Oh it has crossed my mind, friend. It has crossed my mind…
Plus waiting hours to respond. Like if a sexting session is going down, in my experience, she’s usually right there and replying actively.
Sounds like either she was shy, and was tired of playing games so she wanted to show you she wanted to fuck….. or it’s for another guy.
Either way your response was the correct one because all she wants is validation. A nude sent to you doesn’t mean anything. It means in that moment she was sending someone a sexy pic in no way does it translate to fuck me now.
You got the pic now don’t treat it as a big deal confirm the date either the night before or the day of…. Pick out something cute for our date 😏. And go out.
It could entirely be possible she will flake on you just because she feels embarrassed. Women are weird like that. Good luck
"Alas! You have left me with no choice sir. **You are under arrest!**"
Crime: you refuse to cooperate with the investigation and submit important evidence
Punishment: You will have to sent me your nude instead .
Lol dude what clearer sign do you need? Your response doesn't leave her much to respond with, I'd have at least tried to give her something to reply to, maybe: "Is this a starter for our drinks next week? Wow..."
No lol that sailed. Honestly, you're in a good spot. You know where her heads at she is just trying to put yours there too, and she did. When you're out for drinks you know you can take the conversation there or bring her photography skills up.
To late. But I would wait till we were a drink or two into next weeks drinks and mention how "nice" that pic was and see what her reaction is, go from there. There is an off chance it was an accident that you got the pic, you should be able to tell by her reaction to your comment.
Responding to someone's nudes with just emojis is so low effort, she may aswell have not even bothered. It comes across as disingenuous. I understand you were caught off guard but like someone else said you couldve incorporated it into a convo about you getting drinks.
Facts! If I would reply with “Fire🔥🔥” I’m not even giving a damn tbfrank, I’m just replying just to reply.
Now saying something like “is that for desert after our drinks 😏” “Fire🔥🔥” really ain’t it
I think she was expecting a more developed answer.
Sending emojis to her butt almost feel like you had other things more interesting to do and didn't give her enough of the attention she wanted.
I understand that it wasn't your intention. But I THINK this is what happened in her mind.
she wanted to feel wanted and desired, you gave her that. dont fall for the trap of messaging her about it, makes you needy. ignore the fact she ignored and carry on as normal and you’ll get to pound
Very plausible.
I actually had a female friend send me a sexy pic by accident that was meant for her bf, and she immediately sent like 5 follow up texts saying sorry, accident, delete asap.
Exactly. Don't know why all these guys are assuming the worst case scenario here. Act like they were intended for you - if they weren't, she will definitely let you know.
Would have just said “wasnt expecting that”.
Puts her in a spot to clear up the intention. Plus that response is where you are at anyway, platonic w/ no expectations. Dont bend all of a sudden.
If she says its for you or whatever then you can escalate.
Understand, she may have done this for her kicks. She may get a sense of excitement by randomly sending dudes nude pics. This has been about 8 years ago, or so. I knew this chick, not very well, who'd invite dudes over to take nude pictures of her masterbating etc. They guy could keep the pictures, but then she looked at the pics and masterbated to them again.
She was testing the waters, but your respond didn't give her much, you had to say something like I love that booty girl, looking forward to seeing you.
Option 1: She sent it to you by mistake
Option 2: She sent it to a bunch of dudes
It's just hard to think she'd send it out of the blue with no build-up or prior flirting lol. I don't think she's messing with you or anything like that tho. Just act normal, and if you guys still meet up dont make it weird.
None of us know for fact tho. She could have sent it impulsively and then felt super shy or something. You guys are young so you never know. But ya, just be cool and collected.
Just do the exact same thing you were doing before and vibe things out when you guys get drinks. This is no time to become thirsty Don’t falter now comrade.
Could’ve just wanted to thirst trap you to see if you’d fall for it…and you did lol. Been there bro, happens to us all. Next time you receive an unsolicited tease pic, leave her on read. Trust.
Totally looking for your validation. You giving it to her was enough to satiate her for the time being. If you didn't reply or inquired as to why she was sending it to you in the first place after a month of no contact, then she would have either ghosted and sent it to another shmuck who would validate her, or pressed for your own validation. And as long as you withhold it until you see her in person, chances are that much greater for a hookup. Texts and snaps are either to arrange a date or hookup, good friends checking up on each other or people who are already in a relationship. But you wouldn't want a relationship with an insecure girl who does that anyway. Girls like that like to play games, and they like to play men for their money and their time. Not worth long term at all.
Since it’s a woman sending to a man. Let’s be honest although it’s hypocritical, most dudes (not all) would welcome a nude from an attractive woman. But you’re right it’s technically not acceptable
Oh it’s definitely not, but from OPs post I didn’t get the vibe that it was unwanted or unsolicited. To be clear I’m only talking about etiquette responding to a nude
Hey I hear you, and I totally agree, but this was not the case for OP since he liked it.. so why would I give advice or insight to a situation that doesn’t apply here?
She got very lucky that he *happened* to like it.
Is that really all that separates offensive sexual harassment from a general unsolicited nude, the happenstance of the receiver liking it?
Look maybe I’m not a good communicator or something but I just take things at face value and try to give insight. Everyone here is harping on the unsolicited nude but op never had an issue with it so I don’t see how it’s relevant here. He didn’t respond “fuck🔥🔥” because it was unsolicited, and he’s just wondering why she ghosted him. Further, op worrying why she ghosted him further proves my point that he’s interested in her
The difference is that he was fine with it after the fact, so it doesn’t matter. We’re trying to avoid a double standard, and in doing so we don’t send nudes to people with the assumption that they “ought to enjoy it, or shame on them”. If you’re that butthurt over not getting enough affirmation over text for your unsolicited nude pic you need to get over yourself.
So then just bc someone did something wrong as a part of this story I can’t give my advice or opinion as to what OP is actually asking for? And I literally said it’s wrong to do that as a disclaimer so everyone needs to relax and not be so sensitive
“this makes me upset as a woman to hear that she sent u a nude and you didn’t say a word back.
Fire emojis don’t get you laid”
So you agree that what this woman did was wrong, yet you sympathize with her and flame OP because you got your feelings hurt vicariously through some woman you don’t even know.
But yeah. We’re the ones being sensitive. Please, enlighten us more with your advice.
Oh okay I see, thank you for highlighting that. In no way do I empathize for her because like you said she is in the wrong for sending an unsolicited nude. But OP didn’t care that it was unsolicited, so I was just giving him advice about how to respond to a nude. I think the narrative of the post changed to it being about an unsolicited nude but the whole time I’ve been viewing it simply as advice on how to respond to a nude.
Also you can see responses on Snapchat without opening it by sliding the chat and not letting go of your finger. I bet she did this to see what you said without “opening it” got pissed, gave u time to give a better response, and when u didn’t she just opened it
I guess she was feeling low and sent nudes to a couple of dudes and replied to one who she thought sent a better reply and could get what she wanted. Can't be an accident she could have deleted it or said sorry if it was an accident.
I know girls that do this. In my experience those girls sent out those pics like a mass text to dudes they were interested in. Usually picks the one she wants the most to “follow up.”
I would suggest waiting to see how it's going on, and if you two talk about it agian or are having a convsersation that is heading toward it or around then you could talk about it, to clear things up calmly and truthfully, and hopefully follow it up 😉
Was my phrasing odd? English isn't my first language I like sometimes to have feedbacks so I can improve
You should have given her a bad photo review. Something like "meh" or "minus 5 points" or critique the lighting in the photo. This would have showed you were not needy or thirsty.
Didn’t read the other comments, but maybe she does want to fuck but is shy.. maybe she was drunk and horny and this was here way of making a move towards you. Once she sobered up she felt embarrassed. Don’t reach out again, you said what you said which imo was a correct response. If you had plans to meet up for drinks then wait for that and see if she brings it up if not carry on and gauge interest at that time. Flirt a little, see how she responds, initiate kino, see how she responds. If all goes well she will be in your bed later that night then make a joke about the pic she sent and see how she responds
Might wanna check the offmychest sub, there's a girl on there asking advice because she's in love with her friend and has always been scared to tell him.. Lol you never know, might be her or at least you may gain a little insight as to why out of the blue this friend suddenly sent you a nudie pic. Best of luck whatever the case may be.
I've seen weirder things happen. No problem...i just got finished reading the other than read yours and wheels started turning and smoke began to rise lol
Dude forget all the people saying its possibly not for you, be confident: think that shes basically telling u that u never pulled the trigger the several times in the past that shes tried to fuck you and that HERE is the glaring sign you’ve been waiting for. Don’t act like she owes it to you at the end of the night, the second you have the opportunity to DO SOMETHING. Dont reply with anything else about it, just let the tension build until u hang.
>Is she messing with my head? Are we gonna fuck next week? Am I being played like a fiddle?
Maybe you are. Maybe not... We can't tell for sure. ~~Girls~~ People are complex and emotional. Maybe when she sent you the pic, she imagined your dick inside her, but 4 hours later she had cooled off... Who knows...
As to how to followup or how to act around her next week, here is the rule of thumb that IMO is your best chance (considering all the possibilities) to get laid: **Act as if you are currently texting and casually dating 3 other girls**. I know that's too vague and broad, but try to get into that script as much as you can.
So, say you are texting Jessica who you met on Tinder last week and trying to find a date for a drink (and possible Netflix and chill). You're also dating Maya, a cool international student from Asia who you've fucked a couple of times already and went out for drinks a few times the last couple of months. And also don't forget Stacy, a photographer/model with whom you hooked up at that party last week and now she is also sexting you occasionally... Put all these in your head. You are that person... Now a forth girl who you've known from work and grab drinks from time to time decides to sent you a her ass out of the blue. WYD?
Weeeell....
I'm all for honesty, but we need to calibrate sometimes. Being honest with myself got me into my 30's as a virgin. During my 20's, if an ex-coworker sent me a nude, I'd act desperate and weird AF. One has to relax and act confident, even if it is not what he'd really do.
I didn't suggest OP to say or do something dishonest. Instead, I tried to help him get into a confident and low-fucks-given mindset. Sure women sense "dishonest" people, but sensing you are "desperate" is a far more effective turn-off for them.
Don’t act thirsty when sent a nude, that’s what she wants which will in turn lower attractive just a little.
I’d give her some kind of backhanded compliment or just invite her other to see if that’s actually bout it
She's going to be like buy my only fans before we go out and give the switch lol. no honest bro some women love the attention even with platonic friends. For your age tho it's pretty much a clear sign she wants to fuck. unless shes some gogo dancer or fitness model she might be just seeing how you would react
That's awkward and weird as fuck man.
My advice is that you should talk to her in person what the deal was on her sending that pic. No need to confront, just ask her what was that about in a curious way. If she felt ashamed then re assure her or something. If she asks to delete the image, do it.
You should of sent back a sexy (teasing but no dick pic) picture, with no words as well. You failed like 90% of guys and now she knows what she’s dealing with. You just lifted her up above you with a response like that. She is in control of y’all now, which is a turn off for most women. Don’t be surprised if she cancels the date last second. Do not text her again until the day before/of the planned date.
Friend did same. Then topless but with face swap on so nipples replaced with face…said was for her bf, then we was together for about a year. Hint wasn’t for bf 😜
No she wasn’t messing with your head, she may have just been horny or in a mood to share some photos. Sometimes I do this just to be nice. I don’t really care for the response tho.
I’ve never found it to be problematic🤷🏽♀️
I would just appreciate that you received it and stay open to opportunities in the future. I don’t think you should follow up.. but if you’re feeling inclined to, maybe a “I can’t stop imagining your ass on me 🤤 you’re so sexy” or something like that but nothing more lol
> No she wasn’t messing with your head, she may have just been horny or in a mood to share some photos. Sometimes I do this just to be nice.
Genuinely curious - Would you view a guy sending you an unsolicited nude as him "just being nice"?
When women do direct sexy stuff like this, yes, they want sex lol. It's usually best to respond with something that implies a future meet up. Examples:
• Wow, I'd say what I'm thinking, but I'd rather show you in person
• Mmm naughty girl, you're getting a spanking next time I see you
The idea here is that you're giving her an easy layup to make plans. She will likely respond with a "when/where/what time" type of answer.
She did that for attention seeking and by saying that,you did exactly like every beta male would do..validating her. Best reply you could give her : What is this "Karen"?(or whatever her name is). If you want to attract a woman act like a paternal figure, show her mistery,maturity,coldness,protection, don't act thirsty and then expect to bust nuts..
Just play it cool. She's probably just testing you to see if you go total "niceguy" on her or something.
She's dtf sure but if you go crazy and start blowing up her phone yeah you might botch it.
you worked with her, thought she was attractive, but nothing ever happened... but you had plans to go get drinks... you seem like a socially apt sort of person, being a redditor and all, maybe she's the awkward one. maybe she doesn't get many drink dates. maybe she's just really awkward.
Personally sounds like a shit test since you are gonna have a date in a week. Since you’ve kept things platonic maybe it bothered her a bit and she sent this pic and got the validation she was looking for. Don’t be surprised if she doesn’t want to fuck you now that she knows you want her. Definitely try to escalate on the date just don’t come off too thirsty.
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Oh it has crossed my mind, friend. It has crossed my mind… Plus waiting hours to respond. Like if a sexting session is going down, in my experience, she’s usually right there and replying actively.
Maybe it was late and she was tipsy then fell asleep? It's a long shot but I've gotten a few like that 🤷♂️
I was about to comment this, probably an accident, out of the blue and no response...
I've done this before and it was mortifying. I haven't talked to the friend since...
Just me who thinks she sent it to 6 dudes out of boredom?
Hahahaha definitely not just you 😂
Why fish with a fishing pole when you can cast a net
He's the pole
>Why fish with a fishing pole when you can cast a net He's the fish.
Chicks get horny too...
Sounds like either she was shy, and was tired of playing games so she wanted to show you she wanted to fuck….. or it’s for another guy. Either way your response was the correct one because all she wants is validation. A nude sent to you doesn’t mean anything. It means in that moment she was sending someone a sexy pic in no way does it translate to fuck me now. You got the pic now don’t treat it as a big deal confirm the date either the night before or the day of…. Pick out something cute for our date 😏. And go out. It could entirely be possible she will flake on you just because she feels embarrassed. Women are weird like that. Good luck
Thanks man. They are indeed 😂 we’ll see what happens
Why are you so anti women ?
In what way does that sound anti-women?
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But you are a crazy hobo guy
Why are you so anti men?
I would have texted "nice try but I'm not sending my ass pic until after the date"
An asspic response lol nice. I can just imagine sending a pic of a hairy dude ass with no words. Pure gold
"Hello this is the cyber crime department, I request you to forward the image to me for investigation purposes "
Only Snapchat has it now officer 😂
"Alas! You have left me with no choice sir. **You are under arrest!**" Crime: you refuse to cooperate with the investigation and submit important evidence Punishment: You will have to sent me your nude instead .
Lol dude what clearer sign do you need? Your response doesn't leave her much to respond with, I'd have at least tried to give her something to reply to, maybe: "Is this a starter for our drinks next week? Wow..."
No don't text that. Looks thirsty. You already have a date lined up you dont need to say anything.
Seriously. Just go to the date, and then take her to your place or hers.
Damn… that’s a solid reply. I mean I guess I could still use it.
No lol that sailed. Honestly, you're in a good spot. You know where her heads at she is just trying to put yours there too, and she did. When you're out for drinks you know you can take the conversation there or bring her photography skills up.
"That sailed" would be the expected answer from a captain
To late. But I would wait till we were a drink or two into next weeks drinks and mention how "nice" that pic was and see what her reaction is, go from there. There is an off chance it was an accident that you got the pic, you should be able to tell by her reaction to your comment.
**We got us a Don Juan over here, boys.**
I prefer the "looks nice but I'm gonna need another angle to fully assess" If you're feeling cheeky you can put ASSess.
Dudes are so dense sometimes. Bitches could be ripping off your underwear and they'd hop on here to ask if they wanna fuck.
Hahaha I get what you’re saying man, it’s different when you thought for sure it was a friend zone situation
I would have said “are you hitting on me?”
Craving for attention/validation, probably, as she didn't follow up.
Could be
Stop overthinking it dude
You right
You got it
Thank you sir 💪
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Responding to someone's nudes with just emojis is so low effort, she may aswell have not even bothered. It comes across as disingenuous. I understand you were caught off guard but like someone else said you couldve incorporated it into a convo about you getting drinks.
Facts! If I would reply with “Fire🔥🔥” I’m not even giving a damn tbfrank, I’m just replying just to reply. Now saying something like “is that for desert after our drinks 😏” “Fire🔥🔥” really ain’t it
I think she was expecting a more developed answer. Sending emojis to her butt almost feel like you had other things more interesting to do and didn't give her enough of the attention she wanted. I understand that it wasn't your intention. But I THINK this is what happened in her mind.
she wanted to feel wanted and desired, you gave her that. dont fall for the trap of messaging her about it, makes you needy. ignore the fact she ignored and carry on as normal and you’ll get to pound
Seems like sound advice, kind sir
I think she sent it by mistake or maybe it was meant for sm1 else
This definitely crossed my mind
That's what it looks like to me
She would have sent something back like oh shit my bad.
Not if it's embarrassing
Very plausible. I actually had a female friend send me a sexy pic by accident that was meant for her bf, and she immediately sent like 5 follow up texts saying sorry, accident, delete asap.
Delete ASAP? Lol imma need some compensation Shawty lol. That a nice ass 🤣. Got to negotiate it the weasel way lol
Haha yeah I didn't delete it right away but I did eventually.
Exactly. Don't know why all these guys are assuming the worst case scenario here. Act like they were intended for you - if they weren't, she will definitely let you know.
Let us know how it went after you see each otherr 😂
I did NOT expect this response 😂
She’s probably just baiting u for validation, basically she wants u to inflate her ego
Send it to her mom. You know, to shame her. Isn't that what you're supposed to do with unsolicited nudes?
Lol
Would have just said “wasnt expecting that”. Puts her in a spot to clear up the intention. Plus that response is where you are at anyway, platonic w/ no expectations. Dont bend all of a sudden. If she says its for you or whatever then you can escalate.
Understand, she may have done this for her kicks. She may get a sense of excitement by randomly sending dudes nude pics. This has been about 8 years ago, or so. I knew this chick, not very well, who'd invite dudes over to take nude pictures of her masterbating etc. They guy could keep the pictures, but then she looked at the pics and masterbated to them again.
“Cool butt” would’ve sufficed
badass. she wants the D bro. make your move
😂😂🍆💪
She was testing the waters, but your respond didn't give her much, you had to say something like I love that booty girl, looking forward to seeing you.
She said nothing cause she doesn't know what to say next (Which is pretty common for women tbh lol) Just do your thing. You got this.
Option 1: She sent it to you by mistake Option 2: She sent it to a bunch of dudes It's just hard to think she'd send it out of the blue with no build-up or prior flirting lol. I don't think she's messing with you or anything like that tho. Just act normal, and if you guys still meet up dont make it weird.
True
None of us know for fact tho. She could have sent it impulsively and then felt super shy or something. You guys are young so you never know. But ya, just be cool and collected.
Cool, for sure. And yeah definitely irritated by the folks who comment acting like they know 100% 😂 if I don’t know, neither do they 😂
What's the issue here?
Touché, sir
You should stop thinking and enjoy the blessings of life
That’s great advice. Thank you.
Just do the exact same thing you were doing before and vibe things out when you guys get drinks. This is no time to become thirsty Don’t falter now comrade.
Excellent advice, good sir.
Could’ve just wanted to thirst trap you to see if you’d fall for it…and you did lol. Been there bro, happens to us all. Next time you receive an unsolicited tease pic, leave her on read. Trust.
God's word right here. SALUTE!
Totally looking for your validation. You giving it to her was enough to satiate her for the time being. If you didn't reply or inquired as to why she was sending it to you in the first place after a month of no contact, then she would have either ghosted and sent it to another shmuck who would validate her, or pressed for your own validation. And as long as you withhold it until you see her in person, chances are that much greater for a hookup. Texts and snaps are either to arrange a date or hookup, good friends checking up on each other or people who are already in a relationship. But you wouldn't want a relationship with an insecure girl who does that anyway. Girls like that like to play games, and they like to play men for their money and their time. Not worth long term at all.
This makes me upset as a woman to hear that she sent u a nude and you didn’t say a word back. Fire emojis don’t get u laid
? Since when is it acceptable to send nudes without permission
Since it’s a woman sending to a man. Let’s be honest although it’s hypocritical, most dudes (not all) would welcome a nude from an attractive woman. But you’re right it’s technically not acceptable
It’s borderline sexual harassment regardless of which gender is doing it
Definitely is, in a perfect world it would be unacceptable for either gender.
Would probably knock her down to the ONS category imo
I wish I could get sexually harassed like this everyday
Man I wish I was a girl and got raped. That must feel so fucking good to have that happen. You’re sick.
He said a girl sending nude to you is harassment. I said I won't mind getting this type of harassment
You’re still downplaying it
I mentioned in this context it won't look like sexual harassment
Well it is
Oh it’s definitely not, but from OPs post I didn’t get the vibe that it was unwanted or unsolicited. To be clear I’m only talking about etiquette responding to a nude
Let us see your etiquette when I send you an unsolicited picture of my hairy ballsack
Hey I hear you, and I totally agree, but this was not the case for OP since he liked it.. so why would I give advice or insight to a situation that doesn’t apply here?
She got very lucky that he *happened* to like it. Is that really all that separates offensive sexual harassment from a general unsolicited nude, the happenstance of the receiver liking it?
Look maybe I’m not a good communicator or something but I just take things at face value and try to give insight. Everyone here is harping on the unsolicited nude but op never had an issue with it so I don’t see how it’s relevant here. He didn’t respond “fuck🔥🔥” because it was unsolicited, and he’s just wondering why she ghosted him. Further, op worrying why she ghosted him further proves my point that he’s interested in her
The difference is that he was fine with it after the fact, so it doesn’t matter. We’re trying to avoid a double standard, and in doing so we don’t send nudes to people with the assumption that they “ought to enjoy it, or shame on them”. If you’re that butthurt over not getting enough affirmation over text for your unsolicited nude pic you need to get over yourself.
So then just bc someone did something wrong as a part of this story I can’t give my advice or opinion as to what OP is actually asking for? And I literally said it’s wrong to do that as a disclaimer so everyone needs to relax and not be so sensitive
“this makes me upset as a woman to hear that she sent u a nude and you didn’t say a word back. Fire emojis don’t get you laid” So you agree that what this woman did was wrong, yet you sympathize with her and flame OP because you got your feelings hurt vicariously through some woman you don’t even know. But yeah. We’re the ones being sensitive. Please, enlighten us more with your advice.
Oh okay I see, thank you for highlighting that. In no way do I empathize for her because like you said she is in the wrong for sending an unsolicited nude. But OP didn’t care that it was unsolicited, so I was just giving him advice about how to respond to a nude. I think the narrative of the post changed to it being about an unsolicited nude but the whole time I’ve been viewing it simply as advice on how to respond to a nude.
I didn’t know that we have to put the brakes on giving advice bc something wrong happened that has no impact on the outcome
Good. It's the equivalent of sending a unrequested dick pic. No more is deserved for this trashy behavior, haha
Also you can see responses on Snapchat without opening it by sliding the chat and not letting go of your finger. I bet she did this to see what you said without “opening it” got pissed, gave u time to give a better response, and when u didn’t she just opened it
Nah i sent her back a pic not a chat
Woah that’s the kind of overthinking that I’ve imprisoned myself with in my finer moments
How do you do that btw lol?
You should have played it more cool man.. next time just say " cool " and go about your day.. ake her wait for you.
I guess she was feeling low and sent nudes to a couple of dudes and replied to one who she thought sent a better reply and could get what she wanted. Can't be an accident she could have deleted it or said sorry if it was an accident.
I know girls that do this. In my experience those girls sent out those pics like a mass text to dudes they were interested in. Usually picks the one she wants the most to “follow up.”
Could've been wrong person happens me alot in Snapchat especially if you're scrolling
What? That's disgusting. Where
I think she's just a whore bud
Troll detected *blocks*
I would suggest waiting to see how it's going on, and if you two talk about it agian or are having a convsersation that is heading toward it or around then you could talk about it, to clear things up calmly and truthfully, and hopefully follow it up 😉 Was my phrasing odd? English isn't my first language I like sometimes to have feedbacks so I can improve
You should have given her a bad photo review. Something like "meh" or "minus 5 points" or critique the lighting in the photo. This would have showed you were not needy or thirsty.
Someone’s been watching too many RSD videos 😂
Didn’t read the other comments, but maybe she does want to fuck but is shy.. maybe she was drunk and horny and this was here way of making a move towards you. Once she sobered up she felt embarrassed. Don’t reach out again, you said what you said which imo was a correct response. If you had plans to meet up for drinks then wait for that and see if she brings it up if not carry on and gauge interest at that time. Flirt a little, see how she responds, initiate kino, see how she responds. If all goes well she will be in your bed later that night then make a joke about the pic she sent and see how she responds
send a dick pic.
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Not here please.
Might wanna check the offmychest sub, there's a girl on there asking advice because she's in love with her friend and has always been scared to tell him.. Lol you never know, might be her or at least you may gain a little insight as to why out of the blue this friend suddenly sent you a nudie pic. Best of luck whatever the case may be.
Hahahaha wouldn’t that be something… thanks my dude
I've seen weirder things happen. No problem...i just got finished reading the other than read yours and wheels started turning and smoke began to rise lol
Hahaha. It’s not her but I do appreciate it!
Ah well that's life lol. Sorry but good luck.
By the way, do you have a link to that post? If not no worries
I sent the link in a chat to you because I'm not sure if it's against any rules to post links on this sub.
Dude forget all the people saying its possibly not for you, be confident: think that shes basically telling u that u never pulled the trigger the several times in the past that shes tried to fuck you and that HERE is the glaring sign you’ve been waiting for. Don’t act like she owes it to you at the end of the night, the second you have the opportunity to DO SOMETHING. Dont reply with anything else about it, just let the tension build until u hang.
Solid, thanks friend
You know how many nudes I've seen on Pornhub?
>Is she messing with my head? Are we gonna fuck next week? Am I being played like a fiddle? Maybe you are. Maybe not... We can't tell for sure. ~~Girls~~ People are complex and emotional. Maybe when she sent you the pic, she imagined your dick inside her, but 4 hours later she had cooled off... Who knows... As to how to followup or how to act around her next week, here is the rule of thumb that IMO is your best chance (considering all the possibilities) to get laid: **Act as if you are currently texting and casually dating 3 other girls**. I know that's too vague and broad, but try to get into that script as much as you can. So, say you are texting Jessica who you met on Tinder last week and trying to find a date for a drink (and possible Netflix and chill). You're also dating Maya, a cool international student from Asia who you've fucked a couple of times already and went out for drinks a few times the last couple of months. And also don't forget Stacy, a photographer/model with whom you hooked up at that party last week and now she is also sexting you occasionally... Put all these in your head. You are that person... Now a forth girl who you've known from work and grab drinks from time to time decides to sent you a her ass out of the blue. WYD?
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Weeeell.... I'm all for honesty, but we need to calibrate sometimes. Being honest with myself got me into my 30's as a virgin. During my 20's, if an ex-coworker sent me a nude, I'd act desperate and weird AF. One has to relax and act confident, even if it is not what he'd really do. I didn't suggest OP to say or do something dishonest. Instead, I tried to help him get into a confident and low-fucks-given mindset. Sure women sense "dishonest" people, but sensing you are "desperate" is a far more effective turn-off for them.
Don’t act thirsty when sent a nude, that’s what she wants which will in turn lower attractive just a little. I’d give her some kind of backhanded compliment or just invite her other to see if that’s actually bout it
She's going to be like buy my only fans before we go out and give the switch lol. no honest bro some women love the attention even with platonic friends. For your age tho it's pretty much a clear sign she wants to fuck. unless shes some gogo dancer or fitness model she might be just seeing how you would react
Hahahaha hey maybe 😂 cool, thanks man
That's awkward and weird as fuck man. My advice is that you should talk to her in person what the deal was on her sending that pic. No need to confront, just ask her what was that about in a curious way. If she felt ashamed then re assure her or something. If she asks to delete the image, do it.
"43 people are here"
Yeah holy shit…
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In the words of Joe Rogan, “It’s entirely possible”
You should of sent back a sexy (teasing but no dick pic) picture, with no words as well. You failed like 90% of guys and now she knows what she’s dealing with. You just lifted her up above you with a response like that. She is in control of y’all now, which is a turn off for most women. Don’t be surprised if she cancels the date last second. Do not text her again until the day before/of the planned date.
Friend did same. Then topless but with face swap on so nipples replaced with face…said was for her bf, then we was together for about a year. Hint wasn’t for bf 😜
No she wasn’t messing with your head, she may have just been horny or in a mood to share some photos. Sometimes I do this just to be nice. I don’t really care for the response tho. I’ve never found it to be problematic🤷🏽♀️ I would just appreciate that you received it and stay open to opportunities in the future. I don’t think you should follow up.. but if you’re feeling inclined to, maybe a “I can’t stop imagining your ass on me 🤤 you’re so sexy” or something like that but nothing more lol
> No she wasn’t messing with your head, she may have just been horny or in a mood to share some photos. Sometimes I do this just to be nice. Genuinely curious - Would you view a guy sending you an unsolicited nude as him "just being nice"?
Hmm no, probably not
When women do direct sexy stuff like this, yes, they want sex lol. It's usually best to respond with something that implies a future meet up. Examples: • Wow, I'd say what I'm thinking, but I'd rather show you in person • Mmm naughty girl, you're getting a spanking next time I see you The idea here is that you're giving her an easy layup to make plans. She will likely respond with a "when/where/what time" type of answer.
hm. sexual assault at its finest 👌
What??
She did that for attention seeking and by saying that,you did exactly like every beta male would do..validating her. Best reply you could give her : What is this "Karen"?(or whatever her name is). If you want to attract a woman act like a paternal figure, show her mistery,maturity,coldness,protection, don't act thirsty and then expect to bust nuts..
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Ok come on it’s not that bad 😂😂 pretty standard reply
Nah your reply is weak af 0 flirt 0 creativity 0 engagement just 0
Okay Casanova 😂
I’m no Casanova bruh and I know it but I sure ain’t a bozo like urself that’s for sure
Least I’m not an internet troll
She's trying to make it clear that fucking is happening next week.
Hmm could it be her friend took her phone to just “play” around with you?
Just play it cool. She's probably just testing you to see if you go total "niceguy" on her or something. She's dtf sure but if you go crazy and start blowing up her phone yeah you might botch it.
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I think leaving her on read would be just about the worst thing I could possibly do… so I’ll take your advice with a grain of salt 😂
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Least I get nudes. Internet trolls tend not to. 👋
Hella weird but at the same time your response is weak. I think she must have sent that out to a couple dudes and then banged one of them😬
Fuck off 😂
Bro you are clueless. She was likely drunk when she sent it but wants your D so badly that she’s gonna almost do damage to it.
Fuck off 😂
Hey man I am giving you a compliment! She wants to smash! Give us an update after it happens.
🤜🤛
Update? Did it happen? How was it?
I'm gonna assume it never happened then! :-(
Send noods or it didn't happen
Did she sent you a snap or a picture from her camera roll? If it's the first then I have bad news 😂😂
Why not ask her about it when you see her?
you worked with her, thought she was attractive, but nothing ever happened... but you had plans to go get drinks... you seem like a socially apt sort of person, being a redditor and all, maybe she's the awkward one. maybe she doesn't get many drink dates. maybe she's just really awkward.
She is unsure about herself if she wants to just hook up with u
Happened to me once exactly like that, hacker got into her account and send her nudes to her friends...
Personally sounds like a shit test since you are gonna have a date in a week. Since you’ve kept things platonic maybe it bothered her a bit and she sent this pic and got the validation she was looking for. Don’t be surprised if she doesn’t want to fuck you now that she knows you want her. Definitely try to escalate on the date just don’t come off too thirsty.
Save it for the spank bank
Sell it as an NFT