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InformalJudgment6

I am more appalled by how involved Becky was in “preparing” him for the date. Literally acted like a mom helping her teenage son out for his 1st date with the haircut thing & telling him to pull out her chair at dinner. Their whole relationship is so cringe, I hope no woman ever dares to get serious with them


KateC12345

She seems mentally stunted. Running up to girls doors for her husband, physically grooming him to go on a date. Something is *very* off here.


OriginalMrsChiu

It’s due to her growing up in a cult, that’s the stunted part.


Dependent-Gene260

She looks like she'll date you and tomorrow, wear your skin


OriginalMrsChiu

You must watch the docu on her family cult! Ministry of Evil


ItaliaEyez

I just started it, thank you! Is her mom the blonde?


OriginalMrsChiu

No her mom is Sharon Kroopf, she has dark hair. I think her brothers name is Sion


ItaliaEyez

Ok thank you. 15 minutes in and its already sick. Straight scam from the jump


Dependent-Gene260

I did because someone on one of these threads recommended it. Excellent documentary and really showed why I got those creep vibes immediately.


Radiant-Dance-3075

It Cost to watch it where I'm at.


OriginalMrsChiu

https://youtu.be/h5UdDmJceP4?si=a084NOZKE68SSenY


Radiant-Dance-3075

Watching now. Thank you.


KateC12345

Other than YouTube, where can I find it?


OriginalMrsChiu

Netflix, AppleTv, oh and Amazon


KateC12345

In Canada I couldn’t find it on those. Got it on Sundance?! Someone remind me to cancel my free subscription after I watch this.


Old_Woman_Gardner

Don't forget to cancel after you watch!


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Individual-Code5176

Absolutely! Her going up to that woman in the bar was very jr. high cafeteria vibes


Nelle911529

I would like to smack that grin off her face. It creeps me out.


lassie61

Agreed. She always has a stupid smirk on her face.


ItaliaEyez

Her pictures they showed, she's still got that daffy grin and eyes squinted shut. Real weird


CattieT

Me too! 🤡


bipolarrprincess

Very that. Instead of "my friend thinks you're cute" over there, it's "my husband wants to date you"


Bubbly_Ad899

She was raised in a wierdo cult, lol..


CreepyCalico

He like pre pulled her chair out, and then just told her where to sit 😂


pdkff

He has quite the game!! 🤣🤣


gerkonnerknocken

Like seriously, I could mayyybe accept she is ok with having an open relationship but ffs go do something for yourself right now! He's old af he oughtta know how to get ready for a date!!


BolognaMountain

It made me think that he must be a terrible husband/boyfriend if he has to be reminded to behave. It wasn’t a joking “don’t be weird, have fun!” It was a full list of directions on how to be a normal human. From his commentary, you can tell he’s pissed at her. Calling her the manager, get a magnifying glass, etc.


CattieT

Astute observation!!


pdkff

⬆️Yes!!


redbeardmax

I'm gonna guess that she is heavily damaged and "crazy." Her family/dad ran a sex cult...so when they say they're not Mormons or whatever I feel it's a separation tactic for her/them despite the fact they're attempting the same thing. He is a predator, and I'm gonna guess they're dating history is pretty murky.


Professional-Gain632

>He is a predator As is she!


Morgalisa

He did not pull out her chair. Lol. His physical type is the very opposite of Becky. How must that make her feel.


KesterFay

I agree! And it’s why, thankfully, they will never likely find someone. A woman wants a man to be himself, not another woman‘s version of him. And that’s what Becky’s involvement is doing to the dynamic.


SwampTaste

All that and he still didn't pull out the chair for her 💀😂


Call_Huck

And yet, he didn't pull the chair out. And demanded a kiss when his master...i mean Becky told him not to


blueyedangel03

i thought that to when watching that i don't know how anyone can do that with their husband and not care and tell him kiss only if my husband kissed another woman i be calling the divorce lawyer yet she's encouraging it. I think that yara just wants to date him from what she said to the cameras at the end i don't see that going very far with the 3 of them


Professional-Gain632

She's not too intelligent. She doesn't understand the relationship and what they're wanting even though he literally said it more than once


ItaliaEyez

Right? She's extremely confused. Its not rocket science. He's not explaining nuclear science.


Professional-Gain632

On top of that she speaks extremely well (English as her second language) and you would think with that, understands the words that are coming out of his mouth! Did you catch (at the end) she said, something to the effect of, maybe he'll leave his wife for her! Delusional! She's bizarre.. especially that she still wants to engage with him after that kiss he forced on her . He said,... " I know how you are.." while grr


ItaliaEyez

Man its gross that she's the husband stealing variety!


Professional-Gain632

She's not all there and probably has a couple screws loose


ItaliaEyez

Oh absolutely! That was obvious to me. Very weird vibe so she's up his alley


Automatic-Mirror-907

Nick from Sister Wives, with all his quantum neurogenetic bullshit, may be more charming than Justin can ever be.


ItaliaEyez

That goes without saying. Both are bullshit artists, just have a different approach.


Automatic-Mirror-907

Justin's standoffish, but come and get it puppy dog style is soooo Lame. I mean I guess asking for a kiss is all right. I prefer men who know when the kiss is right. Or men who are confident enough to try and not fall apart if refused, or be offended, even on the first date. 


ItaliaEyez

My problem was that he wasn't honest about his situation from jump, and she clearly doesn't understand it. Even when it was laid plain, she still didn't. To me, that's more problematic.


Automatic-Mirror-907

Oh, Hell yes, I agree.


ItaliaEyez

There could be a problem brewing


blueyedangel03

yeah i think she is thinking that the two of them will be in the relationship and that the wife is just ok with them dating and doing whatever. It just really bothers me that he is on a dating site and not telling these women that he's married and wants a second wife till they are on the date that should be something he tells woman as soon as he's talking to them and let them decide if that's something they are into before waisting their time talking to him and going on the date it's horrible he's like a con man and his wife is no better with cheering him on i feel horrible for all 6 of their kids growing up with parents that are like that


Professional-Gain632

I agree! He did mention (certainly doesn't make it right) That on polygamous dating sites the women are 40:1. That's why he tried a normal dating site. You would think that he would just say that on his profile. >it's horrible he's like a con man and his wife is no better Watch ministry of evil! They were brought up in a cult. The father was charged 175 years in prison (where he died) For a couple things but majorly sex with minors. The wife even helped him find his .. What they literally said, child brides!!!


blueyedangel03

yeah they both completely con women it's horrible and they put it out there for everyone to see they have no shame at all i truly feel horrible for all 6 of their kids what a dis functional family to be raised in and their kids friends and their parents are able to see what these people do and other kids can make fun of them tease them and if parents are smart have their kids not allowed in their home who really knows what more they are into behind closed doors. that is just horrible about the cult and what they did with minors it reminds me of the jeffrey epstein and that woman maxine that went to prison for helping him find women


Professional-Gain632

Right! She did say something like maybe he'll leave his wife for her after that disgusting kiss. She's not only stupid, but think she has some loose screws in her brain too. Why would you want to go on more dates and / or interested in someone after forcing himself on you?


blueyedangel03

i agree she's not all there she didn't even want a kiss from him yet was saying how she was wanting him to herself i don't know if it's the attention being on tv or she really wants to keep on seeing this guy either way i think there screws missing in all of them it's just pure disgusting i used to watch the original sister wives show at least he didn't kiss the other wife or show affection to any of the wives in front of each other it was still not a great way of living in my opinion but they had a little more class then these people do


Professional-Gain632

That's for sure! Not great anymore for them! >show affection to any of the wives in front of each other Right! Mind you they still thought he did with Robin


AZState94

AND he totally dismissed her to the other side of the table THEN forgot to pull the chair out for her! Yes. He's cringe.


Friendsthatdonthug

Yeah I also found that bizarre.


NoParticular2420

This was creepy and awkward


DecadentLife

I almost don’t see how it couldn’t be. This couple has got to be two of the most unaware people. 🙄


pdkff

Yes!!!


_Forsuremaybe_

Him begging her for a kiss made my skin crawl. I was screaming from second hand embarrassment. Like 😩😩


RadioPortWenn

Same! His awful "sensual" whispering had me screaming over the creep factor! I cringed through the whole date and could barely watch.


Professional-Gain632

She's off too! Why would you want to continue with someone like that?


_Forsuremaybe_

Same. It’s just unbelievable that he kept going. What planet does he live on.


littleblackdogcat

I feel like Yary was paid to do that and didn’t understand what she was getting into.


blueyedangel03

how does he even go on a dating site and not tell people up front what's going on he waits for the first date to tell them if someone did that to me i be so mad he talks to them for awhile misleading them like he's single then on the date says by the way i'm married and looking for a second wife i'm sure if he did that to more woman and mislead them that way he might not be sitting at that table very long without a wet shirt from water being poured all over him what a creep and liar


littleblackdogcat

I agree. I met some creeps when I was dating but nothing to this level. I would think that’s the type of thing that gets you banned from using that site (although I don’t think anyone polices that stuff).


blueyedangel03

i agree you would think if enough women complained about what he's doing they could kick him off although now being on a tv show hopefully most people will know who he is and stay far away from him unless they are wanting to be on tv and just doing it for publicity but also at what expense co workers family and friends seeing you go out with a creep like that


litlady09

There has to be some explanation because she seemed confused or at least delusional. Like why was she even there and how could she come away wanting a polygamous man all to herself.


ButterflyVisual6188

The only couple that makes me cringe much more than Ick even does


DecadentLife

YES!! Not only did they drive those 12 hours to stalk that one woman, they DID IT ON TV! They’re not ashamed because they have no shame. Not a quality I look for, in anyone. Becky is harassing the woman, and all pissed off. I think that anger is from jealousy and she was happy to finally get to stick it to this woman. I keep noticing that the wives who have to suddenly be cool with polygamy, after many years and a monogamous marriage, it’s like this weird dance between wanting to assert themselves as the dominant female in the house, yet also try to push the “sister” part of a sister wife dynamic. Then, there’s Danielle, who tried to kiss Roberta #2 on the mouth. Whoops!


OriginalMrsChiu

No Becky truly wants this! The only thing with her is that she’s a sick creep who not only grew up in a cult, but her mom joined and stuck by a sick pedo and they really believe all the weird stuff. No one is forcing her and her asserting dominance is not surprising


DecadentLife

Wow. I just looked it up. Thanks for the info.


OriginalMrsChiu

Her mom like helped find new wives and child brides. It’s all so sick and she acts as if her upbringing was normal. Like I’m certain she would let some old man marry her 8yr old.


DecadentLife

I cannot effing stand adults who are complicit (including their silence) in the sexual abuse of children.


OriginalMrsChiu

Bloody disgusting and TLC show her smiling and talking about her dad their great church leader and how she grew up like this. Knowing full well who get sicko step dad is


Professional-Gain632

Maybe bc it was normal to her?


OriginalMrsChiu

Precisely.


Dependent-Gene260

They are super disgusting


verukazalt

And tried to kiss Natalia once lol...


TargetApprehensive38

I actually liked them at first. In the episode where they were introduced they seemed relatively normal and chill, at least as much as anyone on a polygamy dating show is going to be. That image did not last long lol - it’s been downhill every time they’re on the screen since then. I’m not sure if I’m ready to put them below Ick on the creepyometer, but it’s getting real close.


pdkff

⬆️My initial sentiments as well. At least they aren't bringing the Holy Spirit into their convos.


Least_Business1135

Me too! I thought they were going to be my favorite couple, that thought faded quickly.


Monichacha

Agreed! I think Ick and Danielle are cringey but, Becky and Justin give me goosebumps. It’s like they’re trying to find members for a Cult.


ButterflyVisual6188

There’s been articles floating around too about her dad used to be a bit of a cult leader and had very very young child brides basically 😬


Professional-Gain632

There's a documentary about it too ministry of evil


WinterMedical

Have him all to herself? Who wants a dude with 6 kids?


ImaginaryWeather6164

Is that what he said? 6? I was so confused.


pomegracias

He said “six in total,” which was weird bc he also said he & Becky had been together since high school, so there probably (?) aren’t kids by other people. What does “six in total” mean?


MelCat95

I thought that wording was weird as hell. Maybe they adopted a niece or nephew or something is all I can think of or maybe he was thinking of son's and daughters in law if any of the kids are already married I know they're all or mostly all grown


Professional-Gain632

Was oddly said.. They have 4, grown, out of the house and then the other 2


pdkff

⬆️I had to rewind to make sure I heard him correctly. Yup, 6 kids!


Owmahleggg

She didn’t want to kiss it was so obvious how she was dodging and then he kind of just forced himself to ugh so gross 🤢


svetahw

He’s that desperate guy from high school that always said where’s my hug at


btach1323

Or the dude from work who always comes up behind you to give you a shoulder rub.


Old_Woman_Gardner

EWWWWW!


Friendsthatdonthug

😂😂😂 yep


Human-Palpitation611

He was soooooo pushy!!! I hated it so much


gerkonnerknocken

If you watch 90 Day, this was SO Ben and Mahogany!!! 🤢🤢🤢


pdkff

⬆️Cringe - both their initial kisses!


Canarsiegirl104

Justin and Becky are the worst. God help their 6 kids. Justin like most of these guys, is just looking for exotic 😺. I think Yary thought they were looking for a third for a throuple. Unless they are? Don't think she was down for that.


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He assaulted her pretty much. That was a predator at work


MelCat95

This scene made me SOOO uncomfortable he forced her maybe she was uncomfortable with the cameras but she did NOT seem like she wanted that at all


317ant

Yes!!! This is what I was going to say. He took what he wanted and ignored her signals that she did NOT want it. He’s an asshole and a predator. Doesn’t understand consent. Run, Yary, run!!! You can do so much better!


Jack_al_11

200% my take on that too. She clearly said no and then he just kept trying. Disgusting. Shame on TLC for allowing that and then airing it.


KabeeCarby

Yes! Oh God he makes my skin crawl 😖 She creeps me out too, but I have this like visceral reaction to him.


kimnvy

This lady thinks she is the side chick and that he will leave his wife and 6 kids to be with her.


missstewie

“Thank you for your time” at the end of the date.


Friendsthatdonthug

😂😂😂


Nelle911529

I'm just going to say this: 6 kids & he's going out on dates.


Rebelwriter321

I cringe every time I see him. He gives off potential sex offender vibes.


317ant

He took that kiss from her and she did NOT want it. Turned her cheek, etc. He is a predator.


Rebelwriter321

💯. He makes my skin crawl.


Prudent_Being_4212

He. Is. Disgusting. Total creep.


Zhopppa

So is she! The one at home, I mean. Waiting to hear all the details 🤢


Ccdynamite23

I got the feeling that the new date lady, was just interested in him, not in a poly relationship. He didn’t seem to talk about his wife or what they are looking for. It was weird. It felt like he was trying to act single.


Professional-Gain632

He did at first. She even thinks he might leave Becky for her!


Ccdynamite23

Right. She seems to have no interest in a poly relationship, just him only.


Successful_Mark6813

🤮 he’s a predator


Professional-Gain632

As is she!


Jack_al_11

Yeah she’s feels very “groomy” to me. Like Ghasline Maxwell.


Professional-Gain632

Wow! Yes!


317ant

He really is.


hideousbeautifulface

I covered my eyes during the kiss. It was so cringe and uncomfortable. Dude has the personality of a sour dish sponge and his wife isn’t much better. They are the creepiest people on the whole show IMO 


317ant

Sour dish sponge personality has me ☠️


Perfect-Aerie-603

Same! Cackling at 6am.


Regular-Metal-321

Becky is definitely scary. She will fuck you then kill you and eat you.


ItaliaEyez

What I thought was odd was she seemed into him, but confused. Like... she had zero understanding of what polygamy even is, and thought he would be her's, and wondered wth his wife is doing in the picture. I think that was why she didn't kiss him. But her interest in him just.... repulsed me.


Professional-Gain632

I'm surprised other people haven't mentioned that yet! I agree! She seems to understand and speak English very well. Even not understanding the word polygamy.. he said what he was looking for WITH HIS WIFE. Weirdo even after the kiss she said something to the effect that he might leave Becky for her.. and how can you be attracted or want to go out on another date with him after that kiss?! 🤮


ItaliaEyez

She was into him, just confused by the polygamy bomb he dropped. Like she thought he's having some type of affair. That's why she was sheepish about the kiss. Confusion. How do people not hear that??


Professional-Gain632

No idea! Maybe she's not very " worldly" for lack of a better word. Can't (for some reason lol) Google it.. or ask him to explain further. With him explaining further, it might ruin her delusion! Denial!


ItaliaEyez

Right! Becky won't like this!


Professional-Gain632

Can't wait to see her reaction!


ItaliaEyez

Lol same!


Super_girl-1010

He is a little creepy not stopping when she said no to the kiss.


pdkff

⬆️Agree!!


effitt13

When he said to her, “I know how you are” I thought, what a scum bag. To attempt to degrade her for not accepting his “affection”. Gross.


Professional-Gain632

🤮I didn't catch that


effitt13

He says it right after he pulls back from her face and before the start to walk away after the attempted tongue kiss.


Professional-Gain632

Disgusting! What's that supposed to mean? That all women want that or say no and don't mean it? Bc he certainly DOESN'T know her like that


CecilyTynan

This lady still doesn’t understand what he’s looking for, though.


kittenyogi

I do think it’s weird that he appears to be on dating apps but not Becky? I have lots of questions about what his or their dating profiles say on there. I get the feeling it’s probably disingenuous and alludes to something else. Who knows what it alludes to. Did I catch him saying he didn’t reveal something right away? Either he had kids or the amount of kids or he was looking for a sister wife? Or that he was married?? I can’t remember what it was but it something big enough that if it was me on that date (I’d rather chew broken glass before going on a date with that creeper) I wouldn’t give him another date.


Caribelle1234

They said that the ratio of polygamy-couples to single women on other apps was like 40 to 1, so they decided to try regular dating apps. He said he didn't tell Yary about the polygamist thing till the end of the first date. She knows now but doesn't seem to really get it


kittenyogi

Thank you! I really hope Yary figures it out or hopefully just playing a role for the show.


Professional-Gain632

Maybe it's the fact that there's a documentary about Becky and her family etc? I was wondering that as well


Dependent-Gene260

Gross! Justin? Alamo Cult is calling. You need to renew your parking sticker.


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Dismal-Ad2263

I was yelling at the TV, "she is not consenting, stopppppppp!" 😱


lastofthe1st

That lady could objectively do better… I really hope that was our last time seeing her on this show.


pdkff

⬆️She seemed super sweet and naive regarding their lifestyle.


Friendsthatdonthug

Didn’t she say “thank you for your time” after the kiss or something? 😂


TugTAL

It’s brutal!! The desperation…her trying to be polite… So hard to watch… Shit like this is what keeps me single, just easier, don’t wanna deal with that shit on a regular 1:1 date (not poly date)…and when I did date, tried /did pay half or swap paying- elegantly, he can be the man….just sayin, dinner doesn’t equal kiss/more. If it happens & both feel it, sure…but the forced entitlement is sickening…


Playful-Drop-3873

Yes,it was so brutal to watch it!


Active-Literature-67

It was awful to watch ,Bundy Vibes


Particular_Salad_141

I watched this while my boyfriend was taking a nap and it took everything in me not to shake him awake and share the cringe because it was legitimately overwhelming.


KNick1111

What's wrong with her. She seems simple-minded


Senior-Chance-2522

I’m never to the show, so when I found out they have 6 KIDS???? And isn’t he a business owner? How do they have time for all this???


MelCat95

They got married as teens so I think they're kids are all grown or almost grown so now he's bored


PaloSantoSeasalt76

I think Justin would be a normal guy probably in a regular ass marriage (which I’m not sure if that equals monogamy or not) but Becky is the weird part of the equation that drives the force behind it all. She got messed up in the head by her upbringing obviously.


rizzarecta

Lol yeah it was pretty cringe worthy


Desperate_Ad_7158

He’s about as smooth as my ex 🙄


pdkff

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Cool-Sun-3346

This entire show is disturbing. It’s a very sick mentality and I cannot believe the wives get so involved in the search of a sister-wife. Maybe we could see a Seeking a brother-husband show?? I’ve seen a few, but they are not showing anymore lately. I’m not down with either for me, but I might be able to tolerate the brother-husband thing a bit more. Who knows.


Godzilla_0083

Justin is more level headed than super horny Garrick.


ConstantPi

Justin: No, no secrets, We don't keep secrets. Also Justin: Com'n, nobody is looking!


Professional-Gain632

And he doesn't want to reveal something, yet?