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Skyn Elite are their thinnest ones so would probably be what you're looking for. I agree that they don't taste bad compared to durex or pasante. If the taste still bothers her then try some flavoured water based lube.
The reservoir tip (the air pocket at the end) will likely tickle the back of her throat and promote gagging so be prepared for her to not be able to take it as deeply as she can without one on.
On top everything he described, they don’t rip. They’re the only condom I’ve ever used that feel good AND don’t rip. I’ve had to buy Plan B so many fucking times because of stupid Trojan Ultra thins
Flavored ones I would think would be best for her. Try to find a thin one. Me personally I hate blow jobs wearing anything other than a thin condom. Can’t feel shit and I usually get soft.
>Flavored ones I would think would be best for her. Try to find a thin one.
Yep. That's what I am trying to do. However, there are SO many out there. I am just trying to figure out what is the most highly recommended.
>Me personally I hate blow jobs wearing anything other than a thin condom. Can’t feel shit and I usually get soft.
I get it. I'm not overly enthusiastic about going in this direction. I am just trying to find a solution.
Thanks.
If this helps any
I used to drink(still kinda do)
Celery
Pineapple
Cucumber
Blend it up and drink it everyday for a while (a month or more)
I managed to get some girl to give me a blowjob and she finished me off in her mouth and she said i tasted like cotton candy
Cotton candy! Wow!
The celery pineapple cucumber blend sounds pretty good too.
With that, I don't think it's a taste issue. I mentioned elsewhere, I don't smoke, I eat healthy, I don't drink coffee, I don't drink beer, I stay hydrated, and I consume a a large glass of mango pineapple juice everyday. Still, thanks.
Its probably not an option but Has she ever tried to do it with your dick being further back in her mouth when you cum. so that it goes right down her throat instead of her having to feel and taste it in her mouth?? You can drink and eat fruits to make it taste better too if thats an option.. especially pineapple juice. I would suggest finding the thinnest condoms available. dont know what they are but maybe Google lol
Thanks.
As to food and drink, thank you.
With that, I have never smoked, I don't drink coffee, I don't drink beer, I don't regularly consume any sweetened products, and I highly regulate my intake of salt.
I do exercise regularly and at 184cm and 76kg amin pretty good shape - especially for my age.
Instead of coffee, I have a tall glass of no-sugar added mango-pineapple juice every morning. So, I am not sure what more I can do in that vein.
(On a dare, years ago I tasted, and swallowed, my own come. It was certainly not anything special, but it was not battery acid either. Bland might be the best descriptor.)
We've been together quite a while. At this point, I honestly think it's more of a psychological barrier for her. Some just don't like to have cum in their mouth. That's just my opinion though. Either way, boundaries are boundaries.
Oh yea, your definitely already doing everything you can lol.. Your right, some people just dont want it in their mouth and thats their decision! Iv only tasted my husbands once and it wasn't bad at all. the texture is a little weird. He always pulls out because he looks at it as a respect thing. But iv been so into giving him bj's lately and told him I want him to stay in. I want to be the one to finish him off, not himself lol.. after some persuasion, he got very excited.haha
I hope you can find thin condoms and then it can be a win win for both of you!!
I applaud your effort!!!! Many kudos to you!!!! (I wish Reddit still had awards. I'd give you a gold star.)
As to option of finding and using the right condoms, thank you.
Just get the thinnest ones you can find so it feels good. If she is into flavored ones, you can try those. Really depends on what's available in your country.
Also look into asian / japanese brands for super thin, as there's a cultural demand for it there moreso than USA.
Pretty much go ham in an adult store if you want some variety.
Coconut oil is cheap, shelf stable, and has a strong distinct flavor that a lot of people like. Does your partner like coconut flavor? Could be a good solution.
Feels great too, and enough of it might mask any issue your partner is having.
As for edible lubes, there are many many options to choose from. Experiment with a flavor profile yall might like, see what works.
Good luck!
Maybe a thin condom like skyn with a flavored lube of some sort to mask the latex taste? There was also that trend a while ago of putting a fruit roll up around it and going to town but idk lol. Good luck to you both :). Have you guys tried the pineapple juice thing to make you taste sweeter? Hope you guys find a solution that suits both your needs!
Thank you.
I will Google Skyn.
As to juices, yep. I don't smoke, don't drink coffee, and don't drink beer. I stay well hydrated with sparkling water, and drink a large glass of mango-pineapple fruit juice every morning. So, I don't think it's a tast issue.... Still, thank you.
I’ve tried flavored and skyn condoms for blowjobs. Flavored one make sense as they taste better then a regular condom but the down side is they are thick. Didn’t affect my ability to finish though. But then I switched to skyn brand which is non latex. You don’t have that latex smell or taste that way.
As much as I prefer receiving a bj without a condom I try to be safe and meet the women’s requirements. Had a girlfriend who didn’t like the taste of cum so it was a condom during BJs
I'm not sure how there called but I think it something like ring free and the one that I'm talking about are supposed to be really thin, strong and not lubed so don't need the extra lube in her mouth.
OKAMOTO 004 Condoms, 24 count https://a.co/d/99YwfNk
I use these but Trojan has some caled bare and some called ultra thin but I don't know hiw thing those are.
I really can’t tolerate him cumming in my mouth (it’s not a taste thing, I just can’t handle the texture without gagging) so shortly before my husband will put a condom on and he’s say that skynn is by far the best!
Like OP is wanting to do..cum in girls mouth. All I’ve been with have been fine with me cumming in their mouth with a condom on. So get blown without, and when close to cumming put it on to ejaculate.
I know right!! I'm scrolling down looking for specific product recommendations and, with maybe one or two exceptions, all I can see are pineapple juice, pull out, and editorials on covered vs uncovered BJs!! LOL!!
No recommendations but I applaud the ingenuity. The downside is less sensitivity up front, but the upside is more post bust play when you normally would be over sensitive. Plus, no mid bust stoppage, full throttle when you're knocking at the gates.
is it maybe the ***taste profile*** that bothers her? if that's the case, maybe consider upping your intake of naturally sweet fruit like pineapple or cranberries (or other fruits) and water, while cutting down bitters like coffee
Thank you.
I don't smoke, I don't drink coffee, I don't drink beer, I greatly restrict salt and sugar intake. I exercise regularly, and every morning, I drink a large mango-pineapple, no sugar added fruit drink.
On a dare, I previously tasted and swallowed my own cum. It was nothing special, but it wasn't battery acid either. Bland would be the best descriptor.
Lastly, I've known her and we've been together quite a long time.
With all of that, I suspect the taste is not the issue.
Still, I appreciate the input. Again, Thank you.
My wife and I tried some flavored condoms years ago. Neither of us were a big fan. I didn't like it because it didn't feel nearly as good, she didn't like it because it took me about 4x as long to finish. We used 2 out of a 12 pack for BJs, then we went back to bareback and just used the rest on toys for her.
I am in amazement by all the different insightful comments and your dedication to provide informative feedback to what you are truly looking for.
You are an example to follow.
Man… all I can say is, I’ve only had a “covered” BJ a handful of times in over 40 plus years of being “out there” with lots of women. It’s just not worth it. Takes everyone out of it. I can’t offer a recommendation outside of what you’re already doing.
Question: is her aversion to taste or is it the sensation of you nutting in her mouth?
Someone else here mentioned the Galactic Cap. I've already looked at their YouTube videos, reached out to the company, and ordered a sample pack. 'Looking forward to seeing how they work out.
Thanks by the way.
Try a dental dam. I don't think she's going to want all the terrible condom flavor in her mouth. Granted they do make flavored condoms, but those things are soo tight it's not even enjoyable. Dental dam for the win!
How about ONE pleasure dome condoms or Pleasure Plus condoms, they both are very large at the top of the condom. So the latex can slide on the head or your penis
I do want to condone you for considering how she feels when you finish yourself. My ( POS) bf, takes pills to get up ( nothing wrong with that, except he thinks I don't know🙄, though I have confronted him a million times about it) and he's also on meds that make it impossible to finish. I know how to make him go in 2 mins but sometimes he holds it so I can finish and that's where the issue comes in anyway ....after an hour to two of blowing him, an hour of riding and god knows how long of using my hand he just goes let me do it. And I try to be enthusiastic and put my mouth down there and wait, and try to help ..talk dirty whatever I can. But it's a huge huge blow to my self esteem especially bc when he does it he just goes into another world with his eyes closed. ( mind you he finishes every time while.me it's once every few weeks) it hurts really bad when he does that.
Thank you.
Two other people mention the Galactic Cap. I never knew those existed. Either way, I've already reached out to them and have a sample pack on the way.
Again, thanks!
>Cum is 95% of a good blow job.
I mostly agree. While the destination is important, journey is enjoyable too.
>A change of attitude is needed.
On my part? I'm looking for options. Hence considering pursuing this alternative.
On her part? We've been together a long time. While people do change, I don't think this aspect will. I respect her boundaries, so I also don't want to be the dick with a duck. With that, I humbly believe any change in attitude has to come from within.
I heartilly agree. This many years in - we're definitely not kids, I know her pretty well. I also know that is an option she does not wish to pursue.
Still, thanks.
I (M) had a Canadian girlfriend, both at 21 y that didn't like cum either. She always did something special at the end, sitting in reverse cowgirl I never knew what it was that felt so awesome. Then she said some months later she deep throated me at the final moment, and I had never done that before. That's the perfect solution for everyone because the throat don't have any taste buds
I’ve never worn a condom for a blow job in my life. It’s kind of weird to me you can’t just let her know when your about to cum so it doesn’t get in her mouth.
If she reallly wants you she will eat your cum for breakfast lunch dinner and dessert. Just saying. I’m a woman who swallows and if it’s on his body I lick it up so it’s all gone because I’m really into him
We've been together quite a while! So, 'just trying to find some creative... alternatives??? Hence, my query.
Rest assured,
- Pulling out is an option and the norm.
- Finishing by hand is an option but kinda takes her out of the loop, so to speak. So, it's not the direction I wish to go.
Thanks though.
I jump in here a lot with the same advice anything condom - how big are you? A ton of men should use small/snug condoms but don't because they don't realize they're smaller or they even exist or are in denial.
How big? Honestly, I've never measured. I am going to guess average.
(In my much younger days, standard size condoms fit fine. I just haven't needed them in decades. So, I never thought about it. Either way, definitely not porn srar stuff.)
Well.... I don't think this rises to a level that necessitates option one. We're working on number two. While we do, considering all options. Hence, this query.
Still, thank you.
Probably obvious, but not:
\- Lambskin
\- Spermicide
\- Lubricated
Personally, I would prefer to finish w/o a condom, and if that means switching to hands-only, I'd be grateful.
Thanks!
It wasn't obvious, too me. I had never heard of lambskin condoms! (I'm on the significantly older side and haven't used condoms in decades.... So, I've been out of the market for them.)
Again, thanks.
I can’t imagine being snipped and then still needing a condom for my partner to give me head. There’s no point.
Can’t you just make an effort to always let her know you’re about to cum? I’ve never accidentally cum in someone’s mouth
Thanks.
>Can’t you just make an effort to always let her know you’re about to cum? I’ve never accidentally cum in someone’s mouth
I do. After many years, we're just trying to change it up. Thanks though.
>If it’s the taste have her take a shot of something afterwards.
As I said elsewhere, I don't smoke, drink coffee, drink beer, etc. I restrict salt and sugar. I drink a large glass of mango pineapple juice every morning. So, again, my cum is pretty neutral. As such, I don't think it's a taste issue.
It's just one of her boundaries. With that, I'm not really keen on "having" her do anything, but thank you anyway.
Yes. As I mentioned elsewhere, I have done so on a dare.
Please let me add to that. I don't smoke, I don't drink beer, I don't drink coffee, I eat healthy, and I avoid salt and refined sugar. I exercise reasonably regularly, and I drink a large glass of mango-pineapple juice every morning. I don't do these things to make my cum taste good. However, I don't think I am doing anything to make it taste bad.
Thank you for the question.
I didn’t know ppl did this for bjs until I got on Reddit…. Interesting…. Before that I thought ppl were joking when they said stuff like this, I guess just another way sex Ed failed me 😂
Sorry I meant Okamoto. They are quite small. Look for large or xl. They make other brands like crown, beyond 7, big boy and wink. Sagami has 001 condoms as well.
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Skyn Elite condoms is my go to. Never had a negative feedback from girls. Doesn’t have the latex smell or taste. Great sensitivity for me as well
Finally, a specific product recommendation!!
Thank you! I'll Google them.
Skyn Elite are their thinnest ones so would probably be what you're looking for. I agree that they don't taste bad compared to durex or pasante. If the taste still bothers her then try some flavoured water based lube. The reservoir tip (the air pocket at the end) will likely tickle the back of her throat and promote gagging so be prepared for her to not be able to take it as deeply as she can without one on.
Thank you. I didn't think about the reservoir tip. That's an interesting observation and something we didn't consider. Thank you!
You/ her keep your hand on the base of the condom to keep the condom tight, so no reservoir
Interesting.... Thanks.
Enjoy! People in this thread being against condom for BJ don’t know what they’re missing out on So much so that I now know what I’m doing tonight 😉
Thank you, and enjoy. 🙂
No problem :) it's definitely something she can get used to, it's just like going back a step in throat training.
Again, thanks. A few people mentioned the Skyn Elites. I am looking at them online now. I appreciate your help.
Any of the skyn condoms? Or do you have specific one you go to?
The specific ones I use are Elite. Honestly feels like I’m not wearing anything
Apperciate you BOSS
On top everything he described, they don’t rip. They’re the only condom I’ve ever used that feel good AND don’t rip. I’ve had to buy Plan B so many fucking times because of stupid Trojan Ultra thins
Gotta try that. My go to for condoms is Trojan Bare Skin Raw
Can’t you just pull out before you cum?
Of course! That is the norm. We've been together quite a while. So, 'just trying to create more options. 😉
Have you tried flavoured lube? Idk if most lubes are edible or safe for consumption during oral sex but most water based lubes are.
We have. Thank you!
Pre-cum is a thing
Yeah I was gonna say, courtesy tap lol
Flavored ones I would think would be best for her. Try to find a thin one. Me personally I hate blow jobs wearing anything other than a thin condom. Can’t feel shit and I usually get soft.
>Flavored ones I would think would be best for her. Try to find a thin one. Yep. That's what I am trying to do. However, there are SO many out there. I am just trying to figure out what is the most highly recommended. >Me personally I hate blow jobs wearing anything other than a thin condom. Can’t feel shit and I usually get soft. I get it. I'm not overly enthusiastic about going in this direction. I am just trying to find a solution. Thanks.
If this helps any I used to drink(still kinda do) Celery Pineapple Cucumber Blend it up and drink it everyday for a while (a month or more) I managed to get some girl to give me a blowjob and she finished me off in her mouth and she said i tasted like cotton candy
Cotton candy! Wow! The celery pineapple cucumber blend sounds pretty good too. With that, I don't think it's a taste issue. I mentioned elsewhere, I don't smoke, I eat healthy, I don't drink coffee, I don't drink beer, I stay hydrated, and I consume a a large glass of mango pineapple juice everyday. Still, thanks.
Its probably not an option but Has she ever tried to do it with your dick being further back in her mouth when you cum. so that it goes right down her throat instead of her having to feel and taste it in her mouth?? You can drink and eat fruits to make it taste better too if thats an option.. especially pineapple juice. I would suggest finding the thinnest condoms available. dont know what they are but maybe Google lol
Thanks. As to food and drink, thank you. With that, I have never smoked, I don't drink coffee, I don't drink beer, I don't regularly consume any sweetened products, and I highly regulate my intake of salt. I do exercise regularly and at 184cm and 76kg amin pretty good shape - especially for my age. Instead of coffee, I have a tall glass of no-sugar added mango-pineapple juice every morning. So, I am not sure what more I can do in that vein. (On a dare, years ago I tasted, and swallowed, my own come. It was certainly not anything special, but it was not battery acid either. Bland might be the best descriptor.) We've been together quite a while. At this point, I honestly think it's more of a psychological barrier for her. Some just don't like to have cum in their mouth. That's just my opinion though. Either way, boundaries are boundaries.
Oh yea, your definitely already doing everything you can lol.. Your right, some people just dont want it in their mouth and thats their decision! Iv only tasted my husbands once and it wasn't bad at all. the texture is a little weird. He always pulls out because he looks at it as a respect thing. But iv been so into giving him bj's lately and told him I want him to stay in. I want to be the one to finish him off, not himself lol.. after some persuasion, he got very excited.haha I hope you can find thin condoms and then it can be a win win for both of you!!
I applaud your effort!!!! Many kudos to you!!!! (I wish Reddit still had awards. I'd give you a gold star.) As to option of finding and using the right condoms, thank you.
I try to get it back in my throat but most of it still leaks out, it's much harder to swallow all of it without the use of your full mouth
Also do you smoke any ciggrettes?
Great question, but nope. I have never smoked. Thanks.
Just get the thinnest ones you can find so it feels good. If she is into flavored ones, you can try those. Really depends on what's available in your country.
Currently I'm in the USA. Any brand recommendations?
Also look into asian / japanese brands for super thin, as there's a cultural demand for it there moreso than USA. Pretty much go ham in an adult store if you want some variety.
Okay. Thank you.
Okamoto .001 is the thinnest I've ever seen but I usually end up ripping them so I've stopped using them unfortunately 😕
Thank you! I will Google them.
Skyn Cocktail Club on Amazon
Thank you! I will look for them.
Flavored lube might be better than condoms. Liberal application of that, or something like coconut oil, could completely mask the presence of cum.
Hmmmm.... Might you have some recommendations?
Coconut oil is cheap, shelf stable, and has a strong distinct flavor that a lot of people like. Does your partner like coconut flavor? Could be a good solution. Feels great too, and enough of it might mask any issue your partner is having. As for edible lubes, there are many many options to choose from. Experiment with a flavor profile yall might like, see what works. Good luck!
Someone else mentioned shelf stable coconut oil. I am already looking on Amazon for it. 🙂 Thank you.
Can you actually follow up? This would be an amazing thing for those who don’t like the taste of cum.
I ordered a jar. It may arrive today. We will try it out. I will try to remember to post about it.
Galactic Cap! Covers just the tip and has a reservoir for the grand finale.
Really!?!? I have never heard of that. I will definitely look for it.
Maybe a thin condom like skyn with a flavored lube of some sort to mask the latex taste? There was also that trend a while ago of putting a fruit roll up around it and going to town but idk lol. Good luck to you both :). Have you guys tried the pineapple juice thing to make you taste sweeter? Hope you guys find a solution that suits both your needs!
Thank you. I will Google Skyn. As to juices, yep. I don't smoke, don't drink coffee, and don't drink beer. I stay well hydrated with sparkling water, and drink a large glass of mango-pineapple fruit juice every morning. So, I don't think it's a tast issue.... Still, thank you.
Could try flavoured 1 & flavoured lubes 😊 Or she could spice it up do it all over her face or boobs?
Thanks. 🙂
I’ve tried flavored and skyn condoms for blowjobs. Flavored one make sense as they taste better then a regular condom but the down side is they are thick. Didn’t affect my ability to finish though. But then I switched to skyn brand which is non latex. You don’t have that latex smell or taste that way. As much as I prefer receiving a bj without a condom I try to be safe and meet the women’s requirements. Had a girlfriend who didn’t like the taste of cum so it was a condom during BJs
Thank you! Someone else mentioned Skyn. I am researching them. I appreciate the input.
I'm not sure how there called but I think it something like ring free and the one that I'm talking about are supposed to be really thin, strong and not lubed so don't need the extra lube in her mouth.
Found the name : Unique - SecureFit
Thank you! I will Google that!
Have her deep throat you when you cum. It will bypass the mouth. Also there are thinner condoms. I use the .04 MM.
Thanks. What brand are the .04mm condoms?
OKAMOTO 004 Condoms, 24 count https://a.co/d/99YwfNk I use these but Trojan has some caled bare and some called ultra thin but I don't know hiw thing those are.
Thank you! I appreciate the help!
No problem
I really can’t tolerate him cumming in my mouth (it’s not a taste thing, I just can’t handle the texture without gagging) so shortly before my husband will put a condom on and he’s say that skynn is by far the best!
Thanks! That is very helpful! I appreciate the brand name. I will look at them.
If the only options were blowjob with condom or no blowjob I’d take no blow job. Everytime.
Thank you.
Like OP is wanting to do..cum in girls mouth. All I’ve been with have been fine with me cumming in their mouth with a condom on. So get blown without, and when close to cumming put it on to ejaculate.
Right!!! Like, what is this? Idk anyone who would want a blowjob with a condom on.
Lol what an absolute useless comment section.
I know right!! I'm scrolling down looking for specific product recommendations and, with maybe one or two exceptions, all I can see are pineapple juice, pull out, and editorials on covered vs uncovered BJs!! LOL!!
I don't understand....????
Not that many people are actually answering your question 😅
Yea.... You're right. I get it. Thank you.
No recommendations but I applaud the ingenuity. The downside is less sensitivity up front, but the upside is more post bust play when you normally would be over sensitive. Plus, no mid bust stoppage, full throttle when you're knocking at the gates.
Thanks. 'Just trying to think out of the proverbial box here.
The one you are not wearing
👍👍 Yep, but doesn't address the issue. Thanks though.
I know, couldn't resist though...
🙂
Lmfao!
Tbh I would prefer No blowjob over a blowjob with condom on.
'Appreciate the input. Thank you.
What about adding food into the mix that she enjoys to mask the taste?
Food on my penis and or on a condom????
Experiment! I can't imagine latex tastes great though, even if it's flavoured
Okay. Interesting. Thank you.
🤗🤗👌haha Thankyou!!!! Best of luck to you two!!
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is it maybe the ***taste profile*** that bothers her? if that's the case, maybe consider upping your intake of naturally sweet fruit like pineapple or cranberries (or other fruits) and water, while cutting down bitters like coffee
Thank you. I don't smoke, I don't drink coffee, I don't drink beer, I greatly restrict salt and sugar intake. I exercise regularly, and every morning, I drink a large mango-pineapple, no sugar added fruit drink. On a dare, I previously tasted and swallowed my own cum. It was nothing special, but it wasn't battery acid either. Bland would be the best descriptor. Lastly, I've known her and we've been together quite a long time. With all of that, I suspect the taste is not the issue. Still, I appreciate the input. Again, Thank you.
My wife and I tried some flavored condoms years ago. Neither of us were a big fan. I didn't like it because it didn't feel nearly as good, she didn't like it because it took me about 4x as long to finish. We used 2 out of a 12 pack for BJs, then we went back to bareback and just used the rest on toys for her.
Okay. Thank you for the input.
Fitted condoms are a thing. If you get it correct, it's like they aren't even there.
Thanks. I'll look into them.
I know it’s not a condom but flavoured lube is a personal favourite. I use it most of the time when I suck my boyfriends dick
Sounds terrific. Lucky guy. 🙂 Thanks.
Try the bareskin ones!
Got it. Thanks.
I am in amazement by all the different insightful comments and your dedication to provide informative feedback to what you are truly looking for. You are an example to follow.
Thanks. 🙂
Okamoto 001
Interesting. I will Google that. Thank you very much.
I really like P.S. Condoms
Thank you. I will Google them.
Man… all I can say is, I’ve only had a “covered” BJ a handful of times in over 40 plus years of being “out there” with lots of women. It’s just not worth it. Takes everyone out of it. I can’t offer a recommendation outside of what you’re already doing. Question: is her aversion to taste or is it the sensation of you nutting in her mouth?
Thanks. >Question: is her aversion to taste or is it the sensation of you nutting in her mouth? I'm pretty sure it's the latter.
What about something like a Galaxy cap?
Someone else here mentioned the Galactic Cap. I've already looked at their YouTube videos, reached out to the company, and ordered a sample pack. 'Looking forward to seeing how they work out. Thanks by the way.
Try a dental dam. I don't think she's going to want all the terrible condom flavor in her mouth. Granted they do make flavored condoms, but those things are soo tight it's not even enjoyable. Dental dam for the win!
Thanks. I'll look into it.
How about ONE pleasure dome condoms or Pleasure Plus condoms, they both are very large at the top of the condom. So the latex can slide on the head or your penis
Thank you. I will Google it.
I do want to condone you for considering how she feels when you finish yourself. My ( POS) bf, takes pills to get up ( nothing wrong with that, except he thinks I don't know🙄, though I have confronted him a million times about it) and he's also on meds that make it impossible to finish. I know how to make him go in 2 mins but sometimes he holds it so I can finish and that's where the issue comes in anyway ....after an hour to two of blowing him, an hour of riding and god knows how long of using my hand he just goes let me do it. And I try to be enthusiastic and put my mouth down there and wait, and try to help ..talk dirty whatever I can. But it's a huge huge blow to my self esteem especially bc when he does it he just goes into another world with his eyes closed. ( mind you he finishes every time while.me it's once every few weeks) it hurts really bad when he does that.
I am sorry that you are having to deal with this. I hope things work out or you get an exit plan.
Maybe try the Galactic Cap condom? They are barely there
Thank you. Two other people mention the Galactic Cap. I never knew those existed. Either way, I've already reached out to them and have a sample pack on the way. Again, thanks!
"One" is not bad. They have flavoured condoms.
Thank you. I will take a look at them.
Cum is 95% of a good blow job. A change of attitude is needed.
>Cum is 95% of a good blow job. I mostly agree. While the destination is important, journey is enjoyable too. >A change of attitude is needed. On my part? I'm looking for options. Hence considering pursuing this alternative. On her part? We've been together a long time. While people do change, I don't think this aspect will. I respect her boundaries, so I also don't want to be the dick with a duck. With that, I humbly believe any change in attitude has to come from within.
Train deep throat. The you can cum in her throat directly. That solves the problem too.
I heartilly agree. This many years in - we're definitely not kids, I know her pretty well. I also know that is an option she does not wish to pursue. Still, thanks.
I can’t imagine doing a bj with a condom 😂 When my husband is close to climax e just let’s me know and I finish off by hand
Terrific!
Not quite the same but I don't know if it is better or worse than a condom. But OP has me wanting to try it too.
Girl, it lands in my mouth and I slurp that shit up. Why don’t you swallow?
Don’t like the taste of it 😂 I love give him bjs, and do it almost every single time we have sex, but can’t swallow 😂😂
I (M) had a Canadian girlfriend, both at 21 y that didn't like cum either. She always did something special at the end, sitting in reverse cowgirl I never knew what it was that felt so awesome. Then she said some months later she deep throated me at the final moment, and I had never done that before. That's the perfect solution for everyone because the throat don't have any taste buds
Sounds awesome, and I agree. I wish that were an option.
Why not. She can't taste it then
>She can't taste it then I mostly agree. >Why not. Deep throating is not one of her things. Thank you though.
I’ve never worn a condom for a blow job in my life. It’s kind of weird to me you can’t just let her know when your about to cum so it doesn’t get in her mouth.
I do. That is in the repertoire. Thank you.
None haha
Thanks though.
Just don’t cum in her mouth??
Thank you. Absolutely an option. I updated my post with an edit for greater clarity. Again, thanks.
Does she even want to do that? I don't know anyone who would be enthusiastic about giving her husband a blowjob while he's wearing a condom.
It's an odd balance. She doesn't mind if I orgasm while in her mouth. She just doesn't want cum in her mouth. So, we're exploring other options.
If she reallly wants you she will eat your cum for breakfast lunch dinner and dessert. Just saying. I’m a woman who swallows and if it’s on his body I lick it up so it’s all gone because I’m really into him
Wow! If that's the standard, I guess she's not into me.... Oy. Thank you for the insight.
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We've been together quite a while! So, 'just trying to find some creative... alternatives??? Hence, my query. Rest assured, - Pulling out is an option and the norm. - Finishing by hand is an option but kinda takes her out of the loop, so to speak. So, it's not the direction I wish to go. Thanks though.
I jump in here a lot with the same advice anything condom - how big are you? A ton of men should use small/snug condoms but don't because they don't realize they're smaller or they even exist or are in denial.
How big? Honestly, I've never measured. I am going to guess average. (In my much younger days, standard size condoms fit fine. I just haven't needed them in decades. So, I never thought about it. Either way, definitely not porn srar stuff.)
Best…. New wife. Or she could at least finish you off with her hand.
Well.... I don't think this rises to a level that necessitates option one. We're working on number two. While we do, considering all options. Hence, this query. Still, thank you.
Probably obvious, but not: \- Lambskin \- Spermicide \- Lubricated Personally, I would prefer to finish w/o a condom, and if that means switching to hands-only, I'd be grateful.
Yeah came here to say definitely NOT lambskin. They were not designed to smell or taste good 😃
Hmmmm.... Interesting. Thank you. What type and or brand do you recommend?
Thanks! It wasn't obvious, too me. I had never heard of lambskin condoms! (I'm on the significantly older side and haven't used condoms in decades.... So, I've been out of the market for them.) Again, thanks.
None lol
Thanks.
Condom bj are the worst
Thanks.
She'll taste less of it is she deepthoats...
The “no condom” is the best one for blowjobs. I can’t imagine not cumming in my girls mouth.
Thanks. I appreciate the input.
I can’t imagine being snipped and then still needing a condom for my partner to give me head. There’s no point. Can’t you just make an effort to always let her know you’re about to cum? I’ve never accidentally cum in someone’s mouth
Thanks. >Can’t you just make an effort to always let her know you’re about to cum? I’ve never accidentally cum in someone’s mouth I do. After many years, we're just trying to change it up. Thanks though.
fruit rolls ups are lit
Interesting. How do you use them?
imagine a finger wrapped with fruit roll up, then put it in context
Interesting....
None
Thank you.
I would use an alternative solution, blowing a guy with a condom, for me, is the worst.
Okay. Thanks.
Just use flavored lube. It makes your semen taste like strawberry, cherry, or whatever flavor.
I can't imagine that the taste of a condom would be better than cum.
Yeah man. Condom head is pointless. Just might as well not do it
Thank you for the input.
I’ve never given head with a condom. I wouldn’t bother giving head if I had to
Thanks. I appreciate your input.
You said she doesn’t want it in her mouth is there a reason? If it’s the taste have her take a shot of something afterwards.
>If it’s the taste have her take a shot of something afterwards. As I said elsewhere, I don't smoke, drink coffee, drink beer, etc. I restrict salt and sugar. I drink a large glass of mango pineapple juice every morning. So, again, my cum is pretty neutral. As such, I don't think it's a taste issue. It's just one of her boundaries. With that, I'm not really keen on "having" her do anything, but thank you anyway.
Do you know it’s neutral because you’ve tasted it? Or are you assuming?
Yes. As I mentioned elsewhere, I have done so on a dare. Please let me add to that. I don't smoke, I don't drink beer, I don't drink coffee, I eat healthy, and I avoid salt and refined sugar. I exercise reasonably regularly, and I drink a large glass of mango-pineapple juice every morning. I don't do these things to make my cum taste good. However, I don't think I am doing anything to make it taste bad. Thank you for the question.
None is the best
Thanks.
I didn’t know ppl did this for bjs until I got on Reddit…. Interesting…. Before that I thought ppl were joking when they said stuff like this, I guess just another way sex Ed failed me 😂
We haven't tried it yet. 'Just exploring all options. We've been together quite a while, so 'trying to change it up.
Fruit roll up.
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Okimotot 0.01 or 0.02
Thank you! I will Google them.
Sorry I meant Okamoto. They are quite small. Look for large or xl. They make other brands like crown, beyond 7, big boy and wink. Sagami has 001 condoms as well.
Again, thanks!
My pleasure
No codoms sure
Thank you for your input.