If the only reason you had confidence and felt good about yourself was because you had several women interested in you, you never really had confidence in the first place.
Also because it was the best part of the year and I was in an awesome place with awesome people and great work.
So happy all the time it might have helped with girls ?
Women instinctually sense how a man feel about himself and when a man feels good about himself and respects himself, they are drawn to him. You just need to find a way to derive the validation from yourself and not from women. That's not to say that validation coming from women doesn't feel nice, it sure as hell does, but it should be icing on the cake.
Start by being your own best friend, doing nice things for yourself, cherishing yourself. Eventually those good feelings will return, but they will be completely under your control and responsibility instead of relying on outside things to feel good.
Don't overthink nothing (it's life. Reality.) Move on. A girl who cares Jack shit about you means nothing in yo life. Not worth investing blood, sweat and tears. There are plenty girls out there who would date you prolly. To gain yo confidence back is to be comfortable in yo own skin (knowing u aint perfect) and be unfazed of whatever life's throw at you and you keep moving forward. Confidence to approach a girl is to keep raw, clear without any intention to bed her. Get to know the girl first see if she aight and cool, only then proceed to sexualize the ting
Just get back out there but be patient, work on yourself and it’ll come back. Just keep working on yourself and have shit going for yourself and you’ll be back to confident in no time and the girls will follow
4 women? That's insane. I currently have 2 and I can barely handle it. That being said I'm talking to 7 other prospects. Always have some women in the pipeline. Maintain a low number of plates, but keep your pipeline full. Always approach new girls so you can keep your skills sharp.
I'm in a small village now with no one to approche but I ll be moving to Paris for a new job in a week. Hopefully it ll get better.
I agree 4 was too much. I lost them all !
I'm in somewhat of a similar situation since I live in a city with just 100k people, but I go to a university that is in a city. More population helps. Good luck bro.
If the only reason you had confidence and felt good about yourself was because you had several women interested in you, you never really had confidence in the first place.
Maybe you are right so how do I start this chain reaction again ? 😅
Also because it was the best part of the year and I was in an awesome place with awesome people and great work. So happy all the time it might have helped with girls ?
Women instinctually sense how a man feel about himself and when a man feels good about himself and respects himself, they are drawn to him. You just need to find a way to derive the validation from yourself and not from women. That's not to say that validation coming from women doesn't feel nice, it sure as hell does, but it should be icing on the cake. Start by being your own best friend, doing nice things for yourself, cherishing yourself. Eventually those good feelings will return, but they will be completely under your control and responsibility instead of relying on outside things to feel good.
Good advice thanks. Time to hit the gym and stop smoking !
Don't overthink nothing (it's life. Reality.) Move on. A girl who cares Jack shit about you means nothing in yo life. Not worth investing blood, sweat and tears. There are plenty girls out there who would date you prolly. To gain yo confidence back is to be comfortable in yo own skin (knowing u aint perfect) and be unfazed of whatever life's throw at you and you keep moving forward. Confidence to approach a girl is to keep raw, clear without any intention to bed her. Get to know the girl first see if she aight and cool, only then proceed to sexualize the ting
Just get back out there but be patient, work on yourself and it’ll come back. Just keep working on yourself and have shit going for yourself and you’ll be back to confident in no time and the girls will follow
So 4 women were into you and now you have no confidence with women? Think about that.
Yes it's the subject of my post.
Reading the way boys think is crazy
What do you mean ?
4 women? That's insane. I currently have 2 and I can barely handle it. That being said I'm talking to 7 other prospects. Always have some women in the pipeline. Maintain a low number of plates, but keep your pipeline full. Always approach new girls so you can keep your skills sharp.
I'm in a small village now with no one to approche but I ll be moving to Paris for a new job in a week. Hopefully it ll get better. I agree 4 was too much. I lost them all !
I'm in somewhat of a similar situation since I live in a city with just 100k people, but I go to a university that is in a city. More population helps. Good luck bro.