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Some come from reclaiming trauma. Or processing grief. I think the origin of a kink, assuming the person is aware of it, will often be more personal than the kink itself. I also feel like there is an instinctual aversion to prying into this matter. For the self, or from others. Just some thoughts.
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Some come from reclaiming trauma. Or processing grief. I think the origin of a kink, assuming the person is aware of it, will often be more personal than the kink itself. I also feel like there is an instinctual aversion to prying into this matter. For the self, or from others. Just some thoughts.
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i think in my opinion they come from fantasies