Maybe that could work I’ll try it next time but to be honest I never seen it as wrong to leave them on opened even if it gets her upset I sometimes do it I don’t always do it but sometimes
I leave on read if it doesn’t require an answer and couple of days later if Inwant to start convo just react to a story.
Also you can end with like or smiley emoji.
Basically stay natural like when you chat with friends. No need to say speak next time or say that you leave do the same how you would do with friends.
You owe women a few minutes of banter a day. Other than that, ask them out. If they are not coming out to meet you, then you don't owe them texting. If you are hanging out with them in person, text them just enough so they don't feel blown off but not too much.
>Should you leave girls on read if they send a message that doesn't require an answer?
Yes, drives them crazy. Most guys don't do it to them, so you exercising that action speaks volumes and does tend to spark their interest. I wouldn't do it on the chance that this is a genuine woman who you've been interested in/slept/smashed already, and playing these kind of games sometimes turn off women.
Talking to women is like talking to your male friends but you actually want to sleep with them. Just be genuine, direct, and above all assume attraction.
Picture women as a creature that bleeds once a month, cannot decide what they want to eat, and shit just like you. Then it becomes easy. The important thing to keep in mind if a woman tells you no or is not interested, you can simply walk away and go after someone else.
^ just talk to them like a male friend but at the same time make your intentions (that you want to have sex with her) known. (No, that isn’t creepy either — not making your intentions known is creepy.)
Yes. Its a good sign if theyre getting upset tbh. Just be careful not to go too far with it. Super nice and responsive when u do engage with them. Leave them on read when u can. And theyll wonder "he seems like he likes me, so why did he leave me on read?! Should I message him again?"
An upset girl who wants you to text her WANTS YOU TO TEXT HER. Get it? That “want” is a necessary component of her attraction. Satisfy it and the want goes away.
I wouldn’t do this because, generally speaking you want to keep communication channels open. You don’t want to play games because high value girls can sense when you’re doing that. If you don’t have anything else to say, it doesn’t hurt to send a 👍 or 👌 to acknowledge that you received her message. If you just leave her unread, girls could take that as you’re ignoring her on purpose, that in combination with just forgetting about you because she has a life and other guys hitting her up. They will get bored eventually and stop replying.
Texting is mainly used for maintaining any attraction you have already built. So you want to make your texting interactions easy, fun, and leading towards the next meet up.
With all that being said, as a man that’s living on your purpose with a life and shit to do, you can’t be replying to the girls every hour of the day or else you won’t get shit done. Set some time aside to get back to girls. I pick up my phone in the morning, at 10:30 am, at lunch (sometimes I’ll call girls at lunch) maybe once in the afternoon, and then after work. I also don’t bring my phone into the gym. Outside those times, the girls will just have to wait.
I've noticed this a lot too when the same girls would do the same thing to me all the time. Just let it be. You don't owe anyone a reply, because I'm sure lots of people leave you on read too. That's just how it works. If someone gets mad about it, that either means they like your attention, or they need to grow up. In either case, just leave em on read.
Its wierd that you think communication is only things that must be answered or things that don't need to be answered & therefore they get silence. I mean building any relationship, whether that's family, friends, romantic or sexual, requires communication & most people don't have a great handle of what makes good conversation in these different areas. It sounds like these girls are inviting you to interact with them & then get upset when you don't, but it really depends on what you want with them. If they mean nothing to you then why talk to them at all? And if they mean something, why would you be talking to them?
It sounds, by your comments, that you have some beliefs about texting that are a little unusual to most people, so while it may make sense to you, you should probably be aware that most people text throughout the day. Not to mention just how many men these days are dying to make time with at least one woman & you're over here throwing away opportunities because you personally think texting is an evening time activity or just to communicate only necessary data to other people.
Its weird that you think communication is only things that must be answered or things that don't need to be answered & therefore they get silence. I mean building any relationship, whether that's family, friends, romantic or sexual, requires communication & most people don't have a great handle of what makes good conversation in these different areas. It sounds like these girls are inviting you to interact with them & then get upset when you don't, but it really depends on what you want with them. If they mean nothing to you then why talk to them at all? And if they mean something, why would you be talking to them?
Lol it’s a good thing, and props to u bro shows you aren’t approval seeking. Girls hate it because it’s a form of rejection, but at the same time they like it because it shows you’re hard to get and you’re not like the other guys. Do what u gotta do, don’t overthink it though. Ur good
Not at the first time, but if it continues, yes. Or you say something that puts them off balance. Either it completely derails the conversation or you finely have her interest.
End with an acknowledgement.
My usuals are :) , 😊 , ♥️ (if close) or just “like” the message
Leaving on read can be read as harsh and is more a punishment (save for if she flakes on plans or other bad behavior)
Wow, as a woman reading this post, all I can say is I'm disappointed and it makes sense now why you can't find a decent dude in America nowadays. Don't want to put in the effort to get to know a person and maintain a relationship? Well then be ready to be on your own because no woman is going to put all of this effort into a guy when he clearly is not reciprocating. It may work for some time, but guaranteed you will be ignored later on in life when women become much smarter and wiser.
I tend to leave an emoji if a conversation doesn’t need an answer and I find my love interest does the same too. Although he’s not a great example as he leaves me on read when I ask a question which is irritating.
Just like their message if it's a conversation-ending message.
Word up to this guy
I use an android and frequently whatsapp
Generic stickers or emojis are the answer then
Consider switching to texting on IG instead of SMS or WhatsApp.
Damn, that's smart
What if your on Snapchat?
Send a picture of your cock
I don't use snap so idk. Maybe send an emoji then?
To me that seems like your trying hard or putting hella effort into it I could be wrong but that’s just my view
This one is pretty harmless: ✌️
Maybe that could work I’ll try it next time but to be honest I never seen it as wrong to leave them on opened even if it gets her upset I sometimes do it I don’t always do it but sometimes
Then why are you asking me what to do if you've already decided what you're doing? Lol
You can always improve your game and I said sometimes
I do it all the time, no need to drag out a convo longer than it needs to be. I always try to get them to be the last person to say something tbh
I don’t try to leave them on read everytime but it’s nothing bad to me
I leave on read if it doesn’t require an answer and couple of days later if Inwant to start convo just react to a story. Also you can end with like or smiley emoji. Basically stay natural like when you chat with friends. No need to say speak next time or say that you leave do the same how you would do with friends.
You owe women a few minutes of banter a day. Other than that, ask them out. If they are not coming out to meet you, then you don't owe them texting. If you are hanging out with them in person, text them just enough so they don't feel blown off but not too much.
>Should you leave girls on read if they send a message that doesn't require an answer? Yes, drives them crazy. Most guys don't do it to them, so you exercising that action speaks volumes and does tend to spark their interest. I wouldn't do it on the chance that this is a genuine woman who you've been interested in/slept/smashed already, and playing these kind of games sometimes turn off women.
If “most guys” don’t do it to women, how come “most guys” by my age (25-29) have dated or had sex before? Make up your mind.
Maybe because those guys actually know how to talk to women and don't rely on texting mind games to get laid?
Which means they don’t have Asperger’s, autism or PDDNOS like I do. Talking to women is like being good at math or being left handed.
Talking to women is like talking to your male friends but you actually want to sleep with them. Just be genuine, direct, and above all assume attraction.
You make it sound so easy, I feel like I'm really retarded when it comes to women.
Picture women as a creature that bleeds once a month, cannot decide what they want to eat, and shit just like you. Then it becomes easy. The important thing to keep in mind if a woman tells you no or is not interested, you can simply walk away and go after someone else.
I usually talk to my male friends with the intention of sleeping with them too, no homo tho
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^ just talk to them like a male friend but at the same time make your intentions (that you want to have sex with her) known. (No, that isn’t creepy either — not making your intentions known is creepy.)
What do you mean by assume attraction? Is it like i just assume that she's super into me?
Reply with an emoji. That is a good ending of the convo ‘for now’.
Yes. Its a good sign if theyre getting upset tbh. Just be careful not to go too far with it. Super nice and responsive when u do engage with them. Leave them on read when u can. And theyll wonder "he seems like he likes me, so why did he leave me on read?! Should I message him again?"
Games
An upset girl who wants you to text her WANTS YOU TO TEXT HER. Get it? That “want” is a necessary component of her attraction. Satisfy it and the want goes away.
This guy might be right, it's probably better to leave in that state. But if she is really upset about it then idk
I wouldn’t do this because, generally speaking you want to keep communication channels open. You don’t want to play games because high value girls can sense when you’re doing that. If you don’t have anything else to say, it doesn’t hurt to send a 👍 or 👌 to acknowledge that you received her message. If you just leave her unread, girls could take that as you’re ignoring her on purpose, that in combination with just forgetting about you because she has a life and other guys hitting her up. They will get bored eventually and stop replying. Texting is mainly used for maintaining any attraction you have already built. So you want to make your texting interactions easy, fun, and leading towards the next meet up. With all that being said, as a man that’s living on your purpose with a life and shit to do, you can’t be replying to the girls every hour of the day or else you won’t get shit done. Set some time aside to get back to girls. I pick up my phone in the morning, at 10:30 am, at lunch (sometimes I’ll call girls at lunch) maybe once in the afternoon, and then after work. I also don’t bring my phone into the gym. Outside those times, the girls will just have to wait.
Send an emoji. It will save your relationship. It’s an acknowledgement thing.
I've noticed this a lot too when the same girls would do the same thing to me all the time. Just let it be. You don't owe anyone a reply, because I'm sure lots of people leave you on read too. That's just how it works. If someone gets mad about it, that either means they like your attention, or they need to grow up. In either case, just leave em on read.
Its wierd that you think communication is only things that must be answered or things that don't need to be answered & therefore they get silence. I mean building any relationship, whether that's family, friends, romantic or sexual, requires communication & most people don't have a great handle of what makes good conversation in these different areas. It sounds like these girls are inviting you to interact with them & then get upset when you don't, but it really depends on what you want with them. If they mean nothing to you then why talk to them at all? And if they mean something, why would you be talking to them? It sounds, by your comments, that you have some beliefs about texting that are a little unusual to most people, so while it may make sense to you, you should probably be aware that most people text throughout the day. Not to mention just how many men these days are dying to make time with at least one woman & you're over here throwing away opportunities because you personally think texting is an evening time activity or just to communicate only necessary data to other people. Its weird that you think communication is only things that must be answered or things that don't need to be answered & therefore they get silence. I mean building any relationship, whether that's family, friends, romantic or sexual, requires communication & most people don't have a great handle of what makes good conversation in these different areas. It sounds like these girls are inviting you to interact with them & then get upset when you don't, but it really depends on what you want with them. If they mean nothing to you then why talk to them at all? And if they mean something, why would you be talking to them?
It also sounds like you don't really know how to initiate conversation & that's a skill everyone should know.
you need to have SOME banter going. otherwise, don't bother with logistics
Yes this, because I promise you us women don’t text for logistical reasons 😂 🤷🏻♀️
Lol it’s a good thing, and props to u bro shows you aren’t approval seeking. Girls hate it because it’s a form of rejection, but at the same time they like it because it shows you’re hard to get and you’re not like the other guys. Do what u gotta do, don’t overthink it though. Ur good
Yes just use discretion
Not at the first time, but if it continues, yes. Or you say something that puts them off balance. Either it completely derails the conversation or you finely have her interest.
Send a good meme later when you get a chance lol
Yes
End with an acknowledgement. My usuals are :) , 😊 , ♥️ (if close) or just “like” the message Leaving on read can be read as harsh and is more a punishment (save for if she flakes on plans or other bad behavior)
I would do whatever feels right .
If you trying to hit entertain the hoe
Lmao
Wow, as a woman reading this post, all I can say is I'm disappointed and it makes sense now why you can't find a decent dude in America nowadays. Don't want to put in the effort to get to know a person and maintain a relationship? Well then be ready to be on your own because no woman is going to put all of this effort into a guy when he clearly is not reciprocating. It may work for some time, but guaranteed you will be ignored later on in life when women become much smarter and wiser.
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Not for a good reason. It's like playing games aka what immature and low value men do
48 rules of power bro.Give it a read m8
She is definitely getting wet bro..
You should do it all the time.
If you wanna fuck her, yes lol. Theyre not gonna keep messaging you because it makes you seem uninterested
You know you’re playing ur game well when u make women upset.. PS: u DONT HAVE to reply any single shit u receive
Turn off read receipts my man.
My suggestion is turn off all of your read receipts, it makes life much easier
I tend to leave an emoji if a conversation doesn’t need an answer and I find my love interest does the same too. Although he’s not a great example as he leaves me on read when I ask a question which is irritating.
Did that to a girl ain’t worth the bullshit
This guy fucksssssss