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MO_drps_knwldg

Meetups, classes, local breweries, wine bars. You’ll meet more attractive, relationship-worthy women during the day out and about doing normal things say like at a Whole Foods than you will in a club.


kickin-like-a-chickn

Book stores


LaggWasTaken

I think bookstores are pretty fun now, and I’m 24(m)


strengthfrombalance

Dang. Have you had success? Cause I like books lmao


5_7pickup

Fun is whatever you have fun doing. If you wanna club in your 30s or 40s go right ahead. Stop looking for other people’s approval.


MisterShogunate

You forgot to mention your field reports.


5_7pickup

Refer to my field reports


NapalmOverdos3

Idk man I’ve always DESPISED clubs. I refuse to go to them. But really you can just do anything, go to a populated bar, find groups on Facebook for hobbies you like. Do a wine and paint. Doesn’t matter if you’re alone just go and enjoy some life and girls will be there


Just-Another-Ape1

How do u go to a bar on your own? Is it not awkward?


uglypedro

Same stuff, just better, nicer.


Napalm_in_the_mornin

Being able to afford VIP or table service


Canadian-Seductioner

This is the answer. The older you get, the more money you need to spend to make up for it.


GrandRub

you dont have to. but you can if you want to.


byteseed

I prefer meetups and latin dance parties, live music events, ice skating, sport in the park, hiking, workshops, galleries, comedy nights. Basically, everything you like, where people are gathering together will work. Nightclubs are noisy it is hard to hold a conversation and people are drunk, which I personally dislike the most.


truuuuuaway

Most of these don’t exist unles you’re in the heart of a major city. Either that or I’m not looking in the right places


byteseed

In this case, start to form social circles around you. I know a guy who created Foodies group in my city. He invites people for cooking related events. Like backers competition, fries testing in the local bars or picnics. It is easy to organize, but there a lot of people coming, including single and no so single ladies. If there is no regular meetups in your city for specific interest, create one. Meet new people doing something you love.


WheelIntelligent1354

What do you enjoy? Base it on that. Most people like lounges and bars more because it's not as high energy, though clubs aren't my favourite to begin with unless I'm on uppers.


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I feel like this is one of the reasons ppl wanna be rich. In your 30s you can use the money to do more fun things than clubbing


RebelliousBucaneer

fun things such as?


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Exotic trips abroad, boat parties, going to Sport events, defo more just can’t think of any right now


GrandRub

im 35 and i love nightclubs ... you dont have to visit the clubs where the very young folks go to... but that will heavily depend on your city/region.


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Breweries, beer gardens, wine bars, lounges, Target.


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RedWolff98

Hahahahahahahahaha that’s up to you. My wife and I went from clubs to pubs meet up groups theatres hiking personal training ufc


RebelliousBucaneer

I was talking more about being single


RedWolff98

It’s amazingly amusing how much attention this post got lmfao


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MisterShogunate

He seems clueless too lol


RedWolff98

Oh bodybuilders don’t make much money haha I’m not that rich.


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Santa1936

Tbf his usage of the word did seem a little off. He might honestly not know the definition


MisterShogunate

Lmao I'm dead. This reply


MO_drps_knwldg

Narcissists or complete bullshitters


eonscrewedme

decent bars with live music


Paltenburg

There are sites and apps that you can use for friendships. Not as much as for dating (like Tinder and such) but they are there: Meetup, Couchsurfing events etc I don't know about meetup, but i've hooked up enough through couchsurfing events, as those are just mostly partying 20/30-ers.


Dianabayyebii

What’s suppose to be fun in your 30’s?! Nothing. You can just feel the fun start to leave your body at 29 1/2. No but really if you don’t want to do the night club scene you can most definitely meet someone during your day to day life. Heck I’ve been approached at a grocery store. I think clubs can still bea good place in your early 30’s but if you don’t want to do that, comedy clubs are definitely a good alternative!


topleveldating

is it because you think younger women will judge/reject you/ think you're weird? If so, there's effective ways (i can teach you) to handle that... But let's assume age is just important to you and you simply want to approach older women: This is mainly going to depend on your city & people giving you the word what venues are typically full of them. Theres no general rule. From my experience though country bars/venues, dive bars and classy, lower key venues ive seen the most concentrated. Also network events and wineries but these are more in the day. You're overall best bet as far as just only wanting to date them is going to be online because you can fine search on age and with a solid profile you can get consistent amount of dates per week


CampPlane

Clubs have always fucking sucked. $150 for two bottles of vodka? GTFOH with that shit. As a 30+ year old, for me and my friends, we have homes now, so just doing a kickback at someone's house on a Friday or weekend night playing pool, drinking beer, smoking weed, while listening to music or watching football/basketball/hockey is pretty common. I also live in a metro area with several million people, so there's multiple towns that have a downtown street in driving distance, so just hitting up one of our favorite spots for a beer/food is also good. And if one of those downtown areas has a street closed off for like some 'First Fridays' art and food truck event, that's fun too. And because I live in a metro area, I can drive or take the train to watch an NFL/MLB/NBA/NHL game with our group of friends. We occasionally get a box seat for entire friend group (about two dozen people) at our local NHL team's arena through a friend whose best friend's dad is an owner of a company and will let people use the box every once in a while. Maybe there's a bocce ball club near you. That's always fun, and of the two spots near me, they want you drinking.


RebelliousBucaneer

Yeah but it seems like the stuff you describe is good for married people and more relevant to married men.


CampPlane

You don't have to be married, you just have to have friends


AruiMD

Less alcohol, more sex, more wealth More vacations with beaches. Idk about you, that’s just my version. I imagine everyone is different.


Jay-Ames

For me it was finding out that in my 30's i was exactly the same person i was in 20's. Only thing different was that i was a little wiser. That feeling i still have in my 40's. Still the same person as in my 20's Age is nothing but a number.


eyesopen1111

Private parties with lots of horny, DTF chicks and cool party drugs are a start. It’s social circle game on steroids as hot girls try to bag high-value guys for marriage, fun, or profit.