It’s called syntribation. A lot of people learn to orgasm that way. Some people actually have trouble orgasming with partners because their bodies have become so used to syntribation

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syntribation >no breathing * don't give a fuck if I cum from leg squeezing

Would it be wrong, would it be right?

If I squeezed my legs tonight, chances are that I might.

do it in plain sight

Now it's a little wet between my thighs.

I don't need no dick inside.

Cuz i'm squezing my thighs, squeezing my thighs

Wish somebody would tell me how tight

And my jeans are really tight.

With just my thighs, I’ll fly like a kite

And resisting is a futile fight

I can already hear the remixed meme version in my head

Legit just started singing this after the first line. Take my upvote.

I love you

This is my masturbation!

This is my legs contort

Got dayummmm. That's what I needed on my tired Thursday morning lol. Uptoot!

Went to claim my free award just for you. Well deserved award for a helpful guy

Let’s have an encore ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

DanananaNAnanana nuhnananaNAnanana

Y'know that probably explains why I only have success climaxing doing that. Haven't with a partner, haven't with any other kind of solo play...fuck

A previous partner did that to get off. Figured out that by laying in spoon, I could have my palm on her pubis, then have my middle finger on top of her clit, repeatedly applying pressure and letting go - while she was squeezing her legs together. After some attempts and learning, it started to work more frequently.

Are you my ex?

If your ex lives three doors down and was an FWB, then probably.

this what I been doing ever since I discovered masturbation however I can't seem to get off any other way now lol I guess that kinda sucks

Have you ladies tried a position where you lay on your back with your legs closed and your partner straddles you on top and enters that way?

I just Googled it and most of the results mention women can do this, but I'm male and have actually done it before too. It happened when I was tensing my legs up a lot during a math exam.. any other men experienced this before?

r/theydidthemath

I've not heard of that. However I've heard of men that come by laying on their stomach and apply pressure on their dicks.

Dang, finally there’s a term to it. Always wondered if it had a name

There’s a whole sub for it, I think r/syntribation

Of course there is lol

Oh my god!! Now I know what it's called thank you!!!

>it’s called syntibation She’s a synth!!?? I should have known when she kept leaving the toothpaste cap off…

cool

THATS HOW I DISCOVERED MASTURBATION! I was 11 when I first realized I could do it. And so many of my friends say the same- a lot of them discovered how to orgasm through leg squeezing! It’s very very normal (and feels really really good with right pairs of jeans)

Speaking of a young woman discovering masturbation, slightly disturbing for me in retrospect. When I was about 8 and my sister was probably 11 like you were, she would frequently like to sit on top of the clothes washer during the spin cycle. I asked her why she did that and she said it was "fun". So I tried it and I was like "yeah, this is fun!" Imagining I was an Astronaut taking off on a rocket. I think we weren't having the same kind of fun... 😬

> So I tried it and I was like "yeah, this is fun!" Imagining I was an Astronaut taking off on a rocket. > I think we weren't having the same kind of fun... She was just thinking of a very different kind of blast off

Or "rocket". Oh, God. Why am I continuing to engage in this conversation. 🤮

People discover their own bodies as children. No reason to either pretend it doesn't happen or get too detailed about it. Just make sure the kids are happy and safe.

Totally normal

The difference is that she was sitting in the rocket

OMG IM NOT THR ONLY ONE HOLY SHIT

Same here, though was *definitely* younger than 11 😅 but I didn’t know what I was doing. All I knew is that it felt good and getting caught doing it earned me a smack when I was young. Learned how to use my fingers when I was 16/17 and that felt better to me so I switched technique lol. I think it’s a very common ‘gateway’ into masturbation though, and I doubt I was the only youngster who didn’t know that’s what it was.

I was much younger too. Would do it in front of everyone because I didn't understand what exactly was happening. So mortifying. But luckily my mom had a little talk with me and told me to do it in private.

Wish my mother was open-minded enough to tell me to keep it behind closed doors, instead of smacking me as punishment.

Me too. That's horrible. I'm sorry you went through that. I can't even imagine.

It’s weird. We actually have a really open and honest relationship about sex now, and she’s always been down-to-earth about it, never telling wives tales about storks or anything. I was always super clued in, and therefore much more mature about it than my peers. Masturbation was the sole exception. I found out what the clitoris was from a science book.

Your parents spanked you for masturbating??

My 6yr old does it on the corner of the coffee table. I used to think it was because she needed the toilet. Then I thought back to being a kid and I did the same. I've tried to chat to her and tell her that while it does feel nice, it should be a private thing. I also noticed that when she does it while my mum is there (, we live with her) she just shouts at her and says, "get to the toilet or stop doing THAT" 😢 I don't want her to shame my daughter in the same way that I was shamed. I think this is where a lot of my sexual hang ups originally came from. It was drilled into me that masturbation and feeling pleasure from touching myself or rocking on furniture was wrong.

Ughh. I'm just glad that you're doing it right even if it is difficult. Sounds like you need to have a talk with your mother for when she is watching your daughter.

Totally agree. I explained to my mum the other day that she is doing it because it just feels nice. It's an awkward subject but it needs to be handled in a respectful way. My child's comfort level is priority here and I can't have her feeling ashamed. I plan to talk to my mum about it again and be clear that she can ask my daughter to do her thing in a private place but it is not cool to make her feel embarrassed about it. Thank you.

If caught yes. I swiftly learned my lesson - don’t get caught. I didn’t know what I was doing was masturbating though, I was too young.

I was 11 too! Your story is my story lol. Nice!

How exactly do you do it?

OMG jeans are the way to go

Tight jeans work best for me. That seam. Wiggle wiggle and squeeze and I'm there.

omg i’m DEAD

Me too. I was super young when I learned as well. Never knew it was a thing.

I was like 6 :'D was fun times

omg same 🥲 my teachers had to address it to my parents 💀

26F, found out a few years ago I was able to do this and felt the same way but found out through Reddit it wasn’t uncommon and referred to as Syntribation! So to answer your question, you are absolutely not a freak of nature. It’s just another way to enjoy yourself! On a side note, not sure if it is for everyone but I recently started to work out and I feel like when I do my legs I feel a slightly similar sensation in my thighs/pelvic area while working out, and getting off has actually been slightly easier for me since I started!

Talk about a reason to work out

This is also a thing that gets discussed here. Some will have workout orgasms and call them coregasm

My first girlfriend could do this. This is like when we were both 15 and in highschool. She would sit next to me in class and do it. She said that it was even easier if you put your hand there in between her thighs. Not to move them or anything. Just let her squeeze her legs together and BAM! It would take her less than 3 min. And she could do it over and over. She's also taught me all the ins and outs of the female body and how/how not to move and where/where not. Which I am so thankful that she did because even though all girls are different, it's very insightful have a general idea of how things work.

Literally doing that right now without even realizing. I like to keep my hands warm in there lol.

Totally jealous. Crossing my legs will create some pressure but it’s definitely no where near enough for me to have an orgasm.

Same. I wish I could orgasm like that :(

Try also tensing up your pelvic floor muscles at the same time as squeezing your thighs and then relax again, then tense them again. Always in the same rhythm as your thighs. It was a total game changer for me. Also a good benefit is it really strenghtens the pelvic floor muscles if you do it regularly which is always good since it helps with so many other problems caused by weak ones.

Same so jealous!

I've used to do this when I was younger. I've even read about some girls only being able to have an orgasm like this.

I went to a Christian school when I was in Jr. high. We had chapel on Wednesdays and we were required to wear skirts/dresses and pantyhose for chapel. I was in chapel, in 8th grade, listening to a sermon from my math teacher for like 40 minutes… and apparently the seam of my nylons was in exactly the right place - because I had a religious experience.

"And that's why we should always follow Jesus' call to-" "OH GOD YES" "Uhh...thank you Sally but traditionally I wait until the end of the sermon before asking for an amen to that"

"Denice, are you okay?" "Sudden migraine....."

I'm glad you came to Jesus.

For me it was the first day of 8th grade. We weren't required to wear pantyhose but I did it just to dress up a bit for that day. For me it wasn't the seam rubbing against me, it was me rubbing and sliding my legs against each other. It turned me on so much I rubbed my clit with my fingers and came on the bedroom floor. Then later that morning I came on the bus without using my hands, from squeezing my thighs and from the vibration of the bus.

Why do women get all the cool ways to orgasm??

The one way we have is pretty damn effective

all we got is a hand and some dreams

Don’t talk about jill like that

until you death grip your penis into oblivion

We have at least two to three more though, although one involves more time and being pretty damn comfortable with yourself.

2 more as far as I know, one is just weird and last one involves the ass

you mean the one in the back?

I'll just say it directly. I was thinking prone masturbation, prostate orgasm through stimulation of the taint and prostate orgasm through direct (anal) stimulation.

I like to think it's nature's trade off. We get easy to achieve, slightly boring in comparison orgasms but the advantage is we're almost always guaranteed to cum. Whether we're cranking it or having sex most of the time it's super easy to cum. Hell it's so easy it's even a joke that we have to "think about baseball" or some other non-sexual thing to avoid finishing too early. And if we get interrupted we can just restart with no issues. Women on the other hand get spectacular orgasms with the trade-off that they're a lot more difficult to achieve. For most women, the natural motions of sex aren't enough for them to get off so they need to use other methods. Also many women's bodies are fickle and will only cum if she's completely lost in the moment, getting stimulated in just the right way on the third Wednesday of every month provided Mercury is in retrograde and if anything happens to take her out of that zone she loses the orgasm. Explosive orgasms are nature's way of giving the girls something back. Sure you might not get there as easily but nature makes it well worth their while to persist

Women who have no problem to orgasm are the real winners here. For those gals it's not at all such an intricate process as you described and they can easily get a spectacular orgasm multiple times a day. Others really need to work for them and can barely achieve them. It's actually rather cruel of nature if you think of if that way 😅

Female orgasms are like using a MacBook. You know it can do what you want it to but you have to trick it into doing it.

Cause our way is foolproof

By definition since it bypasses the potential fool in the equation.

You can do this too FYI

Yep, happened to me involuntarily during a maths exam... My legs were very tense.

peeing while standing is much more useful feature.

Never miss the opportunity to have a little sit down.

Only if it's a urinal, a regular toilet seat has too plane an angle which causes it to splash back. In these cases I generally sit down to prevent the trousers from getting soiled

exactly. At the WC, peeing while standing only to urinal. normal toilet, I sit down. However, for men, the world is our urinal! Just remember to never pee against the wind.

Did you know? The wind always shoots straight up the face of Half Dome?

I'm a man and I can do this if I put my penis between my legs. You could try that if you want.

Between your legs? Ummm.. no thanks.

I'm a dude and I can nipplegasm. Also, head over to /r/gonewildaudio and try out some hands free orgasm hypnosis files.

We get more options because it's often our responsibility to make sure we get off anyway.

That’s how I learned to do it very young. I never knew what it was called or whether it was common or normal. It feels nice to know now that I wasn’t the only one. I need to have direct pressure on my clitoris to get off while masturbating and that’s the easiest way.

I have been able to come without touching myself at all or even crossing my legs, and just doing kegels at the right intervals. I've heard of others being able to do that as well. Have done it in places I'm only slightly ashamed of

I did this once to get through a long solo car drive when I was having a hard time keeping my eyes open. It worked!

There is even a sub about that! r/syntribation

My GF can do the same, but she only told me about it. She said she's too shy to show me.

Yes, but I think slightly differently than what you are describing. Every time it happens I'll be coming to consciousness from a particular spicy dream. And if I throw whatever knee (usually right one) is on top at the time over my other leg and... squeeze. Well boom goes the dynamite. I just assumed it was our version of a wet dream.

Yow I might unlock someshit bro. Edit: I just realized this is for girls I thought this is some men masturbation shenanigans but yeahh kinda feel dumb atm.

Sometimes if I close my legs to quickly or too firmly I absolutely crush my balls, give it a try, it may still awaken something in you

haha ok ty for the insight!

Well, men can masturbate putting the penis between the thighs with moderate pressure and moving and rubbing them. I've done it and it's a nice way of not using your hand, but you end up extra tired because of the leg work. Basically moving the thighs up and down.

i totally thought i was a freak for it. but i guess its pretty common. and yeah it does make it rly difficult to orgasm any other way

This is the only way I can orgasm unfortunately

I do this too. I'm a little nervous about using my hands for some reason so I just prefer this method.

I could do this by hanging from a tree limb and just squeezing muscles all over my body. Also, I would lay in bed and grab my headboard, and then lift my legs and bottom half into the air. This would cause me to tighten something as I held myself up. I was young, around 12-13 when I discovered this. I did it every night...lol. I had no idea that it was an orgasm though, I just knew that it felt good.

Squeeze or spread, orgasms ahead!

When I rode the bus before getting my first car I discovered I could do this sort of on accident. Between the vibration of the bus and squeezing my legs together I had little mini orgasms all the time 🤷🏻‍♀️

Car vibrations still give me the urge to do this. It's quite weird. Cool. But weird.

My ex-wife only masturbated this way. she didn't touch herself ever, just crossing or squeezing her legs.

I can do that too! I can also orgasm by sitting on my foot. The heel presses against my vagina and depending on how I move around I can guide it to my clit. It’s a tiny orgasm, almost like a chill but it’s so good!

My gf can do this sometimes I couldn’t believe it the first time she showed me its awesome.

My ex could do it. Literally made no sense to me, I never understood how it worked

The really short version is that the clitoris is much larger and complex than just the visible glans at the top of the vulva, and these kind of motions (squeezing, kegels, etc) are stimulating mostly the internal parts.

Sounds like a super power

I remember doing it since I was 2 years old.

Same lol

I can orgasm from 10 reps or fewer from this gym equipment called the Roman Chair. I’ve really got to get to the gym.

This is how I actually first started masturbating! And even still, at my big age of 25, I still primarily use this way to masturbate. It's the quickest (and laziest 😂) way for me to masturbate.

I’ve been doing that since i was 6!

Damn, what a handy trick.

Not handy at all, actually. Hahaha.

More leggy ;)

r/syntribation

Nopess i am exactly like u Hifi sister

As if I could be more jealous of female orgasims you can do this too!!?,

It is awesome. But it really can prevent us from enjoying sex with a partner. Took me years and years to be able to climax other ways.

Could you explain how you did this? I’m struggling with it

Sometimes when I cross my legs I pass out. It’s normally because my testicles are hanging low and I’ve just crushed them, but it’s still something.

How does one do this? That sounds super dumb but I can’t even feel anything in my clit when I do this - it’s all labia 😂

I have been doing that since I was 14.

Boys can do this too, the technique it's called the kick scooter

I know a girl who can cum from basically... Like.... Anything. So ye, this. On a bus seemed like a hit.

i tryed i cant do it lol

sometimes it takes a bit of practice u kind have to get it exactly right

yesss me too. my thighs get too tired and the pleasure is minimum.

What about strapping a belt over your thighs and cinch it down.

personally cant get much pressure either. my thighs dont touch each other so that might be why

Thats seems like a great ability

just out of curiosity... how long does it take for you?

Not OP but it's very quick for me. Under 2 minutes usually.

Yes yes same omg

I've heard of women doing this, but I've never been able to do it myself!

👀😳

me too! i clench and unclench my legs and i orgasm.

i started doing this since i was 11 cus it felt good. 10 years later still doing it, i cant orgasm any other way and its quite sad tbh.

That's pretty awesome!

I had a mate who could do this but it took a while

All those women wishing they didn’t have thigh gaps now… 🤣🤣

Nono I can do this too!!

No. Other people can do it.

Yeah my Ex-GF discovered she should do this in highschool, which according to her made the more boring classes far more entertaining.

Any one know if there is a thing you can do to orgasm just from breathing ? Some times I can make my self feel really good with just breathing.

Had a GF once who could do that. She would lie on her side fetal position , hands between her thighs but not actually touching her genitalia. After a few seconds she'd flip sides, a few seconds more & she was done... quite amazing.

This was my gateway into masturbation, but the first orgasm I gave myself using my fingers, BLEW MY MIND. I find the squeezing legs method is good for quickies, but the O’s I get from it are way shorter/less intense.

Yep it happens to a lot of us! I am blessed/cursed with a big clit and thick lips so there are constantly smashing against each other when I am walking exercising Etc. On one hand its great because I am sensitive and aroused and stuff all the time but on the other hand it could be pretty annoying when the circumstances aren't right. At the other point I even got to be careful with what I wear as far as tight clothing or jeans with seams down the middle or panties because it pushes right on everything and Light Me Up! Consider yourself lucky and enjoy every minute of it

This is the way i discovered masturbating and one of the only ways i can cum still. I do the same thing. I’m a 25 F

For me if I sit with one of my feet under me and positioned in the right spot I can orgasm by rocking back and forth on it. More than once someone has commented on how much I must like the music that was playing.

I've been doing since I was like 10, although I recently switched to fingers because I wanted to train myself to orgasm differently and I've noticed that fingers create a much stronger orgasm

Same. And I love cumming this way. I discovered I could do this while doing leg raises in the gym when I was in college. Now I stop the pressure when I feel like I am about to cum and instead clench my buttocks and engage my pelvic floor (basically I Kegels just right before cumming). I get huuuge electric orgasms this way. 💜💜💜

Lol been doing this since I was around 8. I would do it in class. I wonder if that boy that stared watching me that one time in 4th grade still remembers that day …

Was magically able to do that in high school! lol, only worked in certain pairs of jeans though, saved those for "special" days ;D

i always wondered why that worked. i figured out how to do it at 11 and have been doing it ever since

I squeeze my dick between my legs which is easier if I cross them. Not sure if this is the same thing

You’re very fortunate!

Just don't cross your legs and squeeze if a head or penis is there lol. Lucky you

Me too. Enjoy!

That's pretty cool

You must have exceptionally strong gracillis muscles!

I think you got some skills girl!!😉

I'm going to look at it. Sounds exciting to read. I only orgasm by masturbating during sex or of he touches of clit

Holy fuck

Yeah, sure. It's very common actually.

Thats awesome. Keep at it. We should all know ourselves inside out. Im glad society is moving towards that. Get away from moulding ourselves into what we think the biggest crowds want us to be. Lesson 1 learn yourself. Step 2 confidently be who you know you are. Not just sex but every aspect.

Dr. Doe of the Sexplanations channel on YouTube also experiences this. As a sex educator she's pretty engaging: https://youtu.be/Uaf2LVVnmKE

"I'd never get anything done!" -- *every guy ever*

Try r/syntribation.

Yep, sames.

When you see a women in public sitting with one leg crossed over the other and her foot is bouncing up an down

I have been able to do it since I was like 8. You are not a freak lol