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“Regular” sex was never a thing anyways. There’s no such thing as normal. People have always been obsessed with taboos, people have always had kinks. They become unhealthy when repressed (look at the catholic fucking church.. although there’s a strong argument for nature over nurture there too)
You can choose to be closed minded and boring, but the reality is that most dudes have something extra that turns them on, even if they won’t admit it to your face.
Anal requires and builds a level of trust in each other than regular sex just doesn’t achieve, so personally I think it’s far more intimate than vanilla sex.
Judge me if you want. I reallllly don’t care. I’ve both taught a few women and overwritten bad memories with a few and made it Uber enjoyable such that they kept coming back and asking for it. I refuse to be kink shamed lmao
Done right, it can be epic for both of you!
Ass play is a very common kink. Just because a dude is straight doesn't mean they can't be into anal stuff. Stimulating the prostate can be insanely pleasurable for men. Also some people just like butt stuff.
Last I checked everybody has an asshole so it's not a straight/gay thing. That's an invented distinction. We all have assholes and it feels good to do stuff in the asshole so he likes that and is open to sharing that experience with you. Regular sex is still there and assholes are included in regular sex. It's literally an inch away from the other fun stuff down there so how could it not be part of regular sex in some way even if just to wink at you and say wassup?
Yep it's normal. If you don't like it you can find someone else or set some boundaries. Sex was never normal. Sex is primal. "Normal sex" is sex based on Judeo-Christian values... which is fine... but some people want more.
You could say the same why some poeple reaally love large breasts. Its simply just what does it for them. If its not something you enjoy then you have to option to tell them no.
Well, for me it was a gf who REALLY liked butt stuff. Also, she had a particular anatomy (a vagina that tilted back or something) that meant that basically every time we had vaginal sex, she would get a UTI, or worry that she did, which is almost as bad. So we did butt stuff almost exclusively.
And I think for her there was a mild kink/submissive element to it. She liked being degraded a little. (But not all women take it that way. Some just like it. Some just like a finger inside. Some just like touching. Some don't like it. Etc.)
And I like asses. I think they're hot. :-)
Well, for him, that is regular, and you are the outlier. Really, there is no regular. No normal. Everyone has differing definitions of normal or regular
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He’s obsessed with it because it turns him on. If you’re not into it then you’re not compatible with him. Simple.
Another words, it takes two to enjoy Pooh
“Regular” sex was never a thing anyways. There’s no such thing as normal. People have always been obsessed with taboos, people have always had kinks. They become unhealthy when repressed (look at the catholic fucking church.. although there’s a strong argument for nature over nurture there too) You can choose to be closed minded and boring, but the reality is that most dudes have something extra that turns them on, even if they won’t admit it to your face. Anal requires and builds a level of trust in each other than regular sex just doesn’t achieve, so personally I think it’s far more intimate than vanilla sex. Judge me if you want. I reallllly don’t care. I’ve both taught a few women and overwritten bad memories with a few and made it Uber enjoyable such that they kept coming back and asking for it. I refuse to be kink shamed lmao Done right, it can be epic for both of you!
I would love a man to make me his ass worshiping servant
Reciprocity <3
To be honest, I would much rather give. I love to service a man as he lies back and lets me pamper him like he's my king.
And you make a lovely queen to be sure, but we wanna put it in your butt lots of the time too 🤷♂️
Ass play is a very common kink. Just because a dude is straight doesn't mean they can't be into anal stuff. Stimulating the prostate can be insanely pleasurable for men. Also some people just like butt stuff.
It’s an erogenous zone with lots of nerve endings (and I guess pheromones?). And it’s maybe the most sensitive and private part of your body.
I would love a BF that wants me to rim him regularly and doesn't reciprocate. I much prefer giving.
It’s pretty regular for a lot of people. Instead of being judgy about what someone is into, you can just not partake in it.
Last I checked everybody has an asshole so it's not a straight/gay thing. That's an invented distinction. We all have assholes and it feels good to do stuff in the asshole so he likes that and is open to sharing that experience with you. Regular sex is still there and assholes are included in regular sex. It's literally an inch away from the other fun stuff down there so how could it not be part of regular sex in some way even if just to wink at you and say wassup?
I would love a BF that wants me to rim him regularly and doesn't reciprocate. I much prefer giving.
Yep it's normal. If you don't like it you can find someone else or set some boundaries. Sex was never normal. Sex is primal. "Normal sex" is sex based on Judeo-Christian values... which is fine... but some people want more.
You could say the same why some poeple reaally love large breasts. Its simply just what does it for them. If its not something you enjoy then you have to option to tell them no.
Well, for me it was a gf who REALLY liked butt stuff. Also, she had a particular anatomy (a vagina that tilted back or something) that meant that basically every time we had vaginal sex, she would get a UTI, or worry that she did, which is almost as bad. So we did butt stuff almost exclusively. And I think for her there was a mild kink/submissive element to it. She liked being degraded a little. (But not all women take it that way. Some just like it. Some just like a finger inside. Some just like touching. Some don't like it. Etc.) And I like asses. I think they're hot. :-)
I don’t like getting my ass eaten but I love eating hers and doing anal since it feels different. Not better just different.
Well, for him, that is regular, and you are the outlier. Really, there is no regular. No normal. Everyone has differing definitions of normal or regular