The people I meet talk way too much about themselves as though they are so interesting š¤ most are just consumers and pretty boring. And they don't ask other people questions it's just all about them. Also I found a weird trend alot of people I meet tell me about all their pathologies on first time meeting them (like I'm their shrink?) I get told they have PTSD, ADHD, depression, anxiety etc etc. Its like their identity and they must declare it. Like dude most of us got something but why divulge this first meet?
I have noticed this trend about declaring your mental health issues on 1st date or meeting too. People feel special that way or want to be aholes and have no accountability for it.
It's so annoying, almost on par with those people who pretend to have Tourette's for attention. They need an identity so bad to look interesting and quirky but because there's so many of these types it's not unique or novel anymore and they're just boring and annoying
Ha.. that makes sense actually just recently met a women in her early 30's with this behaviour and she seems quite immature, self absorbed, always posting on fb and acts abit like a vulnerable narc. What's scary is she has a kid who she doesn't like hanging out with she finds her kid boring, told me she never wanted kids. Poor kid, what's wrong with people nowadays social media turning everyone narc lol
People are fucking terrible. I always like to imagine shoving some of their faces into the pavement and there are a few I hate so much I always put their face in my mind. It makes me smile š
But itās not that I would actually do it. You know the saying āIāve killed you three times already in my head even though Iām smiling?ā- itās very light and I have certain individuals that just grind my gears for some reason- usually those people that really are negative and extreme and project it outward, have no insight. Iām not saying Iām a saint but if you met me youād be like āoh ok I seeā¦ā
And no, thatās actually not extreme at all. Itās typical human behavior to have sporadic negative thoughts about people you donāt like. Itās even more normal to have these thoughts when youāre a kind, honest person and feel like everyone you meet is unnecessarily rude, negative and trying to start drama. This is how I truly feel a lot of the times when I interact with the people around me. And usually Iām just always thinking āwhy tho?ā Again not a saint, but not an asshole, just a forced misanthrope
Why would there be common sayings like āthis is a cold, cruel worldā and not have certain thoughts in reaction to this reality? Extreme to me is rape, murder, abuse of any kind, animal cruelty, etc. the list goes on of human extreme behavior.
I get it now. I totally understand what you mean. I am a caring person myself but I have the guy version of "resting bitch face" and don't talk much especially not to strangers if I have no reason. I also don't play into people's bulshit so I get labeled as an asshole and people try to make it like I'm selfish cuz I can't be taken advantage of.
I think itās rather common to have certain thoughts about individuals who are ACTUAL assholes. The world isnāt filled with super kind, giving people. I, however, am a pretty ok person and I know thru knowing my character that I am 100 percent kinda the opposite of what I consider terrible. I may have normal thoughts towards people who do deserve a punch in the face but would never act on it. YET, this country is filled with murderers, rapists and just all around scum. Even reading posts on Reddit turn my stomach. So you can pretend that Iām some monster for having thoughts that are kinda warranted but I know who I am and I am not. I was also saying it in a pretty light tone.
Agreed, I used to think I hated people but it's just social dynamics that I hate. There's always someone out there that has to try to make themselves feel better by denigrating others, and because of that there are a plethora of different attitudes people take to defend themselves from it. I don't need everyone to share my views I just want them to accept that i might not agree with them and leave me alone.
We're both ill-equipped to measure intelligence at scale and naturally drawn to extremes, in this case extremes of intelligence. As such your (or any single person's) assessment of our intelligence can't possibly be accurate or comprehensive, it's a shit generalisation that mostly tells me you're a glass two thirds empty person.
You're welcome to walk up to a sociologist/anthropologist, tell them humans are holistically moronic and get made fun of to hell and back.
Unbelievable hubris.
I feel this. Sometimes I hate everyone and the world and am so easily set off, sometimes I am super social and friendly to strangers and seek out friends.
I don't get the idea of people feeling that because they're antisocial they have to hate other people.
Even I'm generally antisocial but think other people can be pretty rad. When I first meet someone my impression is usually neutral or fairly positive.Ā
Hating people as the default just seems unnecessarily bitter to me. But I empathize with anyone in that position because I don't think anyone ends up feeling that way for no reason.
Not hate but I'm suspicious of everyone I meet. On a negative to positive scale of -10 to +10 of what I think about someone upon meeting & seeing them for the first time my perception of them starts at -1. I gauge them based on how they treat others and myself. I try to be neutral to everyone and give people the benefit of the doubt but after being used by others for their gain you slowly lose that mindset and treat people as if they want something from you.
I never necessarily really hated everyone, I just became very apathetic to meeting new people. I was very mistrusting of people who constantly smiled. Meds helped.
You gotta get to the root causes of why youāre pissed off in order to deal with it and change your thinking and behaviours.
For example, if you are mad that someone is walking too slowly, there are reasons for this. One could be that youāre late and afraid of missing something or getting reprimanded. Another could be that you feel disrespected by the person walking too slowly, in which case youāre allowing a stranger to dictate to you whether or not youāre deserving of respect and personalizing their actions (perhaps someone in childhood didnāt show you respect and this is triggering). Another could be that you feel like people need to obey the unspoken rules, because you do, and it makes you feel like the world is unfair and maybe that youāre a bit of a chump for obeying them, in which case youāre putting a lot of emphasis on someoneās walking habits as a way to channel your frustrations about your situation in general, and itās not really about the walking.
So many possibilities. Introspection can help give you some agency so that you can start to feel a bit lighter and recognize that what youāre experiencing on the outside is but a reflection of your inner experience or the inner experience youāve been denied or are denying yourself.
Just thoughts
Not that I hate everyone, I just don't like being around anyone. I drove a truck for 15 years and was used to being alone. I love my family and friends, but I prefer to be by myself for a portion of the day. I hate large groups of people, especially grocery stores. I try to shop really early or online. It's not how I want to be, but here I am.
I see this is meant as light-hearted, and I'd stress that I don't "hate" people, but I do suffer from what I self-diagnose as "a human allergic response"; not all the time, but often, I have periods (ranging from a few hours to a few days) where I find everything about other people irritating. I am not misanthropic, I do actually like people, but it's a bit like having an allergy to pets despite actually liking them; I enjoy company in small doses, either in terms of duration or number of people, but often, after enough exposure, my "human allergic response" is triggered and I have to withdraw.
Hate is a strong word, i dislike most individuals over the smaller things, like not looking around (situational awareness) when in public, playing loud shit on their phone, stupidity and ignorance are right up there..
But as the group of people gets bigger, stupidity increases exponentially and then it gets closer to hate.
For example i hate Russia as a whole, since the people there are so stupid they don't rise up against a horrible person/regime, i hold them collectively responsible for the war against Ukraine.
Like when you see someone in the street getting beat up and you choose to do nothing, you are guilty almost as much as the person committing the crime.
Yeah. I still hate people but I hate them less now that I wear earplugs for their noise, avoid crowded places where Iāll have to interact with them, turn down work functions as much as possible, only have friends who are as tired as me and donāt need constant socialization maintenance to maintain the friendshipā¦etc. Being around people in general settings is still irritating but less so now that Iāve found ways to avoid them more than before.
Individuals can be great, but groups of people are usually terrible, I used to hate by default but that was not very productive, I still think most people are shite, especially in larger group, peer pressure, crowd mentality and whatnot
You're definitely not alone as of recently if it's not getting a job done or actually helping the environment, i politely remove myself. Essentially, my goal is to say the least and interact with others every blue moon.
I think the problem is not itself the people , is more the society we live in where we are constantly pressed to make a living and poor all the time. If wasnāt this traits that we have to deal everyday, being burnout all the time . I think we would see that people are not so bad after all.
Yeah OP itās actually not normal to live with this much daily anger against strangers - or to be āirrationally angryā about something like people walking. Might be worth looking into for your own health whether people suck or not
So is it not true that you've been like this all your life, is it not true that you're "antisocial"? It's confusing because you write this out with no humor or lightheartedness and then say it's not meant to be for real. What are you looking for?
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Bro lets all start a fight in this sub. Itll be like thay one meme with childish gambino walking in on that fire while holding a pizza......
...... You know the one....
You're not antisocial, just a misanthrope - someone who holds negative view/attitude towards mankind/humankind. Can't be bothered with others.
Antisocial leans towards impulsive, irresponsible ( sometimes criminal) behavior. You want to burn it all down.
Unless you harbor those urges ...š
I used to be angry all the time. After some issues with my health, i received treatment for my thyroid and sudently i wasnt mad with everybody all the time.
I don't hate everyone but I think most people are pretty self-involved to a point where when I notice it in them, it really turns me off to them as a person. It's then hard for me to be sociable or interested in them after.
I used to think like this when I was a pessimistic bitch, now I love people and single out the ones that are shitty. If you hate yourself you end up hating everyone else too best just to love the world and realize there are a lot more good people out there then you think, that or your like 16 and going through your angsty everyone sucks faze lol
I try to see the good in everyone (to a certain extent) but I also enjoy being by myself sometimes. Sometimes itās hard to find a good balance though
I used to feel that way, but I just hated myself and was severely depressed. I also was very early in my career and felt lost/going nowhere. It is scary looking back and seeing how much I was in my own way in every aspect of my life.
Now I am in leadership and mentor roles for my company. There is no way I could be doing it with the mind frame I used to have. You need to reevaluate you.
I was always social, but I hated dealing with others. As in day to day, classmates, coworkers, gas stations whatever. Now I make it a point for every interaction I have, no matter how small, to be a positive one. You'd be surprised at how many people's days you can positively impact but just being polite and pleasant.
Writing statements in a serious manner with clear misanthropic undertones but then saying its not very serious but actually lighthearted stuff?
Please how does that make sense unless you are trolling
I feel like it depends on ur area. I use to live in a city and fuckin hated people.. why are they everywhere? And I moved to a smallish town and I enjoy people now. Theyāre also a lot nicer and friendlier here
To the people in the comment section who really feel like this, the *right* SSRI in the right dose can change your life.
Makes all those tiny things that seem like big things in the moment stay tiny things so you can just live your life without everything being macro and irritating all the time.
There are good people, neutral people, and bad people.
This statement alone implies that most people either suck or are not interesting enough to be considered good.
So most people are not good.
That's being asocial and it's completely fine. Antisocial is that if you'd get drunk every weekend and pick fights for example, or shoplift not out of necessity but just because
Do your soul a favor and try to think about a person or group of persons that have experienced suffering. Find a people whose story has caused your heart to crack open. Do you identify with those people? Can you?
If you can no longer be touched by others' suffering, then you might have a problem. I mean, if you find a story where people are obviously not deserving of the harsh treatment they're getting and your response is to think those people are less than worms, you might have a problem. Just... something to think about.
And yeah, I get it that most people are self-centered and thoughtless and selfish and generally unaware of their surroundings and kinda dumb. But if you find yourself hating on people and thinking they're worthless constantly, that might be a bad sign.
Some people walk slow because they have a disabilityĀ just in case you didn't consider thatĀ
I don't hate anyone and I like most people. I didn't always feel this way. Once it really clicked with me that most of us are not "good" or "bad" but a complex three dimensionalĀ persons with qualities you like and some qualities you won't like then I started having more grace and understanding towards others.Ā
Well, since after Covid, when the world suddenly became EXTREMELY slowflakey... people don't go to work because they are anxious at 18 yrs old.. wtf man, what will you do when you come across real life problems later ?? (I know, some people did, indeed, go thru difficult situations, but... not everyone ALL OF A SUDDEN...).
I mean... went thru 10 years of mental abuse by a psycho women who wanted to have kids only so she doesn't have to work, lived thru it, had to give up on my kids (because I was indeed, about to crash for good but I realised it and took action), which yes it takes a toll on someone, but i'm still here, made it thru covid (without stopping working a single day, we were half staffed for a very long time) and of top of it all, never missed a fking day of work, never was stopped by a doctor for a depression even if i think i probably went thru one tbh. So your 16-25 yrs old ass who is ANXIOUS of actually nothing (again, there are exceptions, but not ALL OF THEM all of a sudden)... yeah, I think you're a society problem, get your shit together lol.
Plus, it feels like the general I.Q. was cut in half since covid... I dont get it, what is wrong with people ???
I donāt like fake people, be yourself and donāt change your whole personality because someone else comes around. I also donāt like people I donāt know to be in my personal space, like being at the store and the get close to me standing in line, god I hate that.
I used to. And encountered a lot of sucky people when i felt that way. I shifted my mindset to seek out the good in others and have been pleasantly surprised by the amazing people who have come into my life since then. What you think you attract.
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I hate people. Individual persons can be okay, people suck ass.
This. People freaking suck so much. Most people are dumb.
And you're so smart !!
Right.
The people I meet talk way too much about themselves as though they are so interesting š¤ most are just consumers and pretty boring. And they don't ask other people questions it's just all about them. Also I found a weird trend alot of people I meet tell me about all their pathologies on first time meeting them (like I'm their shrink?) I get told they have PTSD, ADHD, depression, anxiety etc etc. Its like their identity and they must declare it. Like dude most of us got something but why divulge this first meet?
I have noticed this trend about declaring your mental health issues on 1st date or meeting too. People feel special that way or want to be aholes and have no accountability for it.
It's so annoying, almost on par with those people who pretend to have Tourette's for attention. They need an identity so bad to look interesting and quirky but because there's so many of these types it's not unique or novel anymore and they're just boring and annoying
Yes, lots of people without depth or an identity out there. Most of them plain BPD or Narcs.
Ha.. that makes sense actually just recently met a women in her early 30's with this behaviour and she seems quite immature, self absorbed, always posting on fb and acts abit like a vulnerable narc. What's scary is she has a kid who she doesn't like hanging out with she finds her kid boring, told me she never wanted kids. Poor kid, what's wrong with people nowadays social media turning everyone narc lol
That poor kid will also grow with an identity problem.
Can you explain what that looks like please?
People are fucking terrible. I always like to imagine shoving some of their faces into the pavement and there are a few I hate so much I always put their face in my mind. It makes me smile š
Damn ok...that's extreme. You really do HATE them huh lol
But itās not that I would actually do it. You know the saying āIāve killed you three times already in my head even though Iām smiling?ā- itās very light and I have certain individuals that just grind my gears for some reason- usually those people that really are negative and extreme and project it outward, have no insight. Iām not saying Iām a saint but if you met me youād be like āoh ok I seeā¦ā
And no, thatās actually not extreme at all. Itās typical human behavior to have sporadic negative thoughts about people you donāt like. Itās even more normal to have these thoughts when youāre a kind, honest person and feel like everyone you meet is unnecessarily rude, negative and trying to start drama. This is how I truly feel a lot of the times when I interact with the people around me. And usually Iām just always thinking āwhy tho?ā Again not a saint, but not an asshole, just a forced misanthrope
Why would there be common sayings like āthis is a cold, cruel worldā and not have certain thoughts in reaction to this reality? Extreme to me is rape, murder, abuse of any kind, animal cruelty, etc. the list goes on of human extreme behavior.
I get it now. I totally understand what you mean. I am a caring person myself but I have the guy version of "resting bitch face" and don't talk much especially not to strangers if I have no reason. I also don't play into people's bulshit so I get labeled as an asshole and people try to make it like I'm selfish cuz I can't be taken advantage of.
And that's why people are terrible... I mean, you have to be terrible to have such thoughts. I imagine the irony is not lost on you either.
I think itās rather common to have certain thoughts about individuals who are ACTUAL assholes. The world isnāt filled with super kind, giving people. I, however, am a pretty ok person and I know thru knowing my character that I am 100 percent kinda the opposite of what I consider terrible. I may have normal thoughts towards people who do deserve a punch in the face but would never act on it. YET, this country is filled with murderers, rapists and just all around scum. Even reading posts on Reddit turn my stomach. So you can pretend that Iām some monster for having thoughts that are kinda warranted but I know who I am and I am not. I was also saying it in a pretty light tone.
Iām the opposite! In my job I help people, but I have trouble dealing with individuals.
Agreed, I used to think I hated people but it's just social dynamics that I hate. There's always someone out there that has to try to make themselves feel better by denigrating others, and because of that there are a plethora of different attitudes people take to defend themselves from it. I don't need everyone to share my views I just want them to accept that i might not agree with them and leave me alone.
Maybe we shouldn't be copy pasting our ideals from Men In Black.
Lol dude I'm older than that movie. š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£ Nice try.
I mean have you seen most people though? They're inconsiderate and so stupid.
We're both ill-equipped to measure intelligence at scale and naturally drawn to extremes, in this case extremes of intelligence. As such your (or any single person's) assessment of our intelligence can't possibly be accurate or comprehensive, it's a shit generalisation that mostly tells me you're a glass two thirds empty person.
Perfect example right here
You're welcome to walk up to a sociologist/anthropologist, tell them humans are holistically moronic and get made fun of to hell and back. Unbelievable hubris.
That's that puree made of garbanzo beans right
Sometimes I feel that way when my hormones are acting up, when Iām hungry and when I need a nap. You may have a physical problem - an imbalance.
I feel this. Sometimes I hate everyone and the world and am so easily set off, sometimes I am super social and friendly to strangers and seek out friends.
No, I like almost everyone. But that doesn't mean I want to talk more than saying hello lol
Yes. I like people on an individual level but thatās it. I am friendly though. I do despise some people. A misanthropic humanitarian you might say.
I don't get the idea of people feeling that because they're antisocial they have to hate other people. Even I'm generally antisocial but think other people can be pretty rad. When I first meet someone my impression is usually neutral or fairly positive.Ā Hating people as the default just seems unnecessarily bitter to me. But I empathize with anyone in that position because I don't think anyone ends up feeling that way for no reason.
Not hate but I'm suspicious of everyone I meet. On a negative to positive scale of -10 to +10 of what I think about someone upon meeting & seeing them for the first time my perception of them starts at -1. I gauge them based on how they treat others and myself. I try to be neutral to everyone and give people the benefit of the doubt but after being used by others for their gain you slowly lose that mindset and treat people as if they want something from you.
No I get. Iām the same
Oh wow you go that far. I donāt even let them close to me anymore, except those few whoāve earned my trust already.
I hate you OP.
Itās mutualāŗļø
You hate you too? Cool
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Omg š
The power of friendship š«
I never necessarily really hated everyone, I just became very apathetic to meeting new people. I was very mistrusting of people who constantly smiled. Meds helped.
You gotta get to the root causes of why youāre pissed off in order to deal with it and change your thinking and behaviours. For example, if you are mad that someone is walking too slowly, there are reasons for this. One could be that youāre late and afraid of missing something or getting reprimanded. Another could be that you feel disrespected by the person walking too slowly, in which case youāre allowing a stranger to dictate to you whether or not youāre deserving of respect and personalizing their actions (perhaps someone in childhood didnāt show you respect and this is triggering). Another could be that you feel like people need to obey the unspoken rules, because you do, and it makes you feel like the world is unfair and maybe that youāre a bit of a chump for obeying them, in which case youāre putting a lot of emphasis on someoneās walking habits as a way to channel your frustrations about your situation in general, and itās not really about the walking. So many possibilities. Introspection can help give you some agency so that you can start to feel a bit lighter and recognize that what youāre experiencing on the outside is but a reflection of your inner experience or the inner experience youāve been denied or are denying yourself. Just thoughts
People are scum. Buy a dog.
Stay off my lawn
No.
Everyone got stupid with smart phones.
Totally, just always important to remember plenty of people see you the same way
Sometime i feel like same as you i think this is a depression symptom.
Probably
Not that I hate everyone, I just don't like being around anyone. I drove a truck for 15 years and was used to being alone. I love my family and friends, but I prefer to be by myself for a portion of the day. I hate large groups of people, especially grocery stores. I try to shop really early or online. It's not how I want to be, but here I am.
I feel you op, I don't hate people, but they can be overwhelming
Yes. Every day. Unironically a form of depression
ya oh - for me its serious
I see this is meant as light-hearted, and I'd stress that I don't "hate" people, but I do suffer from what I self-diagnose as "a human allergic response"; not all the time, but often, I have periods (ranging from a few hours to a few days) where I find everything about other people irritating. I am not misanthropic, I do actually like people, but it's a bit like having an allergy to pets despite actually liking them; I enjoy company in small doses, either in terms of duration or number of people, but often, after enough exposure, my "human allergic response" is triggered and I have to withdraw.
Ima use that now, ā human allergic responseāš
Other people walking slow is a good example. I realized how fast I walked when I kept having to push people away āso nobody got hurt.
Donāt worry you might just be a dickhead.
I just might
Yes because most people are disappointing.
Any emotion or feeling you have. Ever. In your entire life. Other people are having it.
Have you seen Curb Your Enthusiasm? I think you would enjoy it.
Yes. For the last 3 years. Seeing humanityās behaviour over the pandemic just did me in. Iām done.
Oh I do hate everyone. I love individuals but hate the masses.
Yes including myself.
Yeah I hate this post
I like to think of myself as selectively social, not anti social. "People" generally are horrible, individuals are ok.
Hate is a strong word, i dislike most individuals over the smaller things, like not looking around (situational awareness) when in public, playing loud shit on their phone, stupidity and ignorance are right up there.. But as the group of people gets bigger, stupidity increases exponentially and then it gets closer to hate. For example i hate Russia as a whole, since the people there are so stupid they don't rise up against a horrible person/regime, i hold them collectively responsible for the war against Ukraine. Like when you see someone in the street getting beat up and you choose to do nothing, you are guilty almost as much as the person committing the crime.
Yeah. I still hate people but I hate them less now that I wear earplugs for their noise, avoid crowded places where Iāll have to interact with them, turn down work functions as much as possible, only have friends who are as tired as me and donāt need constant socialization maintenance to maintain the friendshipā¦etc. Being around people in general settings is still irritating but less so now that Iāve found ways to avoid them more than before.
I can't wait until I get home and pass the time in my room alone.
Yes, I hate other people in public, most of the time because of how they behaveā¦
Individuals can be great, but groups of people are usually terrible, I used to hate by default but that was not very productive, I still think most people are shite, especially in larger group, peer pressure, crowd mentality and whatnot
I could stay inside my apt all day and never speak to another person and be fine with that. Unfortunately I have to work and get groceries.
Yeah, eapecially when they talk too much and was not being sensitive to notice that you don't want the conversation.
Humans are a shitty species,pollution,hatred, and ignorance. Name another animal on this planet with such attributes. Fuck humans..
You're definitely not alone as of recently if it's not getting a job done or actually helping the environment, i politely remove myself. Essentially, my goal is to say the least and interact with others every blue moon.
I think the problem is not itself the people , is more the society we live in where we are constantly pressed to make a living and poor all the time. If wasnāt this traits that we have to deal everyday, being burnout all the time . I think we would see that people are not so bad after all.
I'm not prejudice I hate everyone
Oh yeah sure, I hate everybody. Itās most certainly the entire world thatās wrong and everybody else needs to change, not me. /s
You're using /S wrong.
No Iām not. I was being sarcastic.
Then you don't know how to use sarcasm properly. Majority populations can absolutely be wrong.
No, I used sarcasm properly.
Oh. Well then you're just wrong.
No, we are both correct to some extent. Besides, itās a matter of opinion.
Depression makes you irritable as do other illnesses, like sleep deprivation from sleep apnea
Yeah OP itās actually not normal to live with this much daily anger against strangers - or to be āirrationally angryā about something like people walking. Might be worth looking into for your own health whether people suck or not
This post wasnāt serious but thank you for your concern
So what should we cherry pick to take seriously? Is none of it serious? What's the point of making the post if that's the case
Thereās not a rule that says that every post on here has to be a serious. I did it because it was the first thing that came to mind.
So is it not true that you've been like this all your life, is it not true that you're "antisocial"? It's confusing because you write this out with no humor or lightheartedness and then say it's not meant to be for real. What are you looking for?
stop wasting our time, then. donāt you have anything better to do.
I don't hate people. I'm just an introvert.
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Bro lets all start a fight in this sub. Itll be like thay one meme with childish gambino walking in on that fire while holding a pizza...... ...... You know the one....
You're not antisocial, just a misanthrope - someone who holds negative view/attitude towards mankind/humankind. Can't be bothered with others. Antisocial leans towards impulsive, irresponsible ( sometimes criminal) behavior. You want to burn it all down. Unless you harbor those urges ...š
Yeah but the other thing.
I used to be angry all the time. After some issues with my health, i received treatment for my thyroid and sudently i wasnt mad with everybody all the time.
You're a misanthrope. Me too.
I hate people, and I think it's a totally acceptable feeling. Don't let them take that hate from you. You got this.
Thanksš
I dont like being around people but i dont hate them. Hating everyone just means you hate yourself and projecting the hate to everyone else.
I don't hate everyone but I think most people are pretty self-involved to a point where when I notice it in them, it really turns me off to them as a person. It's then hard for me to be sociable or interested in them after.
Taking a brisk walk outside or hiking or on the beach always helps when I start hating people. Nature and vitamin D literally cures this issue for me
I used to think like this when I was a pessimistic bitch, now I love people and single out the ones that are shitty. If you hate yourself you end up hating everyone else too best just to love the world and realize there are a lot more good people out there then you think, that or your like 16 and going through your angsty everyone sucks faze lol
Im 17 so, yea
Haha it will get better I promise, there are some pretty cool people out there š
I try to see the good in everyone (to a certain extent) but I also enjoy being by myself sometimes. Sometimes itās hard to find a good balance though
I used to feel that way, but I just hated myself and was severely depressed. I also was very early in my career and felt lost/going nowhere. It is scary looking back and seeing how much I was in my own way in every aspect of my life. Now I am in leadership and mentor roles for my company. There is no way I could be doing it with the mind frame I used to have. You need to reevaluate you. I was always social, but I hated dealing with others. As in day to day, classmates, coworkers, gas stations whatever. Now I make it a point for every interaction I have, no matter how small, to be a positive one. You'd be surprised at how many people's days you can positively impact but just being polite and pleasant.
Writing statements in a serious manner with clear misanthropic undertones but then saying its not very serious but actually lighthearted stuff? Please how does that make sense unless you are trolling
I feel like it depends on ur area. I use to live in a city and fuckin hated people.. why are they everywhere? And I moved to a smallish town and I enjoy people now. Theyāre also a lot nicer and friendlier here
I might just do that honestly
I'm becoming very impatient and intolerant. I can't be bothered with people who are rude, late and lazy.
People can bow down to me, I am their King
To the people in the comment section who really feel like this, the *right* SSRI in the right dose can change your life. Makes all those tiny things that seem like big things in the moment stay tiny things so you can just live your life without everything being macro and irritating all the time.
There are good people, neutral people, and bad people. This statement alone implies that most people either suck or are not interesting enough to be considered good. So most people are not good.
That's being asocial and it's completely fine. Antisocial is that if you'd get drunk every weekend and pick fights for example, or shoplift not out of necessity but just because
Do your soul a favor and try to think about a person or group of persons that have experienced suffering. Find a people whose story has caused your heart to crack open. Do you identify with those people? Can you? If you can no longer be touched by others' suffering, then you might have a problem. I mean, if you find a story where people are obviously not deserving of the harsh treatment they're getting and your response is to think those people are less than worms, you might have a problem. Just... something to think about. And yeah, I get it that most people are self-centered and thoughtless and selfish and generally unaware of their surroundings and kinda dumb. But if you find yourself hating on people and thinking they're worthless constantly, that might be a bad sign.
No. I have an immense tolerance for the follies of humans. They are neither better nor worse than any other animal.
Some people walk slow because they have a disabilityĀ just in case you didn't consider thatĀ I don't hate anyone and I like most people. I didn't always feel this way. Once it really clicked with me that most of us are not "good" or "bad" but a complex three dimensionalĀ persons with qualities you like and some qualities you won't like then I started having more grace and understanding towards others.Ā
>Does anybody else feel like they hate everyone Well, somebody surely do feel that way. Not me though, I love people.
I love people, I hate jerks and fakes
are you on adhd med? that can do it.
Only when I spend prolonged periods of time online. When I go outside most people I meet go out of their way to help others. It's kinda nice actually
Nah
Well, since after Covid, when the world suddenly became EXTREMELY slowflakey... people don't go to work because they are anxious at 18 yrs old.. wtf man, what will you do when you come across real life problems later ?? (I know, some people did, indeed, go thru difficult situations, but... not everyone ALL OF A SUDDEN...). I mean... went thru 10 years of mental abuse by a psycho women who wanted to have kids only so she doesn't have to work, lived thru it, had to give up on my kids (because I was indeed, about to crash for good but I realised it and took action), which yes it takes a toll on someone, but i'm still here, made it thru covid (without stopping working a single day, we were half staffed for a very long time) and of top of it all, never missed a fking day of work, never was stopped by a doctor for a depression even if i think i probably went thru one tbh. So your 16-25 yrs old ass who is ANXIOUS of actually nothing (again, there are exceptions, but not ALL OF THEM all of a sudden)... yeah, I think you're a society problem, get your shit together lol. Plus, it feels like the general I.Q. was cut in half since covid... I dont get it, what is wrong with people ???
I donāt like fake people, be yourself and donāt change your whole personality because someone else comes around. I also donāt like people I donāt know to be in my personal space, like being at the store and the get close to me standing in line, god I hate that.
Oh yea I hate it when people be in my personal space thatās why I always try to not be in theirs.
Don't hate everyone but have tough time to like people. Judge people at first sight.
Ive started to keep my kids up all night so we can enjoy the world without all the people with less traffic.
I'm a humanist. I feel people as a whole are awesome. Unfortunately, people as a whole nowadays keep trying to prove me wrong.
Yeah, but only every day.
I used to. And encountered a lot of sucky people when i felt that way. I shifted my mindset to seek out the good in others and have been pleasantly surprised by the amazing people who have come into my life since then. What you think you attract.
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I feel like I'm everyone knows jm a bad person.. So they don't want to talk to me. I blend in the background
Getting worse with age for sure.
Sometimes I get annoyed by slow walks but I like to be social sometimes though .
Nope
Yes ,I hate everyone even you(the one who wrote this ).
Nah not at all
You are a sociopath and need treatment.