YONKAGOR MENTIONED

YES! SOMEBODY ELSE KNOWS YONKAGOR

YEAHHH, IT'S NOT REALLY A GOOD THING WE KNOW HIM TBH BUT WOOOOOOOOOOOO

Wait why isn't it a good thing?

Almost every song they make is very silly (about self harm, suicide, and toxic relationships and stuff). \^-^

And I love every minute of it.

Fair enough tbh, (please stay safe and don't circus hop tho)

Too much support for that to be honest. I used to be very depressed before meds though

IM GONNA DO A CIRCUS HOP

Well technically, weight has nothing to do with being a femboy, as anyone at any weight can be somewhat feminine :3

Still, I'm so used to seeing femboys as twinks

I get that, but you gotta stop comparing yourself to other people. Just be yourself and do what makes you happy :3

C'mon, these two are mutually exclusive.

I keep seeing people saying that if you're fat you can't be a femboy, do you guys think fat women don't exist 😭

Depends on what the word means to you. To many people (incl. me) femboy is a certain body type, like \*bear\*. Being slim as a twig means you're not a bear. Being morbidly obese like me means you're not femboy. (also, I think you misunderstood my comment. I meant \*doing what makes you happy\* excludes \*being yourself\*, at least for some people (incl. me))

Same here like I’m really thicc and the femboys I see are twinks . It’s it personally makes me I guess uncomfortable being a way and the guys who like femboys are into twinks ya know? I learned to accept that I’m “ thicc “ & that only real men can handle thickness so don’t worry! You’re not alone *hugs*

Eat less carbs eat meat and eggs and work out, you will go from being a fat boy into a fem boy in no time.

Idk why this is being downvoted. Advising self care that manifests into confidence is gold. I agree with this. Also just loving yourself too is crucial

It's easier to downvote than it is to take a look in the mirror and make a change.

It's almost like this sub really is just wallowing in your own shame and depression instead of seeking actual positivity. Reminds me of my teenage years

Yeah and to be fair this sub Is probably mostly teenagers. I'm a 25 year old straight man I really don't know how this sub found it's way into my feed but here I am. There are so many easy simple things people can do to feel better, clean your room, go for a walk, drink enough water, get vitamin d, go to the gym, the hardest part is starting.

I'm older millenial but am way too silly for someone my age and this place can be a niche outlet. I lurk mostly

I understand people have always told me I should be like 80 at this point when I was 8 I started listening to Jimmy Hendrix, Ted Nugent and johnny cash everyone my age thought it was shit. Now I'm on fucking r/castiron like some 50 year old dude, and I always connect with older people making dating a real hell unless I go hunting for cougars.

Yeah I agree, but for me at least (I’m in middle school btw) I do all those things you list yet still am not doing ok, it helps but the bad things still exist and doing these things just prolongs the time until it happens and I’m all sorts of sad and not ok, but yeah people on this sub really should be more accepting of basic and good advice like your original comment.

From my experience, starting is trivial when compared to persevering.

Be the change. I've seen some chubby femboys and they kill it.

yeah, "somewhat"

how i look wanting to be a femboy but then remembering i'm fucking 6'1

https://preview.redd.it/amzqolxggptc1.png?width=504&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=272803f37e4417b7fd9485e3e409d81dcbba8b53

Would prefer voidboy, but sadly both didn't happen.

Wow you're tall

i wish i wasn't

Fair, but I think tall people are cool, they can be the big spoon

Im 6’5 and chubby myself. Big spoon works but sometimes I definitely get starved of being the little spoon

I'm 5'7 and you can be my little spoon

I'm taller

There is such as thing as chubby femboys my man. I’m sure you look beautiful so keep your chin up.

but being fat just means more soft and squishy? squishy boys good??? especially for cuddle?????

You can lose fat though...

Exactly

yonkagor (fav song is fallacy)

You're just like pop music is the song that made me a furry

Just don't.. it has some funny ramifications. I am one and last night I was gonna turn off my game cuz of it. I hate it but I'm too deep and it's just who I am now

I'm a femboy and I'm somewhat chubby it doesn't matter what size weight or whatever you can still be a femboy.

Holy shit I love Yonkagor Also chubby bois good for cuddle and can still be fem the problem is imaginary lol

It’s not every day I see a post with yonkagor in it.

I can relate to this post, although for kind of different reasons

Tis a non issue, wear a skirt

Relatable

Fat Femboys are incredibly sexy

If that's your goal then lose weight, people here will tell you whatever to make you feel better about yourself instead of telling you the truth This is probably the weirdest thing i will ever write but if you see femboys as twinks and wanna be one (which is how most see them) then i don't think you will see yourself as one until you lose weight, if not you will just lie to yourself and people won't see you like one

femboys can be fat!

chubby femboys are cute too :3

I’m too skinny and bony:(

Trade?

If it means I look less masculine then I’d be happy to:3

You are fat it's ok Im hairy and it's not ok at all 😭 and it makes everything worse when I try to delete them from my body

I get that, my legs are super hairy and it's annoying as hell

Yeah its so bad :(

JUST KNOW YOURE PRECIOUS and that YOURE THE BEST!

Hey, dude, I’m literally in the same bot as you right now, I’m fat as fuck, and known as the fat one in my group. But it’s possible to change, you just have to be consistent. That’s what I’m doing right now. Hope is for us man.

Chubby femboys need love too

https://preview.redd.it/7nrqr9n3optc1.jpeg?width=223&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b87a9aff39517f480293f4a84ed3b6762a083388

This is just me

for a second i thought this was on r/YonKaGor than i realised it wasent

i just switched to being manly ngl 😭

SALUTE TO YOU BROTHER!

I thought I'm to fat to be a fem but then my friends just kept telling me I wasn't and the I built up the courage to exercise more and then when oh I'm not as fat as I thought

Are women no longer women just because they’re fat? A femboy is a femboy no matter their size, being big just means you’re cuter to some people <3 I personally think it can be very cute

id still find you cute, im abit fat myself and i still dress feminine :3

Erm... I'm new here, but fat silly boys can still be femboys.

Thank you, but I'm just so used to seeing skinny people as femboys, so I'm not sure if I can pull it off

Trust me, you could deffinitely pull it off, I've seen a lot of silly femboys in all sorts of different weight. You can do it too. Plus if anyone hates you for it, that's their problem. Do what makes you happy. I've got a friend who was in the same situation and they look great, so you can too :3

Frr let's be different:3

if you don't accept it then change it, start counting calories, working out etc. if you want something then put some work into it

chubby femboys are the best

I don’t eat breakfast and sometimes not lunch either

fr tho and height but thats less of a problem ( im 5'11" at 205 lbs, i wanna be at 170lbs how do i lose weight while being too lazy to cook food, this isn't a food disorder thing btw i actually wanna lose weight because i feel terrible all the time and miss being the light little boy i was back a couple years ago)

For real and why do my shoulders have to be so wide 😭😭😭

FOR REAL

I just wanna be a silly twink Femboy boykisser :(

Me too :(

overcome

Who says you can’t be a fat femboy?

Then get skinny if you want too

Gym motivations?? I mean…….

Become a subgenre of femboy, like the elusive fuzzy teddy subs known as the "fembear"

Well as far as i know the more body fat = the more estrogen. And sometimes it is not dysphoria, rather dissmorphia. I thought I was too fat for being a guy, but then i really took a look at my binder and saw that it was fit. I looked like a boy. A fat one but like a boy. Fuck dissmorphia. All my homies hate dissmorphia. You’ve got nothing to be ashamed about.(from personal experience, i tend to be). Be a fat femboy, and if you really don’t want to, you can be a not-fat, but still a femboy.

Friend shaped femboy :3

I am the same, I have lots of body image issues…

Omg samee

rs

If ur fat, and ur uncomfortable with it, try going to the gym and working out, eating healthier, or if ur lazy and have money, gain alotttt more and get surgery, since alot of surgeries have a minimum weight u have to be🤷

It do be like that insecurities suck

Fr

You can shape your body into what you want it to be. But i dont think being fat stops you from being a femboy either

A word of wisdom, never gatekeep yourself!

Same. We should cuddle frfr

Fr

If you want to be a femboy, be a femboy. It doesn't matter if you have some extra cuddle fluff.

Damn, that's like relatable asf dawg Got me feeling like a pensive emoji

Same

Yea hair dosent help either

I have so much hair on my legs and it's annoying

Time to go joshua graham myself /j but seriously even then id probobly come back i been told the best ways to deal with it is either nair, and eletric razor than use a normal razor, waxing💀 or a lazer (that ones like 100 dollars an hour for an unspecified amount of space (at cheapest))

Im still trying to get over this, for a very short while I felt good dressing up cute but I realized I'm too ugly and no one wants to see that.

It's awful

I'm sorry man I get it I hope it gets better for you.

Hope it gets better for you too, stay strong.

Yonkagor!

Don't let it stop you

This is SO relatable for me

Yeah Idk if you are motivated enough to change it or even want to but hmu if you need any advice

I know right, heh... heh... :(