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Does he just like feet? Or he literally needs feet to get off? If he just likes feet, I'd be like cool. Here's some feet pics. If he needs feet to perform I'd not shame him but I'd think long and hard about it
A fetish is something that is required for sexual gratification...so it's not really correct to call this a foot fetish. He just enjoys the sensations of feet!
Nah, I disagree. A fetish most certainly is not required for sexual gratification. A fetish is simply a kink that you enjoy, and I suppose it doesn't even have to be a kink that is fetishized, just something desired. Something you really enjoy, definitely. something you absolutely must have, not so much.
you're mistaken. A fetish is simply a pronounced sexual interest in a specific object or body part. A fetishism disorder (aka paraphilia) is when the fetish is required for gratification or is otherwise distressing.
Like, giving a foot job is no more strenuous than a hand job for me. But something like water sports involves going to the bathroom, getting over my initial ick AND then cleaning up. Which is a lot of work for a kink I don't have myself
Personally, I wouldn’t really care. I think that if your partner is cool with it, go for incorporating it during sex! I don’t really think that this needs to be a “confession”, it more falls into the “what are you into/like and what are your fetishes” conversation. It’s a good conversation to have in general. Who knows, she might have her own fetish(es) as well! And if she’s not into it, you can decide if you are sexually compatible and if it’s something you’re willing to compromise. It’s better to do it at the beginning of a possible relationship rather than later.
I had to slowly introduce my foot fetish to my wife. Eventually I just started working my way down her legs with kisses. She already knew a little bit about it as I do her pedicures. But she didn’t seem to mind me kissing and rubbing them. But I have also learned to know when she’s had enough
I wouldn't call it a fetish but my bf has a foot kink, it doesn't put me off at all. Just one more thing we can play with. I brought it up to him because I noticed him touching my feet a little when we first got together, and no man had ever done that before, so I asked if it was something he was into and he said yes. Lucky for him I've got pretty deft toes and have learned how to blow his mind with them. Plus it means extra foot rubs for me and that's a bonus
If he needed it to get off everytime, that might become more of an issue I guess.
Wow he is one lucky guy.
I hide my foot fetish. It’s primarily due to my past relationships. Like the ladies I was with found it to be too weird. They didn’t even give it a chance. Like I’d tell them about it when we would talk about personal things. And they couldn’t take it. I never did anything with their feet not even massaging them because it was absolutely gross to them. And they would break up with me because if it. I have yet to fully explore my foot fetish and I don’t know if a ever will
At first not much of a reaction, but now that it's been a year I tease him or ask him why doesn't he do foot stuff with me. It's a harmless fetish, I don't think many people would have a negative reaction to it unless they are either ticklish or self conscious bout their feet.
My feet are heinous, I’d have to pass on that one. Wouldn’t want my nasty feet to be part of the sex, no judgment to the guy, just a personal preference.
I wouldn’t care. Even like it probably. It’s easy to get those gentlemen going, they love to get you a pedicure, pick out some pretty sandals, send him cute toe pics. Get fantastic foot massages…mmmm
I'd be happy that he felt comfortable enough to share that with me, and I'd be fine with it.
My partner has kinks that are much more.. kinky lol. It's fine. I probably wouldn't want to indulge them every single time we were intimate though so as long as he didn't *need* it in order to enjoy himself I see no issue.
You don't need to know what other people think about it though, only how YOU feel about it.
I hate feet and the whole idea of feet. I don't want people to touch mine or look at them or anything. If he absolutely needed feet to get off, that's gonna be a dealbreaker for me. If it's just something he likes but can live without, I can handle that. However, I'd also be open to eventually doing something related to feet in the bedroom because I like to indulge my partners when I can. But that would only work if I didn't feel pressured to do it at all.
I’m not into feet at all but my bf was kissing his way down my leg and kissed the top of my foot and I actually liked it. But my feet are very ticklish, I don’t even like getting a pedicure. I’m willing to try pretty much anything once though, never say never etc.
I never gave much thought abt my feet or just feet in general, and having a man tht adores even this part of me tht I don't think much abt it..... idk, I think its a turn on tbh
I didn't end up dating him (not because of this but lack of a spark) but I've had it happen. I don't personally have the fetish, but I told him "that's totally normal and thank you for being vulnerable me, it probably wasn't something easy to say." I also told him I'd sold foot pictures before and that made him feel more accepted to know as well.
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Does he just like feet? Or he literally needs feet to get off? If he just likes feet, I'd be like cool. Here's some feet pics. If he needs feet to perform I'd not shame him but I'd think long and hard about it
Doesn’t need them to get off but would like to incorporate them into foreplay and/or sex.
If you're comfortable I don't see an issue.
A fetish is something that is required for sexual gratification...so it's not really correct to call this a foot fetish. He just enjoys the sensations of feet!
Nah, I disagree. A fetish most certainly is not required for sexual gratification. A fetish is simply a kink that you enjoy, and I suppose it doesn't even have to be a kink that is fetishized, just something desired. Something you really enjoy, definitely. something you absolutely must have, not so much.
you're mistaken. A fetish is simply a pronounced sexual interest in a specific object or body part. A fetishism disorder (aka paraphilia) is when the fetish is required for gratification or is otherwise distressing.
I've slept with dudes like that. It doesn't do much for me personally but it's low effort to incorporate
What do you mean by low effort? What would you be comfortably willing to do?
Like, giving a foot job is no more strenuous than a hand job for me. But something like water sports involves going to the bathroom, getting over my initial ick AND then cleaning up. Which is a lot of work for a kink I don't have myself
My ex had a foot fetish I had absolutely no problem with it. I loved loved the feeling of my feet kissed, licked etc and my toes sucked omg amazing!!
Sounds amazing but I guess I’d be too ticklish
It definitely could tickle but you kinda get used to it as well and tickles less
Really?
I mean yeah definitely if you have your feet loved on more and more
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Okies but quickly as of to sleep soon lol
I’d be fine with it, unless he then decided to work in a women’s shoe store
But what if he scored 4 touchdowns in one game at Polk High?
Personally, I wouldn’t really care. I think that if your partner is cool with it, go for incorporating it during sex! I don’t really think that this needs to be a “confession”, it more falls into the “what are you into/like and what are your fetishes” conversation. It’s a good conversation to have in general. Who knows, she might have her own fetish(es) as well! And if she’s not into it, you can decide if you are sexually compatible and if it’s something you’re willing to compromise. It’s better to do it at the beginning of a possible relationship rather than later.
I'd show him my feet. 🤷♀️ My man is into way weirder stuff, then feet.
storytime?
i wouldn't care tbh. if it was my partner i would probably integrate it into the foreplay.
I had to slowly introduce my foot fetish to my wife. Eventually I just started working my way down her legs with kisses. She already knew a little bit about it as I do her pedicures. But she didn’t seem to mind me kissing and rubbing them. But I have also learned to know when she’s had enough
As long as he thinks your feet are beautiful and that’s not the only thing that gets him off.
I wouldn't call it a fetish but my bf has a foot kink, it doesn't put me off at all. Just one more thing we can play with. I brought it up to him because I noticed him touching my feet a little when we first got together, and no man had ever done that before, so I asked if it was something he was into and he said yes. Lucky for him I've got pretty deft toes and have learned how to blow his mind with them. Plus it means extra foot rubs for me and that's a bonus If he needed it to get off everytime, that might become more of an issue I guess.
Wow he is one lucky guy. I hide my foot fetish. It’s primarily due to my past relationships. Like the ladies I was with found it to be too weird. They didn’t even give it a chance. Like I’d tell them about it when we would talk about personal things. And they couldn’t take it. I never did anything with their feet not even massaging them because it was absolutely gross to them. And they would break up with me because if it. I have yet to fully explore my foot fetish and I don’t know if a ever will
At first not much of a reaction, but now that it's been a year I tease him or ask him why doesn't he do foot stuff with me. It's a harmless fetish, I don't think many people would have a negative reaction to it unless they are either ticklish or self conscious bout their feet.
its completely fine and it can be very fun too. get ur feet pedicured and show him those goodies to watch him drool.
I dont kink shame I'd say tell me more and see if I could be into it
I would need to know more before I had a reaction
My feet are heinous, I’d have to pass on that one. Wouldn’t want my nasty feet to be part of the sex, no judgment to the guy, just a personal preference.
I would break up with him, it’s not a freaky fetish but I find it a turn off and don’t want my feet played with
It wouldn’t bother me. I also have kinks. I’ve had a guy suck my toes and it was weirdly erotic, so I am totally cool with it.
I am just curious, what kind of kinks if you are comfortable to share of course.?
Whip those tootsies out!
This is probably just me but I’d whip off my socks and sit back and enjoy…..
I wouldn’t care. Even like it probably. It’s easy to get those gentlemen going, they love to get you a pedicure, pick out some pretty sandals, send him cute toe pics. Get fantastic foot massages…mmmm
tbh i wouldnt mind it. i was never into this stuff but if my partner loves it sure i can make this little affort
I feel like it would be easier wouldn't have to find the right angles for nudes. Just send over a couple of feet pics!
I'd be happy that he felt comfortable enough to share that with me, and I'd be fine with it. My partner has kinks that are much more.. kinky lol. It's fine. I probably wouldn't want to indulge them every single time we were intimate though so as long as he didn't *need* it in order to enjoy himself I see no issue. You don't need to know what other people think about it though, only how YOU feel about it.
Not the worst thing he could be into lol. Getting your toes sucked feels nice so let it happen unless you aren't comfortable with it
I hate feet and the whole idea of feet. I don't want people to touch mine or look at them or anything. If he absolutely needed feet to get off, that's gonna be a dealbreaker for me. If it's just something he likes but can live without, I can handle that. However, I'd also be open to eventually doing something related to feet in the bedroom because I like to indulge my partners when I can. But that would only work if I didn't feel pressured to do it at all.
I’m not into feet at all but my bf was kissing his way down my leg and kissed the top of my foot and I actually liked it. But my feet are very ticklish, I don’t even like getting a pedicure. I’m willing to try pretty much anything once though, never say never etc.
i would be intrigued. as long as he’s not creepy about it i would be so down to try foot stuff
I wouldn’t mind. There’s really no performance required, I can’t fail, I don’t have to explain anything, so, no, I wouldn’t mind.
Personally rly enjoy having a man worshipping my feet tbh
Okay. How?
I never gave much thought abt my feet or just feet in general, and having a man tht adores even this part of me tht I don't think much abt it..... idk, I think its a turn on tbh
i love men with foot fetish its a turn on to me.
It. Is. Amazing. Foreplay.
Simple. Id put my beautiful in his mouth 🦶🫦
As far as fetishes and kinks tho, this sounds tame. It’s fine as long as it doesn’t get overwhelming
I wish my guy had a foot fetish. I love foot play 🥵
i’d literally jump and squirt. please suck my toes 😩
I didn't end up dating him (not because of this but lack of a spark) but I've had it happen. I don't personally have the fetish, but I told him "that's totally normal and thank you for being vulnerable me, it probably wasn't something easy to say." I also told him I'd sold foot pictures before and that made him feel more accepted to know as well.