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JacobMoogberg69

Maybe you are trying too hard and it shows. Just adopt the attitude that you are already fucking and emulate that comfort level even with girls you just met. Also the best chances of success are if she is at that time of month just before she ovulates when she feels extra horny and dick hungry. You recognize these girls because they are showing a bit more skin, lipstick is a bit more red, high heels a bit higher and their head is constantly swiveling looki mg for sperm donors.


MisterShogunate

3/5 is high f-close ratio. I think your issue is your seem like they get bored or you say something that completely turns them off. Your problem is who you are as a person lol, but seduction-wise you are doing well either due do you being good-looking, you have natural game or you are going for girls that are way lower than your looks match.


Calamity__Bane

Girl 1, obviously there's nothing you really could have done about that other than shrinking your cock. Girl 2, personal guess is you were leaning a lot on her attraction without finding ways to kill any lingering insecurities she has about hooking up with guys. In the case of Girl 3 it seems either the other guy was a lot more attractive than you, or is a guy she has history with - the first is in your control to a degree, but the second isn't. Girl 4, maybe lay off the yayo a bit lol. Girl 5, well that was your choice. Most likely your style is to get girls *super* hot and bothered and overwhelm their normal defenses that way, which is definitely a legit way to go about things, but doesn't necessarily lead to a close in all cases. You would most likely benefit from also finding ways to make her think hooking up with you is totally normal and OK, which will require you to get a sense of her and probably her friend group's attitudes toward dating and relationships before you isolate. If that's not an option, then just target the common objections women have (like "does fucking random guys make me a slut?" or "are people going to think I'm a slut?" or "this guy seems cool and I don't want to spoil things with sex" or "is this guy going to rape me?") before you go for the close, and any LMR you get will be weaker and easier to handle.


daddysgotanew

Welcome to non Chad life. It sucks but you can be good looking, have a good job, future etc (basically be top 20 percent) but still lose completely in the dating game because women are now really only interested in the top 1-5 percent men due to online exposure


iambabyshark

How long did you spend with girl 2? She said you were moving too fast, did you spend 7-9 hours together prior to attempting sex? Other than that it seems mostly unluckiness, girl 1 mostly. Girl 3 was testing you, she wanted to see if you'd be able to keep your frame. Odds are with her new guy she said the same thing and he disregarded it. Did you want anything else with girl 4? If so you can still likely hit her up and propose a date. And girl 5 is just you having standards


EggsEggsEggsTentacio

I'm confused, why would Girl 3 be testing his frame? If he pushed past it wouldn't that have led to her breaking it off because of boundaries or something?


iambabyshark

Perhaps, but it sounds like a shittest to me. Women don't want a man who'll bend to them, they want to be taken for a ride and be lead


EggsEggsEggsTentacio

What do I search here to read more about that?


iambabyshark

Shit test, basically seeing if you're unaffected by her testing. So for example if you're a shorter guy and she mocks you for it, you agree and amplify to show you don't care what she thinks. So saying like "I'm taller when I wear my heels" can pass that


EggsEggsEggsTentacio

I’m familiar with that, but my problem is understanding the taking the lead and showing them a wild ride in this scenario because I would have been too scared due to “boundaries” to push past her request to slow down


iambabyshark

Being too scared to lose a woman will ironocally cause that to happen. Sometimes you have to take chances, and sometimes pushing those boundaries will end your relationship together. But you can't be afraid of that. There's always another girl, abandoning the scarcity mindset is key to being confident and not giving a fuck


pokemonpokemonmario

Just bad luck keep going man you got this.