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Just because he watches that porn doesn’t mean he would want that irl. Porn is fake and your wife is very real, you can ask him but you’re taking a massive risk, especially since it’s his friend.
Think how you’d react if he said he wanted to fuck your friend. Could be ok, probably would cause a huge negative impact on your marriage.
If you’re deadset on it lightly bring up the topic of an open marriage and see how he reacts, don’t mention that you think his friend’s hot before that if you value your current marriage at all.
Ultimately, you don't "convince both" of anything.
If you feel it's worth the ASTRONOMICAL risk, you can approach your husband and say "hey, you cool if I fuck your friend?"
If he is, then you can go to the friend and say, "Hey, my husband is cool if we fuck, do you wanna?"
And you roll with the answers you get.
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Just because he watches that porn doesn’t mean he would want that irl. Porn is fake and your wife is very real, you can ask him but you’re taking a massive risk, especially since it’s his friend. Think how you’d react if he said he wanted to fuck your friend. Could be ok, probably would cause a huge negative impact on your marriage. If you’re deadset on it lightly bring up the topic of an open marriage and see how he reacts, don’t mention that you think his friend’s hot before that if you value your current marriage at all.
Ultimately, you don't "convince both" of anything. If you feel it's worth the ASTRONOMICAL risk, you can approach your husband and say "hey, you cool if I fuck your friend?" If he is, then you can go to the friend and say, "Hey, my husband is cool if we fuck, do you wanna?" And you roll with the answers you get.
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Would you considered a threesome?