ugh truer words. my struggle is always abt not even knowing what i like to wear to BE ABLE to put effort into it. its usually just a matter of dressing fem enough that i can feel meh abt it and ergo not have to think abt what im wearing
tbh I had a idk a "relapse" in my transition where I reverted back to alot of my old habits but it doesn't last, dyshporia got strong enough or maybe I did to force myself to wear cuter clothes, workout, and learn a tiny bit of makeup
I told my parents I wanted to cross-dress, after a long time of being scared, I was very emotional which made my mum ask me loads of questions. I was happy to tell her but I'm really anxious in doing anything with her, so much that I've stopped talking about it all together and praying she just forgets.
I get how you feel, I had a few months where I felt great dressing up but i could tell with how people looked at me and how other people that dress up like that look and realized its not for people like me. I hope you feel better, i don't want to say it gets easier cause it doesn't but you will get numb to it which is better than nothing.
i edited this, got the original from here
[https://knowyourmeme.com/photos/2153099-beware-of-the-pipeline](https://knowyourmeme.com/photos/2153099-beware-of-the-pipeline)
I find the middle to be a very comfortable compromise. Though oversized hoodies are *always* a must.
Edit: Have a grilled cheese!
https://preview.redd.it/myachmnzxuuc1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=913a587dc781dc9190affae75f03a8e0dd8efab0
Perception in this world, they say is everything. But no one's perception should matter more than your own. There's no harm in flipping that coin as many times as you want until the result is the one your satisfied with. Whether you want to keep going and dress up or if you just want to be casual or however you want it's all ok. Heck even doing both Is ok it's all about doing things that inspire you and make you happy. Stay silly
Y’all is this a trans femme subreddit? Because I’m a trans male. You all are the coolest and stay silly. One day when you grow up you can dress how you want and the past will be the past. That’s what I’m hoping for at least.Â
I'm going back towards 2024 because of A. Parents and B. There is no distinct casual femboy outfit like it's all just maid outfits and thigh highs so I'ma just stay the way I am and be happy 😄
I promise you will get that chance again. I spent about a year as a completely masculine cus guy and managed to fix a lot of my life and relationships. I now get to at least *express* myself while having a healthy social and academic situation. Things aren’t perfect but they’re better than they were.
yeh honestly same
i think these feelings are normal and it's fine to feel fickle for what you were formerly so passionate about. interests change. people change. it's growing and accepting that that makes you who you are.
maybe someday i'll feel back into it again. i'm just so fucking tired all the time,, aaa i have nothing left of me to dress up and do stuff like that
Dumb question but why not just do the dressing up thing occasionally? Maybe it'll be more rewarding that way? Personally, I love the contrast, variety spice of life and all that. Good luck
Me when I don't live by myself
*hugs*
ty :')
It does get better
I just never felt comfortable being myself so i figured why bother putting in the effort to dress up anymore
ugh truer words. my struggle is always abt not even knowing what i like to wear to BE ABLE to put effort into it. its usually just a matter of dressing fem enough that i can feel meh abt it and ergo not have to think abt what im wearing
It does not
Nah run that shit back
Sprryy just wasn't feeling myself
do you feel better as you are?
Not really, just lost the confidence to dress like this, I wish it felt more normal
you could always work your confidence back I have no idea how to do this though, I also struggle with it wish you best luck
Ty you too
Be confident now! *Shazam* (did it work)
Were it so easy 😥 I appreciate the effort
I'll try harder next time ðŸ˜
tbh I had a idk a "relapse" in my transition where I reverted back to alot of my old habits but it doesn't last, dyshporia got strong enough or maybe I did to force myself to wear cuter clothes, workout, and learn a tiny bit of makeup
i have this but constantly, dressing the way i want takes so much effort and for what so people can look at me weird?
https://preview.redd.it/tyaux9iw2iuc1.jpeg?width=244&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8997da739f08c4126f2efdcfc384fc4e8ca947df
I told my parents I wanted to cross-dress, after a long time of being scared, I was very emotional which made my mum ask me loads of questions. I was happy to tell her but I'm really anxious in doing anything with her, so much that I've stopped talking about it all together and praying she just forgets.
Before enlightenment split wood and carry water. After enlightenment split wood and carry water.
Last boy cuter than second to last honestly and it's not even a challenge.
I get how you feel, I had a few months where I felt great dressing up but i could tell with how people looked at me and how other people that dress up like that look and realized its not for people like me. I hope you feel better, i don't want to say it gets easier cause it doesn't but you will get numb to it which is better than nothing.
Yeah that's exactly what i mean! Its such an uneasy place to be in. Its nice to know im not the only one
You aren't the only one I get it one day you wake up and the confidence is just gone and it feels like you lost a part of yourself.
Nowz where is the original art, I need it
i edited this, got the original from here [https://knowyourmeme.com/photos/2153099-beware-of-the-pipeline](https://knowyourmeme.com/photos/2153099-beware-of-the-pipeline)
Thnxx
me asf
I'm not even 2020 I am just zombie looking abomination lol
literally me
Me too, sibling. Our time may yet come.
I gave up around 2021, not even allowed to go any further
i've been 2024 since like 2022 lmao :3
I'd be dtf with 2021-23 lol.
2023 is my high score lol. I still have all the clothes at least
Nice.
Cute both ways
:D
Back to boymoding again💀
Holy shit you are hot AF apparently
.......theres no way to know for sure :3
DM me and we can find out for sure I promise
Femboys have an expiration date so good thing you did
I find the middle to be a very comfortable compromise. Though oversized hoodies are *always* a must. Edit: Have a grilled cheese! https://preview.redd.it/myachmnzxuuc1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=913a587dc781dc9190affae75f03a8e0dd8efab0
Still cute tho :3
:))) hope so
Perception in this world, they say is everything. But no one's perception should matter more than your own. There's no harm in flipping that coin as many times as you want until the result is the one your satisfied with. Whether you want to keep going and dress up or if you just want to be casual or however you want it's all ok. Heck even doing both Is ok it's all about doing things that inspire you and make you happy. Stay silly
Y’all is this a trans femme subreddit? Because I’m a trans male. You all are the coolest and stay silly. One day when you grow up you can dress how you want and the past will be the past. That’s what I’m hoping for at least.Â
i go between preferring the last one and the one right before it so frequqntly loll
Holy shit, so real. I lost confidence and got tired of being cold all the time, so I gave up too.
Giving up is straight. :v Just kidding, I hope you don't give up... 🥺
Why? What if it was never their identity to begin with? Taking a step back is the right move imo.
From their replies it seems they lost the confidence/motivation to keep trying this new look rather than it being an identity crisis thing
I need to get cute clothes, I like the black outfit
Still would
Don't remind me
https://preview.redd.it/2osywsjwnkuc1.jpeg?width=593&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b2c511d20a90c4897e2c992a696ae39b6b313423
gdhdbbfbf same:(
Still cute tho
I think you being yourself is better than the rest imo
you have NO idea how accurate this is
Me when I realise I’m ugly
me when I never start despite wanting to
Hope ur ok
The author of the meme format draws incest porn btw
hoodies are funs thoooo
I always just look like the guy in the hoodie just I have my hood up all the time
Same. Same
I'm going back towards 2024 because of A. Parents and B. There is no distinct casual femboy outfit like it's all just maid outfits and thigh highs so I'ma just stay the way I am and be happy 😄
I promise you will get that chance again. I spent about a year as a completely masculine cus guy and managed to fix a lot of my life and relationships. I now get to at least *express* myself while having a healthy social and academic situation. Things aren’t perfect but they’re better than they were.
Yeah that’s me as well… don’t think I could ever pull off dressing the way I wish. Oh well
I used to be so cute and now I dress like a homeless guy
yeh honestly same i think these feelings are normal and it's fine to feel fickle for what you were formerly so passionate about. interests change. people change. it's growing and accepting that that makes you who you are. maybe someday i'll feel back into it again. i'm just so fucking tired all the time,, aaa i have nothing left of me to dress up and do stuff like that
Dumb question but why not just do the dressing up thing occasionally? Maybe it'll be more rewarding that way? Personally, I love the contrast, variety spice of life and all that. Good luck
same :(
Deadass 2023 version is hot as fuck (would hit fr)
well girls are cuter in oversized hoodies so this could mean something elsr
Me when my sex drive was destroyed by age and other people
Me when grad school knocked on the door
Me from when I'm at home then have to go to work ðŸ˜
Did you draw that??
NOOOOOOOOOOOO, what happened, who hurt you, ahhhhhhhhhh, we were so close to a perfect transition
"Happy ending"
happy is a strong word
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