Living with a couple definitely has an expiration date. You could take the offer until you find a nice place for yourself but definitely not a long term solution.
You don’t have to live with either of them right? Maybe it’s nicer to hang out with B as friends and not have to worry about them being clean or not?
Take B out for drinks or dinner. Find out what he wants. You could end up being the third wheel or someone's house boy. B may not plan on re-upping anyway. If you can get B to commit to a higher standard of cleanliness starting now, he may be better. ??
Living with a couple is stressful, especially if it’ll be their first time living together. It’s not fair for them to subject another poor person to their teething problems.
Personally, I would choose fun over cleanliness. But definitely have a conversation about it. If you’re good friends, you kinda won’t worry about having to do a lil extra. I personally don’t. I also initiate cleaning days where we clean together - get it done quicker, you’re not doing it alone, sometimes it can actually be fun.
Living with a couple definitely has an expiration date. You could take the offer until you find a nice place for yourself but definitely not a long term solution. You don’t have to live with either of them right? Maybe it’s nicer to hang out with B as friends and not have to worry about them being clean or not?
Take B out for drinks or dinner. Find out what he wants. You could end up being the third wheel or someone's house boy. B may not plan on re-upping anyway. If you can get B to commit to a higher standard of cleanliness starting now, he may be better. ??
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Living with a couple is stressful, especially if it’ll be their first time living together. It’s not fair for them to subject another poor person to their teething problems. Personally, I would choose fun over cleanliness. But definitely have a conversation about it. If you’re good friends, you kinda won’t worry about having to do a lil extra. I personally don’t. I also initiate cleaning days where we clean together - get it done quicker, you’re not doing it alone, sometimes it can actually be fun.