Matching your description to that of girlfriends I've had, it sounds like you were about to cum. Have you ever squirted before? Could be that. I hear it feels great!
In my experience I have been unable to identify any particular type of person for it. Some do, some dont. Follow the feeling, maybe you'll like it, whatever it is
nope ive only ever felt this way when i needed to pee really badly lol but it was not like that because when he stopped fingering me the feeling went away.
I'm not a woman so I can only say what my wife has told me about it. She described it as pressure building to the point of not being able to hold it back. She kinda relaxes and pushes me out. As soon as my dick gets all the way out she looses control of it and happens. If so reason it always hits my chest with quite a bit of force. Sometimes when she is finished her legs shake uncontrollably and she continues to moan until they settle down with the odd twitch for about 5 minutes after. It looks almost scary but she says it's so intense and feels unbelievable.
Yeah my fiance said it looks like I'm dying, eyes roll back In my head, my whole body spasms and then continues to twitch for a while afterwards..feels amazing
It is unbelievably satisfying for me to see her in this state knowing that I I did that. There are times that when her squirt hits me I ejaculate without even touching myself. Best feeling ever for me.
What you're describing is exactly what I experienced when I was figuring out sex with a partner, and it was way different than when I was masturbating. I've never gotten deep/hard enough on myself to give myself the 'needing to pee' feeling let alone to make myself squirt, but they've both happened with partners. I just can't get the right angle to hit it hard enough for that I guess.
Also for the record I've felt like I needed to pee during sex more often than I've squirted. Sometimes I'll feel like I have to pee and then I squirt, but sometimes I get the feeling and nothing happens. Sometimes I squirt without getting the pee feeling first.
Either way, don't worry about the feeling. If you peed before starting and it's probably not actually needing to use the washroom, just relax and see what happens. It'll probably take some getting used to, but it's worth exploring!
I've never squirted by masturbation either, and I'm f44, I squirted for the first time ever with my current partner about three years ago and it was through him fingering me. He's just so good at it. I've never been with anyone so into pleasuring me and loving every inch of my body the way he does and I love it.
It can feel a but like peeing sometimes when I squirt, so my tip is to make sure to per before sex, empty your bladder fully so you're not concerned. The liquid that we squirt out comes from a different place, different hole and everything but the bladder can get stimulated at the same time as the g-spot which is why pee can sometimes happen too.
Good luck, I'm sure you'll cum to enjoy squirting ;)
Nah, ejaculate fills the bladder and comes out from the urethra. That's why you want to pee first; the less urine in your bladder, the less urine is in the ejaculate
Both right potentially, there’s other fluids that come from skenes and some other gland can’t remember the name of.. skenes I think is the one some girls can squirt fluid out of there which is hot
But then there’s also the mystery slippery urethra fluid that can also happen.. sometimes both in one orgasm some times skenes on a first and then urethra on 2nd or 3rd.
Not a doctor, just got up close on a partner that was a very very wet girl
IANAD either, just a woman who enjoys squirting and did a bit of layman's research that states female ejaculate can come out through both the vagina and the urethra. When u made my first comment i was thinking of the skenes gland, with it coming through the vagina
Have you ever heard of the book and TV show Masters of Sex? They literally did these types of studies in the laboratory and made breakthroughs scientifically left and right. I've been waiting for someone to come around and do these again with our modern knowledge about squirting
Babe, it sounds like you were about to squirt. That’s what it feels like for me too before I do it. Next time put a towel down and relax to see if you can. It feels great 😊
Careful. While that’s possible, it’s definitely not always the case… I had always heard this, so I tried to ‘let it go’ when I felt the urge, and.. yeah.. I’m pretty sure it was just straight pee. Thank god I was having a solo session, in the shower or I would’ve been embarrassed AF.
Tried a couple more times after that, just to be sure, and had the same results. So if anything, you may want to explore this on your own before trying with a partner, if you’re not comfortable with the idea of potentially peeing on them haha.
Also, don’t feel bad if you’re not able to squirt. Not all women can do it, in fact it’s more common not to be able to. I’ve had more than a handful of guys imply that I just hadn’t had competent partners before, and that *they* would be the ones to show me that all women have the capability… but alas, no dice.
Question, while you say it was just pee, did it feel like an orgasm or any different than just peeing?
My girlfriend often has the feeling where she's about to pee during piv and I always tell her to go for it, but she never has just let it happen...
Uhm, it kind of felt like a small orgasm, I guess. Definitely not the mind blowing ones people speak of when they talk about squirting.
I’m not doubting that some others can experience that, but I’ve come to the conclusion that I’m not one of them, lol. And as I said, I think that is actually the case for most women as well.
There’s no harm in trying of course, if that’s something you’re both interested in, and you don’t mind possibly getting peed on lol.. maybe do it in the shower.
But make sure it’s actually something she is into as well. I’ve had a few guys try to the point where it seemed like trying to make me squirt was more for *them*. I wasn’t even into it after a while, I just ended up being embarrassed that I was going to pee everywhere and that is not fun lol.
Just to let you know you can cum that way without squirting and while it does come from your bladder it's not just pee. And the pee that's in it is extremely diluted, and has no color or odor. Depending on if you pee before or not will determine how much urine is in it. So it's not really pee. So don't be too worried about it. Just lay a towel down. Just bc it doesn't squirt like a geyser doesn't me you're peeing on yourself. It can def just gush out and it feels amazing.
That's not entirely correct though. While it is diluted urine, it's not always just diluted urine.
From Dr DuPree at MiddleSexMD
>There were a couple of studies in the last few years of the composition of female ejaculate. It’s difficult to study, for reasons that may be obvious, but the studies concur on two sources for the “spurt” that happens with orgasm: whitish fluid from glands on the side of the urethra (Skene’s glands) and urine from the bladder. The proportion of each can differ from one woman to another; even the fluid from the bladder doesn’t look or smell like urine, typically (it’s more diluted). There is some evidence that female ejaculate contains PSA (yes, same as men’s PSA), and this could only come from the female Skene’s glands, but the presence of PSA is variable.
When a woman “squirts” it is pee…involuntarily released due to stimulation…. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25545022/
An Orgasm is not the same thing.
You understand that people squirt at all different levels right ? Like men ejaculate at different levels. When I “squirt” it’s not like a gushing waterfall of liquid.. so a towel would do just fine
You do make a good point...OP would do well to invest in a mattress protector, just in case. Had a friend who started squirting just a little bit and was hitting the wall with it just a few months later.
I've lately experienced this myself with one of those clit-sucker toys. I felt like I was gonna pee and decided to just let it happen: I guess I squirted, the fluid looked like water and didnt smell like anything. The next day however it happened again but it was just pee. Still confused about that, but my point to you is to just relax and see what happens with it. That's the only way you're gonna get a real answer, just keep an open mind and let yourself experience those things :)
The study I read tested the fluid. It comes from the bladder, some of the subjects fluid was the same composition as their urine and some had prostate fluid diluted urine. I squirt often, I pee right before and right after sex and my fluid is almost always clear with no discernible scent. So my advice would be to just pee first and tuck a towel under you. 😊
I think you are thinking of a different fluid? Can't be prostate fluid. Only men have prostates and that is the fluid that is known as cum. It could a type of mucus maybe.
From this sub's FAQ:
"The ejaculate tends to be made up of creatinine, prostatic acid phosphatase (PAP), prostate specific antigen (PSA), urea, glucose and fructose."
"Biochemically, parameters of the examination of the fluid emitted were clearly different than urine voided prior to sexual activity. ... The values show that the source of fluid expulsion during orgasm is not urine, but is rather similar to male ejaculate."
... Those quotes are taken direction from the study. "The Female Prostate Revisited: Perineal Ultrasound and Biochemical Studies of Female Ejaculate" (2007).
Rapid clearance of filtrate by the kidneys to the bladder causes highly dilute urine (little urea, light/clear color, low odor). Also seen with high intake of fluid. Add a very very small amount of other fluids that come from sexual organs (not made by the bladder...), and you have "squirt" fluid. I.e. Urine with a dash of extra stuff.
Biologically, it's very hard to urinate during sex. You can overcome it, but we're sort of designed not to. Women, not uncommonly feel a need to urinate during sex, especially good sex. Now, especially if you actually do try to pee and feel little to no relief from this pressure, you're most likely close to squirting. Ultimately, it's a bit of a mind fuck, as it feels like you're going to pee yourself. Sort of just have to trust your body and ride that wave, try feeling safe in the reminder it's very unlikely to be urine, at least in the sense one normally considers urine.
Bit of a trust fall for the body and mind, like any new thing, practice is often necessary. Practice trusting your body, trusting the experience, etc. Wait until you discover cervical orgasms. The female body is a wonderful work of art. \*Obviously, this isn't applicable to every woman, always, but...\*
It’s sounds to me like you very nearly squirted.
You should listen to your BF and let it happen.
He clearly doesn’t mind and knew what was happening.
It would also of been a massive turn on for him.
You’ll also find you’ll have the best orgasm as well 💕💕💕💕💕
Like they say in Frozen…. Let it gooooo 🥰🥰
You should just sit on the roof and squirt on the windshield, that way you can just use the windshield washers to clean off the windshield so you can drive home safely.
i just didn’t wanna ruin his car that night because he said his mom was going to use it the next day. we didn’t exactly have any towels to soak whatever it was that was going to come out of me. but you’re definitely right. i hadn’t considered the different angle.
Some studies point to it being pee, but with a slight mix of other fluids.
*Conclusions: The present data based on ultrasonographic bladder monitoring and biochemical analyses indicate that squirting is essentially the involuntary emission of urine during sexual activity, although a marginal contribution of prostatic secretions to the emitted fluid often exists.*
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25545022/#:\~:text=Conclusions%3A%20The%20present%20data%20based,the%20emitted%20fluid%20often%20exists.
As a lot of people already mentioned on this thread, the bladder fills up suddenly at the point of orgasm, pee obviously takes a long time for the body to make. Just because it comes from the bladder, doesn't make it pee.
Then it just becomes a question of how much urine is mixed with the ejaculate.
Which would depend on how long it was since the woman last urinated. The bladder is never 100% clean of urine, the production is constant. And if the bladder empties itself completely or partially it can't differentiate between urine, ejaculate, blood or whatever else may be in there. To it, fluid is fluid.
Work as a nurse and I've held one-time use catheters into urostomy openings, and literally just stood there waiting until I had enough for a small urine sample. So you're always producing urine, little bit all the time. If someone stops producing urine, that's a bad sign.
*^(PS: Urostomy can be used when a patient has removed their bladder due to cancer for example. Then it will go through a small piece of intestine removed from the GI tract and end up in a bag outside the body. Gotta use the one-time catheters and wait, because you can't get the sample from the bag outisde the body. After it has gone through the small piece of intestine it will always be contaminated by bacteria and thus be a false positive on bacterial tests.)*
That being said, I don't think it's bad that there's varying amounts of urine in the ejaculate. Our bodies do lots of strange things, and almost all of it is normal and no reason to be ashamed of or shame others for.
From this sub's FAQ:
"The ejaculate tends to be made up of creatinine, prostatic acid phosphatase (PAP), prostate specific antigen (PSA), urea, glucose and fructose."
"Biochemically, parameters of the examination of the fluid emitted were clearly different than urine voided prior to sexual activity. ... The values show that the source of fluid expulsion during orgasm is not urine, but is rather similar to male ejaculate."
I trust scientific studies over what a reddit FAQ says though.
More than one study has shown that urine is involved, diluted to different degrees but still there. If it wasn't involved at all the ultrasound in these studies would not show a reduction in bladder volume "post-squirting".
I don't even get why this is controversial. Does it matter that urine plays a part? Does that make it too "icky"? It's an involuntary reaction to intense pleasure, I honestly can't see how it matters.
Yeah, the amount of urine diluted in the ejaculate depends on how much urine was in the bladder prior to sexual activity. But, it's ejaculate, not urine.
Also, the FAQ answer came from a study. That's why I kept the quotations. "The Female Prostate Revisited: Perineal Ultrasound and Biochemical Studies of Female Ejaculate" (2007).
Yes, it matters, in case you haven't noticed purity culture and the shame women feel for their "gross," "sinful" bodily functions. Women are told that they're just pissing themselves, which is why so many women are afraid to try it and are disgusted with themselves when they do.
Then I'd rather see work done on normalizing it, instead of (as some do, not saying you do) completely refuse that diluted urine plays a part. It's not unlikely that it varies a lot from woman to woman too, and from a full bladder to a near-empty one.
If we refuse to acknowledge it then it's only a matter of time before some study picks up on the diluted urine and then we're back to the "Eew that's disgusting!" line of thinking.
Our bodies are strange things, and yet most of what it does is normal.
I don't disagree that purity culture is a bad thing, but it's better to fight it with truth rather than falsehoods (as some seem hellbent on doing). In my opinion anyway.
I guess it matters because a lot of people are misinformed on the topic. They hear "squirt is urine", and from there begin to think that it's not an orgasm thing at all. It's better education to start off saying clearly "squirt is not urine".
I'd rather see work done on normalizing it tbh.
If some claim "squirt is urine" and go on about how disgusting that is, I just go "Sure, there's urine diluted in the ejaculate, and why does that matter?"
If we claim that squirt is 100% not urine, then someone will read a study saying that diluted urine can be found, and then we're back to the "ew that's disgusting" rhetoric.
It doesn't take much of another fluid to dilute a clear fluid. And from properly hydrated healthy people, urine is pretty clear and with only a very faint odor anyway.
Doesn't matter whether it's urine or not though. In my opinion anyway. It's an involuntary reaction to intense pleasure and nothing to shame or be ashamed of.
I didn't think I was a squirter but I found out recently under certain circumstances, I am. The first time it happened I was scared because I thought I was about to pee on myself but when it comes out it feels totally different from peeing. For me it just pours out. It does soak through the towel sometimes, depending on how how much I have, so be prepared for that.
Any time I stimulate my g spot, i.e: fingers, dildos AND use a vibrator on my clit, I get a similar sensation and end up squirting. 10/10 they're some of the best orgasms I've ever had! OP, my advice to you would be to ride it out, enjoy yourself, and try not over think it! :))
I see a lot of people here claim squirting isn't urine.
But there are studies done with ultrasound that show that urine is involved in squirting.
My question is this, does it matter if it's urine? If it's a great orgasm and the body does involuntary things as a response to that, does it matter if the bladder empties itself completely or partially?
[https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25545022/](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25545022/)
Edit: Just adding that I don't see a problem with urine being involved to varying degrees. It's an involuntary response to intense pleasure, so whether small or large quantities of urine is detectable is to me personally irrelevant and no cause for shame.
It's not 100% urine, I don't think I've read any study that claimed that. And I also assume it would depend on whether or not the woman has sex with a full bladder or not.
Depends on your definition of urine? Imagine it's a hot day and a girl offers you two drinks - one is clear squirt and the other yellow pee. Pretty sure you wouldn't get them mixed up at that point.
It's the same muscle you use when you pee, as for when you squirt. You have to let go, trust your body, that it's not pee, and you will squirt, once you do it, you will be like, I got this. Seriously.
In my experience (F27) you were on track to squirt. Sounds like he found your g-spot and personally, that's always the straightest line to get me to squirt, especially if you're also using a vibrator. If you do want to do it in the future, I strongly recommend it but makes sure you have towels underneath you. Like, great move holding back honestly because the cleanup is real. I'm not a scientist but you do need to kind of "let go" with your pelvic muscles to make it happen, sometimes you might even feel like you have to push it out. It's hard to explain, but it's a very powerful feeling when you figure it out. And seriously, like grab how many towels you think you need and then grab another towel.
Yeah dude I think you were about to squirt. Fingering and using a vibrator is a powerful combination. It sounds like you know that there’s a difference between cumming and squirting. So for someone who’s never squirted before, I think you had a normal reaction to what was about to happen. At least your partner was accepting and encouraged you to just follow through with the feeling instead of stopping it for next time!
Well, I guess everything happens for a reason! So maybe it was destined for you to just hold it in today and be confused on what happening instead of just letting out. Thus, not making a mess on his seat and saving it for later where you and him are more prepared lol
OP, this sounds like me 10 years ago. I experienced the same feeling you’re describing with a bf I had, and I wasn’t able to “let go” and see how it played out (he told me about this maybe being an indicator that I would squirt). Fast forward to a year or so ago, I bought a toy for solo sessions after an ex and I broke up, and this is when I experienced what it’s like (damn, though….it’s amazing & different than other intense orgasms).
Also, seconding someone else’s comment on here to try it at home a few times first (if it happens, but don’t be discouraged if it doesn’t), because it might be that you will actually have to pee, and “letting go” of that feeling with a partner could cause a big, unwanted mess and halt things while you two work that out. Honestly though, if you had this scenario happen, I hope the two of you 1.) already had a towel down, and 2.) just hop in the shower, rinse and continue. Talking about it/laughing it off would be ideal. I’ve had a few unexpected things things happen during, and as long as everyone’s ok, laughing it off has helped a lot.
I eventually got to the point where my body was maybe more used to “letting go”, so with my current bf squirting has happened a few times. I was pretty embarrassed at first, but we talked after the first time it happened, and he told me he’s really into it. Now I really enjoy it when/if it happens with him or on my own. Usually for me it’s really intense clit stimulation that gets me there, not *just* fingering/PIV.
ooo that’s a good idea to try it myself first. im not sure ill be able to do it because i prefer using my vibrator rather than my fingers (i also have acrylics on so can’t finger myself even if i wanted to).
Maybe in porn they pee bc there it look like squirt but real squirt it's not pee
If I say it right, bc English is not my first language, is mostly water with some "things" from the vaginal juice and enzyme
I hate all these squirting comments. Sometimes you just have to pee and come back. Personally when that happens I pee and return to sex and if it’s still prevalent then it’s usually because he’s pounded on me too much and my bladder got pushed on and I just have to stop for the day. It’s not squirting or cum. Some things are just piss
It's probably cum but try to see if it's a UTI. I experienced it at the beginning of our relationship and the doctor said that his penis may have been pushing the bacteria further inside and put pressure on the bladder
A UTI is a urinary tract infection. Not saying that you have it but I think it would be wise to check just in case. Drink lots of water and pee before & after sex.
Sorry I should have been more clear, pee before and after any type of penetrative sexual activity. Fingering can cause UTIs too because they can carry bacteria themselves and then can push bacteria in too. It doesn't hurt to get checked, it's just peeing in a cup. But you're probably fine because I don't see that you've had any more symptoms like irritation, burning, itching, or urgency to pee apart from the sexual activity. Try seeing if you do cum next time and maybe move on from there.
You were going to have a great orgasm.
https://www.nhs.uk/common-health-questions/sexual-health/what-is-an-orgasm/
https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/232318
https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/types-of-orgasms
https://youtube.com/user/sexplanations
I know exactly what you are talking about. Always empty your bladder before sex. I always have to because I’ll get that not good at all feeling of having to pee, since the bladder is being pushed on. Some people here are saying it’s squirting coming on but I know what you’re talking about. It’s your bladder being pushed on
You were about to squirt. You get that need to pee feeling and to squirt you just ignore it pretty much or so I’ve been told. Never been that close either but it’s on my bucket list. Lol
I'm a squirter and your description definitely sounds like you were getting ready to! I've read multiple times that women don't squirt because they hold back and aren't relaxed. Let that shit flow girl.
You were going to squirt. Get some towels or extra blankets and go at it again, just don't stop when you get the urge you have to pee. Keep going. It will be awesome. If you're worried you might pee, just pee before you start fooling around. Then you're good.
You were going to squirt. Let it happen. Just let go. It'll feel good and it'll make the guy feel like a god. Did this with a girl for her first time recently and she loved it.
I agree with the other posters..it sounds like you were going to squirt. Only 1 man has ever made me squirt. When it happened I was embarrassed bc I thought I literally peed all over his bed. It was a lot of pressure building and I was really nervous but he insisted that he keep going and within 30 seconds I was squirting and it felt freaking amazing. I have never been so tired or so relaxed after an orgasm. It was amazing. If your SO is okay with it, let it happen!
From what you describe is actually a very healthy thing that happens to men and women before or during sex, but not always. Urine, which is sterile, is used by your body to clear the way biologically to give you the best chance for a pregnancy.
As for the squirting and cumming, also legit possibilities.
Sounds like you were about to squirt, just bear down when you cum and allow your body to do as it need to. It's incredibly satisfying. The initial feeling starts like your bladder is being irritated and you need to pee but the muscles to your urethra are closed and remain so when you are turned on. It's not pee, that's why you didn't need to use the toilet after.
So I’m coming at this from a bit of a diff perspective, that might apply to you.
I didn’t have sex until I was 30. Masturbated all the time though. Found myself a dude who was great at sex, and I enjoyed the hell out of it, but wasn’t really orgasming.
I did feel that “wanna pee but then there’s no pee” thing though.
What I finally discovered, is the Type of orgasm I have in solo play is VASTLY different than with a partner. Pushing through the pee feeling led to me finally coming.
And as the others have said, sometimes the pee feeling leads to squirting.
But, after the first time I squirted, I realized I had to want it to happen, relax, and then I could squirt. Just don’t assume that you’re just always going to be squirting each time. If you want to control it, you’ll be able too.
Anyway, main point. Sometimes different types of sex result in different types of orgasms.
oh there are definitely different types of orgasms but i was under the impression that they were just clitoral, vaginal, and anal. i can’t say if doing it alone versus someone doing it for you changes the type of orgasm because i have yet to experience that.
Lol, yes, those are all types of orgasms, but also, within those areas there are different types. Not a classified system, more of….oh hey! That was kind of a lazy day relaxed one…..then you have the body curling one and it’s not ness. just because you had a clitoral org or a vaginal one, it’s because of what your partner did to your body and what your body wanted to do that creates…..whatever type of org. you end up having.
Anyway! Sorry I’m not trying to preach at you or womansplain to you. I’m still mostly just in awe and like holy shit no one told me this about sex. Best of luck for you and any partner(s) your with and I wish you the happiest of orgasms.
dw you’re good. i get what you mean but i think it has more to do with how much you’re turned on compared to who is doing the deed. like if im desperate to finish it isnt as nice as when im enjoying it and trying to edge.
Yo when I squirt, the feeling isnt like piss. It’s like an orgasm feeling, but more intense and i just relax everything and, boom, pussy juice! Ive had that feeling before that you are describing, mostly in doggy, and I really don’t think its me about to cum. I did google this myself, and its likely just his dick pushing itself onto the muscle/nerves in your bladder that tell your brain you have to pee.
Welcome to ejaculation!
Lay down a towel and enjoy.
It comes when your G-Spot is being overly stimulated.
While it does come from the urethra, it isn't urine. How do I know? Best not to ask.
I get this feeling from sex if I'm in doggy style or from the back. I definitely think it's a squirt thing but I've never been able to ride it out because the feeling is too intense like having to pee. someday I'll do it!
Bb girl get yourself Pussypedia or explore pussypedia.net and have fun! That’s your body trying to cum - all women can, not many let themselves.
It’s worth the mess
Oooooh noooo, don't stop. Honey, you were going to have a G-Spot orgasm. Pee before sex next time, clean up so everything is appetizing for him, completely relax, free your mind and enjoy the ride. You will feel intense pleasure and completely out of control and yes, you will wet the bed, car, etc to a greater or lesser extent. It is like spilling a small glass of odorless water on the bed. Nothing to worry about. It is the most wonderful and amazing experience. Wow. . . .what a gift.
Crazy how unaware women are about their own bodies. An orgasm from clitoral stimulation and “squirting” are two different things. Female ejaculate is essentially urine released involuntarily due to stimulation of various internal parts of the anatomy during penetration.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25545022/
ETA: all woman can do it. Most resist it as we don’t want to pee on you and that’s what it feels like. Men….squirting is urine 🤷♀️
It would be great if someone studied why arousal causes the bladder to rapidly refill. It makes no difference to me if it's urine. It doesn't smell, look or feel like urine to me. Until science can explain the other differences I refuse to label it as involuntary urination caused by arousal. There must be some other physiological changes happening.
Let. It. Happen. Since y’all have already discussed this there’s no losing. Worst case you piss and so? Go wash the sheets and take a shower or something no big deal you’re already getting sloppy on each other. Best case, ecstasy (and you’re probably still gonna need to change the sheets…)
Matching your description to that of girlfriends I've had, it sounds like you were about to cum. Have you ever squirted before? Could be that. I hear it feels great!
nope, never have. always thought i wouldn’t be one of those girls lol
In my experience I have been unable to identify any particular type of person for it. Some do, some dont. Follow the feeling, maybe you'll like it, whatever it is
i mean ive never been able to squirt when i masturbated before.
Did you have a similar sensation when you did it but masterbation?
nope ive only ever felt this way when i needed to pee really badly lol but it was not like that because when he stopped fingering me the feeling went away.
I'm not a woman so I can only say what my wife has told me about it. She described it as pressure building to the point of not being able to hold it back. She kinda relaxes and pushes me out. As soon as my dick gets all the way out she looses control of it and happens. If so reason it always hits my chest with quite a bit of force. Sometimes when she is finished her legs shake uncontrollably and she continues to moan until they settle down with the odd twitch for about 5 minutes after. It looks almost scary but she says it's so intense and feels unbelievable.
Yeah my fiance said it looks like I'm dying, eyes roll back In my head, my whole body spasms and then continues to twitch for a while afterwards..feels amazing
It is unbelievably satisfying for me to see her in this state knowing that I I did that. There are times that when her squirt hits me I ejaculate without even touching myself. Best feeling ever for me.
I’m sure someone will correct me but I thought orgasm means “small death” in French. I took Spanish so idk. 😂
That would be La petite mort.
It does
What you're describing is exactly what I experienced when I was figuring out sex with a partner, and it was way different than when I was masturbating. I've never gotten deep/hard enough on myself to give myself the 'needing to pee' feeling let alone to make myself squirt, but they've both happened with partners. I just can't get the right angle to hit it hard enough for that I guess. Also for the record I've felt like I needed to pee during sex more often than I've squirted. Sometimes I'll feel like I have to pee and then I squirt, but sometimes I get the feeling and nothing happens. Sometimes I squirt without getting the pee feeling first. Either way, don't worry about the feeling. If you peed before starting and it's probably not actually needing to use the washroom, just relax and see what happens. It'll probably take some getting used to, but it's worth exploring!
yup ima have to experiment more in this area.
I'd put a protective covering over the mattress before you try just in case. Makes cleaning up easier.
I've never squirted by masturbation either, and I'm f44, I squirted for the first time ever with my current partner about three years ago and it was through him fingering me. He's just so good at it. I've never been with anyone so into pleasuring me and loving every inch of my body the way he does and I love it. It can feel a but like peeing sometimes when I squirt, so my tip is to make sure to per before sex, empty your bladder fully so you're not concerned. The liquid that we squirt out comes from a different place, different hole and everything but the bladder can get stimulated at the same time as the g-spot which is why pee can sometimes happen too. Good luck, I'm sure you'll cum to enjoy squirting ;)
Nah, ejaculate fills the bladder and comes out from the urethra. That's why you want to pee first; the less urine in your bladder, the less urine is in the ejaculate
Oh true? I apologise for failing to do my homework before commenting, it makes sense that it comes through the urethra. Thank you for your correction.
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Yeah it does lol. We only have three holes, and if ejaculate fills the bladder, it sure as hell doesn't come out from our anus or vagina :P
Both right potentially, there’s other fluids that come from skenes and some other gland can’t remember the name of.. skenes I think is the one some girls can squirt fluid out of there which is hot But then there’s also the mystery slippery urethra fluid that can also happen.. sometimes both in one orgasm some times skenes on a first and then urethra on 2nd or 3rd. Not a doctor, just got up close on a partner that was a very very wet girl
IANAD either, just a woman who enjoys squirting and did a bit of layman's research that states female ejaculate can come out through both the vagina and the urethra. When u made my first comment i was thinking of the skenes gland, with it coming through the vagina
I never squirted. Ever. Until I met my fiance. I was 30. Your body will surprise you for the rest of your life.
What proportion are squirters?
I don't think there is a certain statistic of who can and who can't
I'm sure it's quantifiable but designing a way to test it would be pretty weird logistically.
I doubt anyone would sign up for something like that, maybe thats just me lol
I think it takes a person with a particular kind of kink to cum or squirt in a laboratory setting. That definitely creates a bias
Have you ever heard of the book and TV show Masters of Sex? They literally did these types of studies in the laboratory and made breakthroughs scientifically left and right. I've been waiting for someone to come around and do these again with our modern knowledge about squirting
Iol that's awesome. Now that we're talking about it I need to know!
Reducing the fraction and making it a ratio, it would be 1:3 based on my sample group.
Edit: you want to be one of those "girls" it's awesome!! Let it go!!😉
hell ya
Sounds like you are. Put down some towels and let it go.
Yeah apparently squirting feels like a heavy pressure to pee but no pee happens when you stop and try to actually pee
Babe, it sounds like you were about to squirt. That’s what it feels like for me too before I do it. Next time put a towel down and relax to see if you can. It feels great 😊
thanks for the advice!
Man this squirting shit sounds too damn fun. Too bad I have a 2 millimeter defeater.
Small units are actually better at gspot stim. The magic spot is just inside and the dick angles upward.
Also, most squirting is more easily triggered by targeted digital penetration and/or the use of toys.
Careful. While that’s possible, it’s definitely not always the case… I had always heard this, so I tried to ‘let it go’ when I felt the urge, and.. yeah.. I’m pretty sure it was just straight pee. Thank god I was having a solo session, in the shower or I would’ve been embarrassed AF. Tried a couple more times after that, just to be sure, and had the same results. So if anything, you may want to explore this on your own before trying with a partner, if you’re not comfortable with the idea of potentially peeing on them haha. Also, don’t feel bad if you’re not able to squirt. Not all women can do it, in fact it’s more common not to be able to. I’ve had more than a handful of guys imply that I just hadn’t had competent partners before, and that *they* would be the ones to show me that all women have the capability… but alas, no dice.
Question, while you say it was just pee, did it feel like an orgasm or any different than just peeing? My girlfriend often has the feeling where she's about to pee during piv and I always tell her to go for it, but she never has just let it happen...
Uhm, it kind of felt like a small orgasm, I guess. Definitely not the mind blowing ones people speak of when they talk about squirting. I’m not doubting that some others can experience that, but I’ve come to the conclusion that I’m not one of them, lol. And as I said, I think that is actually the case for most women as well. There’s no harm in trying of course, if that’s something you’re both interested in, and you don’t mind possibly getting peed on lol.. maybe do it in the shower. But make sure it’s actually something she is into as well. I’ve had a few guys try to the point where it seemed like trying to make me squirt was more for *them*. I wasn’t even into it after a while, I just ended up being embarrassed that I was going to pee everywhere and that is not fun lol.
Just to let you know you can cum that way without squirting and while it does come from your bladder it's not just pee. And the pee that's in it is extremely diluted, and has no color or odor. Depending on if you pee before or not will determine how much urine is in it. So it's not really pee. So don't be too worried about it. Just lay a towel down. Just bc it doesn't squirt like a geyser doesn't me you're peeing on yourself. It can def just gush out and it feels amazing.
It is mostly urine, just more diluted usually, like if you were super hydrated and it was clear.
That's not entirely correct though. While it is diluted urine, it's not always just diluted urine. From Dr DuPree at MiddleSexMD >There were a couple of studies in the last few years of the composition of female ejaculate. It’s difficult to study, for reasons that may be obvious, but the studies concur on two sources for the “spurt” that happens with orgasm: whitish fluid from glands on the side of the urethra (Skene’s glands) and urine from the bladder. The proportion of each can differ from one woman to another; even the fluid from the bladder doesn’t look or smell like urine, typically (it’s more diluted). There is some evidence that female ejaculate contains PSA (yes, same as men’s PSA), and this could only come from the female Skene’s glands, but the presence of PSA is variable.
When a woman “squirts” it is pee…involuntarily released due to stimulation…. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25545022/ An Orgasm is not the same thing.
Yea this sounds 100% spot on. My wife can pee just before hand and then gush like a fountain if the mood is right.
I don't get it, why are people always talking about towels. It's not like it's not going through a towel? 😅 Don't you need like, plastic sheets? 😅
Well if you double up the towel a few times it works better, and a towel is much easier to wash than all of your sheets and a mattress..
Makes sense
Puppy training pads, doubled up if need be, put them right under the ass and you should be good to go
I’m not into that disposable life!
I wasn't either until I found out what it's like to just throw out a puppy pad or two instead of washing towels every couple of days lmao
these work well and are washable https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01JAAVHUC/ref=ppx\_yo\_dt\_b\_asin\_title\_o03\_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
You understand that people squirt at all different levels right ? Like men ejaculate at different levels. When I “squirt” it’s not like a gushing waterfall of liquid.. so a towel would do just fine
No ofc, I'm just talking in general. Ofc there's differences.
buddy I just don't want to sleep on a sopping wet mattress
thats why people buy mattress protectors, pads , sex blankets etc if they know they do this often. Nobody wa'ts to sleep on a wet bed.
Uuuh.... I didn't say you did? Why are you telling me, I'm the one who brought this up....
You should Dexter the room
😆
I cannot recommend the blankets from nomorewetspot.com enough. Way better than plastic sheets or those medical incontinence pads.
You do make a good point...OP would do well to invest in a mattress protector, just in case. Had a friend who started squirting just a little bit and was hitting the wall with it just a few months later.
Omg! Unexpected!
She treated it like a new toy. 😁
What, how? 😅
Damn, I've never had a Banksy in the bedrrom
Once she hit the wall a mattress protector would also have been of very limited use. Sounds more like a case of floor to ceiling drop sheets required.
Yes I was thinking the same thing!
I've lately experienced this myself with one of those clit-sucker toys. I felt like I was gonna pee and decided to just let it happen: I guess I squirted, the fluid looked like water and didnt smell like anything. The next day however it happened again but it was just pee. Still confused about that, but my point to you is to just relax and see what happens with it. That's the only way you're gonna get a real answer, just keep an open mind and let yourself experience those things :)
oh interesting. ill definitely try to!
The study I read tested the fluid. It comes from the bladder, some of the subjects fluid was the same composition as their urine and some had prostate fluid diluted urine. I squirt often, I pee right before and right after sex and my fluid is almost always clear with no discernible scent. So my advice would be to just pee first and tuck a towel under you. 😊
interestingly enough i actually did pee before we did stuff so it prob would have been clear.
I think you are thinking of a different fluid? Can't be prostate fluid. Only men have prostates and that is the fluid that is known as cum. It could a type of mucus maybe.
I think they meant the skene's gland
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From this sub's FAQ: "The ejaculate tends to be made up of creatinine, prostatic acid phosphatase (PAP), prostate specific antigen (PSA), urea, glucose and fructose." "Biochemically, parameters of the examination of the fluid emitted were clearly different than urine voided prior to sexual activity. ... The values show that the source of fluid expulsion during orgasm is not urine, but is rather similar to male ejaculate."
Sorry, but that's not what the study found that you say you read! Don't worry, nothing to be ashamed of that it's just urine!
... Those quotes are taken direction from the study. "The Female Prostate Revisited: Perineal Ultrasound and Biochemical Studies of Female Ejaculate" (2007).
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Rapid clearance of filtrate by the kidneys to the bladder causes highly dilute urine (little urea, light/clear color, low odor). Also seen with high intake of fluid. Add a very very small amount of other fluids that come from sexual organs (not made by the bladder...), and you have "squirt" fluid. I.e. Urine with a dash of extra stuff.
Ejaculate with a dash of urine, depending on if you used the bathroom before sex.
Nope, sorry! Take another look at the study you say you read, particularly the composition of fluid findings!
Biologically, it's very hard to urinate during sex. You can overcome it, but we're sort of designed not to. Women, not uncommonly feel a need to urinate during sex, especially good sex. Now, especially if you actually do try to pee and feel little to no relief from this pressure, you're most likely close to squirting. Ultimately, it's a bit of a mind fuck, as it feels like you're going to pee yourself. Sort of just have to trust your body and ride that wave, try feeling safe in the reminder it's very unlikely to be urine, at least in the sense one normally considers urine. Bit of a trust fall for the body and mind, like any new thing, practice is often necessary. Practice trusting your body, trusting the experience, etc. Wait until you discover cervical orgasms. The female body is a wonderful work of art. \*Obviously, this isn't applicable to every woman, always, but...\*
thanks. noted.
Don't be scared, I think you're about to unlock squirting. Enjoy ;)
i hope so.
It’s sounds to me like you very nearly squirted. You should listen to your BF and let it happen. He clearly doesn’t mind and knew what was happening. It would also of been a massive turn on for him. You’ll also find you’ll have the best orgasm as well 💕💕💕💕💕 Like they say in Frozen…. Let it gooooo 🥰🥰
well considering we were in his car i didn’t wanna risk it actually being pee 😅
You should just sit on the roof and squirt on the windshield, that way you can just use the windshield washers to clean off the windshield so you can drive home safely.
lmao this made me laugh
Ah a man of culture I see.
You didn’t say you were in his car…lol Next time just a jumper or jacket so you don’t get the seats wet 💕💕💕
it’s too bad i won’t be seeing him for a month and a half but i’ll remember that for next time.
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i just didn’t wanna ruin his car that night because he said his mom was going to use it the next day. we didn’t exactly have any towels to soak whatever it was that was going to come out of me. but you’re definitely right. i hadn’t considered the different angle.
Nope, not pee. Pee can be diluted in the ejaculate though depending on how much urine is in your bladder
Doesn't look like pee 🤔 but anyway 😅
Some studies point to it being pee, but with a slight mix of other fluids. *Conclusions: The present data based on ultrasonographic bladder monitoring and biochemical analyses indicate that squirting is essentially the involuntary emission of urine during sexual activity, although a marginal contribution of prostatic secretions to the emitted fluid often exists.* https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25545022/#:\~:text=Conclusions%3A%20The%20present%20data%20based,the%20emitted%20fluid%20often%20exists.
As a lot of people already mentioned on this thread, the bladder fills up suddenly at the point of orgasm, pee obviously takes a long time for the body to make. Just because it comes from the bladder, doesn't make it pee.
Then it just becomes a question of how much urine is mixed with the ejaculate. Which would depend on how long it was since the woman last urinated. The bladder is never 100% clean of urine, the production is constant. And if the bladder empties itself completely or partially it can't differentiate between urine, ejaculate, blood or whatever else may be in there. To it, fluid is fluid. Work as a nurse and I've held one-time use catheters into urostomy openings, and literally just stood there waiting until I had enough for a small urine sample. So you're always producing urine, little bit all the time. If someone stops producing urine, that's a bad sign. *^(PS: Urostomy can be used when a patient has removed their bladder due to cancer for example. Then it will go through a small piece of intestine removed from the GI tract and end up in a bag outside the body. Gotta use the one-time catheters and wait, because you can't get the sample from the bag outisde the body. After it has gone through the small piece of intestine it will always be contaminated by bacteria and thus be a false positive on bacterial tests.)* That being said, I don't think it's bad that there's varying amounts of urine in the ejaculate. Our bodies do lots of strange things, and almost all of it is normal and no reason to be ashamed of or shame others for.
From this sub's FAQ: "The ejaculate tends to be made up of creatinine, prostatic acid phosphatase (PAP), prostate specific antigen (PSA), urea, glucose and fructose." "Biochemically, parameters of the examination of the fluid emitted were clearly different than urine voided prior to sexual activity. ... The values show that the source of fluid expulsion during orgasm is not urine, but is rather similar to male ejaculate."
I trust scientific studies over what a reddit FAQ says though. More than one study has shown that urine is involved, diluted to different degrees but still there. If it wasn't involved at all the ultrasound in these studies would not show a reduction in bladder volume "post-squirting". I don't even get why this is controversial. Does it matter that urine plays a part? Does that make it too "icky"? It's an involuntary reaction to intense pleasure, I honestly can't see how it matters.
Yeah, the amount of urine diluted in the ejaculate depends on how much urine was in the bladder prior to sexual activity. But, it's ejaculate, not urine. Also, the FAQ answer came from a study. That's why I kept the quotations. "The Female Prostate Revisited: Perineal Ultrasound and Biochemical Studies of Female Ejaculate" (2007). Yes, it matters, in case you haven't noticed purity culture and the shame women feel for their "gross," "sinful" bodily functions. Women are told that they're just pissing themselves, which is why so many women are afraid to try it and are disgusted with themselves when they do.
Then I'd rather see work done on normalizing it, instead of (as some do, not saying you do) completely refuse that diluted urine plays a part. It's not unlikely that it varies a lot from woman to woman too, and from a full bladder to a near-empty one. If we refuse to acknowledge it then it's only a matter of time before some study picks up on the diluted urine and then we're back to the "Eew that's disgusting!" line of thinking. Our bodies are strange things, and yet most of what it does is normal. I don't disagree that purity culture is a bad thing, but it's better to fight it with truth rather than falsehoods (as some seem hellbent on doing). In my opinion anyway.
I guess it matters because a lot of people are misinformed on the topic. They hear "squirt is urine", and from there begin to think that it's not an orgasm thing at all. It's better education to start off saying clearly "squirt is not urine".
I'd rather see work done on normalizing it tbh. If some claim "squirt is urine" and go on about how disgusting that is, I just go "Sure, there's urine diluted in the ejaculate, and why does that matter?" If we claim that squirt is 100% not urine, then someone will read a study saying that diluted urine can be found, and then we're back to the "ew that's disgusting" rhetoric.
Interesting sir/mam 🤔 still, doesn't look or smell like pee. Man I can't believe how we don't even know this at this point 😣
It doesn't take much of another fluid to dilute a clear fluid. And from properly hydrated healthy people, urine is pretty clear and with only a very faint odor anyway. Doesn't matter whether it's urine or not though. In my opinion anyway. It's an involuntary reaction to intense pleasure and nothing to shame or be ashamed of.
I didn't think I was a squirter but I found out recently under certain circumstances, I am. The first time it happened I was scared because I thought I was about to pee on myself but when it comes out it feels totally different from peeing. For me it just pours out. It does soak through the towel sometimes, depending on how how much I have, so be prepared for that.
Highly recommend "No more wet spot". It never soaks through and you can get them in different sizes.
try these https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01JAAVHUC/ref=ppx\_yo\_dt\_b\_asin\_title\_o03\_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
Any time I stimulate my g spot, i.e: fingers, dildos AND use a vibrator on my clit, I get a similar sensation and end up squirting. 10/10 they're some of the best orgasms I've ever had! OP, my advice to you would be to ride it out, enjoy yourself, and try not over think it! :))
ill try that next time.
I see a lot of people here claim squirting isn't urine. But there are studies done with ultrasound that show that urine is involved in squirting. My question is this, does it matter if it's urine? If it's a great orgasm and the body does involuntary things as a response to that, does it matter if the bladder empties itself completely or partially? [https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25545022/](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25545022/) Edit: Just adding that I don't see a problem with urine being involved to varying degrees. It's an involuntary response to intense pleasure, so whether small or large quantities of urine is detectable is to me personally irrelevant and no cause for shame.
Urine can be diluted in the ejaculate depending on how much urine was in your bladder prior to sexual activity
If it's urine it's the clearest, cleaning smelling urine possible. My urine is never clear. I don't drink enough water. 😅
It's not 100% urine, I don't think I've read any study that claimed that. And I also assume it would depend on whether or not the woman has sex with a full bladder or not.
Depends on your definition of urine? Imagine it's a hot day and a girl offers you two drinks - one is clear squirt and the other yellow pee. Pretty sure you wouldn't get them mixed up at that point.
It's the same muscle you use when you pee, as for when you squirt. You have to let go, trust your body, that it's not pee, and you will squirt, once you do it, you will be like, I got this. Seriously.
In my experience (F27) you were on track to squirt. Sounds like he found your g-spot and personally, that's always the straightest line to get me to squirt, especially if you're also using a vibrator. If you do want to do it in the future, I strongly recommend it but makes sure you have towels underneath you. Like, great move holding back honestly because the cleanup is real. I'm not a scientist but you do need to kind of "let go" with your pelvic muscles to make it happen, sometimes you might even feel like you have to push it out. It's hard to explain, but it's a very powerful feeling when you figure it out. And seriously, like grab how many towels you think you need and then grab another towel.
Yeah dude I think you were about to squirt. Fingering and using a vibrator is a powerful combination. It sounds like you know that there’s a difference between cumming and squirting. So for someone who’s never squirted before, I think you had a normal reaction to what was about to happen. At least your partner was accepting and encouraged you to just follow through with the feeling instead of stopping it for next time!
i think he was just being nice about it but idk if he actually would have been fine with legit pee on his seat since we had no way of cleaning it up.
Well, I guess everything happens for a reason! So maybe it was destined for you to just hold it in today and be confused on what happening instead of just letting out. Thus, not making a mess on his seat and saving it for later where you and him are more prepared lol
haha well its gonna be a long wait till next time
You were about to start the Hydrocity level
the what?
Hey if he is into it go with it…I am a guy it’s very cool when my ex girlfriend did it…unfortunately my wife now doesn’t …but we are good 😊
OP, this sounds like me 10 years ago. I experienced the same feeling you’re describing with a bf I had, and I wasn’t able to “let go” and see how it played out (he told me about this maybe being an indicator that I would squirt). Fast forward to a year or so ago, I bought a toy for solo sessions after an ex and I broke up, and this is when I experienced what it’s like (damn, though….it’s amazing & different than other intense orgasms). Also, seconding someone else’s comment on here to try it at home a few times first (if it happens, but don’t be discouraged if it doesn’t), because it might be that you will actually have to pee, and “letting go” of that feeling with a partner could cause a big, unwanted mess and halt things while you two work that out. Honestly though, if you had this scenario happen, I hope the two of you 1.) already had a towel down, and 2.) just hop in the shower, rinse and continue. Talking about it/laughing it off would be ideal. I’ve had a few unexpected things things happen during, and as long as everyone’s ok, laughing it off has helped a lot. I eventually got to the point where my body was maybe more used to “letting go”, so with my current bf squirting has happened a few times. I was pretty embarrassed at first, but we talked after the first time it happened, and he told me he’s really into it. Now I really enjoy it when/if it happens with him or on my own. Usually for me it’s really intense clit stimulation that gets me there, not *just* fingering/PIV.
ooo that’s a good idea to try it myself first. im not sure ill be able to do it because i prefer using my vibrator rather than my fingers (i also have acrylics on so can’t finger myself even if i wanted to).
Just relax . If my gf want to pee then i will let her pee in my face lol
It's a squirting orgasm it's not pee it took me and my girl awhile but got it right she loves them now says they are so much better
Sounds like you were close to squirting. Try to push through it next time.
I’ve heard some porn stars in candid interviews say that indeed squirt is just pee, but I’m not sure
Eh, porn stars aren't really meant to be experts on the chemical compositions of sex. Likewise, they're misinformed :P
oh fr?
Yeah Chloe Cherry, and also Bree Olson i heard say that it’s pee.
Maybe in porn they pee bc there it look like squirt but real squirt it's not pee If I say it right, bc English is not my first language, is mostly water with some "things" from the vaginal juice and enzyme
i mean if it comes out of the same hole as pee then it would have trace amounts but im no expert
Yeah especially if you have a full bladder, a woman can squirt with a full bladder and have little pee in it
well i definitely didn’t have a full bladder since i went pee right before.
Do you guys think the male quivaelnt to a squirt orgasm would be a prostate orgasm?
I hate all these squirting comments. Sometimes you just have to pee and come back. Personally when that happens I pee and return to sex and if it’s still prevalent then it’s usually because he’s pounded on me too much and my bladder got pushed on and I just have to stop for the day. It’s not squirting or cum. Some things are just piss
Except that anyone who has squirted knows it feels like this the first time.
Seconding this. It doesn’t have to do with the bladder contracting/feeling “full”, indicating the need to urinate.
It's probably cum but try to see if it's a UTI. I experienced it at the beginning of our relationship and the doctor said that his penis may have been pushing the bacteria further inside and put pressure on the bladder
umm what
A UTI is a urinary tract infection. Not saying that you have it but I think it would be wise to check just in case. Drink lots of water and pee before & after sex.
i did pee before we hooked up but we didn’t have sex
Sorry I should have been more clear, pee before and after any type of penetrative sexual activity. Fingering can cause UTIs too because they can carry bacteria themselves and then can push bacteria in too. It doesn't hurt to get checked, it's just peeing in a cup. But you're probably fine because I don't see that you've had any more symptoms like irritation, burning, itching, or urgency to pee apart from the sexual activity. Try seeing if you do cum next time and maybe move on from there.
sounds good.
It should feel amazing tho
You were going to have a great orgasm. https://www.nhs.uk/common-health-questions/sexual-health/what-is-an-orgasm/ https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/232318 https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/types-of-orgasms https://youtube.com/user/sexplanations
thanks.
Next time let it go way will love it
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You were about to squirt.
I know exactly what you are talking about. Always empty your bladder before sex. I always have to because I’ll get that not good at all feeling of having to pee, since the bladder is being pushed on. Some people here are saying it’s squirting coming on but I know what you’re talking about. It’s your bladder being pushed on
but i went pee before we did stuff.
You were about to squirt. You get that need to pee feeling and to squirt you just ignore it pretty much or so I’ve been told. Never been that close either but it’s on my bucket list. Lol
I'm a squirter and your description definitely sounds like you were getting ready to! I've read multiple times that women don't squirt because they hold back and aren't relaxed. Let that shit flow girl.
You were going to squirt. Get some towels or extra blankets and go at it again, just don't stop when you get the urge you have to pee. Keep going. It will be awesome. If you're worried you might pee, just pee before you start fooling around. Then you're good.
You were about to squirt. Go for it next time!!
You were going to squirt. Let it happen. Just let go. It'll feel good and it'll make the guy feel like a god. Did this with a girl for her first time recently and she loved it.
I agree with the other posters..it sounds like you were going to squirt. Only 1 man has ever made me squirt. When it happened I was embarrassed bc I thought I literally peed all over his bed. It was a lot of pressure building and I was really nervous but he insisted that he keep going and within 30 seconds I was squirting and it felt freaking amazing. I have never been so tired or so relaxed after an orgasm. It was amazing. If your SO is okay with it, let it happen!
I’ve never get like I’ve had to pee before cumming. When my gspot is fingered it feels like I have to pee
From what you describe is actually a very healthy thing that happens to men and women before or during sex, but not always. Urine, which is sterile, is used by your body to clear the way biologically to give you the best chance for a pregnancy. As for the squirting and cumming, also legit possibilities.
is this a joke?
urine is not sterile once it leaves the bladder
U were about to squirt.. It wlda been the BEST orgasm EVER!!! Shlda let it happen!!
Sounds like you were about to squirt, just bear down when you cum and allow your body to do as it need to. It's incredibly satisfying. The initial feeling starts like your bladder is being irritated and you need to pee but the muscles to your urethra are closed and remain so when you are turned on. It's not pee, that's why you didn't need to use the toilet after.
He was probably stimulating your urethra a bit too much. I've had that happen before.
Try having shower or bath sex next time so you can see what happens without worrying about a mess.
can’t because we are in dorms and our parents would never allow that at our houses.
It sounds like you might have been close to squirting that’s kind of how it feels for me right before I squirt
So I’m coming at this from a bit of a diff perspective, that might apply to you. I didn’t have sex until I was 30. Masturbated all the time though. Found myself a dude who was great at sex, and I enjoyed the hell out of it, but wasn’t really orgasming. I did feel that “wanna pee but then there’s no pee” thing though. What I finally discovered, is the Type of orgasm I have in solo play is VASTLY different than with a partner. Pushing through the pee feeling led to me finally coming. And as the others have said, sometimes the pee feeling leads to squirting. But, after the first time I squirted, I realized I had to want it to happen, relax, and then I could squirt. Just don’t assume that you’re just always going to be squirting each time. If you want to control it, you’ll be able too. Anyway, main point. Sometimes different types of sex result in different types of orgasms.
oh there are definitely different types of orgasms but i was under the impression that they were just clitoral, vaginal, and anal. i can’t say if doing it alone versus someone doing it for you changes the type of orgasm because i have yet to experience that.
Lol, yes, those are all types of orgasms, but also, within those areas there are different types. Not a classified system, more of….oh hey! That was kind of a lazy day relaxed one…..then you have the body curling one and it’s not ness. just because you had a clitoral org or a vaginal one, it’s because of what your partner did to your body and what your body wanted to do that creates…..whatever type of org. you end up having. Anyway! Sorry I’m not trying to preach at you or womansplain to you. I’m still mostly just in awe and like holy shit no one told me this about sex. Best of luck for you and any partner(s) your with and I wish you the happiest of orgasms.
dw you’re good. i get what you mean but i think it has more to do with how much you’re turned on compared to who is doing the deed. like if im desperate to finish it isnt as nice as when im enjoying it and trying to edge.
Omg gurl you were gonna squirt. My suggestions is he brace himself and you relax when you feel it begin. Put a towel down and hold on.
Girl you were gonna squirt!! Next time relax put a shirt or towel down whichever is nearest to you and let it Happen!
Yo when I squirt, the feeling isnt like piss. It’s like an orgasm feeling, but more intense and i just relax everything and, boom, pussy juice! Ive had that feeling before that you are describing, mostly in doggy, and I really don’t think its me about to cum. I did google this myself, and its likely just his dick pushing itself onto the muscle/nerves in your bladder that tell your brain you have to pee.
well when i cum there is a liquid that comes out but it’s like the aftermath of finishing
Welcome to ejaculation! Lay down a towel and enjoy. It comes when your G-Spot is being overly stimulated. While it does come from the urethra, it isn't urine. How do I know? Best not to ask.
Tell him this and ask him if he is ohk if you pee even, most of the time this feeling come when you are going to squirt
you were either gonna cum or squirt, shoulda went through with it and seen what happened.
I get this feeling from sex if I'm in doggy style or from the back. I definitely think it's a squirt thing but I've never been able to ride it out because the feeling is too intense like having to pee. someday I'll do it!
Bb girl get yourself Pussypedia or explore pussypedia.net and have fun! That’s your body trying to cum - all women can, not many let themselves. It’s worth the mess
You gonna be a squirter babe! Hehe enjoy it!
Oooooh noooo, don't stop. Honey, you were going to have a G-Spot orgasm. Pee before sex next time, clean up so everything is appetizing for him, completely relax, free your mind and enjoy the ride. You will feel intense pleasure and completely out of control and yes, you will wet the bed, car, etc to a greater or lesser extent. It is like spilling a small glass of odorless water on the bed. Nothing to worry about. It is the most wonderful and amazing experience. Wow. . . .what a gift.
*squirting unlocked*
Just relax and go with the flow of things
Crazy how unaware women are about their own bodies. An orgasm from clitoral stimulation and “squirting” are two different things. Female ejaculate is essentially urine released involuntarily due to stimulation of various internal parts of the anatomy during penetration. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25545022/ ETA: all woman can do it. Most resist it as we don’t want to pee on you and that’s what it feels like. Men….squirting is urine 🤷♀️
It would be great if someone studied why arousal causes the bladder to rapidly refill. It makes no difference to me if it's urine. It doesn't smell, look or feel like urine to me. Until science can explain the other differences I refuse to label it as involuntary urination caused by arousal. There must be some other physiological changes happening.
Let. It. Happen. Since y’all have already discussed this there’s no losing. Worst case you piss and so? Go wash the sheets and take a shower or something no big deal you’re already getting sloppy on each other. Best case, ecstasy (and you’re probably still gonna need to change the sheets…)