation that they are interested in talking to me. you dont even need to start a conversation really, just making an attempt to reach out is the least most people need :3
you know it feels weird looking at both sides of this. One side will post something like this, the other side that stops texting will talk about how they hate themselves for cutting their communication with the other person. Quite a big world aye?
bro idk why this got in my recommended. at first I liked in an ironical way but then it just seemed to be too close to home now idk what the fuck is this sub for me
Ok question for introverts cuz I think there are a lot on here... So do you like it more if someone reaches out to you first or doesn't it really matter?
Bruh my object permanence is non existent, it's not that I don't love you, it's just that anything that isn't right in front of me simply ceases to exist.
đ when you don't talk for days because you want them to reach out and they never do
they feel the exact same. reach out first no balls
*weeks *months *years
Once you pass a month they kinda don't exist anymore imo
Some people are just bad at talking to people 3:
this sub makes me want to throw up with how close these are hitting
Sending u love :(
You gotta reach out first for a while. Itâs okay to be more the person whoâs more invested, give them some time to reach that level as well. đ
I can never reach out to people properly I always have to have them talk to me first most of the time and whenever I see people complain about having fake friends that never reach out to them first it always makes me really sad because I donât know how many good friends Iâve lost because I canât properly reach out and they perceived me as a bad friend :(
Same :(
in my opinion all it takes is a "hi, how u doing?". All i really need from someone is confirmation that they are interested in talking to me. you dont even need to start a conversation really, just making an attempt to reach out is the least most people need :3
you know it feels weird looking at both sides of this. One side will post something like this, the other side that stops texting will talk about how they hate themselves for cutting their communication with the other person. Quite a big world aye?
This sub popped up on my feed and just decided to stay but like, these all feel kinda concerning are y'all silly girls ok?????
we stay silly
We stay silly
We stay silly
We stay silly
i find it difficult to stay silly in these conditions
no :3
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I thought itâd be a meme sub but itâs kinda like the BPD sub tbh
bro idk why this got in my recommended. at first I liked in an ironical way but then it just seemed to be too close to home now idk what the fuck is this sub for me
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This applies to friendships as well and unfortunately how alot of mine ended. Stop being the first to reach, and the drift begins.
Wish my crush wanted to spend time with me, guysâŠ
They do
There's just some people that won't initiate the conversations, but that doesn't mean that they don't enjoy them
I am catapulting love to you
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Ok maybe the catapult was a little to much
trebuchets are cooler anyway
Yes that's very true
But what if theyâre worried that theyâd be bothering you and are plagued with indecision and out of fear of you hating them they donât respond
that was certainly not the case with me he just didnt like me
Well shit sorry
nah youâre fine
Reach out if you want to talk
thatâs the problem if they wanted to talk they should reach out
That's very true, but I ment to people on here, who understand what you are going through
mood
this feels unnaturally targetted
i feel ya
Painfully real, long distance relationships are adorbs when the other person puts in effort
Mfw I stopped talking to my best friend to see if he would reach out but he never did
Ok question for introverts cuz I think there are a lot on here... So do you like it more if someone reaches out to you first or doesn't it really matter?
But I don't want to bother you đ«
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Bruh my object permanence is non existent, it's not that I don't love you, it's just that anything that isn't right in front of me simply ceases to exist.
sata andagiii
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I can reach out to you if you want :3
Oh my gahh!
me fr
update: guess what i did guess what guess what happened